Guest DeMarco Majors, joins DMC and Jeff for a discussion on the complexities of growing up as Black, same gender loving males. They explore themes of vulnerability, identity, and the impact of societal expectations on self-perception. They discuss early awareness of sexuality, the influence of family dynamics, and the role of cultural differences in shaping masculinity. The conversation highlights the importance of role models in the LGBTQ community and the challenges of navigating shame and performative masculinity. Through personal stories and insights, they emphasize the need for authenticity and connection to one's body and identity. In this conversation, the speakers delve into their personal experiences with family dynamics, colorism, and the journey of growing up queer. They discuss the importance of support systems, the impact of societal expectations, and the legacy they wish to leave behind. The dialogue emphasizes the need for safe spaces within the community and the significance of understanding one's identity in relationships. The term, “Same Gender Loving” was first coined by activist Cleo Manago. Read more about the significance of SGL here: https://web.archive.org/web/20131015005535/http://bmxnational.org/faqs/what-is-same-gender-loving/ _______________________________ Takeaways: Growing up gay often involves navigating shame and confusion. Early awareness of sexuality can be complex and nuanced. Cultural differences significantly impact perceptions of masculinity. Performative masculinity can be a survival mechanism. Exploring one's body and identity is essential for personal growth. Vulnerability is a strength, not a weakness. Family dynamics can shape personal choices and relationships. Support from family and friends is crucial for personal acceptance and growth. Creating safe spaces is essential for marginalized communities. It's important to acknowledge and address the struggles of others in the community. ______________________________ Listen to Our Summer 2025 Playlist: The Just Drawz Podcast Presents: Cheekz & Beatz Vol. I [Spring 2025] YouTube Music: https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLTzaf4yOmTtwLZ43_C5MK5NDZtu49A_mg&si=qclBkWFenao4M9gU Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/2dkJDkB8ekDK1Rc4s8bZtw?si=aec470a275b2490d Apple Music: https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/the-just-drawz-podcast-presents-cheekz-beatz-vol-i/pl.u-MDAWvo6uevJMem _______________________________ Guest: DeMarco: https://www.instagram.com/demajors/ Hosts: DMC: https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded/ https://x.com/DMCureton Jeff: https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/ https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/ https://bsky.app/profile/jefflevelsup.bsky.social https://www.tiktok.com/@jefflevelsup Spill - @jeffevelsup- https://spill.com/p/jefflevelsup?id=756127e9-e8f8-472f-8d94-062e3d4e9148 _______________________________ Just Drawz on Social Media: https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast/ https://x.com/TheJustDrawz https://www.tiktok.com/@thejustdrawzpodcast https://bsky.app/profile/justdrawz.bsky.social _______________________________ Edited and produced by: https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/ https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/ https://bsky.app/profile/jefflevelsup.bsky.social _______________________________ Music:"Neptunes" - by Black Assassin - https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin/ _______________________________ Keywords: Same gender loving, SGL, vulnerability, healing, self-discovery, toxic masculinity, emotional strength, mental health, LGBTQ+, black and brown men, chosen family, personal growth, masculinity, queerness, self reflections, self improvement, self love, success, influence, masculinity, vulnerability, identity, childhood, role models, shame, self-perception, cultural differences, family dynamics, colorism,, support, legacy, relationships, identity, safe spaces, personal growth, _______________________________
