Desi Dramas

Dr. Heena Manglani-Terranova
  • 5.0 (6)
  • Mental Health
  • Updated Weekly

Ever wish your therapist just got what it means to be a Desi? Step inside the mind of Dr. Heena Manglani-Terranova, a Desi clinical psychologist unpacking the familiar stories keeping us stuck. Each week, she transforms evidence-based tools using a cultural lens — bicultural identity, family conflict, marriage tension, and everything in between. Practical tools so you can feel empowered. This is not therapy, but we trust it will be therapeutic.

Episodes

  1. 3d ago

    What Your Grown Desi Child Needs From You

    Your Desi parent loves you. You love them. So why does every phone call leave you feeling more distant? This episode gives Desi parents 5 moves to make with their adult children. These are the things your child has likely struggled to say out loud, and the very things they need to hear to feel close to you. If you are the adult child listening, this episode will help you feel seen and give you language to ask for what you actually need. Built from Dr. Heena Manglani-Terranova's years of therapy with Desis. Therapy skills, packaged for Desi families. 00:52 A message for Desi parents02:55 Amrit and Jaspreet Example05:43 Izzat Respect and Autonomy07:48 Awareness of Your Needs09:29 Acknowledge Two Worlds11:41 Unconditional Positive Regard13:45 Right Kind of Support16:07 Recap and Practice This Week To get the guide that goes with this episode, head to Desi-dramas.com. You’ll get the exact questions and phrases to put the tools into practice.

    19 min

  2. 3d ago

    Desi Couple Conflicts

    You and your partner love each other. So why does every conversation about money, in-laws, or whose family for the holidays end with someone walking away? In this episode, Dr. Heena Manglani-Terranova breaks down the 4 conversation patterns that predict divorce with 90% accuracy, and the 3 tools to change them. These come from decades of couples research, including the work of Dr. John Gottman and Dr. Sue Johnson, translated into something that actually works for Desi and bicultural couples. You'll learn: The 4 "Horsemen" that predict divorce, and how to spot them in your own fightsThe one question to ask yourself before a hard conversation, that changes how the next 40 minutes goThe biggest mistake Desi couples make in conflict (it's not what you think)What you are actually fighting for underneath the surface argumentHow to repair a fight with the "magic ratio" couples research has known about for decades 00:44 Outline of Tools 03:00 Simran And Raj Example 04:57 Predictors of Divorce (The Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse) 07:44 Tool 1: What’s My Goal? 09:13 Soft Startup For Loaded Topics 10:02 When Horsemen Show Up 11:01 Tool 2: What am I really fighting for? 13:31 If you get overwhelmed during the conversation 14:39 Tool 3: Appreciate Your Partner 15:32 Emotional/Relational Bank Account 16:47 Get the Guide on desi-dramas.com 17:51 Practice for This Week Built from Dr. Heena's years of clinical work with Desi couples. Therapy skills, packaged for Desi families.

    20 min

  3. 3d ago

    Boundaries in Desi Families

    Most boundary advice was built for individualistic cultures. It doesn't work the same way in Desi families. In this episode, Dr. Heena breaks down five common myths about boundaries in the Desi community, defines what a boundary actually is (most people get this part wrong), and gives you a three-tier toolkit for setting boundaries in ways that actually work with your mother, your in-laws, your partner, and your aunties. She also names the single biggest mistake people make after setting a boundary, the one that almost guarantees it won't hold. You'll learn: Why "setting a boundary" the way Instagram taught you can backfire badly with Desi familyThe behavioral, indirect, and direct ways to set boundaries (and when to use each)How to manage the guilt that comes up when you finally stop adjustingWhy your family will push back harder right when the boundary starts to work, and what to do when they doChapters 02:02 Five Boundary Myths 04:51 What Boundaries Actually Are 06:03 Boundary Toolkit 09:43 Scripts And Examples 11:12 Managing the Desi Guilt 12:09 Biggest Mistake After Setting a Boundary 12:54 How Your Boundary Will Get Tested15:09 Takeaways Therapy skills, packaged for Desi families. Want the full guide for this episode? Head to desi-dramas.com.

    16 min

  4. Trailer

    Desi Dramas Trailer

    Desi Dramas is a podcast for Desis navigating the family, relationship, and identity questions that don't have easy answers. Hosted by Dr. Heena Manglani-Terranova, a Harvard-trained clinical psychologist who has spent years working with Desi individuals, couples, and families, the show brings the questions Desis ask in therapy directly to you. Each episode is a window into how a therapist actually thinks. Dr. Heena shares the questions she asks, the patterns she names, and the evidence-based tools she adapts for Desis. Here you will learn how to set boundaries with immigrant parents, break intergenerational guilt, and navigate cultural expectations around marriage. By seeing yourself in these stories and learning practical tools, we hope to empower you to find a new rhythm within the cultures you value. Desi Dramas brings clinical perspectives tailored to Desi lives, written and hosted by someone who lives them, too. This isn't therapy. But we trust it will be therapeutic.

    2 min

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About

Ever wish your therapist just got what it means to be a Desi? Step inside the mind of Dr. Heena Manglani-Terranova, a Desi clinical psychologist unpacking the familiar stories keeping us stuck. Each week, she transforms evidence-based tools using a cultural lens — bicultural identity, family conflict, marriage tension, and everything in between. Practical tools so you can feel empowered. This is not therapy, but we trust it will be therapeutic.

Information

  • Creator
    Dr. Heena Manglani-Terranova
  • Years Active
    2K
  • Episodes
    4
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Dr. Heena Manglani-Terranova
  • Show Website
    Desi Dramas