Finding the Guardian of Your Soul

Lisa Shield

Listen, as love coach and heart-opening expert, Lisa Shield, shares the revolutionary approach she gives her successful female clients to attract an amazing partner who is on their level and wants to enjoy everything life has to offer with them. Lisa and her husband, Benjamin Shield Ph.D., have been passionately in love for 19 years. Every Tuesday DWD offers Getting Inside the RIGHT Male Mind, where the two of them bust common dating myths, give you a window into their unconditionally loving relationship, and show you how to attract a Guardian of Your Soul for the rest of your life. Thursday episodes, Lisa explores topics, and answers those burning q's from listeners longing to become emotionally naked daters! Book-a-Call With Lisa - https://lisashieldlove.com/app-podcast

  1. Why Asking for Commitment Can Push a Man Away

    12/17/2025

    Why Asking for Commitment Can Push a Man Away

    What This Episode CoversWhy the “Where is this going?” conversation often feels logical to women—but threatening to menHow men show commitment through consistency, protection, and integration rather than labelsThe difference between relationship progression and relationship pressureWhy anxiety (even when unspoken) undermines attraction and emotional safetyHow timing and delivery determine whether a commitment conversation brings a man closer—or pushes him awayKey InsightsMen often interpret direct commitment questions as a sign they’ve already failed to meet expectationsA man who is progressing naturally may feel there is “nothing more he can do” when pressed for certaintyEmotional safety—not verbal assurance—is what allows men to open up and move forwardPraise, appreciation, and acknowledgment of what is working create more clarity than interrogationActions over time provide more reliable information than verbal promisesPractical TakeawaysStart commitment conversations from appreciation, not concernReplace direct demands for definition with open-ended invitations to shareGive men time to process emotional questions instead of requiring immediate answersObserve behavior patterns rather than relying on verbal reassuranceTreat dating like a skill set—timing, tone, and awareness matter  Continue On Your Journey:  Lisa Shield| YouTube | Facebook | Instagram | Book a Call with Lisa Email the podcast at: podcast@lisashield.com

    16 min
  2. You're Not Broken - You're Just in Survival Mode

    11/26/2025

    You're Not Broken - You're Just in Survival Mode

    In this episode, Lisa and Benjamin explore: 🔹 The Hidden Cost of Survival ModeHow stress, overthinking, and constantly being “on” create invisible emotional armor Why most accomplished women don’t realize they’re broadcasting tension How burnout leads to protection mode, emotional walls, and shutdown 🔹 What Men Actually Feel Around a Woman in Survival ModeBenjamin breaks down: Why men physically feel your tension in their bodies How survival mode reads as rejection, dismissal, or “I don’t need you” Why men feel unsure, anxious, or useless when you’re overwhelmed How this energy kills playfulness, chemistry, and romantic momentum 🔹 The Dating DisconnectWhat happens when women confuse venting with vulnerability How oversharing, rapid-fire questions, or emotional dumping shuts men down Why many women walk away saying, “No chemistry,” when it’s really survival mode blocking connection How men interpret disconnection, busyness, or rushing from one task to the next 🔹 Playfulness: The Missing IngredientWhy playfulness is essential for attraction — especially for masculine men How survival mode narrows your perception and eliminates play What presence feels like to a man, and why it instantly creates chemistry The difference between being independent vs. emotionally inaccessible 🔹 Simple Shifts to Get Out of Survival Mode (Even On a Date)Lisa and Benjamin share practical tools: A single deep breath that resets the energy instantly How to acknowledge stress without dumping How to communicate authentically when you’re not at your best Small rituals that bring you back into your body before a date A pattern interrupt technique to reset the tone mid-date 🔹 What Men Do When They Are in Survival ModeWhy men may default to short-term relationships when overwhelmed How masculine men pull themselves out of the dating pool How stressed men may be drawn to stressed women for the wrong reasons 🔹 The Path Back to ConnectionHow presence, softness, and playfulness draw in high-caliber men How vulnerability (not oversharing) opens the door to real intimacy Why partnership allows women to finally rest, soften, and feel supported Why being in a safe relationship creates space for authenticity, emotions, and ease Continue On Your Journey:  Lisa Shield| YouTube | Facebook | Instagram | Book a Call with Lisa Email the podcast at: podcast@lisashield.com

    35 min
  3. 4 Secret Traits Every Man Looks for in His Dream Woman

    08/19/2025

    4 Secret Traits Every Man Looks for in His Dream Woman

    In this quick but powerful episode, Lisa Shield shares four down-and-dirty tips every woman should know about what makes her unforgettable in the eyes of a man. With her signature warmth and insight, Lisa breaks down the essential traits that men are secretly craving in their dream woman. If you're ready to stop guessing and start attracting a high-quality man, this episode is your wake-up call. Key Highlights: Playfulness A light-hearted, spontaneous attitude is incredibly attractive.Playful teasing, laughter, and having fun together deepen the connection.You don’t need to be a flirt—just be open to having fun and being in the moment.Sensuality Embrace your senses—sight, sound, touch, taste, and smell.It’s not about being overtly sexual—it’s about being grounded and fully alive.Let yourself be present and expressive, and men will be drawn to your feminine energy.Warmth Genuine warmth makes a man feel safe, seen, and emotionally connected.Show empathy and emotional availability—especially when he's vulnerable.Small gestures, like a gentle touch or holding space for him, go a long way.Self-Sufficiency Men want women who are whole and happy on their own.Self-sufficiency means you can enjoy your life even when he's not around.Avoid appearing overly needy—be secure and confident in yourself.Memorable Quote: "Be the woman who makes him laugh, dream, and admire—not because you need him, but because you choose him." Want More? Ready to dive deeper into your romantic journey? Visit LisaShield.com to watch the free presentation and apply for Lisa’s Emotionally Naked Dating Course—a life-changing 4-month experience that teaches you how to attract the Guardian of Your Soul.   **Resources:** - Free 45-minute presentation: https://www.lisashieldlove.com/registration-page-final-page**Connect with Us:** - Website: https://www.lisashield.com/podcast/- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisashieldcoaching/- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisashieldcoaching/#LisaShield #FindingTheGuardianOfYourSoul #DatingAdvice #SmartSuccessfulWomen #FeminineEnergy #ModernDating #PodcastEpisode #WomenEmpowerment #RelationshipCoach Continue On Your Journey:  Lisa Shield| YouTube | Facebook | Instagram | Book a Call with Lisa Email the podcast at: podcast@lisashield.com

    10 min
4.7
out of 5
38 Ratings

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Listen, as love coach and heart-opening expert, Lisa Shield, shares the revolutionary approach she gives her successful female clients to attract an amazing partner who is on their level and wants to enjoy everything life has to offer with them. Lisa and her husband, Benjamin Shield Ph.D., have been passionately in love for 19 years. Every Tuesday DWD offers Getting Inside the RIGHT Male Mind, where the two of them bust common dating myths, give you a window into their unconditionally loving relationship, and show you how to attract a Guardian of Your Soul for the rest of your life. Thursday episodes, Lisa explores topics, and answers those burning q's from listeners longing to become emotionally naked daters! Book-a-Call With Lisa - https://lisashieldlove.com/app-podcast

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