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Negative Core Beliefs: Are You Still Crying About The Lies?

That under gratitude. What's really under it and why people look so important is because it makes people feel seen. They're okay. Mirroring childhood wounds. Okay, So a little bit of a blurb. So in an ideal world, we want Thanksgiving to represent family and unity. Our world is not ideal. So we have to come with our best game of life and concentrate on the synergy between people at the dinner table.
Boundaries and rules help because they fortify the necessary elements to keep the light in the room. And self-preservation. And self-preservation. Please remember that Thanksgiving is not a time to confront people and to to do therapy. It's not a therapeutic setting. Yeah. Thanksgiving is not a therapeutic setting. Happy Thanksgiving, everyone. And please use Thanksgiving as an opportunity to be grateful.

Male children who were abandoned by their mothers grow up. There is a dread that history will repeat itself. The closer they get in relationships, the closer the dread is. And as as this dread creeps up on them, they may start backpedaling out of the relationship, leaving their partner bewildered as to what happened. So what happened is, as they got closer, the fear kicked in.

And since the mothers and the parents set the bar on how things will be, they felt that instead of getting closer and closer and more secure, that they were marching toward this abandonment. So to prevent catastrophe, they turn 180 degrees and abandon before they can be abandoned. Please work out your childhood wounds so that you don't visit upon the relationship.

Take inventory of your partner's childhood wounds and make sure that they've worked on them so that you don't end up with somebody that's going to act out on you emotionally.

No Trust...No Relationship

Synergistic relationships can only be possible when we do our own healing. Okay? When we do meet another like minded person who is also interested in adding value to a relationship, then you are fortunate and blessed to have yourself a growth partner. Synergy is growth. Synergy is a true connection. It's fun, it's creative and it creates a true partnership.

In our divided world world, our last battle is within the fight to become more humane. The only, quote, cure to mass disconnection is human connection. Join the human race. Healing Global disconnect. And please heal individually through our healing from narcissistic abuse. Webinar starting November 4th with Christiana Davidson so that we can heal globally.