Divorce Dialogues

Katherine Miller
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Divorce Dialogues brings experts together to talk about what works (and what doesn't) to reach a better life on the other side of divorce.

  1. Transparency and Communication: Financial Tips During a Divorce - with Sam Kingston

    5D AGO

    Transparency and Communication: Financial Tips During a Divorce - with Sam Kingston

    "I think that this period can be one where folks can make mistakes and really leaning on a team of professionals that can help them through the period is of utmost importance." - Sam Kingston Sam Kingston, a seasoned finance professional, brings over two decades of expertise in financial analysis and portfolio management to the intricate field of financial planning for divorce. With a unique background that spans global firms and family businesses, as well as personal experience being raised by a single mother, Sam is keenly aware of both the emotional and financial challenges inherent in asset separation. He advocates for a comprehensive and empathetic approach, emphasizing the need for a team of professionals—including divorce attorneys, financial advisors, and tax experts—to support individuals through this life transition. By focusing on careful financial planning and open communication, Sam aims to help individuals navigate the complexities of family businesses and shared investments, ensuring fair outcomes and long-term financial stability. Key Takeaways -Establishing a separate financial footprint, creating a new budget, and understanding liabilities and assets are crucial during divorce. -Revising estate plans post-divorce is essential to safeguard assets and achieve financial goals. -Budgeting post-divorce helps in understanding spending habits and making thoughtful financial decisions. -Transparency and setting boundaries in financial matters are vital to ensure a fair divorce outcome. -Being patient, seeking advice from advisors, and making thoughtful decisions during the divorce process can lead to a more favorable financial outcome. Connect with Sam Kingston: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sam-kingston-006a26/ https://www.edwardjones.com/us-en/financial-advisor/sam-kingston?msockid=03955cb2509a6eaa2ef34a2e51ab6f8a Connect with Katherine Miller: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kemiller1/ https://miller-law.com/

    24 min
  2. The D Word: Navigating Divorce with Self-Trust - with Kate Anthony

    DEC 11

    The D Word: Navigating Divorce with Self-Trust - with Kate Anthony

    "When you are grounded in your own emotions, you don't have to be governed by them. That doesn't mean that it's not emotional. It means that you're at choice." - Kate Anthony Kate Anthony is a dedicated specialist focused on guiding women through the intricate process of divorce decision-making. Renowned for her empowering approach, she emphasizes the necessity of prioritizing children's well-being in such situations, urging parents to put aside personal desires and conflicts for the sake of their offspring. Through her comprehensive online programs, Anthony assists women in reconnecting with their personal values and needs, fostering self-discovery and reinvention post-divorce. Her book, "The D Word," co-authored with Katherine Miller, further explores these themes, advocating for emotional processing before tackling legal issues and challenging the notion that divorce is inherently detrimental to children when approached with their best interests at heart. Key Takeaways ->Addressing internal conflict and questioning surrounding divorce empowers women to trust their instincts and prioritize well-being. ->Processing emotions before making legal and financial decisions in divorce minimizes their impact and leads to better outcomes. ->Prioritizing children's well-being during divorce prevents using them as weapons in conflicts between parents. ->Assessing personal happiness, future goals, and children's well-being is crucial in decision-making in divorce. ->Creating safe environments for children to regulate their nervous systems positively impacts their well-being and development. ->Having at least one safe parent and home environment is crucial for children to understand safety and toxicity. Connect with Kate Anthony: https://kateanthony.com/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/divorcesurvivalguide/ Connect with Katherine Miller: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kemiller1/ https://miller-law.com/

    32 min
  3. Preventing Irreversible Decisions: The Early Role of Advisors - with Jon Tanner

    DEC 4

    Preventing Irreversible Decisions: The Early Role of Advisors - with Jon Tanner

    "The money is just data. It's numbers and getting at the core of what it means to them, what it represents. It represents their values, their ideals, their hopes, their dreams." - Jon Tanner Jon Tanner, president of Summit Advisors at William Joseph Capital Management, is a seasoned financial planning expert with over 35 years of experience, specializing in the intricate financial aspects of divorce. A native of Hudson Valley, Jon is celebrated for his empathetic, team-based approach, working closely with lawyers, accountants, and other professionals to craft financial settlement plans that promote compromise and clarity. He believes that a successful financial plan in divorce requires looking beyond the headline numbers, emphasizing the importance of understanding the sustainability and nature of assets such as retirement accounts and real estate. Jon is committed to helping his clients not only manage the immediate financial challenges of divorce but also build a solid foundation for the future, acknowledging the emotional hurdles and guiding them toward confident financial independence. Key Takeaways ->Financial planning in divorce is crucial for stability and navigating major life transitions. ->Getting organized with financial information such as bank statements and debts is important for understanding one's financial reality. ->Considering the sustainability and nature of assets is essential for making informed decisions for a stable post-divorce future. ->Working with a team of professionals including lawyers and financial advisors can provide cohesive guidance and minimize conflicting information. ->Involving a financial advisor early in the divorce process can prevent irreversible decisions and provide clarity for managing financial future. ->Look for a financial advisor with certifications like a Certified Divorce Financial Adviser (CDFA) and experience in divorce financial matters. Connect with Jon Tanner: https://www.williamjosephcapital.com/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/jon-tanner-71175a3b/ Connect with Katherine Miller: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kemiller1/ https://miller-law.com/

    30 min
  4. Coping Strategies for Holidays Without Children After Divorce

    NOV 27

    Coping Strategies for Holidays Without Children After Divorce

    "I'm on a mission to change how people divorce and help them divorce with dignity." - Katherine Miller Navigating the holiday season after a divorce can be a tumultuous experience, fraught with the challenges of time-sharing with children and the task of establishing new traditions. Katherine Miller, with her insightful perspective, acknowledges the emotional difficulty of spending holidays without the kids, especially during the first year post-divorce. Drawing from her experiences, she advocates for finding new ways to celebrate, be it through altering existing traditions or experimenting with entirely new approaches. Miller underscores the significance of prioritizing children's well-being and the potential long-term effects of parental actions, urging parents to be mindful of how family dynamics and conflicts during this period can shape lasting holiday memories. Key Takeaways ->Coping strategies when spending holidays without children include making plans with family or serving the needy. ->Maintaining holiday traditions post-divorce can impact children's emotions and may create false hope of reconciliation. ->Seeking professional advice and considering the timing of divorce announcements during the holiday season is important for emotional well-being. Connect with Katherine Miller: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kemiller1/ https://miller-law.com/

    14 min
  5. Transitioning Immigration Pathways through Work and Family - with Douglas Lightman

    NOV 20

    Transitioning Immigration Pathways through Work and Family - with Douglas Lightman

    "It has provided me with a different viewpoint, in terms of understanding that there's a lot more involved to an immigration related case beyond being approved for whatever benefit an individual is seeking." - Douglas Lightman Douglas Lightman is a seasoned professional in immigration law, with a strong foundation in international tax and cross-border transactions, which has significantly shaped his career path. Through his extensive travel and exposure to diverse cultures, Lightman has developed a nuanced understanding of the complexities involved in immigration matters, particularly the intricate connection between international tax and immigration law. He is committed to demystifying these processes and tackling prevalent misconceptions, such as the belief that individuals with a two-year conditional green card cannot obtain a ten-year green card if divorced, by providing clear, accurate information to the public. With recent changes in immigration laws making the process more challenging, Lightman's informed guidance is invaluable for clients navigating complex international and family issues, ultimately assisting them in achieving their immigration goals through various pathways. Key Takeaways ->Understanding the connection between tax and immigration allows for a comprehensive approach to addressing clients' needs in both areas. ->Tax residency, green card status, and long-term plans are key tax issues in immigration cases. ->Foreign nationals facing deteriorating relationships can still apply for a ten-year green card despite divorce. ->Recent changes in immigration laws have led to significant effects on individuals seeking immigration status. ->Individuals seeking immigration status can follow distinct paths such as work visa sponsorship or family-based green cards through marriage. Connect with Douglas Lightman: https://www.linkedin.com/in/douglas-lightman-0aab3211/ https://www.lightmanimmigration.com/ Connect with Katherine Miller: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kemiller1/ https://miller-law.com/

    26 min
  6. Silence in Negotiations: Enhancing Strategic Decision-Making - with Cathy Eads

    NOV 13

    Silence in Negotiations: Enhancing Strategic Decision-Making - with Cathy Eads

    "Yoga is really a way of life. It's a way of living with self compassion for yourself and for the environment and the people around you." - Cathy Eads Cathy Eads is a dedicated yoga teacher and Ayurvedic wellness counselor, renowned for her expertise in using mind-body practices to manage stress and anxiety. Her journey with yoga began as a form of physical exercise, but it soon transformed into a holistic lifestyle that promotes self-compassion and peaceful living. Cathy believes that yoga, meditation, and structured daily routines can restore calm and balance, even amidst health challenges, financial stress, and struggling relationships. By incorporating techniques like controlled breathing and mindfulness, she helps individuals develop resilience and manage emotions, particularly during stressful life events such as divorce, offering them a pathway to feel more grounded and in control. Key Takeaways ->Yoga and meditation promote resilience and control in life during chaotic times ->Controlled breathing in yoga impacts the nervous system's fight-or-flight response ->Physical activities like yoga can help discharge stress hormones during divorce proceedings ->Focused breathing techniques can promote calmness and relaxation to manage anxiety ->Silence can be used as a powerful negotiation technique to influence discussions ->Personalized yoga sessions can address specific needs and promote relaxation Connect with Cathy Eads: https://findblissyoga.com/about/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/cathyreads/ Connect with Katherine Miller: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kemiller1/ https://miller-law.com/

    30 min
  7. Bankruptcy Misconceptions Debunked: Separating Fact from Fiction - with Jeffrey Peltz

    OCT 16

    Bankruptcy Misconceptions Debunked: Separating Fact from Fiction - with Jeffrey Peltz

    "Well, I want to do something that could help the ordinary person. I never wanted to get into law to work for a big corporation. Helping people is what I care about." - Jeffrey Peltz Jeffrey Peltz, a seasoned Brooklyn-based attorney with nearly four decades of experience, seeks to change the narrative surrounding bankruptcy by emphasizing its role as a strategic financial tool rather than a moral failing. With a compassionate approach that prioritizes clients' needs over corporate interests, Peltz argues that bankruptcy should be seen as a business decision, not a source of shame. He highlights the common misconception that bankruptcy should be avoided at all costs, noting that this belief often leads individuals to make damaging financial choices, such as depleting retirement funds or falling for scams. By offering personalized guidance and treating clients like family, Peltz strives to demystify the bankruptcy process, helping individuals understand that it can offer a fresh start, particularly in the context of divorce and other financial challenges. Key Takeaways ->Viewing bankruptcy as a business decision rather than a source of shame is crucial for guiding clients through financial difficulties. ->Certain debts like spousal support, child support, student loans, taxes, parking tickets, penalties, and court charges are not dischargeable in bankruptcy. ->Bankruptcy can be a first step towards rebuilding credit, with FICO scores potentially increasing by an average of 100 points over a year. ->Common misconceptions about bankruptcy include the belief that it is a personal judgment or a black mark on one's character. ->Bankruptcy hearings are now conducted via Zoom due to COVID-19 restrictions, providing convenience for clients. Connect with Jeffrey Peltz: https://www.aaalawyer.com/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeffreypeltz/ Connect with Katherine Miller: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kemiller1/ https://miller-law.com/

    28 min
  8. Bonus: The Role of Parents in Teaching Money Management - Ed Vargo

    OCT 2

    Bonus: The Role of Parents in Teaching Money Management - Ed Vargo

    "If you don't know about the money, you don't have control over the money or access to the money." Ed Vargo, the founder of Burning River Advisory Group and Enlighten Her, is a fervent advocate for financial literacy, particularly focusing on empowering women. Inspired by his immigrant mother's struggles with financial independence, Ed has dedicated his career to providing compassionate financial guidance to help women achieve equality through financial strength. He emphasizes the significance of teaching financial literacy from a young age, advocating for parents to model positive financial behaviors for their children and encouraging open discussions about money within families. Vargo also highlights the impact of financial misunderstandings on relationships, especially during divorce, underscoring the importance of assembling a knowledgeable support team and fostering financial education to promote harmony and independence. Key Takeaways: ->Ed Vargo emphasizes teaching children about money management from a positive perspective and modeling good money behavior. ->Communication about money values and decisions is crucial in relationships to avoid disharmony and resentment. ->Open dialogue about money in relationships can prevent conflicts and build financial harmony. ->Educating oneself about family finances, especially during divorce, is essential to avoid being at a disadvantage. ->Enlighten Her offers resources like white papers on money myths and steps to take during divorce to empower women in managing their finances. ->Early intervention in divorce proceedings is crucial to avoid post-settlement regrets and make informed decisions. ->Enlighten Her aims to empower women to take control of their finances and make informed decisions, especially during major life events like divorce. Connect with Ed Vargo: https://www.linkedin.com/in/joe-zweben-17676434a/ https://www.instagram.com/joezweben_/ Connect with Katherine Miller: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kemiller1/ https://miller-law.com/

    38 min
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Divorce Dialogues brings experts together to talk about what works (and what doesn't) to reach a better life on the other side of divorce.

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  • Creator
    Katherine Miller
  • Years Active
    2015 - 2025
  • Episodes
    253
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