Desire Dialogues

Sex Coach Lauren Nicole | LNG coaching
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🎙️ Welcome to "Desire Dialogues” I'm your host and passionate love guru S.ex Coach Lauren with LNG coaching. Stay in the loop with for new episodes at https://www.facebook.com/share/1BWpnXg1Zc/ Expect transparent chats, like coffee talks with your bestie. Dive into adult sex education without the jargon—understand the body's pleasure anatomy in grandma-friendly terms. Get ready for candid, truth-dropping conversations. From seduction to intimacy, we'll elevate your love life from "meh" to "marvelous"! All my links: https://linktr.ee/relationshipcoachlaurengoyette

  1. 4D AGO

    109 | Spanking- Crave the Impact: The Art, Psychology, and Pleasure of Being Hit (on purpose)

    Why does impact play feel so intoxicating and how do you explore it consciously, safely, and with confidence? In this episode of Desire Dialogues, we dive into the psychology and pleasure behind impact play, breaking down why consensual hitting can feel grounding, erotic, and deeply connecting. 🧠 You’ll learn the differences between paddles, crops, floggers, whips, and hands, how materials change sensation, and why anticipation and trust are often more arousing than the strike itself. 🧠 We also cover aftercare, nervous system responses, and how to stay emotionally attuned before, during, and after a scene..so power exchange becomes connection, not chaos. 📌 Why impact play activates pleasure and surrender 📌 The difference between sting vs. thud sensations 📌 How tools and materials affect the body 📌 The psychological side of giving and receiving impact 📌 Why aftercare is essential (and what it actually looks like) This episode is kink-aware, shame-free, and rooted in consent which is perfect for the curious, the cautious, and the confidently kinky. #DesireDialogues #ImpactPlay #KinkEducation #ConsentCulture #SexPositivePodcast #PleasureEducation #PowerExchange #BDSMawareness #AftercareMatters #SexCoach #SexualWellness #EroticConfidence #ShameFreePleasure #SpotifyPodcast #YouTubePodcast

    9 min

  2. 12/24/2025

    108 | When a Slap Turns You On: The Psychology, Safety, and Seduction of Face Slapping

    Why does consensual face slapping turn some people on AND how do you explore it safely without shame or injury? In this episode of Desire Dialogues, we unpack the psychology behind erotic face slapping, the consent conversations that matter before hands are raised, and the technique that prioritizes sensation over harm. You’ll also learn essential aftercare, both emotional and physical, including when to use ice vs. heat if bruising happens. 🧠 You’ll learn: 📌 Why face slapping can feel grounding, arousing, and intimate 📌 How to ask for (and give) consent the right way 📌 How to slap a face safely (where to aim, what to avoid, and intensity tips) 📌 Aftercare that supports trust, nervous system regulation, and connection 📌 Bruise care basics: ice first, heat later—plus what actually helps healing Curious, cautious, or already exploring? This episode gives you clarity, confidence, and care without kink-shaming or glossing over safety. 🔗 What's your Sensual Archetype? https://take.quiz-maker.com/QYWBV8YK7 🔍 Resources, connect and work with me https://linktr.ee/relationshipcoachlaurengoyette #DesireDialogues #SexPositive #KinkEducation #ConsentMatters #Aftercare #PleasureEducation #PowerExchange #BDSMeducation #SexCoach #BodyLiteracy #NervousSystem #SexualWellness #IceAndHeat #CommunicationIsSexy #PleasureWithoutShame

    8 min

  3. 12/17/2025

    107 | 20 Orgasm Myths That Are Quietly Killing Your Pleasure

    What if nothing is wrong with your body but just the stories you were taught about pleasure? In this episode, we’re busting 20 common orgasm myths that create pressure, shame, and unrealistic expectations in sex. 🧠 You’ll learn why orgasms don’t look or feel the same for everyone, why penetration alone isn’t “supposed” to work, how stress and your nervous system impact pleasure, and what actually creates more satisfying sex, solo or partnered. This is your permission slip to stop performing and start listening to your body. ✨ Listen if you want more ease, confidence, and pleasure-->on your terms. 🔗 What's your Sensual Archetype? https://take.quiz-maker.com/QYWBV8YK7 🔍 Resources, connect and work with me https://linktr.ee/relationshipcoachlaurengoyette

    14 min

  4. 11/21/2025

    106| Episode 3 of 3- Intimacy through Conflict- The argument’s over… now what? 💔➡️💞

    This episode dives into post-conflict rituals. Small, intentional actions that rebuild safety, trust, and even desire after a disagreement. You’ll learn: Why repair is essential for long-term connection 3 easy rituals that melt tension and restore closeness How to make repair a natural (and sexy) part of your love language 🔥 Because intimacy isn’t built from perfection. It’s built from repair. Get guided tools, rituals, and support inside The Pleasure Collective, mentoring options and some insight when you take the "What's my sensual Archetype! Quiz All found here: 🔗 linktr.ee/relationshipcoachlaurengoyette

    10 min

  5. 11/13/2025

    105| Episode 2 of 3: Intimacy through conflict- Pause, Reflect & Listen — Transforming Arguments

    Ready to stop fighting and start connecting? 🧘‍♀️ I share two proven techniques: Pause & Reflect and Active Listening to calm your nervous system, drop the blame, and turn heated 😡 moments into deeper understanding. You’ll discover: How to regulate emotions mid-argument for clearer communication Why mirroring builds instant trust and safety The science behind being heard (hello, oxytocin boost 🧠💞) 💡 Conflict doesn’t need a winner — it needs awareness. 🔗 Find out your Sensual Archetype in the Quiz below in my link Also, if you want more practical intimacy tools? Join The Pleasure Collective or inquire about mentoring ❤️ 🔗 linktr.ee/relationshipcoachlaurengoyette

    6 min

  6. 11/06/2025

    104| Episode 1 of 3 : Why Conflict Can Bring You Closer

    Think conflict is a relationship killer? Think again. 💥 In this episode, Lauren breaks down why disagreements aren’t the enemy .. BUT they’re actually one of the fastest ways to build deeper emotional and sexual intimacy. You’ll learn: Why conflict isn’t a sign of trouble, it’s a sign of truth How emotional attunement during arguments strengthens connection A simple reflection to help you transform tension into trust ✨ When you stop fearing conflict, you start communicating with honesty, heart, and desire. 👉🏻 Take your Sensual Archetype Quiz too & Explore tools inside The Pleasure Collective — linktr.ee/relationshipcoachlaurengoyette

    6 min

  7. 10/30/2025

    103 | Real Talk on Sex Ed, Stigma & Intimacy with Dr. Stephanie Bathurst

    In this episode of Desire Dialogues, I sit down with Dr. Stephanie Bathurst — 7x award-winning therapist, board-certified Clinical Sexologist, and intimacy architect — for a raw and insightful conversation about what really shapes our sex lives. We dive into: 📚 How a lack of proper sex education impacts desire and intimacy later in life 🙈 The lasting effects of sexual stigma and shame 💔 The most common intimacy struggles Dr. Bathurst sees in her practice 💬 Why communication, not just technique, is the ultimate bedroom skill 🪞 The role of body image and self-worth in sexual connection 🚩 Red flags that signal it’s time to seek sex or couples therapy And of course, Dr. Bathurst shares her one powerful piece of advice for anyone who wants to build a juicier, more connected sex life — starting TODAY. #DesireDialogues #SexCoachLauren #PleasureIsYourBirthright #SexualWellness #IntimacyMatters #NormalizePleasure #RelationshipGoals #LoveAndIntimacy #PleasureEmpowerment #SensualHealing #SexEducationMatters #EndSexualStigma #SexTherapist #IntimacyCoach #SexualHealing #TherapyIsCool #IntimacyArchitect #HealthyRelationships #SexualConfidence #BodyImageAndSex

    29 min

  8. 10/17/2025

    102 | Rewriting Bedroom scripts with Gender Polarity & Sexual Energy

    Ever feel like your sex life runs on autopilot... like you’re acting out a role INSTEAD of following your desire?! Yeah, babe, you’re not alone. In this episode, we explore: 🔥 The hidden influence of gender scripts on your pleasure ⚡ The truth about sexual polarity AND how energy, not gender, drives attraction 💫 How gender roles and polarity can tangle (and how to untangle them) 💞 Practical ways to experiment, communicate, and co-create deeper intimacy Lauren walks you through reflective practices, real examples, and energy experiments to help you reconnect with your authentic erotic power — whether you’re solo, partnered, or somewhere deliciously in between. 💡 Key Takeaways Gender roles often unconsciously shape our sexual behavior — awareness helps you rewrite the script. Sexual polarity isn’t about “masculine” or “feminine,” it’s about energy flow and balance. When energy misaligns, desire can fizzle; when you experiment consciously, chemistry reignites. The secret sauce? Curiosity, play, and communication. 🪶 Resources & Links 💗 Join The Pleasure Collective — your space to explore energy, desire, and pleasure intentionally: 👉 linktr.ee/relationshipcoachlaurengoyette 📸 Follow Lauren on Instagram: @laurengoyette_

    10 min
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🎙️ Welcome to "Desire Dialogues” I'm your host and passionate love guru S.ex Coach Lauren with LNG coaching. Stay in the loop with for new episodes at https://www.facebook.com/share/1BWpnXg1Zc/ Expect transparent chats, like coffee talks with your bestie. Dive into adult sex education without the jargon—understand the body's pleasure anatomy in grandma-friendly terms. Get ready for candid, truth-dropping conversations. From seduction to intimacy, we'll elevate your love life from "meh" to "marvelous"! All my links: https://linktr.ee/relationshipcoachlaurengoyette

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    Sex Coach Lauren Nicole | LNG coaching
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