21 episodes

Dear Jessamyn is a bi-weekly, cannabis-infused audio advice column, where Jessamyn Stanley and her girlfriend mull over, banter about, and likely misunderstand her Instagram DMs. Season 1 is about polyamory, and all the sexy and messy not-safe-for-work details that come along with the lifestyle. Subscribe now, and get all the tea, delivered directly to your favorite listening device.

Dear Jessamyn Tenderfire Media

    • Sexuality
    • 5.0 • 77 Ratings

Dear Jessamyn is a bi-weekly, cannabis-infused audio advice column, where Jessamyn Stanley and her girlfriend mull over, banter about, and likely misunderstand her Instagram DMs. Season 1 is about polyamory, and all the sexy and messy not-safe-for-work details that come along with the lifestyle. Subscribe now, and get all the tea, delivered directly to your favorite listening device.

    10XL Do Your Parents Know You're Poly?

    10XL Do Your Parents Know You're Poly?

    Every  Queer has a coming-out story worth telling. In this episode, Jessamyn and Ashe tell thiers, and uncover how some pieces of their identities came to be, in the context of two very different southern families. Ashe tells all about moving in with...

    • 46 min
    10 Do Your Parents Know You're Poly?

    10 Do Your Parents Know You're Poly?

    Who remembers Jessamyn’s scooter accident last summer?🙋🏾‍♀️🙋🏽‍♀️🙋🏿‍♀️What happened when her parents came to visit with both her girlfriend and partner in the house? Jessamyn and Ashe get down to the realities of being polyamorous, in the context of...

    • 12 min
    9XL You Can Love Yourself

    9XL You Can Love Yourself

    the Trevor Project does a really great job defining it. This week’s XL episode picks up where we left off on Tuesday exploring how asexuality and polyamory, can work together to make a happy union. That's assuming you're dating someone who is not...

    • 34 min
    9 You Can Love Yourself

    9 You Can Love Yourself

    We are so grateful for and indebted to the Trevor Project for their amazing work at offering the queer community options beyond suicide. They also offer other resources including this wonderful definition of Asexuality. If you can’t love yourself, you...

    • 9 min
    8XL Sometimes Poly, Always Poly

    8XL Sometimes Poly, Always Poly

    In this episode, we expound on Tuesday’s episode, but in case you missed here’s the tl;dr: our question-asker is curious about the polyamorous life but is hesitant when it comes to times when we’re a little needier of a partner’s attention- think job...

    • 35 min
    8 Sometimes Poly, Always Poly

    8 Sometimes Poly, Always Poly

    In this episode, our question-asker wonders how to go about being… sometimes poly. Specifically opening a relationship and closing it when it’s time to move, have kids, get a new job, etc. Jessamyn said it herself and honestly, we’re not mad at it...

    • 11 min

Customer Reviews

5.0 out of 5
77 Ratings

77 Ratings

Daryl Hall ,

Love y’all

I love the vibe, the conversations and the information. Also I am 100% here for y’all doing an astrology spin off. Do it!!! ❤️

Mykorona69 ,

Jessamyn Rocks

Love love this podcast. Jessamyn and her partner are so real, super funny and have very helpful advice. Cant wait for more episodes!

AVBish ,

Advice and Pot? 10/10

My friend suggested this podcast to me, and I was hooked from the beginning. Hilarious, informational and so so relatable. 👏🏻

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