Dead Serious

Vincent Gilmor
  • 4.8 (5)
  • SOCIETY & CULTURE
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Welcome to "Dead Serious"! Join us as we dive into candid conversations about life, business, and the reality of death. We explore how our experiences shape us, the lessons learned from the funeral industry, and the stories that connect us all. Listen in for insightful discussions that offer a fresh perspective on life's most profound moments, making the conversation about death less daunting and more relatable. "Dead Serious" is hosted by Vincent Gilmor, Funeral Director of Noce Funeral Home in West Babylon, NY. For more info visit - https://linktr.ee/deadseriouspodcast

  1. Punchlines, Palms, and a Shot at the Spotlight

    07/07/2025

    Punchlines, Palms, and a Shot at the Spotlight

    What do you get when you mix a stand-up comic who got his start roasting Jeff Ross on Clubhouse, a funeral director with a catalog of human absurdity, and a guy who’s got bathroom codes for every Starbucks on Long Island? You get Dead Serious, Episode 119 - a hilarious, raw, and revealing conversation that sits at the intersection of hustle, humor, and humanity. In “Punchlines, Palms, and a Shot at the Spotlight,” we dig into the unlikely rise of Joseph Lombardo aka porkchopz - from managing construction projects to managing crowds with killer punchlines. He shares how the pandemic was the best thing that ever happened to him (comedy-wise), what it’s like performing in front of 600 elderly Boca retirees, and why some comedians are funnier in a funeral home than on stage. Along the way, the crew unpacks Long Island’s legendary roadways, the politics of lettuce on sandwiches, funeral home horror stories, and what it really means to bomb on stage. Whether you’re here for the laughs, the life lessons, or just the hot take on gay marriage stats - this one goes deep and doesn’t let up. ⏱️ Timestamps [00:00] Intro [05:23] Swindlehurst, Helicopters, and Long Island Mayhem [12:47] From Clubhouse Roasts to Comedy Clubs [24:15] Bombing, Branding, and the Business of Being Funny [30:55] Outro

    59 min
  2. Spirits Among Us: Conversations with a Modern Medium | Medium Bianca Rose

    06/24/2025

    Spirits Among Us: Conversations with a Modern Medium | Medium Bianca Rose

    Welcome to another episode of Dead Serious, where we unpack the mysteries of life, death, and everything in between. In Episode 118, “Spirits Among Us,” we sit down with the captivating Bianca Rose - an evidential psychic medium, modern mystic, and self-described human Ouija board. Hosts Vin and JK ask the hard questions about the spirit world, the skeptics, and what really happens after we die. This isn't crystal ball fluff. From channeling spirits with terrifying accuracy to investigating haunted asylums and guiding families through grief, Bianca shares how she’s turned a gift rooted in childhood fear into a mission of connection, healing, and hard evidence. Prepare to question your beliefs, confront your doubts, and maybe even discover that your late loved ones aren’t as far away as you think. Timestamps: [00:00] Intro [05:23] “I’m Literally the Human Ouija Board” [12:47] Bianca’s First Encounters with Spirits [24:15] Duppy, Dark Entities, and Opening the Wrong Doors [30:55] Outro

    1h 26m
  3. Uncovering Long Island's History

    06/09/2025

    Uncovering Long Island's History

    Join hosts Vin and Jon on this fascinating episode of 'Dead Serious' as they dive into the intriguing world of metal detecting and historical exploration with special guest Frank Jurs.  Discover the secrets beneath our feet her on Long Island, from Revolutionary War buttons to coins from the 1600s, and learn about the rich history embedded in the soil of Long Island.  Frank shares his passion for unearthing centuries-old artifacts, the meticulous research required, and the thrill of holding a piece of history. This episode offers a deep dive into the past, connecting the dots between historical events and the artifacts that reveal them.  Whether you're a history buff or just curious, this episode is packed with eye-opening insights and captivating stories. 00:58 The Podcasting Revolution: From Rogan to Local Voices 10:03 Real Estate Insights: Long Island's Unique Market 21:46 Metal Detecting Adventures: Unearthing History 28:51 Colonial History and Early American Artifacts 31:45 Arrowhead Hunting and Native American Artifacts 34:15 Exploring Local History and Personal Discoveries 49:39 Historical Sites and Cemeteries 58:07 Living Conditions in Historical New York 59:28 Military Buttons and Their Stories 01:02:59 Colonial Coins and Their Significance 01:09:55 Historical Landmarks and Their Stories 01:15:42 Dream Excavation Sites

    1h 17m
  4. Nurse to Patient: My Fight for a Second Chance

    05/29/2025

    Nurse to Patient: My Fight for a Second Chance

    What happens when a nurse becomes the patient - and nearly loses it all? In this deeply personal and emotionally charged episode of Dead Serious, Vin sits down with Joanne, a veteran ER nurse whose life was turned upside down by a mysterious illness that left her fighting for survival. With raw honesty and a survivor’s wisdom, Joanne opens up about her near-death experience, the brutal aftermath, and how she’s rebuilding life with a new heart and a new perspective. This is more than a medical story - it's a philosophical reflection on resilience, modern healthcare, motherhood, and the unseen strength required to begin again after everything breaks. 📌 Timestamps [00:00] Intro [05:23] Life Before It All Changed [12:47] The Day It Hit: Fever, Collapse, and Emergency Care [24:15] From Coma to Rebirth: Transplant, Recovery, and Perspective [30:55] Outro

    1h 26m
  5. Is There Really a Body Farm in Farmingdale?

    05/12/2025

    Is There Really a Body Farm in Farmingdale?

    Welcome to Dead Serious, the only show where mortality meets mystery with a side of sarcasm and Long Island wisdom. In this week's episode, "Is There Really a Body Farm in Farmingdale?", hosts Vin and JK dig into death - literally and philosophically. Is there a secret forensic cemetery hiding in plain sight on Long Island? Why do funerals cost more than your first car? What the hell is a “green burial” and why does it sound like a Whole Foods coupon? Vin - our resident funeral philosopher - and JK unpack the economics, the ethics, and the unexpected comedy behind the business of dying. Oh, and we also talk about mold-your-own-dildo kits and strip clubs. You’ve been warned. Prepare for a mix of dark humor, sharp insights, and unfiltered honesty as we explore death culture, celebrity body farms, funeral trends, and the occasional bizarre human behavior. Modern-day stoicism never smelled this much like embalming fluid. Timestamps [00:00] Intro – What is a “Body Farm” and why Farmingdale? [05:23] Babysitters, boob jobs, and the au pair apocalypse [12:47] Inside the Funeral Biz: Green burials, casket choices & corpse aesthetics [24:15] Celebrity Death Draft: Who's next? (Spoiler: It might be Flavor Flav) [30:55] Outro – Moist mics, strip club memories, and Theo Von philosophy

    50 min
  6. They Found $10k Taped to the Casket Photo

    04/21/2025

    They Found $10k Taped to the Casket Photo

    Welcome back to Dead Serious - the only podcast where a casual chat about cookies, Teslas, and parallel parking naturally ends with $10,000 taped to a funeral photo. In Episode 114, Vin and JK wax poetic like two blue-collar Socrates's. From the absurdities of modern dating to the existential hell of Ozempic face, this is philosophy in a black T-shirt - with a dash of nicotine gum and cremation ash. We question the simulation (again), debate if you can get away with murder on Long Island (you can’t), and discuss whether soft cookies are the gateway drug of adulthood (they are). Oh, and in case that wasn’t enough - someone really did find ten grand taped to a casket photo. Which begs the question: what are you burying with Nana? 💀 Dead Serious starts with laughs, but somehow always ends with us questioning our mortality. Stick around. It's cheaper than therapy. 👇 Timestamps [00:00] Intro – Long Island Serial Killers and Glitter on the Flowers [05:23] South Shore vs. North Shore Philosophy (and $600K shoebox houses) [12:47] Handsome Homebuyer, Real Estate Gurus & the Cringe Olympics [24:15] Cookies as Religion, Health Anxiety, and the Ozempic Side Hustle [30:55] Outro – AI Doctors, Parallel Parking Trauma, and Ten Grand in the Box

    1h 29m
  7. From Ground Zero to a Geodesic Dome: The Wild Journey of Kevin Shea

    04/07/2025

    From Ground Zero to a Geodesic Dome: The Wild Journey of Kevin Shea

    In this unforgettable episode, we dive into the extraordinary life of Kevin Shea - a man who went from surviving the South Tower collapse on 9/11 to building a futuristic geodesic dome in Long Island, powered by solar, wind, and geothermal energy. A modern philosopher with the soul of a fireman and the heart of an innovator, Kevin takes us on a raw, emotional, and often hilarious journey through trauma, resilience, and reinvention. 🔥 From retrograde amnesia to Red Bull-fueled flirtations, to near-death experiences and underground pipelines - Kevin's story isn’t just a memoir; it’s a meditation on purpose, identity, and building something that lasts. This one goes deep. This one goes wide. This one goes full dome. 👇 Timestamps: [00:00] Intro [05:23] Life Before 9/11 & Firehouse Culture [12:47] The 9/11 Story: South Tower, Collapse & Survival [24:15] From Healing to Building the Geodesic Dome [30:55] Outro & Reflections on Purpose

    1h 39m
  8. Everything You’ve Ever Wanted to Ask a Funeral Director

    03/19/2025

    Everything You’ve Ever Wanted to Ask a Funeral Director

    Welcome back to Dead Serious - where philosophy meets reality, and the only thing guaranteed is that we’re all just figuring it out. In this episode, JK and Vin sit down to answer every question you’ve ever had (and some you wish you didn’t) about the business of death. From what actually happens behind the scenes at a funeral home, to the psychological weight of dealing with grief daily, we go deep - no pun intended. We also talk about the shifting funeral industry, the growing corporate takeover of mom-and-pop funeral homes, and why dying has become so expensive. Plus, the strange rituals, surprising legalities, and unexpected moments that come with the job. If you’ve ever wondered about the real cost of a funeral, what goes into preserving a body, or why funerals are so important for the living, this one’s for you. No taboos. No fluff. Just real talk. Timestamps: 00:32 Political Disgust and Anxiety 05:55 Economic Struggles and High Costs 07:02 Bird Flu and Egg Prices 11:16 Government Inefficiency and Corruption 19:38 Social Security and Future Concerns 29:52 Balancing Work and Family Life 35:08 Skiing with Kids 43:46 Rat Encounters in the Subway 47:54 Personal Loss and Coping Mechanisms 53:45 Generational Differences and Financial Struggles 56:07 Real Estate and Community Changes 59:25 Funeral Industry Insights and Challenges 01:06:09 Corporate Takeovers in the Funeral Business 01:25:23 Political Views and Social Commentary

    1h 30m
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Welcome to "Dead Serious"! Join us as we dive into candid conversations about life, business, and the reality of death. We explore how our experiences shape us, the lessons learned from the funeral industry, and the stories that connect us all. Listen in for insightful discussions that offer a fresh perspective on life's most profound moments, making the conversation about death less daunting and more relatable. "Dead Serious" is hosted by Vincent Gilmor, Funeral Director of Noce Funeral Home in West Babylon, NY. For more info visit - https://linktr.ee/deadseriouspodcast

Information

  • Creator
    Vincent Gilmor
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2025
  • Episodes
    20
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Vincent Gilmor
  • Show Website
    Dead Serious