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Need advice? Don’t Blame Me is here to answer your call, literally. Host Meghan Rienks and Producer/Co-Host Melisa D. Monts bring their blunt, truthful, and hilarious wisdom on topics such as sex, mental health, and relationships. Take their advice or not - you can’t blame them for screwing up your life.

Don't Blame Me‪!‬ Meghan Rienks

    • Health & Fitness
    • 4.8 • 2.9K Ratings

Need advice? Don’t Blame Me is here to answer your call, literally. Host Meghan Rienks and Producer/Co-Host Melisa D. Monts bring their blunt, truthful, and hilarious wisdom on topics such as sex, mental health, and relationships. Take their advice or not - you can’t blame them for screwing up your life.

    My Boyfriend’s Cousin is Into Me

    My Boyfriend’s Cousin is Into Me

    This week we’re sharing advice on: 

     
    Overpriced bachelorette party
    Talkative friends
    Not wanting to relocate to live with boyfriend
    Don’t Blame Them: Moving in together too soon

     

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    … with as much detail as possible under 3 minutes! WeI’ll do our best to share our wonderful words of wisdom. If you’re under 18, please get your parent’s permission. Advice is for entertainment purposes only, so you can’t blame us if we screw up your life. I kid! Our advice IS AMAZING.



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    • 51 min
    Should We Try To Be Poly?

    Should We Try To Be Poly?

    This Week We're Giving Advice On
    Update: Dating your co-worker that doesn't want the same thing you want
    Reaching out to a s****y friend you miss
    Confronting a bad friend
    Community College vs. University
    Don't Blame Them: "Virginity"

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    Domestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976  
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    … with as much detail as possible under 3 minutes! WeI’ll do our best to share our wonderful words of wisdom. If you’re under 18, please get your parent’s permission. Advice is for entertainment purposes only, so you can’t blame us if we screw up your life. I kid! Our advice IS AMAZING.



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    • 1 hr 9 min
    Fake Vaccination Card

    Fake Vaccination Card

    This week we’re sharing advice on: 

     
    Dealing with a “friend” who bought a fake vaccination card
    DBT: Party vs. Funeral
    Update: Getting dumped after you say I love you/Staying in a relationship with a lot of red flags

     

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    … with as much detail as possible under 3 minutes! WeI’ll do our best to share our wonderful words of wisdom. If you’re under 18, please get your parent’s permission. Advice is for entertainment purposes only, so you can’t blame us if we screw up your life. I kid! Our advice IS AMAZING.



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    • 1 hr 13 min
    Drag Stage Fright

    Drag Stage Fright

    This week we’re sharing advice on: 

     
    Update: Being manipulated by men
    Lying about being vaccinated
    Friend copying you
    Siblings not using correct pronouns

     

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    Domestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976  
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    … with as much detail as possible under 3 minutes! WeI’ll do our best to share our wonderful words of wisdom. If you’re under 18, please get your parent’s permission. Advice is for entertainment purposes only, so you can’t blame us if we screw up your life. I kid! Our advice IS AMAZING.



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    • 1 hr 12 min
    Dad Refuses to Get Vaccinated

    Dad Refuses to Get Vaccinated

    This week we’re sharing advice on: 

     
    Update: boyfriend couldn’t be just friends with women
    Mother-In-Law moving to the same floor as you
    Boyfriend has been hanging out with a girl that’s in love with him
    Boyfriend doesn’t want to live with you

     

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    Listen to ad-free on Stitcher Premium! For a free month of Stitcher Premium, go tostitcherpremium.com and use promo code 'BLAME.”

     
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    Need Advice? 
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    Domestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976  
    International Listeners Send a Voice Memo To: meghanpodcast@gmail.com 

     

    … with as much detail as possible under 3 minutes! WeI’ll do our best to share our wonderful words of wisdom. If you’re under 18, please get your parent’s permission. Advice is for entertainment purposes only, so you can’t blame us if we screw up your life. I kid! Our advice IS AMAZING.



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    • 1 hr 18 min
    Funeral or Birthday Party

    Funeral or Birthday Party

    This week we’re sharing advice on: 

     
    Update: slept with lawyer’s ex-husband
    When to lose your virginity
    How to ask your husband to get a vasectomy
    Dealing with parental lying
    Don’t Blame Them: 

     

    Call Transcriptions

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    Listen to ad-free on Stitcher Premium! For a free month of Stitcher Premium, go tostitcherpremium.com and use promo code 'BLAME.”

     
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    Need Advice? 
    www.dontblameme.show 
    Domestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976  
    International Listeners Send a Voice Memo To: meghanpodcast@gmail.com 

     

    … with as much detail as possible under 3 minutes! WeI’ll do our best to share our wonderful words of wisdom. If you’re under 18, please get your parent’s permission. Advice is for entertainment purposes only, so you can’t blame us if we screw up your life. I kid! Our advice IS AMAZING.



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    • 1 hr 6 min

Customer Reviews

4.8 out of 5
2.9K Ratings

2.9K Ratings

camnbeck ,

Love You Guys!!!

hello m&m!! i started watching meghan way back in the day (probably 7th grade) & now i am 20 and still follow this podcast religiously. i joined the fb group over a year ago as well. this podcast has become a community. i have met people from my university and city though the facebook and i actually deleted my snapchat because of a recent podcast (aka their opinions mean a lot to me haha). i HIGHLY suggest giving this podcast a listen, as it has become a huge part of my life & the community has been a really positive force in my life.❤️ Meghan and Melissa are so delightfully honest and i feel like their have everyones best interests in mind.

heykelseylove ,

Too political / bullies

I listened from the first episode and I really enjoyed it for awhile. It was funny and interesting. However, the complete discrimination and extreme hate you have for anyone who has opposing ideas and views from yourself is unbelievable. Especially for two people who claim to be so “inclusive” and “open minded.” You absolutely are not and the way you speak about how you would “respond” to people who don’t have the same extremist views as you, makes you a bully and you probably shouldn’t be giving advice. Disappointed, because I used to really enjoy the show.

generic nickname3 ,

Declining Quality of Advice

I used to listen, but the responses have definitely felt more mean-spirited behind the guise of “lol we’re just being REAL!” And on top of that, it’s bad advice that enables poor behavior. It’s disappointing to listen to.

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