The conversation explores the concept of devaluation in relationships, highlighting the shift from adoration to criticism and the impact on self-worth. It delves into the mechanics of devaluation and provides insights on spotting devaluation and recovering from its effects.

Takeaways

  • Devaluation: The process where someone who once adored you starts making you feel like you're never quite good enough.
  • Chasing Approval: Reacting to criticism by chasing the approval you used to get for free.

Chapters

  • 00:00 Devaluation in Relationships
  • 01:30 The Mechanics of Devaluation
  • 02:56 Spotting Devaluation and Recovery