Dating Is Nuts

Kelly Shanley

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Kelly Shanley is a standup comic who spent 10 years on the dating apps in LA. These are her stories. Adapted from For Love Or Peanut Butter, the beloved dating column on Slackjaw, Dating Is Nuts = Nobody Wants This + How I Met Your Mother, only in a first person podcast performed by a comedian that feels like an audiobook but in short, deliciously bingeable episodes. .

11/19/2025

After Ten Years On The Dating Apps I Found Love Offline #216

Kelly Shanley is a standup comic who spent ten years on the dating apps in Los Angeles. These are her stories. On this episode of the Dating Is Nuts podcast, Kelly finally reveals the identity of the man she gave up peanut butter for and how they finally figured it out together. Check it out to hear about the seemingly impossible happy ending. And brace yourselves, there might actually be some romance and fuzzy feelings in this one! This is the sixteenth and final full episode of season 2 (#216) #DatingPodcast #ModernLove #dating #datingstories #datinginyour30s #romance #love #lovestory #happy #DatingIsNuts #WomensVoices #comedian #funnydatingstories #datingpodcastforwomen #storytelling Join us on Patreon for behind the scenes making the podcast and more perks! https://patreon.com/kellyshanley?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLinkSHOW NOTES:Based on the beloved dating column For Love Or Peanut Butter, Dating Is Nuts stars comedian Kelly Shanley recounting some of her worst dates, heartbreaks, and lessons learned during her 10 years of being single in Los Angeles. An endless supply of dating app disasters and IRL awkwardness lead Kelly to look inward and find out why and how she has been blocking love from her life when she sincerely believes that she wants it. And guess what? She changes her life forever!Follow her on social:IG https://www.instagram.com/datingisnutspod/YouTube ⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCVBv_RoCfJZvop1-1iqYxPQ⁠⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠⁠ https://www.facebook.com/kelly.shanley⁠⁠⁠New episodes drop every two weeks. If you can't wait for the next one, FIRST leave us 5 stars, and then go read the column on which the podcast is based on Medium at ⁠⁠⁠https://medium.com/slackjaw/introducing-for-love-or-peanut-butter-f94c52852e40⁠

18 min
11/06/2025

He Mansplained My Flaws To Me In A Breakup Text

Kelly Shanley is a standup comic who spent ten years on the dating apps in LA. These are her stories. On this episode of the Dating Is Nuts podcast, Carter tells Kelly every single thing that he think is wrong with her. To her face? Of course not! Via text. Like the grown ass man that he is. This is the fifteenth full episode of season 2 (#215) #DatingPodcast #ModernLove #breakup #breakuptext #textmessages #Situationships #DatingRegret #RelationshipTalk #DatingIsNuts #WomensVoices #awkwarddate Join us on Patreon for behind the scenes making the podcast and more perks! https://patreon.com/kellyshanley?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLinkSHOW NOTES:Based on the beloved dating column For Love Or Peanut Butter, Dating Is Nuts stars comedian Kelly Shanley recounting some of her worst dates, heartbreaks, and lessons learned during her 10 years of being single in LA. An endless supply of dating app disasters and IRL awkwardness lead Kelly to look inward and find out why and how she has been blocking love from her life when she sincerely believes that she wants it. And guess what? She changes her life forever!Follow her on social:IG https://www.instagram.com/datingisnutspod/YouTube ⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCVBv_RoCfJZvop1-1iqYxPQ⁠⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠⁠ https://www.facebook.com/kelly.shanley⁠⁠⁠New episodes drop every two weeks. If you can't wait for the next one, FIRST leave us 5 stars, and then go read the column on which the podcast is based on Medium at ⁠⁠⁠https://medium.com/slackjaw/introducing-for-love-or-peanut-butter-f94c52852e40⁠

17 min
10/08/2025

Taking A Break You Don't Want To Take #214

Kelly Shanley is a standup comic who spent ten years on the dating apps in LA. These are her stories. On this episode of the Dating Is Nuts podcast, Kelly finally takes some steps with Dex that take her out of the friend zone (yay!), only to take two steps backwards soon after (boo).This is the fourteenth full episode of season 2 (#214) #DatingPodcast #ModernLove #friendzone #Situationships #toosoon #DatingRegret #RelationshipTalk #DatingIsNuts #WomensVoices #awkwarddate Join us on Patreon for behind the scenes making the podcast and more perks! https://patreon.com/kellyshanley?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLinkSHOW NOTES:Based on the beloved dating column For Love Or Peanut Butter, Dating Is Nuts stars comedian Kelly Shanley recounting some of her worst dates, heartbreaks, and lessons learned during her 10 years of being single in LA. An endless supply of dating app disasters and IRL awkwardness lead Kelly to look inward and find out why and how she has been blocking love from her life when she sincerely believes that she wants it. And guess what? She changes her life forever!Follow her on social:IG https://www.instagram.com/datingisnutspod/YouTube ⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCVBv_RoCfJZvop1-1iqYxPQ⁠⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠⁠ https://www.facebook.com/kelly.shanley⁠⁠⁠New episodes drop every two weeks. If you can't wait for the next one, FIRST leave us 5 stars, and then go read the column on which the podcast is based on Medium at ⁠⁠⁠https://medium.com/slackjaw/introducing-for-love-or-peanut-butter-f94c52852e40⁠

10 min
09/13/2025

My Accidental Group Date With Carter #213

Kelly Shanley is a standup comic who spent ten years on the dating apps in LA. These are her stories. On this episode of the Dating Is Nuts podcast, Kelly screws up and invites Carter to stop by... but he severely overstays his welcome. What happens when the hot guy just won't leave? This is the thirteenth full episode of season 2 (#213) #DatingPodcast #ModernLove #girlsweekend #Situationships #takeahint #DatingRegret #RelationshipTalk #DatingIsNuts #WomensVoices #awkwarddate Join us on Patreon for behind the scenes making the podcast and more perks! https://patreon.com/kellyshanley?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLinkSHOW NOTES:Based on the beloved dating column For Love Or Peanut Butter, Dating Is Nuts stars comedian Kelly Shanley recounting some of her worst dates, heartbreaks, and lessons learned during her 10 years of being single in LA. An endless supply of dating app disasters and IRL awkwardness lead Kelly to look inward and find out why and how she has been blocking love from her life when she sincerely believes that she wants it. And guess what? She changes her life forever!Follow her on social:IG https://www.instagram.com/datingisnutspod/YouTube ⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCVBv_RoCfJZvop1-1iqYxPQ⁠⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠⁠ https://www.facebook.com/kelly.shanley⁠⁠⁠New episodes drop every two weeks. If you can't wait for the next one, FIRST leave us 5 stars, and then go read the column on which the podcast is based on Medium at ⁠⁠⁠https://medium.com/slackjaw/introducing-for-love-or-peanut-butter-f94c52852e40⁠

10 min
08/14/2025

the Nicest Guy I Ever Dumped ep 212

Kelly Shanley is a standup comic who spent ten years on the dating apps in LA. These are her stories. On this episode of the Dating Is Nuts podcast, Kelly has to breakup with Andrew. But she really likes him and he's done nothing wrong, plus she's never had to dump someone before. So how does she handle it? Not well. There is definitely a text message involved. If you need to dump somebody, don't do what she did.This is the twelfth full episode of season 2 (#212) Join us on Patreon for behind the scenes making the podcast and more perks! https://patreon.com/kellyshanley?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLinkSHOW NOTES:Based on the beloved dating column For Love Or Peanut Butter, Dating Is Nuts stars comedian Kelly Shanley recounting some of her worst dates, heartbreaks, and lessons learned during her 10 years of being single in LA. An endless supply of dating app disasters and IRL awkwardness lead Kelly to look inward and find out why and how she has been blocking love from her life when she sincerely believes that she wants it. And guess what? She changes her life forever!Follow her on social:IG https://www.instagram.com/datingisnutspod/YouTube ⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCVBv_RoCfJZvop1-1iqYxPQ⁠⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠⁠ https://www.facebook.com/kelly.shanley⁠⁠⁠New episodes drop every two weeks. If you can't wait for the next one, FIRST leave us 5 stars, and then go read the column on which the podcast is based on Medium at ⁠⁠⁠https://medium.com/slackjaw/introducing-for-love-or-peanut-butter-f94c52852e40⁠

12 min
07/31/2025

Crushed By My Childhood Crush 211

Kelly Shanley is a standup comic who spent ten years on the dating apps in LA. These are her stories. On this episode of the Dating Is Nuts podcast, Kelly finally acknowledges that, much like "Fetch" for Gretchen from Mean Girls, when it comes to being Brooks' girlfriend, it's just not going to happen.This is the eleventh full episode of season 2 (#211) Join us on Patreon for behind the scenes making the podcast and more perks! https://patreon.com/kellyshanley?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLinkSHOW NOTES:Based on the beloved dating column For Love Or Peanut Butter, Dating Is Nuts stars comedian Kelly Shanley recounting some of her worst dates, heartbreaks, and lessons learned during her 10 years of being single in LA. An endless supply of dating app disasters and IRL awkwardness lead Kelly to look inward and find out why and how she has been blocking love from her life when she sincerely believes that she wants it. And guess what? She changes her life forever!Follow her on social:IG https://www.instagram.com/datingisnutspod/YouTube ⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCVBv_RoCfJZvop1-1iqYxPQ⁠⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠⁠ https://www.facebook.com/kelly.shanley⁠⁠⁠New episodes drop every two weeks. If you can't wait for the next one, FIRST leave us 5 stars, and then go read the column on which the podcast is based on Medium at ⁠⁠⁠https://medium.com/slackjaw/introducing-for-love-or-peanut-butter-f94c52852e40⁠

10 min
07/02/2025

He Was The Perfect Guy, Until We Kissed #210

Kelly Shanley is a standup comic who spent ten years on the dating apps in LA. These are her stories. On this episode of the Dating Is Nuts podcast, Kelly goes on her third and fourth dates with Andrew. Things are getting serious, right? Her head, heart, and mom are all on board. Now she just needs her libido to join the squad.This is the tenth full episode of season 2 (#210) Join us on Patreon for behind the scenes making the podcast and more perks! SHOW NOTES:Based on the beloved dating column For Love Or Peanut Butter, Dating Is Nuts stars comedian Kelly Shanley recounting some of her worst dates, heartbreaks, and lessons learned during her 10 years of being single in LA. An endless supply of dating app disasters and IRL awkwardness lead Kelly to look inward and find out why and how she has been blocking love from her life when she sincerely believes that she wants it. And guess what? She changes her life forever!Follow her on social:InstagramYouTube ⁠⁠⁠New episodes drop every two weeks. If you can't wait for the next one, FIRST leave us 5 stars, and then go read the column on which the podcast is based on Medium!

10 min
06/18/2025

I Don't Want To Be Your Rebound

Kelly Shanley is a standup comic who spent ten years on the dating apps in LA. These are her stories. On this episode of the Dating Is Nuts podcast, Kelly details her second "not a date" hangout with surfer dude Dex, and how she has feelings for him even though she shouldn't...This is the ninth full episode of season 2 (#209) Join the Patreon to become an OG Lover Nutter! https://patreon.com/kellyshanley?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink SHOW NOTES: Based on the beloved syndicated dating column from Slackjaw; For Love Or Peanut Butter, Dating Is Nuts stars comedian Kelly Shanley recounting some of her worst dates, heartbreaks, and lessons learned during her 10 years of being single in LA. An endless supply of dating app disasters and IRL awkwardness lead Kelly to look inward and find out why and how she has been blocking love from her life when she sincerely believes that she wants it. And guess what? She changes her life forever! Follow her on social: IG - ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/kellyashanley/ IG https://www.instagram.com/datingisnutspod/ YouTube⁠⁠⁠ -https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCVBv_RoCfJZvop1-1iqYxPQ⁠⁠⁠ Medium https://medium.com/@kellyshanley Facebook - ⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/kelly.shanley⁠⁠⁠ New episodes drop every two weeks. If you can't wait for the next one, FIRST leave us 5 stars, and then go read the column on which the podcast is based on Medium at⁠⁠⁠ https://medium.com/slackjaw/introducing-for-love-or-peanut-butter-f94c52852e40⁠

11 min

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Kelly Shanley is a standup comic who spent 10 years on the dating apps in LA. These are her stories. Adapted from For Love Or Peanut Butter, the beloved dating column on Slackjaw, Dating Is Nuts = Nobody Wants This + How I Met Your Mother, only in a first person podcast performed by a comedian that feels like an audiobook but in short, deliciously bingeable episodes. .

Creator

Kelly Shanley
Years Active

2024 - 2025
Episodes

33
Rating

Explicit
Copyright

© Kelly Shanley
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Dating Is Nuts