I have so many thoughts. I love your podcast but I’m noticing a trend that’s making me question that and I hope you’ll hear me out. It seems to me that you are very understanding and forgiving of men’s bad behavior. Although you do call it out - your tone and the way you view these men, ie Tom Sandoval, Craig, Kyle, suggests you’re able to see past their faults and see the things that may have brought them to this place. However - when it comes to the women you are quite a bit harsher and don’t afford them that same compassion. You do not talk positively about Ariana, Hannah, Paige etc. Hannah is basically the female version of Kyle but you forgive his messiness and crucify Hannah for hers. There is no way you can possibly be so utterly sure that she is the one lying. And the way you talk about Paige is really telling. Unlike Hannah, she is very measured, doesn’t say things she can’t take back and thinks before she speaks. She gets labeled as manipulative. Typically this is how girls are taught to behave. To think before they speak. Don’t be messy. Bury your own feelings etc. I hope you’ll think about how you’re framing these situations. Still really enjoy your take on things.
