Divorce Confidential

Michelle Dellino + Amy Alpeza
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Tips, Guidance & Advice from the Pros! Join Michelle, Amy, and their guests as they bring real-life examples and guidance to the pod! When it comes to divorce, there is a lot to know that you don’t want to learn the hard way. We’ll talk legal tips, real estate, financial insight, and tips, tax implications, and beyond.

  1. APR 27

    After Divorce: How to Create a Home You Actually Love

    What does it really look like to rebuild your space — and your sense of self — after divorce, when you’re starting over in a “first me home”? In this episode of Divorce Confidential, Michelle Dellino and Amy Alpeza sit down with Sarah Hurt, founder of Seattle Art Source, to explore how art, design, and intentional space-building can transform post-divorce living into something deeply personal, grounded, and empowering. Sarah shares how she works with clients — especially newly single homeowners — to take the overwhelm out of designing a home and turn it into a guided, hands-on experience that reflects identity, emotion, and new beginnings. We discuss: 🔍 Why creating a “first me home” is a key part of post-divorce healing 🎨 How art becomes a powerful tool for identity, control, and emotional reset 🏠 Why seeing pieces in your actual space changes everything about selection 💡 How accessible original art can be (and why it’s not just for luxury buyers) 📦 The value of end-to-end support: selection, framing, and installation ⚖️ How divorce clients often reclaim confidence through their living environment 💬 The mindset shift from “I can’t afford this” to “I deserve this space” 🌿 Why a home should feel finished, personal, and emotionally safe — especially during transition From empty walls to meaningful spaces, this conversation explores how environment shapes healing — and how intentional design can help people step into their next chapter with clarity and confidence. 🎧 Listen now — and learn how your home after divorce can become your strongest foundation for what comes next. #DivorcePodcast #DivorceConfidential #LifeAfterDivorce #HomeAfterDivorce #InteriorDesign #SeattleArtSource #PostDivorceHealing #FreshStart #DivorceRecovery #WomenAndWealth #HomeDesign #EmotionalWellbeing #SeattleDivorce #WashingtonLaw #NewBeginnings

    24 min

  2. MAR 30

    Beyond the Decree: How Fiduciaries Execute Complex Legal Settlements with Robert Zielke

    What happens after the divorce is finalized — when the court order is signed, but the financial and operational execution still has to happen? 🏛️💼 In this episode of Divorce Confidential, Michelle Dellino and Amy Alpeza sit down with Robert Zielke, CEO of Altruist Trust Co. & Fiduciary Services, to break down the critical role fiduciaries play in high-conflict and high-net-worth transitions. With three decades of experience as a former trial attorney and fiduciary executive, Robert explains how neutral fiduciary administration helps remove conflict, confusion, and repeated litigation from complex financial settlements. We discuss: 🔍 What fiduciary administration actually does in divorce and estate matters 💡 How neutrals help prevent post-decree disputes and relitigation 📈 How trust structures and fiduciary oversight support business and real estate assets ⚖️ Why “clear standards, clean documentation, and consistent execution” matter so much 🏠 How fiduciaries can manage real estate, businesses, and financial flows during transition 📝 When and why fiduciary services may reduce legal costs and emotional stress From trust administration to asset management to special needs planning, this episode explores how legal intent is carried out in the real world — with structure, neutrality, and accountability. If you’ve ever wondered what actually happens after the decree, this episode is essential listening. 🎧 Listen now — and understand how fiduciaries help turn legal orders into real-world execution. #DivorcePodcast #DivorceConfidential #FiduciaryServices #TrustAdministration #DivorceAndFinance #HighNetWorthDivorce #EstatePlanning #RealEstateAndDivorce #AssetProtection #FamilyLaw #PostDecreeLitigation #SeattleDivorce #WashingtonLaw #FinancialClarity #AltruistTrust

    16 min

  3. MAR 9

    Divorce Financial Planning: What the Non-Moneyed Spouse Needs to Know with Jennifer Lee

    Divorce is emotional — but your financial decisions don’t have to be. In this episode of Divorce Confidential, Michelle Dellino and Amy Alpeza are joined by Jennifer Lee, founder of Modern Wealth, to unpack what the non-moneyed spouse needs to understand before, during, and after divorce. If you’ve ever wondered: 🔍 What assets do I actually have access to in divorce? 💡 Should I keep the house — or will that leave me house-poor? 📈 How do I prepare financially for mediation or settlement? 💬 What is “financial triage,” and why does it matter early in the process? 📝 What is a “family love letter,” and how can it protect my loved ones? We talk retirement realities, budgeting after divorce, emotional vs. strategic decisions, and how to build a financial plan that supports your next chapter — not just survives it. If you’re feeling unsure about money, assets, or your financial future, this episode will help you move from fear to clarity. 🎧 Listen now — because clarity creates confidence. #DivorcePodcast #DivorceFinancialPlanning #NonMoneyedSpouse #WomenAndMoney #DivorceSupport #FinancialTriage #DivorceMediation #AssetDivision #RetirementPlanning #EstatePlanning #RealEstateAndDivorce #SeattleDivorce #WashingtonDivorce #DivorceAdvice #FinancialClarity #DellinoFamilyLawGroup

    16 min

  4. JAN 26

    Divorce, Homes & Money: 2026’s Biggest Insights

    What’s changing in real estate, divorce trends, and financial planning this year? 🏡💰 In this episode of Divorce Confidential, Michelle and Amy break down the key questions every individual navigating divorce and homeownership in 2026 should ask: 🔍 How is the housing market affecting divorcing homeowners—interest rates, inventory, and affordability? 💡 What life events are driving people to sell, keep, or buy homes after divorce? 📈 How can pre-planning and early consultation help you make smarter financial and real estate decisions? 💬 What trends are we seeing in divorce planning—more consultations, proactive strategies, and awareness than ever before? Whether you’re downsizing, refinancing, or buying a new home post-divorce, this episode gives you the insights to plan your next chapter with confidence. 🎧 Listen now to get the real-world tips and trends every divorcing homeowner needs in 2026. #DivorceConfidential #DivorcePlanning #DivorceAndRealEstate #WashingtonDivorce #HousingAfterDivorce #FinancialClarity #HighAssetDivorce #EmpoweredAdvocacy #LifeAfterDivorce #DellinoFamilyLawGroup

    15 min

  5. 10/27/2025

    Money, Mortgages, and Divorce: Planning Your Next Chapter with Jody Bruns

    What really happens to your mortgage, home equity, and credit when divorce enters the picture? 🏠 In this episode of Divorce Confidential, Michelle and Amy talk with Jody Bruns, Founder of the Certified Divorce Lending Professional (CDLP®) designation and national authority on divorce and real estate finance. With over 35 years in mortgage and finance, Jody breaks down the questions every divorcing homeowner needs answered: 🔍 How does divorce impact your ability to refinance or qualify for a new home loan? 💡 What’s the smartest way to handle joint mortgages, home equity, and buyouts? 📈 How can strategic mortgage planning support your long-term financial goals post-divorce? 💬 What steps can you take now to protect your credit and financial stability? Whether you’re keeping the home, selling, or buying a new one, this episode will help you plan your next chapter with confidence. 🎧 Listen now — and learn how to turn financial uncertainty into an informed strategy. #DivorceConfidential #DivorceFinance #MortgagePlanning #DivorceAdvice #CDLP #DivorceSupport #HomeAfterDivorce #FinancialPlanning #DivorceRecovery #DellinoFamilyLawGroup

    29 min

  6. 10/13/2025

    Protecting Inheritance During Divorce with Myra Salzer

    💡 What should you do when you suddenly inherit wealth—or receive unexpected assets in a divorce? In this episode of Divorce Confidential, Michelle Dellino and Amy Alpeza sit down with Myra Salzer, founder of The Wealth Conservancy, TEDx speaker, and author of Living Richly: Seizing the Potential of Inherited Wealth. We tackle the big questions many people ask when facing life-changing financial transitions: ✔️ What are the first steps to take after inheriting money—or receiving assets in a divorce? ✔️ How do emotions impact financial decisions, and how can you avoid costly mistakes? ✔️ What’s the difference between scarcity mindset vs. abundance mindset—and how does it affect your future? ✔️ What should you look for in a financial advisor (and how they’re paid) so your interests come first? ✔️ Why do inheritors and divorcees often struggle with conflict resolution—and how can coaching or therapy help? Whether you’re dealing with inheritance, divorce, or widowhood, Myra shares practical strategies for slowing down, making wise choices, and aligning your financial resources with your values and goals. 🎧 Listen now and learn how to turn unexpected wealth into a foundation for a more fulfilling future. 📌 Connect with Myra: thewealthconservancy.com | wayintowealth.com #DivorceConfidential #InheritedWealth #DivorceSettlement #FinancialCoaching #WealthManagement #MoneyMindset #ScarcityVsAbundance #ConflictResolution #FinancialAdvisorTips

    21 min

  7. 03/31/2025

    Loyal to the Accuracy with Special Guest Andrea Roth

    🎙️ How Much Is Your Art Really Worth? Understanding Asset Valuation in Divorce 🎙️ When divorce involves fine art, antiques, jewelry, and luxury goods, getting an accurate valuation is crucial. In this episode of Divorce Confidential, we sit down with Andrea Roth, founder & CEO of Roth Art Group, to discuss the complexities of appraising high-value personal property. 🔍 What you'll learn: ✔️ The difference between fair market value vs. replacement value ✔️ Why appraisals matter in divorce settlements and estate planning ✔️ How the art market is shifting and what it means for asset division ✔️ Common mistakes people make when valuing their household contents Andrea and her team provide customized appraisal services nationwide, helping clients make informed financial decisions about their valuables. 🎧 Tune in now and gain expert insights! #ArtAppraisal #LuxuryAssets #DivorceLaw #AssetValuation #FairMarketValue #EstatePlanning #DivorceConfidential #DellinoFamilyLawGroup

    21 min

  8. 02/27/2025

    Relocating with Children

    🚨 New Podcast Episode 🚨 Thinking about relocating with your children after a divorce? In this episode, we break down everything you need to know about Washington's Relocation Act, including: 👉 When does the Relocation Act apply? 👉 What steps you must take if you want to move with your child to a new school district 👉 How to increase your chances of getting a relocation approved 👉 Important factors the court will consider We also discuss real estate strategies for families on the move: 🏡 Should you rent or buy when relocating? 📍 Key considerations when moving locally vs. long-distance 📈 Current trends in the Pacific Northwest housing market Whether you're moving for a new job, a fresh start, or to be closer to family, planning ahead is essential. Tune in now to get the advice you need! 🎧 #RelocatingWithKids #WashingtonRelocationAct #FamilyLaw #DivorceSupport #DivorceConfidential #DellinoFamilyLawGroup

    18 min
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Tips, Guidance & Advice from the Pros! Join Michelle, Amy, and their guests as they bring real-life examples and guidance to the pod! When it comes to divorce, there is a lot to know that you don’t want to learn the hard way. We’ll talk legal tips, real estate, financial insight, and tips, tax implications, and beyond.

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  • Creator
    Michelle Dellino + Amy Alpeza
  • Years Active
    2021 - 2026
  • Episodes
    68
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    Clean
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    Divorce Confidential
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    Divorce Confidential

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