DOTTIE's House by Arvia Few

Arvia Few
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Welcome to DOTTIE’s House! DOTTIE’s founder, Arvia Few, has been building a community of Black, talented, young, ambitious individuals with an appreciation for cultural connection both socially and romantically. Our mission is to accelerate meaningful relationships with the ultimate goal of creating more Black families, marriages, and opportunities for wealth creation. The pandemic, online dating apps rooted in bias, and evolving cultural norms have only amplified the challenges, but we are committed to reversing the trend. With host Arvia Few, you will hear real, juicy, and vulnerable conversations around love, dating, and marriage in our community. It’s going to be a situation! We hope you’ll join us.

  1. 11/07/2025

    From Spelman & Morehouse to Marriage: How Therapy Transformed Their Relationship

    In this heartwarming episode of DOTTIE’s House, Arvia sits down with newlyweds Sydney and Phil Edwards, a couple whose love story began on the campuses of Spelman College and Morehouse College. From freshman year to forever, their journey is a testament to patience, growth, and choosing each other through every season of life. Both Los Angeles natives, Sydney and Phil started dating as college freshmen and have been together ever since, navigating long-distance seasons, personal growth, and the challenges that come with maturing alongside your partner. Now, at just 27, they’re newly married and more in love than ever. One of the most powerful parts of their story centers on communication. Phil opens up about his journey to therapy, learning how to express his emotions instead of holding them in, and how that shift transformed their relationship. Sydney shares how important it was for her to wait until he was ready, emotionally and communicatively, before taking the next step toward marriage. Together, they unpack what it means to grow with someone, not for someone. This conversation is an honest reminder that love isn’t just about chemistry, it’s about emotional maturity, communication, and the willingness to evolve. Memorable quote: “I had to learn that being vulnerable doesn’t make me weak, it makes me available. Once I started communicating, our relationship flourished.” — Phil Edwards

    1h 5m

  2. 10/24/2025

    A DM Turned into Forever: Samantha and Durelle Bailey on Love, Faith & Building Together

    From Different Worlds to One Love: Samantha & Durelle Bailey Samantha and Durelle Bailey’s love story began in an unexpected place, Instagram DMs long before it was the norm. She was raised in Nova Scotia in a loving, two-parent home; he grew up in Florida facing instability and hardship. But Samantha saw Durelle’s potential, not his past and that changed everything. From her family flying him in for Christmas to building a thriving life together, their journey is a powerful reminder that love and belief can rewrite any story. Now married eight years, the Baileys are successful influencers, proud homeowners, and living proof of what it means to grow together with intention. 🎧 Tune in to hear how they built a partnership grounded in empathy, faith, and possibility.

    1h 43m

  3. 10/11/2025

    When Life Gets Hard: A Glimpse into Arvia and Jason Few's Journey

    In this deeply personal solo episode, Arvia opens up about the moments that shaped her marriage, her resilience, and her gratitude for partnership. Just one year into marriage and pregnant with her daughter, Bradlee, Arvia’s father came to live with her and Jason after being diagnosed with lung cancer and given only six months to live. He went on to live for sixteen months, a season that was both challenging and profoundly transformative. Years later, Arvia faced her own diagnosis: breast cancer at 40. She shares the journey of undergoing a double mastectomy, the strength it demanded, and the unwavering support she received from Jason every step of the way. This episode is a reminder that life will test us in ways we can’t predict, but having a partner who stands by your side through it all is a true blessing. Arvia’s story is a powerful testament to love, endurance, and the beauty of choosing someone who chooses you back when life gets hard.

    17 min

  4. 09/26/2025

    Exclusive: Inside the Marriage of Gena and Mathew Knowles: Love, Loss, and Resilience

    In this deeply moving conversation, Gena and Mathew Knowles open up about their 12-year marriage, a relationship built on love, resilience, and intentional growth. Gena and Mathew met in Houston, where their journey began. Over the past 12 years, their marriage has blossomed into a beautiful partnership grounded in mutual respect and commitment. Their marriage has been tested in profound ways. Six months after Gena’s sister passed away from breast cancer at just 48 years old, Mathew was diagnosed with male breast cancer and underwent a mastectomy. The experience forced him to confront his own mortality and the emotions he had long avoided. When the COVID-19 pandemic hit, Mathew’s fear of getting sick resurfaced and added strain to their marriage. He shared how this period led him back to his male therapist, helping him process grief and fear in a healthy way. Gena and Mathew both emphasize the importance of mental health, sharing that they each had therapy and even went through marriage counseling before they got married — a decision they credit with laying a strong foundation for their relationship. Today, Gena and Mathew split their time between California and Houston, prioritizing quality time together and intentionally nurturing their marriage. They discuss what keeps their love alive and how they create space for each other’s personal growth while staying deeply connected. Despite Mathew’s public connection as the father of Beyoncé and Solange, Gena is clear that their marriage stands on its own. She shares that Beyoncé and Solange have always been lovely to her, but their lives are focused on building their own path as a couple, one that is rooted in love, not celebrity. Why You Should Listen This episode is a raw and inspiring look at love, resilience, and emotional growth. Gena and Mathew’s story is a reminder that challenges, from grief to health scares, can become opportunities for deeper intimacy and stronger connection when faced with honesty, faith, and commitment.

    1h 3m

  5. 09/13/2025

    Marriage, Movies, and Martha's Vineyard: The Stephanie and Floyd Rance Story

    In this inspiring and transparent episode of DOTTIE’s House Podcast, I sit down with Stephanie and Floyd Rance, the powerhouse couple behind the iconic Run&Shoot Filmworks Martha’s Vineyard African American Film Festival (MVAAFF). Married for 28 years, Stephanie and Floyd open up about the highs and lows of growing a business together, raising two children (a Morehouse Man and a current Howard University student), and turning a side hustle into a cultural institution that now attracts thousands of visitors, and boosts Vineyard tourism by nearly 40% every summer. This isn’t just a story about a festival; it’s about partnership, perseverance, and what it really takes to thrive in marriage while building something that matters. What You’ll Hear in This Episode: • The Origin Story: How MVAAFF started as a small side project and the moment they knew it was going to be big. • The Celebrity Factor: Spike Lee, Michael B. Jordan, Tracee Ellis Ross, Mara Brock Akil, and so many more who have graced their stage. • Entrepreneurship & Marriage: The good, bad, and ugly of running a business with your spouse and the practices that have kept them together for nearly three decades. • Tourism Game-Changer: How their festival transformed Martha’s Vineyard into a destination for film lovers and boosted the local economy.

    53 min

  6. 08/30/2025

    Life on the Road: Love, Second Chances, and 365 Days in an RV with Lisa & Marty Middleton

    What happens when you give love a second chance, leave behind the traditional lifestyle, and choose to live life fully on the road? In this episode, Arvia sits down, quite literally at her kitchen island, with Lisa and Marty Middleton for one of the most raw, open, and authentic conversations of the season. Lisa and Marty are both on their second marriage and have been married for four years. Their story began decades ago at Howard University, when Marty was a freshman and Lisa a senior. They dated briefly, went their separate ways, married and divorced other people, and later reconnected during COVID. With the world on pause, Marty reached out and what began as reconnection turned into courtship, marriage, and a whole new adventure. They’ve traded in the traditional house for a home on wheels. Living full-time in their RV, they travel the country 365 days a year, visiting friends, fishing, exploring, and soaking in every moment. Though they own land in Georgia (where they built a small shed “home base” with two big chairs, a TV, and a table but no running water), their true home is wherever the road takes them. Marty even left his career behind to join Lisa on this journey, proving that love and partnership often mean choosing each other over convention. This 25-minute, unplanned conversation, recorded around Arvia’s phone in her kitchen while the couple stopped overnight on their way to Martha’s Vineyard, captures the beauty of second chances, the courage to live differently, and the power of authentic connection. 🌟 What You’ll Hear in This Episode:     •    The story of how Lisa and Marty met at Howard and reconnected decades later.     •    Why they chose to live full-time in an RV and how they make it work.     •    The sacrifices and joys of leaving a career to choose love.     •    What their “home base” in Georgia looks like—and why they rarely use it.     •    The lessons they’ve learned about partnership, freedom, and living life on their own terms. This is a reminder that love doesn’t have to follow a script. It can show up later in life, take you across the country, and invite you to write a whole new story.

    30 min

  7. 08/19/2025

    The Power of Communication: Jennifer & Sekou Kaalund’s Story of Lasting Love

    In this episode of DOTTIE’s House, we sit down with Jennifer and Sekou Kaalund, who met in high school, started dating in college, and have built nearly 25 years of marriage rooted in communication and friendship. Jennifer, a Ph.D. and professor of religious studies, was the primary breadwinner early on, while Sekou began a career that would take him from J.P. Morgan , where he founded Black Pathways , to his current role as an executive at U.S. Bank. A pivotal turning point came in graduate school, when they both won a national competition and gained access to the Executive Leadership Council (ELC). The exposure to mentors and executives shaped not only their careers but also their vision for family and legacy. As Sekou says, “It’s hard to be what you cannot see,” and those examples expanded his sense of what was possible. With three children , a son at Morehouse College and two daughters one in high school and one middle school, the Kaalund’s share how family retreats, intentional communication (they’ve never gone a single day without talking since they began dating), and the guidance of mentors have grounded their marriage and elevated their impact. Their story is a testament to how love, mentorship, and intentionality can shape not only a marriage, but a legacy for generations.

    1h 6m

  8. 08/02/2025

    Love, Legacy, & Leveling Up: Inside Danielle & Ryan WIlliams' Power Partnership

    In this inspiring episode, Arvia welcomes Danielle and Ryan Williams, a true power couple making waves in both business and life. Married nearly five years, Danielle and Ryan share a unique journey that began as summer interns in New York City, blossomed through their time at Yale and Harvard, and flourished professionally as they both landed spots on the prestigious Forbes 30 Under 30 list, simultaneously while dating! Danielle, a Yale graduate, serves as a Director at Annaly Capital, excelling in the demanding world of finance. Ryan, a Harvard alumnus, has already left a remarkable entrepreneurial legacy. He founded Cadre, a highly successful real estate investment firm, which he has since sold, and is now passionately building his next entrepreneurial venture, already backed by first-round funding. Together, they’re navigating life as parents to two young children, ages one and three, while balancing thriving careers. Tune in as Danielle and Ryan reveal how they manage marriage, parenthood, and professional success, sharing invaluable insights into building a meaningful legacy, nurturing partnership, and supporting each other’s dreams. Highlights:     •    How Danielle and Ryan’s internship romance evolved into a powerhouse partnership.     •    Making history together on Forbes 30 Under 30.     •    Balancing family life with demanding careers in finance and entrepreneurship.     •    Ryan’s journey from founding Cadre to launching his next venture.     •    Danielle’s perspective on achieving professional excellence while nurturing a family. Don’t miss this captivating conversation filled with lessons on love, ambition, and creating an impactful life together!

    1h 22m
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Welcome to DOTTIE’s House! DOTTIE’s founder, Arvia Few, has been building a community of Black, talented, young, ambitious individuals with an appreciation for cultural connection both socially and romantically. Our mission is to accelerate meaningful relationships with the ultimate goal of creating more Black families, marriages, and opportunities for wealth creation. The pandemic, online dating apps rooted in bias, and evolving cultural norms have only amplified the challenges, but we are committed to reversing the trend. With host Arvia Few, you will hear real, juicy, and vulnerable conversations around love, dating, and marriage in our community. It’s going to be a situation! We hope you’ll join us.

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  • Creator
    Arvia Few
  • Years Active
    2022 - 2025
  • Episodes
    17
  • Rating
    Clean
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