Dr. G Speaks

Dr. G
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Do you feel held back? Do you feel stuck? Do you feel as though you are going through the motions? Welcome to Dr. G Speaks, where we explore the powerful intersection of freedom, faith, and fun! Join Dr. G as she reminds you to know there’s more to life. Each episode dives into topics like leaning into ease, releasing what no longer serves you, and the transformative power of trust and surrender to the Lord. Discover the possibilities you never knew existed and learn how to embrace the life you truly deserve. As the author of Look Stop Hiding: How to Find Your Voice and Never Dim Your Light Again, Dr. G wants you to know that it's time to stop hiding and start thriving—together, we’ll uncover your potential and ignite your journey to a life of freedom, faith and fun. Let's get it!  Connect with dr. G: Web: https://www.kristenguillory.com/IG: https://www.instagram.com/drkristenguillory/

  1. 2d ago

    57 | Choosing Better: The Power to Say Absolutely Not to Disrespect

    Have you ever questioned if what you’ve been tolerating was actually meant to be your standard? In this episode, I share the shock and soul-searching that happened when women at my retreat reacted so strongly to my stories of being treated with respect. Is real kindness between women and men truly rare, or have we simply gotten used to calling disrespect normal? I talk about the moments I drew a hard line with friends, family, and even romantic partners, and what I wish every woman knew about their choices. If you’ve ever felt stuck between accepting “breadcrumbs” and demanding more, you need to hear this. Topics Discussed: Why my “mountaintop” of respect was actually my norm and why that shocked other womenThe powerful role self-worth plays (and doesn’t play) in the choices others makeBoundary-setting, even with family members, including my fatherThe importance of realizing respect isn’t a ceiling, it’s the floorUnderstanding that you are never at fault for someone else’s abuse or crueltyEncouragement for women who never knew another way was possibleYou don’t have to accept disrespect as your norm. Maybe no one has shown you another way, but your story doesn’t end there. Keep asking what you truly deserve and believe that respect is only the beginning. Resources Mentioned: Jennifer Lewis, The Mother of Black Hollywood  This week's affirmation: “I am allowed to name what I experience. I am allowed to expect respect. I am allowed to choose differently. And I am not bound to what I once thought was normal. I am a queen who is worthy of everything.” Connect with Dr. G: WebsiteInstagramYoutubeFacebookX (Twitter)

  2. Jun 25

    56 | Stop Stalling: How to Show Up in the Best Way, Even When It's Not Your Preferred Way

    Have you ever given up on something completely just because you couldn’t do it exactly how you planned? In this episode, I ask: What if the way you wanted things to happen is actually limiting what’s possible for you right now? I share real moments from my own life, group coaching, and even missed meetings, how waiting for perfect timing almost kept me from moving forward, and how changing my mindset opened up everything. If you’ve ever thought, “If I can’t do it my way, I might as well not do it at all,” this conversation is for you. There are ways to show up that you haven’t considered, and one shift can break years of waiting. Topics Discussed: The danger of turning preferences into requirements (and how it keeps us stuck)How to make progress when you only have a fraction of the time or energy you plannedThe silent impact of shame, frustration, and all-or-nothing thinking on your confidenceSpecific stories: missed workouts, dissertation deadlines, and rescheduled meetingsInviting God into imperfect plans and discovering new ways to move forwardReframing disappointment into faithful participation, not perfectionActionable reflection questions to reset your outlook in work, relationships, spiritual life, and moreRemember: Progress doesn’t depend on perfect circumstances, but on your willingness to participate with what you have. This week's affirmation: "I release my attachment to how things should happen and remain open to what is still possible. I honor progress, trust God's timing, and move forward with what I have." Connect with Dr. G: WebsiteInstagramYoutubeFacebookX (Twitter)

    56 | Stop Stalling: How to Show Up in the Best Way, Even When It's Not Your Preferred Way

  3. Jun 19

    55 | Feel your Feelings All the Way Through: A Secret Weapon to Emotional Freedom and Capacity

    Have you ever asked yourself why certain feelings never seem to leave, no matter how much time passes? n this episode, I share what really happens when we ignore or downplay our emotions, even the seemingly small ones, and why true strength lies in honestly facing what’s inside. What if the frustration you feel, the sadness you’ve shelved, or the anger you’ve denied are quietly showing up in your body and your life in ways you never expected? I’ll reveal why emotional processing is more than self-care, it’s a necessary choice for healing, spiritual wellness, and real peace. If you’ve ever told yourself, “It’s not a big deal,” this conversation is for you. Topics Discussed: Why processing emotions is a non-negotiable for personal and spiritual healthThe myth that time heals all wounds and what actually doesReal-life examples of suppressed feelings showing up as anxiety, irritability, or numbnessPermission to feel even when others “have it worse” or when you think you “shouldn’t” be upsetThe difference between emotional processing and acting on every feelingIntegrating faith and feelings without pretending, spiritualizing, or faking itPractical steps to identify, feel, and release emotions safely (even if it’s been years)Lessons from David in the Psalms on radical honesty with God Every feeling, whether acknowledged or not, has an impact emotionally, physically, and spiritually. Processing your feelings is a life skill that makes room for peace, presence, and possibility.    This week's affirmation: "I give myself permission to feel what I feel without judgment. My feelings are information, not my identity. As I process honestly, I make room for peace. Feeling isn't weakness. Feeling isn't lack of faith. Feeling isn't losing control. Sometimes the strongest thing you can do is stop arguing with your emotions long enough to listen to what they're trying to tell you, feel it, bring it to God and keep moving." Connect with Dr. G: WebsiteInstagramYoutubeFacebookX (Twitter)

    55 | Feel your Feelings All the Way Through: A Secret Weapon to Emotional Freedom and Capacity

  4. Jun 1

    54 | Radical Honesty: An Unexpected Conversation with my Cousin

    Have you ever caught yourself making excuses, minimizing your pain, or waiting around for someone else to change? In this episode, I ask: What if the thing actually holding you back isn’t your past, but your lack of radical honesty about it? I'm sharing lessons from the unexpected call from my cousin - a conversation that moved me to tears and left me with pages of notes, new questions, and a different way to see healing. If you’ve struggled with owning your wounds, waiting on others, or performing for approval, this episode will challenge you to stop stalling and start living from a real, radically honest place. Topics Covered: The difference between being flawed and pretending to be perfectCommon ways people avoid difficult truths and why they never workWhy “radical honesty” is more powerful than doing more, achieving, or outrunning your woundMoving beyond childhood trauma: living with the scar, not the woundHealthy accountability: why telling someone “don’t do that” rarely helpsWhat happens when you let others set the speed of your healing and how to take it backFive life-changing homework questions for self-reflection and growthEvery answer you’re looking for begins with your willingness to be honest, even if it hurts. That’s where freedom starts. This week's affirmation: "I have the courage to look at myself honestly. I'm not perfect and I don't need to pretend to be. I own my shortcomings, I face my wounds, I acknowledge my mistakes, and I move forward without hesitation and without stalling. Honesty with myself is an act of love for myself." Connect with Dr. G: WebsiteInstagramYoutubeFacebookX (Twitter)

    54 | Radical Honesty: An Unexpected Conversation with my Cousin

  5. May 25

    53 | You Can't Outlove Someone's Wound (And What Actually Works)

    Have you ever wondered why, no matter how hard you love, support, or give, some people don’t change, heal, or take the steps you wish they would? In this episode, I get personal about a lesson I learned the hard way: you can’t out-love someone’s wounds or their free will. I open up about my own battles with “savior complex,” the exhaustion that comes from trying to fix or rescue others, and what happened when I finally let go. If you’ve ever found yourself heartbroken, frustrated, or burned out because someone you care for won’t help themselves, this conversation is for you. There’s a freedom on the other side that you might not know exists, yet. Topics Discussed: The difference between carrying someone’s burden and carrying their personal load How “savior complex” sneaks into relationships, coaching, and even friendshipsWhy exhaustion is a sign you’re trying to do God’s job Setting boundaries with those who refuse to help themselves Practical examples of how to support without enabling, from romantic partners to clients and friends Learning to trust God’s timing and release responsibility for others’ choices Actionable reflection questions to help you step into more freedom Let go of what isn’t yours to carry, and watch the freedom and lightness return. Sometimes, the most loving thing you can do is step back and trust that God can reach them when you can’t. You don’t have to be the healer, you just have to be honest, supportive, and obedient to your own journey.  This week's affirmations: "I can love deeply without carrying what belongs to someone else. " "I trust God's ability to reach people more than my ability to rescue them." Connect with Dr. G: WebsiteInstagramYoutubeFacebookX (Twitter)

    53 | You Can't Outlove Someone's Wound (And What Actually Works)

  6. Mar 30

    52 | The Audacity of Living Single: Whole, Free, and Unapologetic

    Have you ever questioned if your singleness is actually a blessing, not a holding pattern or waiting room? In this episode, I ask: What would it look like for you to drop every expectation, formula, and pressure from society and simply show up boldly, freely, and completely as yourself? I share unusually specific ways I’ve learned to reject toxic advice, heal after heartbreak, redefine dating, and embrace authentic friendships (instead of waiting for “the one” or feeling less-than). If you’re tired of timelines or feeling “behind,” you’ll want every minute of this conversation. I challenge you to rethink everything you’ve believed about love, joy, and worth. Topics Discussed: Why “single season” language implants harmful deadlines and how to reject itDistinguishing personal vs. societal, family, or church-driven desires for partnershipBiblical wisdom on worth, identity, and wholeness regardless of relationship statusPermission to say “no,” set boundaries, and honor authentic healing after breakupsAudacious alternatives to traditional dating formulas and relational expectationsPractical steps to celebrate victories, cultivate friendships, and expect joy nowRejecting codependency, pressure, and settling - living bold, grateful, and freeYou are not less, not missing half, not behind. You have the audacity to live, heal, and experience joy today, on your terms, with God, free from pressure. This week's affirmations: "I have the audacity to live fully, love myself, trust God, and embrace joy. I am complete, whole, and free, and I will live boldly in every area of my life." Connect with Dr. G: WebsiteInstagramYoutubeFacebookX (Twitter)

  7. Mar 23

    51 | Audacity: Bold, Unapologetic Living

    What if the secret to freedom wasn’t working harder, but refusing to accept rules that never belonged to you in the first place? In this episode, I ask: Where would you be if you had the audacity to trust yourself more than anyone’s expectations? Bold moments and unapologetic action from my own life and the lives of relatives, clients, and history-makers changed everything. From saying no to burnout and setting unexpected boundaries, to building a life more like a vacation, this episode gives you permission to let your audacity lead. There are parts you won’t see coming. Topics Discussed: What audacity really meansHow historical and everyday figures used audacity to defy limitsThe importance of setting standards (even when others tell you to lower them)Building a life that serves mental health, joy, and wholenessThe importance of saying “no,” setting boundaries, choosing rest over hustle, never shrinking to fit into spaces you’ve outgrown, or scheduling around what you loveYour audacity is uniquely yours, don’t shrink. Choose bold, unapologetic action over fear or expectations, starting today. This week's affirmations: "I trust what God placed in me more than I fear how others will respond." "I no longer shrink to fit spaces and frameworks I’ve outgrown or was never meant to fit. I expand and let the room adjust." Connect with Dr. G: WebsiteInstagramYoutubeFacebookX (Twitter)

  8. Mar 11

    50 | When Sorry Is Hard: Navigating Difficult Apologies and True Forgiveness

    Have you ever wondered why saying “I’m sorry” can feel more terrifying than any other two words in the English language? In this episode, I share three moments that pushed me to apologize, even when I thought I wasn’t the one at fault. I talk about the uncomfortable truth behind apologies that actually repair relationships, what keeps us from saying the words, and how grace, humility, and honesty become your greatest tools. If you’re stuck holding onto hurt, wondering how to move forward, or just need a script for that apology you’ve been dreading, this is your moment. Topics Discussed: What to do when you feel convicted to apologize to someone who hurt youCommon reasons most people struggle with apologizing How to accept apologies while enforcing boundariesPersonal stories of apologies that brought healing, confusion, and closureThe 5 essential components of a REAL apology and what to avoidPractical tips to build humility, courage, and repair relationships even after years have passedIf there’s someone on your mind as you read this, it’s not too late. The impact of a genuine apology can reach deeper than you think, even if the other person doesn’t accept it. Choose courage, choose humility, and let your words and actions align. Resources Mentioned: James 5:16: Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed.Ephesians 4:32: Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.This week's affirmation: "I extend the same grace to others that I hope to receive. When I apologize, I do so fully - no buts, no excuses, just truth. My words and my actions align. I am growing in humility and courage every day.” Connect with Dr. G: WebsiteInstagramYoutubeFacebookX (Twitter)

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Do you feel held back? Do you feel stuck? Do you feel as though you are going through the motions? Welcome to Dr. G Speaks, where we explore the powerful intersection of freedom, faith, and fun! Join Dr. G as she reminds you to know there’s more to life. Each episode dives into topics like leaning into ease, releasing what no longer serves you, and the transformative power of trust and surrender to the Lord. Discover the possibilities you never knew existed and learn how to embrace the life you truly deserve. As the author of Look Stop Hiding: How to Find Your Voice and Never Dim Your Light Again, Dr. G wants you to know that it's time to stop hiding and start thriving—together, we’ll uncover your potential and ignite your journey to a life of freedom, faith and fun. Let's get it!  Connect with dr. G: Web: https://www.kristenguillory.com/IG: https://www.instagram.com/drkristenguillory/

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  • Creator
    Dr. G
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2026
  • Episodes
    58
  • Rating
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    © 2026 Dr. G Speaks
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