Aged Well Podcast

David Dennison

Rants on electoral politics, culture war battles, and some art reviewing, appealing to folks who'd like to be swept away by the timbre of my dulcet baritone. dennisonwrites.substack.com

  1. 10/13/2025

    The Unhelpful Ta-Nehisi Coates

    Writer Ta-Nehisi Coates has been in the news since the assassination of conservative activist Charlie Kirk. When New York Times columnist Ezra Klein eulogized Kirk in the Times’ pages, honoring him for practicing politics “the right way,” Coates responded critically in the pages of Vanity Fair. The two, who are friends, sat down for a one-on-one meeting of the minds that has been praised, panned, and picked apart across both legacy and social media. It was an interesting discussion, if not a terribly productive one. Throughout it, Coates bears the hallmarks of somebody who has mostly failed to do his homework on Charlie Kirk, preferring instead to repeat what have become predictable bromides about how violence is bad, but… No, of course, he doesn’t think Charlie Kirk deserved to be shot. He just also thinks that Kirk was hateful and awful, and used his hatefulness and awfulness as ways to promote himself and his cause. Aged Well is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber. But the bones of the Klein/Coates showdown have already been picked dry, and I’m not especially interested in giving them another going-over. Instead, I wish to remind readers that Ta-Nehisi Coates, a man whose worldview and, as we’ll see, daily habits have been shaped by dynamics of race and violence, has built his career by being as unhelpful a contributor as possible to keeping this discourse focused on peace or resolution. Coates is a great writer. He crafts strong, if sometimes purply sentences, and he makes his arguments clearly and forcefully. He takes his time with his words, obviously choosing them very carefully, and I’ve always found charges that he is a ‘hatemonger’ or a despiser of white people difficult to accept, especially when evaluated next to writers (of whom there are many) whose racial animus bubbles much closer to the surface. The essay that catapulted him to prominence, ‘The Case For Reparations,’ is compelling, evenly argued, and one that I suspect far more critics have responded to than have actually read with any care. Still, Coates’s impact on America’s efforts to heal racial divides and reduce violence leaves much to be desired. If he is a deep thinker, he is not a wide one. He has essentially one point to make, and that one point acts as the lens and the filter through which all other points are run. Coates believes that years of racial subjugation and prejudice created conditions that have conspired, and that still conspire, to limit black performance in American life. ‘The Case for Reparations’ walks readers from slavery, through Jim Crow, and forward to red-lining and systemic wealth depression targeted at black Americans, but from which white Americans were spared. He doesn’t spend much time disputing performance gaps between America’s racial communities, opting instead to explain them. He does this by crediting for them forces which are, if not insurmountable, at least very difficult and complicated to surmount. And certainly, not ones we should expect to be surmounted anytime soon. He’s hardly alone in this. What I just articulated is more or less the view of every left-leaning American, and quite a few right-leaning ones also. Coates is neither wrong to point this out, nor off-base in his assessment of the scale of historical injustice. Where he errs is in his rigidity. Coates isn’t just committed to his preferred narrative, he’s committed to it to the exclusion of all other narratives, or even suggested narratives. He is a hammer for which everything is a nail. And nowhere is this tendency of his on better display than during a conversation in which he participated at the Aspen Ideas Festival in June, 2015. Coates sat for a moderated discussion with then New Orleans mayor Mitch Landrieu, the subject of which was ‘Is Violence a Function of our Culture?’ I watched it at the time it was first broadcast and despite my having been a culturally very progressive person at the time, it rankled me. So much so that I remembered it often through the woke years and went to revisit it in the wake of Coates’s Ezra Klein sit-down. The whole thing is instructive, but if you’re short on time, just watch the last exchange, starting around the 54 minute mark. We’ll also be discussing it later. For context, Mitch Landrieu, a white Democrat, was a mostly successful post-Katrina mayor for New Orleans. He made a dent in crime, and built trust in the black community by cracking down on police corruption and removing confederate monuments. He was well into his mayoral tenure at the time he spoke with Coates, who was himself weeks away from publishing his best-selling memoir Between The World And Me. Landrieu wasn’t, and still isn’t, a major player in the Democratic Party. He served as Joe Biden’s “infrastructure czar,” wrote a book about confronting America’s racial history as a white southerner, spent some time as a CNN analyst, and advised on both the Biden reelection campaign and later the Kamala Harris campaign. He was a successful man at the time of his Aspen Ideas Festival appearance, but it was Coates’s star that was truly on the rise. Landrieu had a lot to gain from this appearance. He would serve another three years as NOLA mayor, and had he been able to enlist to his cause the man who was a few weeks off becoming America’s preeminent black public intellectual, he could have reasonably expected great things. This was a big opportunity for Landrieu, not just for his personal profile, but for his project. Coates had the ear of the nation, and Landrieu had a good story to tell. If they could find common ground, it wouldn’t have been hyperbolic to describe the discussion in which it was reached as a turning point. For the speakers, for New Orleans, and possibly for the nation. It didn’t quite go that way. Everything was perfectly amicable. No real sparks flew until the end, and at few points did Coates and Landrieu openly disagree. But despite careful, persistent attempts, Landrieu was never able to knock Coates off his narrative, or force him to step outside his ideology. He was never able to get Coates to accept the invitation he was extending to the world of a real mayor, overseeing a real police force, protecting real streets, plagued by real violence. Coates was in the clouds. Landrieu, stuck firmly on the ground, tried repeatedly to tug at Coates’s balloon string and pull the writer back to earth. The whole talk is a dance of Landrieu trying to yank Coates in a direction that might actually be actionable or productive, and Coates flitting out of his grasp again and again. Landrieu is having a conversation with Coates. Coates seems to be more in conversation with himself. Again you should watch the whole talk, as both men have interesting things to say. We’ll zero in on just a few segments. It begins with Landrieu making an impassioned case for the urgency of the problem. Almost every night in his city, young black men were killing one another. And no, it was not a case of, “well, isn’t everyone killing one another?” It wasn’t. Most violent crime in the Big Easy was confined to a handful of neighborhoods, and the victims were overwhelmingly young, black males (95%), most of whom knew each other (88%). Landrieu called this a “culture of violence.” Coates responded with an extended anecdote about his childhood, in which he describes the choices he had to make daily in service of avoiding violence being done to his person. How he dressed, who we traveled with to school, what route they took, where he sat in the lunchroom - all of these choices reflected a need to simply stay intact. It’s a somewhat strange story, in that what Coates thinks Landrieu and the audience should take away from it, or how it represents any kind of rebuttal to what Landrieu just said, is somewhat mysterious. It might sound profound…to someone only just learning that violence, and the threat thereof, is a problem particularly in black communities. But since Landrieu had just finished making the very same point himself, it isn’t clear why he needed to be instructed on this. Still, Coates was impacted deeply by this part of his upbringing - an upbringing made all the more stark by the dichotomy between it and the images of peaceful, white families he saw broadcast on television shows like All In The Family and Leave It To Beaver: “And I was struck by the gulf between the world in which I live and the world that America projected out to the rest of the world. And so I knew, you know, as an African American, as a member of a minority population, that these sort of rituals that we went through, that I think the mayor could call a culture of violence, but I would call a culture of self preservation.” How is a culture of violence different from a culture of preservation [against, one presumes, violence]? Isn’t this a bit like complaining that a boxing ring doesn’t harbor a culture of punching, but rather one of trying not to be punched? The audience, it should be noted, is eating out of Coates’s hand as he tells this story. It’s quite a frustrating exchange, and one that mostly sets the tone for the rest of the event. Landrieu has just invited Coates to join him in building meaningful consensus. When Coates ignores the invite, Landrieu is undeterred. He doesn’t care what we call this - what words we use - he just cares what it is, and what can be done about it. Coates is unmoved. To Coates, hundreds of years of oppression isn’t something you can merely undo. He actually says this directly at one point, making clear that however long Landrieu has left on his term as mayor, it can’t be enough to move past the past. Black Americans already have done, and are doing, everything realistically within their power to stem the tide of violence plaguing their communities. W

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  2. 03/31/2025

    Yes, Trump Will Serve A Third Term

    I’ll say up front, this is mostly a thought experiment. A musing. Do I really think this will happen? S**t, I don’t know. I hope not. But I think it would be better if Trump’s detractors began planning for it, rather than assume a level of stability that doesn’t really exist anymore in our government. If we’ve learned anything from recent history it’s that the American system depends on good faith participants acting in concert to uphold it. Does anyone really think we have that right now? I’m not an historian, a lawyer, a politician, or even all that smart. I’m just a snarky writer that a handful of readers think is funny. I’m a jumped up shitposter, basically. And I’m here to spoil your Monday. Or, if you like Donald Trump, maybe I’m here to make it. You can count me among the small cadre of commentators who think the Signal-gate thing was largely a distraction. For those just joining us, I’m discussing the recent scandal in which Atlantic editor, Jeffrey Goldberg, was accidentally added to a chat thread in which some of our government’s most powerful military and intelligence personalities were discussing an imminent strike on Yemen. Yes, obviously, it’s funny that high level government functionaries included a journalist in their deliberations over war plans, even if I don’t think the war plans themselves were especially amusing. (In my view, if we’re going to be isolationists, let’s be isolationists. If we’re not going to let Ukraine drag us into a conflict, we shouldn’t be letting Israel do it either.) But they left me off the Signal chat, so I didn’t get to weigh in 🙁 Dave's Dispatch is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber. I also thought the lack of marching orders was funny. And interesting. Trumpers seemed to fall into three camps, at a time when they all should have been bunkering down in one: 1) Goldberg is a traitor who leaked classified intel! 2) It’s no big deal because no classified intel was leaked! 3) It was a psy-op; they included Goldberg intentionally, duh! Very, very quickly, I’ll run down why each of these is bull pucky, but then I want to move on, because Signal-gate isn’t really today’s focus. In reverse order: 3) Sure, okay, I’ll buy the targeted leak angle. But if that’s what they were doing, they’d have done it such that they didn’t all come out of it looking like idiots. There’s really no percentage in looking like an idiot, especially when you’re trying to project enough strength and mettle to scare the Houthis into backing off Red Sea shipping lanes. 2) Yes, it’s a big deal, and yes, the intel was classified, whatever b******t excuse they’re spinning now. Pete Hegseth made clear that they had a high-level target in sight, and this was before the strike was carried out. If you’re a high-level Houthi target, you probably know you are. So if Jeffrey Goldberg goes to print, and you see it, you might think, “now would be a good time to go hang out somewhere else for a few hours.” If something like this had happened under Obama or Biden, does anyone seriously think all these Republicans would be parsing the meaning of the word “classified?” 1) This one…actually, maybe. As in, the administration could absolutely go after Goldberg for printing this. I think they probably will. Doesn’t make it fair or right, and doesn’t make their case any less bogus, but since “he’s a traitor!” is something they can manifest into accuracy, it would be foolish to dismiss this possibility. And this is a good segue into what I actually want us to be talking about right now. Because even Trump’s angriest critics still don’t understand the reality through which they’re living right now. If you haven’t spent significant time in an authoritarian state, you might be forgiven for looking at the American landscape right now and thinking, “Golly, we are getting dangerously close to losing our democracy…” Oh, my sweet, summer babies. Your democracy is already gone. Signal-gate is out of the headlines. At the time of this writing, neither the New York Times, The Wall Street Journal, nor the Washington Post has a top story about it. Nobody cares anymore. Of course they don’t. It’s boring. Trump’s not interested, the guys who did it aren’t sorry, nobody’s going to resign or be punished over it, so what is there to report? This is how it works with dictators. When you assume full power, you assume full responsibility. When that becomes embarrassing, like when there’s been an obvious screw up, you can either make somebody fall on their sword, or you can just give everyone the finger and move on. Pete Hegseth was unlikely to be made to take one for the team. His appointment to SecDef was too controversial. Even though Trump has never been shy about firing those who displease him, for him to admit so soon that he made a mistake with Hegseth would weaken him. He doesn’t want to do that, he doesn’t have to do that, so he’s just…not going to do that. Power means never having to say you’re sorry. When Trump says he’s not joking about a third term, it’s because he’s not joking. He’s going to do it. He’ll serve for life. Democrats will be very angry about it. Some Republicans too, probably. They’ll yell and scream and pull their hair and they’ll make lots of threats. But they won’t stop him. They don’t have the determination. He does. He thinks, credibly, that if he ever leaves office, he’ll get thrown in jail. Those are the stakes for him. How about for you? Are you willing to spend your life in jail to get him out of power? I suspect you’re not really. And I suspect he’s counting on that. One of the reasons the 20th Century was such a shitshow of war and revolutionary activity is because, just objectively, life sucked quite a bit more back then. There was very little air conditioning, for one thing. It was technically invented in 1902, but didn’t become common until the mid-century. In Europe, a lot of people still don’t have it. So people were uncomfortable a lot of the time. Add to that the heavy, scratchy clothing everyone wore, no washing machines, and limited choice in detergents or fabric softeners and people would have been itchy and smelly to a much higher degree than is common today. There was no Netflix either. In fact, there was no color TV of any kind for most people until well into the 60s. You couldn’t order Thai food to your door. You probably couldn’t order Thai food at all unless you lived in Thailand. Social mores were much more rigid, so you probably weren’t out dating a lot or otherwise having much fun. You certainly wouldn’t have had apps to help you do it, which is another thing: no internet! Your world would have been comparatively quite small, especially if you didn’t live near a library. I am really not being facetious. We live in a time of plenty. Of impossible abundance and comfort. Relative to our ancestors, we have it uh-mazing, and we know it. We’re all basically Caesar now. So when you weigh the idea of forfeiting all that (by going to jail forever or dying) in service of trying (probably fruitlessly) to depose some a*****e grifter who has quite a bit more to lose than you, by virtue of his having quite a bit more to begin with, it’s hard for me to take seriously the idea that many will actually risk it all to stop this guy. Much more likely, he’ll f**k around, he won’t find out, and he’ll die of old age in a decade or two in the Lincoln Bedroom, at which point, Don Jr. or Eric will take over, or if we’re very, very lucky, Ivanka. But that’s it, guys. That’s the future. That’s how this plays out. If it sounds like I don’t care, that’s not quite true. I’ve just accepted it. It’s like snow. I’ve never understood why people complain about the snow. If you complain, you have exactly the same amount of snow, you’re just sore over it, when you could be out skiing or making snow angels. If you want to keep letting Donald Trump live rent-free in your head though, be my guest. I evicted the prick, and it was one of the best decisions I ever made. Anyway, as promised, here’s how Trump will make it work. Here’s how he’ll stay when you want him to go. I should note again here that I am not a legal or constitutional scholar. If you are, and you think I’m full of it, please say so in the comments. I’d love to be proved wrong. But I don’t really think case law, precedent, or textual originalism matter here. This administration has already made clear that they don’t care what any court says anyway, which means that however legally wrong I am, or Trump is, we’re still right back where we started; he’s not leaving until he’s made to leave, and nobody’s really going to make him leave. Anyway the *two terms of four years each* standard comes from two, different places in the US Constitution. Article II, Section I says the following: “He shall hold his Office during the Term of four Years…” And the 22nd Amendment says: “No person shall be elected to the office of the President more than twice…” Article II says more than that, of course. So does the 22nd Amendment. But none of what else is said in either passage is germane to the question of how much time an individual can spend as President of the United States. And that’s it. Those 25 fragile words are all we have to give us the idea that an individual (strictly speaking, a man; Article II either says “person,” or uses he/him pronouns) can only hang out in the Oval Office for 8 years.* *Actually, that’s not quite right. A person could do just under 10 years and still be in compliance with 22. If they served less than two years of a term to which somebody else was elected, they’d still be eligible to run twice more. But do you really think a determ

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  3. 03/06/2025

    Blake vs. Justin Part II

    The last time I wrote about the Blake Lively vs. Justin Baldoni metadrama, my take was a typically middle-of-the-road, above-the-fray admonishment to look at the big picture. My thesis was that the saga was so interesting because it cast us - web dwellers in the cheap seats - as judge, jury, and [career] executioner. One of the last things I said in that piece was effectively, “we’ll see what happens when the other shoe drops.” Well, it’s dropped. And now this is a whole new kettle of trout. Before, I was vacillating. I read Blake Lively’s complaint to the California Civil Rights Department (CRD) and was revolted by what appeared to be Justin Baldoni’s disgusting on-set behavior. Then I read the previews of what would become Baldoni’s haymaker of a counterpunch and started to doubt Lively’s version. It was shaping up to be a real head scratcher of a he said/she said. Then, a few weeks ago, Baldoni and his legal team released, as promised, a website featuring not just his own lawsuit, but a studiosly documented timeline of the events in question, replete with a treasure trove of personal texts between the stars at the center of the scandal. And holy s**t, guys. This isn’t a he said/she said at all anymore. It’s a he said/he can prove it. Because he has receipts. This writer now also feels like a moron who can’t update his thinking. Here was, I thought, yet another example of a s****y, media man making life unpleasant and icky for the women in his orbit. It was supposed to be a near-impossible rarity for an accusation like Lively’s to be revealed as weaponized horseshit, but that now seems to be exactly what it was. Just to play it safe, I’ll offer the same disclaimer I did last time: lawyers are paid to make their clients look good and their opponents look bad. Baldoni’s website is a masterful example of this. Justin Baldoni comes across as the most innocent victim ever to be victimized by anyone, and Blake Lively comes across as a deceitful witch from actual Hell. This is obviously the website’s intention, so we need to exercise a modicum of caution before swallowing the hook, line, and sinker all in one gulp here. But the receipts, man. The receipts. Lively’s lawsuit didn’t really have those (and as we’ll see, what ones it did have lacked important context). Baldoni’s timeline appears to have Lively dead to rights. Her husband too (yes, I’m afraid I am here to ruin Ryan Reynolds for you, and trust me, I’m as disappointed about it as you are). So without further throat clearing, I present you with: Blake vs. Justin - Part II: A Drama In Five Acts Act I - Bosom Buddies I’m going to try to avoid quoting extensively from the emails and texts that support the key events in Baldoni’s timeline. There’s really no reason for me to, since you can go read all of them yourself for free. I’ll caution that it is a deep rabbit hole - it’ll be several hours out of your life, anyway - but it’s worth at least skimming the document just to get a sense of how it works. Baldoni’s legal team has laid out a comprehensive sequence of the events that led up to (and were featured in) Blake Lively’s CRD complaint. For each major plot point, the receipts are posted just below. So when Baldoni and Lively are described as having had a pleasant conversation via text message, you can read the conversation itself just after reading about it. It’s important to remember that Baldoni and his squad are fighting a war on many fronts. Each act of our drama will serve as a counteroffensive on a specific one of them. Act I, which is, in a lot of ways, the juiciest, serves as a refutation of Lively’s explosive allegations that Baldoni and Jamey Heath, his partner at Wayfarer Studios, sexually harassed her. Outside of Act I though, the sexual harassment is almost an aside in this yarn. It’s more of a subplot than the main story, which is much more about: creative control and promotion of a major motion picture, a trek through the muddy swamp of professional public relations, and a $¼ billion lawsuit against America’s paper of record. In Act I, Lively and Baldoni are great friends, excited to be working with each other, and excited about the work they’re doing. Baldoni clearly understands that this is his big break, and is thrilled to have landed an A-lister like Lively to star in his project. Lively seems genuinely excited to be on the team, and the pair get chummy to the point of being kind of saccharine. They swap novel-length texts gushing about how wonderful the other is. They crack jokes, they banter, they stay up late, they talk obsessively about the project, they even come pretty close to flirting (though nothing Baldoni released crosses any real fidelity lines - both are married). These two people are fast friends, and clearly enjoy a strong professional partnership. You could imagine Matt Damon and Ben Affleck texting each other like this during production of Good Will Hunting (if texting had been a thing at that time, and if Damon and Affleck were big, gooey mush-balls). There’s not a smidge of disagreement or rancor. It’s sort of the opposite. Baldoni can’t believe his good fortune in having an actor of Lively’s stature on board, and he bends over backward to accommodate her at every turn. None of what Lively wants is unreasonable at this stage, and she appears to love every inch of the art they’re creating together. Lively’s sick? OMG, take all the time you need to recover, I hope you’re okay, and here’s my personal holistic health coach, at your service. Lively is given time off for family: OMG thank you sooooo much. Lively has an idea about a scene? OMG I loooooovve it. Baldoni finished a scene? OMG you were soooooooo amazing. Lively feels insecure about her looks? OMG you are perrrrrrrrfect. Don’t worry about one single thing. It goes on like this. And on. And on. It’s kind of gross actually. Through most of Act I, the pair are contorting themselves into pretzels to kiss the other one’s ass. What’s most significant though is that a number of events that took place during this period would ultimately be covered in Lively’s CRD complaint, but with a wildly different spin. The holistic health coach, for example, was later reimagined as a weight-loss specialist deployed to “fat-shame” Lively. This is hard to countenance in context. While Lively’s CRD complaint offered no glimpse of them, all of Baldoni’s texts to Lively that addressed her weight and appearance were…whatever the literal, exact opposite of “fat-shaming” is. Another of Lively’s complaints would be that Baldoni used the word “sexy” in reference to her while discussing her wardrobe for a particular scene. Lively would go on to say that this made her feel “ogled and exposed.” But their surrounding exchanges make it pretty darn clear that this was part of a broader discussion about Lively’s worries over her wardrobe in general. Namely, that it was insufficiently “sexy” (a word she used first in messages to Baldoni). So to regard this as anything other than a director following up on a previously voiced concern seems a real stretch. Bottom line, is it possible that Baldoni overstepped his mark on occasion? Sure, I guess. Their texts to one another don’t prove he didn’t (though they do expose some major distortions and omissions on Lively’s part). But Lively offers nothing to back up any of what she’s alleging. The New York Times would end up trying to on her behalf. But the closest their piece - which is now the focus of Baldoni’s lawsuit (more later) - came was another context-free snippet between Melissa Nathan and Jennifer Abel, two of Baldoni’s PR hands. In it, Nathan writes, “He doesn’t know how lucky he is right now.” This was in reference to Lively’s allegation that Baldoni had ad-libbed an unscripted kiss/grope in front of witnesses. At face value, it looks like the PR team expressing relief that Baldoni had gotten away with his bad behavior. Thought the rest of their internal communication spells out plainly that they a) didn’t believe Lively, b) regarded *The Truth* as Bladoni’s single most powerful defensive weapon, and c) were only relieved because both of them knew how potent an accusation like that, even a false one, could be. Act I of this saga seriously pushes the limits of the “no such thing as a perfect victim” excuse, which is reliably trotted out anytime a public allegation looks to have major holes in it. Was Lively being sexually harassed by her co-star? She sure as hell wasn’t acting like it. But we aren’t supposed to trust our instincts on that, or our own lying eyes. Maybe she was just an imperfect victim. Whatever really happened though, no fair reading of these exchanges would cause any neutral party to conclude that Blake Lively and Justin Baldoni were anything more than friendly colleagues on great terms with one another. Until they weren’t. Act II - Trouble In Paradise The line between Act I and Act II of our story is a very blurry one. To the extent we have an inciting incident, it’s probably an April 12th, 2023 meeting at Lively and Reynold’s NYC penthouse during which Baldoni is shown Lively’s rewrites of the movie’s iconic “rooftop scene.” Baldoni’s first serious misstep appears to have been waiting an unacceptable period of time before expressing his adoration for Lively’s edits. Lively sends him a long, rambling, weirdo message afterwards that could, kinda/sorta be read as a threat but is mostly just cringe. In it, Lively compares herself to Daenerys Targaryen from Game of Thrones and references her “few dragons” (understood to be her husband, Ryan Reynolds and Lively’s bestie, popstar Taylor Swift). Whether this actually was a threat or just Lively being weird, Baldoni gets the message and promptly falls all over himself to praise her and thank her for her wonde

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Rants on electoral politics, culture war battles, and some art reviewing, appealing to folks who'd like to be swept away by the timbre of my dulcet baritone. dennisonwrites.substack.com