Divorced & Determined AF

Jamie Milam, Realtor® & CDS™
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The show that supports women with the information they need to know before, during and beyond divorce. Your host, Jamie Milam, is a Certified Divorce Specialist® and is determined to empower you to live the life you desire -and deserve- by helping you make informed decisions & take aligned action. Bringing you professional education, personal experiences and tangible resources you can use no matter the stage of divorce you are in. For more divorce support, visit PeaceOfMindDivorce.info To learn more about Jamie Milam, visit JamieMilam.com

  1. 05.08.2024

    79 - Navigating Property Purchases for Non-Married Couples with attorney Tiffany Byrd

    In this enlightening episode, I sit down with Tiffany Byrd, a NC & SC family law and estate attorney to discuss a topic that can significantly impact your financial security and property investment decisions, especially if you’ve gone through a divorce.  Tiffany and I dive deep into the concept of co-ownership agreements, which are crucial for protecting your hard-earned equity when purchasing a property with a partner you’re not married to. We start by exploring the reasons why such an agreement is necessary and beneficial and we'll break down the key components of a co-ownership agreement, including terms regarding the proceeds if the relationship were to end. Additionally, we discuss practical tips for bringing up the topic of a co-ownership agreement with your partner and how to navigate the potential discomfort around these conversations. The customization, flexibility and revision opportunities of these agreements make it the proactive protection tool you need if you're considering buying a home with a partner you're not married to. Tiffany's insights shed light on the importance of planning and open communication, not just for the protection of your assets but also for the health of your relationship. This episode is a must-listen for any woman considering co-owning a property post-divorce. It’s about empowering yourself with the right knowledge and tools to make confident, informed decisions. Whether you’re navigating new relationships, rebuilding your life after a divorce, or simply exploring your options, this conversation provides the guidance you need to protect your investments and secure your future. Tune in and learn how to take control of your financial and personal well-being.   For more information on the P.E.A.C.E. of Mind Initiative and to access the free resource center, please visit https://peaceofminddivorce.info    Jamie Milam is a divorcée, Realtor®, Certified Divorce Specialist®, and aligned strategy enthusiast.  CONNECT WITH JAMIE: https://JamieMilam.com  Instagram | LinkedIn   CONNECT WITH TIFFANY: http://www.modernlegalnc.com   - - -  Episode Moments: 04:57 Understanding Co-Ownership Agreements 09:40 When to Establish a Co-Ownership Agreement 15:59 Key Components of a Co-Ownership Agreement 24:56 Flexibility and Revisions in Agreements 27:36 The One Sign it May Be Time to Pause     DISCLAIMER: The commentary on this podcast is not intended to serve as or replace professional legal, financial or medical advice. While the insights may have wide applicability, listeners should consult with an attorney, CPA, financial advisor, therapist or physician in your state to obtain advice with respect to your particular issue and/or case.

    34 мин.

  2. 29.07.2024

    78 - The Unexpected Impact of Divorce on Female Entrepreneurs with Corrine Brown

    In this insightful episode, we sit down with Corinne Brown, a seasoned business owner who shares her personal story of running a business through marriage and divorce, not once, but twice. With candor and insight, Corinne shares her experiences of running a business while dealing with the personal turmoil and challenges of two divorces. There are so many unexpected feelings that surface, oftentimes leaving you questioning yourself in the aftermath of a divorce. From the financial implications to the emotional roller coaster, Corinne offers valuable lessons and advice for other women entrepreneurs facing similar situations.   Learn about the importance of legal and financial consultations, maintaining mental wellness, and balancing personal and professional life, especially when children are involved. This episode is a beacon for businesswomen navigating the complexities of divorce, offering advice and encouragement for maintaining balance between personal and professional life.   For more information on the P.E.A.C.E. of Mind Initiative and to access the free resource center, please visit https://peaceofminddivorce.info    Follow us on Instagram @divorcedanddeterminedaf for more ways to help you prepare for what's to come in the divorce journey.⁠   Jamie Milam is a divorcée, Realtor®, Certified Divorce Specialist®, and aligned strategy enthusiast.  CONNECT WITH JAMIE: https://JamieMilam.com  Instagram | LinkedIn   Corrine Brown is the founder of The Fresh Expert, Tupperware Leader, Direct Sales Expert CONNECT WITH CORRINE: Website | Instagram   - - -  Episode Moments: 04:03 Divorce and Business Challenges 10:57 Business Impact and Personal Struggles 15:15 Financial Realities of Self-Employment 20:24 Navigating Emotional Turmoil in Business 24:23 Reevaluating Priorities and Embracing Flexibility 29:01 Practical Advice for Business Owners Facing Divorce 38:10 Don't Go it Alone     DISCLAIMER: The commentary on this podcast is not intended to serve as or replace professional legal, financial or medical advice. While the insights may have wide applicability, listeners should consult with an attorney, CPA, financial advisor, therapist or physician in your state to obtain advice with respect to your particular issue and/or case.

    42 мин.

  3. 22.07.2024

    77 - Avoid Future Conflicts: The Power of Specificity in Your Divorce Agreement

    In this episode I'm diving into a topic that I wish more women knew to spend more time on in their divorce process: the importance of having a detailed and specific divorce agreement.   This crucial episode explains how clarity in your agreement can prevent future disputes, protect you legally, and provide peace of mind. I'll share practical tips and real-life examples, highlighting areas such as being specific with dates, timelines, financial details, and defining terms, to ensure your agreement is as precise as possible. Need help making sure it's drafted with that intention? Sure thing! In addition to working with an experienced professional, I'll cover a few of my top tips to make that happen such as reviewing it with a trusted source and revising it, thinking about long term scenarios and the importance of documenting everything - and what exactly that means.   Whether you're just starting the process or revisiting your agreement, this episode is packed with essential insights to help you safeguard your future.   For more information on the P.E.A.C.E. of Mind Initiative and to access the free resource center, please visit https://peaceofminddivorce.info    Follow us on Instagram @divorcedanddeterminedaf for more ways to help you prepare for what's to come in the divorce journey.⁠   Jamie Milam is a divorcée, Realtor®, Certified Divorce Specialist®, and aligned strategy enthusiast.  CONNECT WITH JAMIE: https://JamieMilam.com  Instagram | LinkedIn   - - -  Episode Moments: 03:51 Why Clarity and Precision Matter 07:59 Key Areas to Specify in Your Agreement 10:52 Financial Obligations and Asset Division 16:39 Defining Terms and Responsibilities 24:32 Legal Perspectives and Practical Tips 34:24 Safeguarding Your Future     DISCLAIMER: The commentary on this podcast is not intended to serve as or replace professional legal, financial or medical advice. While the insights may have wide applicability, listeners should consult with an attorney, CPA, financial advisor, therapist or physician in your state to obtain advice with respect to your particular issue and/or case.

    39 мин.

  4. 01.07.2024

    76 - Emotionally Charged Communication in a Divorce

    Divorce is an emotional rollercoaster and I've certainly been experiencing the turbulence while dealing with my divorce, even years after the separation. When you're riding the wave, it can be easy to respond with emotionally charged reactions, especially when it comes to communicating with your ex. However, maintaining your sense of self-control is so important, even if it's not easy.   In this episode I'm going to highlight several cues that can help you identify when you're emotionally charged and provide six practical strategies for managing your emotionally charged state so you can regain control of your responses. Join me as I navigate the complexities of post-divorce emotions and encourage you to find your own path to healing.   For more information on the P.E.A.C.E. of Mind Initiative and to access the free resource center, please visit https://peaceofminddivorce.info    Follow us on Instagram @divorcedanddeterminedaf for more ways to help you prepare for what's to come in the divorce journey.⁠   Jamie Milam is a divorcée, Realtor®, Certified Divorce Specialist®, and aligned strategy enthusiast.  CONNECT WITH JAMIE: https://JamieMilam.com  Instagram | LinkedIn  - - -  Episode Moments: 03:40 The Importance of Self-Control During Divorce 06:00 Recognizing Emotionally Charged Cues 13:37 Strategies for Maintaining Composure 18:55 Community & a Guiding Light     DISCLAIMER: The commentary on this podcast is not intended to serve as or replace professional legal, financial or medical advice. While the insights may have wide applicability, listeners should consult with an attorney, CPA, financial advisor, therapist or physician in your state to obtain advice with respect to your particular issue and/or case.

    22 мин.

  5. 03.06.2024

    75 - Supporting Your Teenager Through Divorce with Ann Coleman (pt 2)

    Getting a teen to open up isn't always the easiest, so how do we do it in this especially difficult time? How do we regulate our own emotions so that we can support them in regulating theirs? And most importantly, is it possible to actually strengthen our relationship with our teens during and after a divorce, and if so, how do we do that?   This episode continues the conversation with parents of teens educator, Ann Coleman, diving into how you can maintain and even strengthen your bond with your teenage child during this transition. Learn tips on the parenting style that fosters autonomy, empathy, and open communication. Discover how to respect their feelings and how to listen in a way that encourages them to share more. We also tackle the challenge of managing your own emotional turmoil, offering strategies for stress reduction and emotional regulation that can model resilience and emotional intelligence for your teen. Whether you're worried about rebellion, co-parenting confrontations, or simply striving to be the parent your teen needs during this time, this episode is a beacon of understanding, packed with actionable insights and compassionate advice to help you and your teen navigate this journey with grace and closer connection.   For more information on the P.E.A.C.E. of Mind Initiative and to access the free resource center, please visit https://peaceofminddivorce.info    Follow us on Instagram @divorcedanddeterminedaf for more ways to help you prepare for what's to come in the divorce journey.⁠   Jamie Milam is a divorcée, Realtor®, Certified Divorce Specialist®, and aligned strategy enthusiast.  CONNECT WITH JAMIE: https://JamieMilam.com  Instagram | LinkedIn   CONNECT WITH ANN COLEMAN: https://SpeakingOfTeens.com Browse Ann's List of Freebies Ann's Facebook     References: Emotional Agility by Susan David Episode 71   - - -  Episode Moments:   04:31 Understanding Teen Guilt and Communication Challenges 05:52 The Impact of Parenting Styles on Teen Communication 08:38 Encouraging Open Dialogue Around Co-Parenting Arrangements 15:71 The Importance of Emotional Regulation for Parents 22:59 Understanding Teen Brain Development and Reactivity 31:32 Strengthening Parent-Teen Relationships

    37 мин.

  6. 27.05.2024

    74 - Telling Your Teenager About Your Divorce with Ann Coleman (pt 1)

    It can be tempting to think of your teens as mature enough to handle more information than what you may tell the little ones, but what is actually appropriate to communicate with them when telling them about your divorce? Does that differ if you're not able to sit down with your soon to be ex and tell your teen together? Do we ask their preferences and involve them in the decision making process to the upcoming transition? What type of expectations do we set with them?   Discover expert advice on how to talk to your teens about separation, the delicate balance between sharing and withholding information and navigating decisions that need to be made post-separation that affect them. Teen parenting educator, Ann Coleman, joins us to shed some light on how you can create a supportive environment for your teen's development during these challenging times.   Whether you're in the midst of navigating parenting through a divorce or just keen on understanding the teenage brain better, this episode sheds light on creating stability, understanding, and love in the changing dynamics of a family.   For more information on the P.E.A.C.E. of Mind Initiative and to access the free resource center, please visit https://peaceofminddivorce.info    Follow us on Instagram @divorcedanddeterminedaf for more ways to help you prepare for what's to come in the divorce journey.⁠   Jamie Milam is a divorcée, Realtor®, Certified Divorce Specialist®, and aligned strategy enthusiast.  CONNECT WITH JAMIE: https://JamieMilam.com  Instagram | LinkedIn   CONNECT WITH ANN COLEMAN: https://SpeakingOfTeens.com Browse Ann's List of Freebies Ann's Facebook   - - - Episode Moments:   05:14 Giving Your Child the Best Version of You 09:19 Expert Advice on Discussing Divorce with Teenagers 13:34 Addressing Teenagers' Needs and Questions During Divorce 19:28 Decisions on Living Arrangements Post-Divorce 25:34 Separating the "Ex" from the "Parent" 29:02 Navigating Changes and Maintaining Honest Conversations with Teens

    32 мин.

  7. 20.05.2024

    73 - Financial Considerations for Women in Divorce with CDFA Jessica Garcia

    Divorce is more than just an emotional rollercoaster; it's a significant financial transition that demands careful planning and consideration. Often, the elements of finance in divorce, such as asset division, long-term impacts on finances, and considerations for future needs, are overlooked in the rush to finalize the separation.   Joined by Jessica Garcia, a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst and Divorce Coach, we dive into the intricacies of managing financial assets and liabilities during a divorce, providing insights and strategies to help you navigate these turbulent waters with greater confidence and foresight.   For more information on the P.E.A.C.E. of Mind Initiative and to access the free resource center, please visit https://peaceofminddivorce.info    Follow us on Instagram @divorcedanddeterminedaf for more ways to help you prepare for what's to come in the divorce journey.⁠   Jamie Milam is a divorcée, Realtor®, Certified Divorce Specialist®, and aligned strategy enthusiast.  CONNECT WITH JAMIE: https://JamieMilam.com  Instagram | LinkedIn   Jessica Garcia is a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst and a Certified Divorce Coach. CONNECT WITH JESSICA: http://www.brainstormingwomen.com Facebook   - - - References: Episode 55 - Navigating Mortgage Options to Keep Your Home in a Divorce   - - -  Episode Moments: 06:21 Tax Implications in Divorce 11:27 Overlooked Financial Impacts 17:52 Opportunity Costs and Decision Making in Divorce 22:45 The Importance of Proactive Planning 29:14 Creating Your Best Strategy     DISCLAIMER: The commentary on this podcast is not intended to serve as or replace professional legal, financial or medical advice. While the insights may have wide applicability, listeners should consult with an attorney, CPA, financial advisor, therapist or physician in your state to obtain advice with respect to your particular issue and/or case.

    37 мин.

  8. 13.05.2024

    72 - Understanding Marital Interest in Divorce with divorce attorney Theresa Viera

    Splitting your assets in a divorce is no fun, and for many situations it can be convoluted and confusing. There's marital property, separate property, some states have divisible property... how do you differentiate between it all?   I've asked family law attorney, Theresa Viera, to join me today and help us understand the nuances of what constitutes separate property versus marital property, and to offer specific examples to illustrate how assets like retirement accounts and homes are evaluated and divided. Learn about the impact of contributions to marital assets and how that can create a marital interest even in what you may have thought was only separate property.   For more information on the P.E.A.C.E. of Mind Initiative and to access the free resource center, please visit https://peaceofminddivorce.info    Follow us on Instagram @divorcedanddeterminedaf for more ways to help you prepare for what's to come in the divorce journey.⁠   Jamie Milam is a divorcée, Realtor®, Certified Divorce Specialist®, and aligned strategy enthusiast.  CONNECT WITH JAMIE: https://JamieMilam.com  Instagram | LinkedIn   Theresa Viera is a Family Law Attorney, Family Financial Certified Mediator, and the Founder of Modern Legal. CONNECT WITH THERESA: https://ModernLegalNC.com YouTube    - - - Episode Moments: 06:00 Understanding Community vs. Equitable Distribution States 10:31 Marital vs. Separate Property: Definitions and Examples 19:46 The Impact of Marital Contributions on Separate Property 27:00 Factors Influencing Equitable Property Division 32:08 Valuing Personal Property in Divorce 37:27 Protecting Your Interests       DISCLAIMER: The commentary on this podcast is not intended to serve as or replace professional legal, financial or medical advice. While the insights may have wide applicability, listeners should consult with an attorney, CPA, financial advisor, therapist or physician in your state to obtain advice with respect to your particular issue and/or case.

    42 мин.
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The show that supports women with the information they need to know before, during and beyond divorce. Your host, Jamie Milam, is a Certified Divorce Specialist® and is determined to empower you to live the life you desire -and deserve- by helping you make informed decisions & take aligned action. Bringing you professional education, personal experiences and tangible resources you can use no matter the stage of divorce you are in. For more divorce support, visit PeaceOfMindDivorce.info To learn more about Jamie Milam, visit JamieMilam.com

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    Jamie Milam, Realtor® & CDS™
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    2022 - 2024
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