Discerning Parenting Victoria Ang-Nolasco, MD

Has someone said that your toddler is bad or naughty because they threw a toy to the floor instead of playing with it?

Or maybe someone is telling you that unless you punish your toddler, you'll be spoiling them.

If you are wondering why your toddler loves to throw toys instead of playing with them, you're not alone. In this episode, we talk about this common behavior, why it happens, and what to do about it.

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The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.

When should a child be talking?
Should you worry if your child isn't talking yet?
And what can you do to boost your child's language development?

These are just some of the common questions I get about speech and language development. And if that's what you're wondering about, listen to this episode of the Discerning Parenting Podcast where we'll talk about strategies to boost your toddler's language development.

If you have a baby or child below three, the Toddler Talking book is for you. You'll get powerful, science-backed, and yet practical strategies to boost your baby's language and brain development.

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⭐ Get our NEW BOOK! The Discerning Parent's Guide to Toddler Behavior: From Power Struggles to Connection is now on Amazon. Click here to learn more about Dr. Victoria Nolasco's books.

⭐ You might have questions about how to handle tantrums. Or how to help your kids learn to talk, or get them started learning to read. Check out our FREE Discerning Parenting Toolkit and Resource Library.

⭐ Would you like more support through parent coaching or consultation? Introducing the Recharge Your Parenting 1:1 Coaching Program specifically for moms of kids age five and below.


The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.

Is it bad to use consequences to help kids learn? Parenting often feels like a delicate balancing act, and using consequences is a controversial topic. It's often hotly debated in parenting forums. On one side, there are some who say that we should never use any consequences that are administered by the parent.

We should only allow natural consequences. On the other hand, there are those who insist that each time a child misbehaves, they should receive a consequence that's unpleasant to them. Otherwise, they will not learn the appropriate behavior. Now, our podcast aims to empower discerning parents like you with the knowledge and tools needed to navigate the challenges of parenting.

So how do we have a balanced and effective approach? So that we build empathy, growth, and resilience in our kids.
⭐ Get our NEW BOOK! The Discerning Parent's Guide to Toddler Behavior: From Power Struggles to Connection is now on Amazon. Click here to learn more about Dr. Victoria Nolasco's books.

⭐ You might have questions about how to handle tantrums. Or how to help your kids learn to talk, or get them started learning to read. Check out our FREE Discerning Parenting Toolkit and Resource Library.

⭐ Would you like more support through parent coaching or consultation? Introducing the Recharge Your Parenting 1:1 Coaching Program specifically for moms of kids age five and below.


The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.

In today's thought-provoking installment, we delve deep into a topic that has left many parents in a state of uncertainty: Does praising a child make them conceited or spoiled?

We've all encountered those articles on the internet warning against over-praising, leaving parents puzzled about striking the right balance. The concern that praising a well-behaved child might inadvertently trigger misbehavior certainly adds another layer of complexity.

But what about those who grew up with parents adhering to a more restrained approach, believing that silence was the ultimate indicator of success? In this episode, we unravel the psychology behind this perspective and explore whether this upbringing truly paves the path to effective parenting.

So, whether you're a seasoned parent or someone just beginning the parenting journey, this episode promises to provide you with fresh perspectives and actionable takeaways. Tune in to the Discerning Parenting Podcast as we dissect the intricacies of praise in child-rearing and empower you to make informed decisions for your family. 
⭐ Get our NEW BOOK! The Discerning Parent's Guide to Toddler Behavior: From Power Struggles to Connection is now on Amazon. Click here to learn more about Dr. Victoria Nolasco's books.

⭐ You might have questions about how to handle tantrums. Or how to help your kids learn to talk, or get them started learning to read. Check out our FREE Discerning Parenting Toolkit and Resource Library.

⭐ Would you like more support through parent coaching or consultation? Introducing the Recharge Your Parenting 1:1 Coaching Program specifically for moms of kids age five and below.


The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.

It's no secret that parenting is a journey filled with its fair share of joys, triumphs, and, of course, challenges. But what happens when those challenges start taking a toll on the mental health of parents? The effects ripple far beyond just the individuals themselves.

In today's episode of the Discerning Parenting Podcast, we are joined by my good friend of over 20 years, Dr. Julie Arellano-Khullar, and together we will uncover the keys to better mental health for us parents.

Get to know Dr. Julie Arellano-Khullar:
Dr. Julie is a former classmate from medical school at the University of the Philippines, where she earned degrees in both BS Psychology and Medicine. Having completed her psychiatry residency at Wayne State University, Detroit Medical Center, she's now a psychiatrist making cross-cultural strides, aiding parents in navigating mental health challenges. Beyond her medical prowess, she's an Earth advocate, artist, author, lifelong learner, and devoted mom.

Check out Dr. Julie's book, "ANADI: A Book about Eternal Love for Moms and Kids of All Ages".  This beautifully written picture book reads like a melodic poem from start to finish, with each heartwarming page, inviting the reader to take a tender pause. 

⭐ Get our NEW BOOK! The Discerning Parent's Guide to Toddler Behavior: From Power Struggles to Connection is now on Amazon. Click here to learn more about Dr. Victoria Nolasco's books.

⭐ You might have questions about how to handle tantrums. Or how to help your kids learn to talk, or get them started learning to read. Check out our FREE Discerning Parenting Toolkit and Resource Library.

⭐ Would you like more support through parent coaching or consultation? Introducing the Recharge Your Parenting 1:1 Coaching Program specifically for moms of kids age five and below.


The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.

Are you feeling trapped in a negative parenting cycle that seems impossible to break? 

If that's the case, know that you're not alone. Parenting can be challenging and sometimes we find ourselves stuck in patterns that can make us feel more tired or maybe less joyful or that can even make us feel guilty as parents.

So, listen on, and that's what we'll talk about in this episode.

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⭐ Get our NEW BOOK! The Discerning Parent's Guide to Toddler Behavior: From Power Struggles to Connection is now on Amazon. Click here to learn more about Dr. Victoria Nolasco's books.

⭐ You might have questions about how to handle tantrums. Or how to help your kids learn to talk, or get them started learning to read. Check out our FREE Discerning Parenting Toolkit and Resource Library.

⭐ Would you like more support through parent coaching or consultation? Introducing the Recharge Your Parenting 1:1 Coaching Program specifically for moms of kids age five and below.


The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.