Deconstructing Dating

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Deconstructing Dating is a podcast where two matchmaker cousins invite hilarious guests to help them pick apart a common dating idea to determine whether it is a dating myth or a dating truth. Do you have to wait three days to contact someone after a date? Can you have too many dealbreakers? Is there always something better out there? Tiana, Marnie, and their fabulous guests will discuss the things we’ve been wondering about courtship since before dating apps existed and give real-life, actionable steps to navigate the modern dating world.

Episodes

  1. 06/16/2025

    Can a bachelor be reformed? with Justin Kaufmann

    Join us in diving deep into the unapologetic bachelor mindset of Justin Kaufmann. There's plenty of eyebrow raisers here while we look at lots of aspects, including what is the allure of trying to get the "bad boy" or "supermodel," dating multiple girls a week, temptation, faithfulness and commitment, and being a father through it all. Is it a sustainable lifestyle? What would it take to "settle down"? Can a bachelor ever really be reformed? -- Justin's concrete company, DAT Concrete Specialists:https://www.datconcrete.com/ My Mindful Match:mymindfulmatch.comFacebookInstagramTikTokYouTubeApple Podcastshttps://linktr.ee/mymindfulmatchaz

    52 min

  2. 06/09/2025

    Do Americans find more success dating abroad? with Melanie Reiff

    Talking about international dating is already exciting, but Melanie’s stories took it to another level! From a dinner date in the US with a potential cannibal, to the most romantic singing duet in France that turned into a whirlwind evening, we explore the fantasy and reality of dating abroad, and the core principles that can make or break it. Between Tiana’s skepticism, Marnie’s enthusiasm, and Melanie’s love for all things French, we peel back the layers of international relationships. Follow Melanie's experiences in France here: https://melaniereiff.substack.com/ My Mindful Match: mymindfulmatch.com Facebook Instagram TikTok YouTube Apple Podcasts https://linktr.ee/mymindfulmatchaz

    54 min

  3. 06/02/2025

    Platonic Relationships - Can Men and Women Really Just Be Friends? with Jason Lucovich

    In this episode, we bring in our long time friend, the unfiltered Jason Lucovich, and dive headfirst into the great debate: Can men and women *really* just be friends? You'll hear personal stories, like Marnie's double standard with male friends, and how Tiana and Jason hilariously faked a dating rumor to cover up an even wilder truth at their old workplace. We also chat about why timing is everything when it comes to these friendships, jealousy, and the importance of boundaries (especially for your significant other's peace of mind!) So, can opposite-sex friendships truly be platonic? Tune in to find out if we bust this myth or declare it a dating truth! My Mindful Match:mymindfulmatch.comFacebookInstagramTikTokYouTubeApple Podcastshttps://linktr.ee/mymindfulmatchaz

    59 min

  4. 05/26/2025

    Is There Always Something Better Out There? with Natalie Katona

    Is there always something better out there—or are we just stuck in swipe mode? In this episode, we’re joined by Natalie Katona, host of the podcast To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before, to explore the world of unrealistic checklists, the myth of the “perfect” partner, and why dating apps often feel like online shopping. In the search for better, are we actually missing what matters? Natalie Katona - To All The Men I've Tolerated Before podcast https://linktr.ee/nataliekat124 My Mindful Match:mymindfulmatch.comFacebookInstagramTikTokYouTubeApple Podcastshttps://linktr.ee/mymindfulmatchaz

    55 min

  5. 05/19/2025

    Wait 3 days to text after the 1st date? Dating rule or dating roulette? with Julia Washington

    Joined by guest Julia Washington, founder of Pros and Glow, we delve into the longstanding myth of waiting three days to text after a date and whether it still makes sense in today’s fast-paced digital dating landscape. From classic dating norms to modern communication styles like texting, voice memos, and social media, we unpack the psychology behind playing hard to get, the role of authenticity in relationships, and how responsiveness (or the lack of it) can influence attraction. Julia shares personal stories, navigating dating apps, the impact of early relationship dynamics, and how confidence shifts the way we connect. Does waiting really spark intrigue, or is it just an outdated game? Find Julia at: https://www.juliawashingtonproductions.com/https://www.instagram.com/juliamwproductions My Mindful Match: mymindfulmatch.com Facebook Instagram TikTok YouTube Apple Podcasts https://linktr.ee/mymindfulmatchaz

    47 min

  6. 05/13/2025

    Long distance relationships don't work? with Ray Delgado

    Tiana and Marnie, the matchmaking duo, dive into a lively debate on whether long-distance relationships can truly work, or are they destined to unravel? Guest Ray Delgado shares his own cross-country love story, taking listeners on a journey filled with surprises, challenges, and hard truths. As the conversation unfolds, trust, compatibility, and relationship logistics take center stage, sparking thoughtful insights. With expert advice on communication, emotional maturity, and long-term planning, Tiana and Marnie break down what it really takes to make love last across the miles. Keep a watch for Ray Delgado's upcoming podcast: Sobriety Sucks! But You Need It! A podcast about the challenges and rewards of getting sober. https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/sobriety-sucks-but-you-need-it-is-a-podcast-about/id1805490000 ----- My Mindful Match:⁠ mymindfulmatch.com⁠ ⁠Facebook⁠⁠ Instagram⁠⁠ TikTok⁠⁠ YouTube⁠⁠ Apple Podcasts⁠ ⁠https://linktr.ee/mymindfulmatchaz

    46 min

  7. 05/06/2025

    Must Haves - Is there such a thing as too many? with Chris DeRosa

    This week on Deconstructing Dating, Tiana and Marnie are joined by special guest Chris DeRosa to tackle one of the most controversial topics in modern romance: the must-have list. You know, that internal spreadsheet of non-negotiables we all pretend we don’t have—until someone shows up wearing crocs to a first date. With a blend of personal stories, hard-won wisdom, solid professional insight, and just the right amount of oversharing, they break down what really matters in a relationship. Is it shared values? Emotional intelligence? Or just someone who doesn’t ghost after three dates and knows how to split an appetizer? Chris also reveals his own must-haves, from family dynamics that won’t require therapy (yet), to friends who pass the vibe check, adaptability in social chaos, and yes—even ambition and generosity. Tune in for laughs, insights, and possibly a minor identity crisis. Check out Chris' podcast Fixing Famous People with Chris DeRosa and Dominick Pupa: YouTube Apple Podcasts Spotify ----- My Mindful Match: mymindfulmatch.com Facebook Instagram TikTok YouTube Apple Podcasts https://linktr.ee/mymindfulmatchaz

    1h 21m
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Deconstructing Dating is a podcast where two matchmaker cousins invite hilarious guests to help them pick apart a common dating idea to determine whether it is a dating myth or a dating truth. Do you have to wait three days to contact someone after a date? Can you have too many dealbreakers? Is there always something better out there? Tiana, Marnie, and their fabulous guests will discuss the things we’ve been wondering about courtship since before dating apps existed and give real-life, actionable steps to navigate the modern dating world.

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    My Mindful Match Podcast
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  • Episodes
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