The Centered Midlife: Reclaiming Our Worth From The Inside Out

Dr. Natalie Marr, Clinical Psychologist and Midlife Expert
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For too long, women in midlife have been the shock absorbers for their families and careers, leaving themselves last on the list. But what if the "Crisis" is actually an invitation? Join Clinical Psychologist Dr. Natalie as she helps you navigate the midlife transition with humor, heart, and science to help you shift from external validation to internal peace. The Centered Midlife is your weekly guide to unlearning the "shoulds," healing perfectionism, and reclaiming your worth. You don’t need to fix yourself; you just need to find yourself again.

  1. May 22

    The Exhausting Lie that Perfectionism Sold You

    Summary: This episode explores the impact of perfectionism, societal conditioning, and hormonal changes during midlife on women's mental health. Dr. Natalie shares data, personal insights, and practical advice to help women love themselves and navigate this transformative phase with resilience. Keywords: midlife, women, perfectionism, mental health, hormonal changes, self-love, resilience, menopause, societal conditioning Key topics: ​Perfectionism and its impact on mental health​The connection between hormonal changes and emotional well-being​Societal conditioning and self-betrayal in women​Practical steps to cultivate self-love and resilience Sound bites: "Relearn who you are and what you want." "Deserving love even when you screw up." "You do not have to be good." Chapters: 00:00 The Burden of Perfectionism in Midlife 03:24 Understanding the Mental Health Crisis for Women 11:29 The Impact of Hormonal Changes and Medical Misunderstandings 28:13 Reclaiming Self-Worth and Breaking Free from Perfectionism 36:18 Introduction and Disclaimer 37:55 Crisis Resources and Support Resources & Links to Connect with Dr. Natalie: Learn to Love Your Story Coaching- ⁠https://learntoloveyourstory.com⁠ Dr. Natalie’s Counseling Practice - ⁠https://nataliemarcounseling.com⁠ If you are in MN, book your free 15-minute consultation with Dr. Natalie. Facebook:⁠ ⁠⁠facebook.com/learntoloveyourstory⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram:⁠⁠⁠⁠ instagram.com/dr.nataliemarr⁠⁠⁠⁠Linked In:⁠ ⁠⁠⁠linkedin.com/in/natalie-m-marr-psy-d-lp-6a9298147⁠⁠⁠⁠Tik Tok:⁠⁠ ⁠⁠tiktok.com/@doc.natalie⁠⁠⁠⁠ Resources: Mary Oliver's Wild Geese Poem - https://www.poetryfoundation.org/poems/45587/wild-geese Women's Health Initiative Study - https://www.nih.gov/news-events/nih-research-matters/women-s-health-initiative Understanding Perfectionism in Women - https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-moment-youth/201911/the-perfectionism-epidemic Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT) Information - https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/menopause/in-depth/hormone-therapy/art-20046372 Disclaimer: The content in this podcast and video is not a replacement for therapy and is not clinical, medical, or mental health treatment. Dr. Natalie Marr is a Licensed Psychologist in the state of Minnesota. Her work with Learn To Love Your Story coaching ⁠⁠(⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://LearnToLoveYourStory.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠)⁠ and her private practice ⁠(⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://NatalieMarrCounseling.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠),⁠ and all affiliate social media entities are educational ONLY. She IS NOT offering therapeutic or coaching services of any kind on these mediums. If you or someone you know is having a mental health crisis or having thoughts of suicide, please use the following crisis resources (this is not an exhaustive list of available resources): National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org⁠/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠CALL 988 Crisis Text Line: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.crisistextline.org/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Text HOME to 741741

    38 min

  2. May 7

    Why You Keep Attracting the Same Kind of Relationship (And What to Actually Do About It)

    Episode Summary: Dr. Natalie explores the psychological and physical factors contributing to the rising divorce rates among women in midlife, emphasizing patterns of behavior, stress, and self-awareness. She offers insights into how women can recognize and shift these patterns to improve their relationships and well-being. Keywords: midlife, divorce, women, psychology, self-awareness, patterns, stress, relationships, mental health, self-care Key topics: Statistics on midlife divorce ratesPsychological patterns in women’s relationshipsImpact of hormones and stress on midlife women Sound bites: "The average age of divorce is 45." "Women initiate 66% of divorces." "People pleasing patterns are deeply ingrained." Chapters: 00:00 Understanding Divorce Statistics and Trends 03:23 Psychological Patterns in Midlife Women 16:07 Breaking the Cycle of People-Pleasing 27:47 Empowering Women to Embrace Change Resources & Links to Connect with Dr. Natalie: Learn to Love Your Story Course - https://learntoloveyourstory.comDr. Natalie’s Counseling Practice - https://nataliemarcounseling.com If you are in MN, book your free 15-minute consultation with Dr. Natalie. Facebook: ⁠⁠facebook.com/learntoloveyourstory⁠⁠⁠Instagram:⁠⁠⁠ instagram.com/dr.nataliemarr⁠⁠⁠Linked In: ⁠⁠⁠linkedin.com/in/natalie-m-marr-psy-d-lp-6a9298147⁠⁠⁠Tik Tok:⁠ ⁠⁠tiktok.com/@doc.natalie⁠⁠⁠DISCLAIMER: The content in this podcast and video is not a replacement for therapy and is not clinical, medical, or mental health treatment. Dr. Natalie Marr is a Licensed Psychologist in the state of Minnesota. Her work with ⁠⁠(⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://LearnToLoveYourStory.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠)⁠, ⁠(⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://NatalieMarrCounseling.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠),⁠ and all affiliate social media entities is educational and coaching based ONLY. She IS NOT offering therapeutic services of any kind on these mediums. If you or someone you know is having a mental health crisis or having thoughts of suicide, please use the following crisis resources (this is not an exhaustive list of available resources):National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org⁠/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠CALL 988Crisis Text Line: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.crisistextline.org/⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Text HOME to 741741

    39 min

  3. Apr 22

    Understanding Trauma Beyond the Bad Things - A Midlife Lesson

    Summary: Dr. Natalie explores the impact of childhood trauma, emotional health, and resilience in midlife. She emphasizes the importance of showing up for oneself, understanding trauma beyond the obvious, and building internal resources for a centered midlife. Keywords: trauma, midlife, emotional health, resilience, childhood experiences, self-worth, connection, coping strategies Key Topics: Trauma and childhood experiencesThe impact of emotional health in midlifeStrategies for showing up and building resilience Takeaways: Trauma is not just what happens to us but whether we have resources to manage it.Showing up for yourself daily is crucial for growth in midlife.Connection and empathy are powerful tools for managing emotional distress.Understanding your childhood experiences can inform your midlife health.Self-compassion and small steps are key to navigating midlife challenges. Sound bites: "Being an outsider in childhood can be traumatic" "Trauma impacts hormones and physical health" "Good days in midlife are moments to cherish" Chapters: 00:00 Embracing Midlife Challenges 10:30 The Role of Connection in Healing 18:58 Strategies for Navigating Midlife 21:12 Introduction and Disclaimer 22:49 Crisis Resources and Support Resources: Center for the Study of Trauma and Resilience - https://traumaresilience.org/Attachment Theory by John Bowlby - https://www.amazon.com/Attachment-Theory-John-Bowlby/dp/0465026504Therapy for Trauma and Emotional Health - https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapistsResources & Links to Connect with Dr. Natalie:Website:⁠ ⁠⁠⁠https://LearnToLoveYourStory.com⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook: ⁠⁠facebook.com/learntoloveyourstory⁠⁠⁠Instagram:⁠⁠⁠ instagram.com/dr.nataliemarr⁠⁠⁠Linked In: ⁠⁠⁠linkedin.com/in/natalie-m-marr-psy-d-lp-6a9298147⁠⁠⁠Tik Tok:⁠ ⁠⁠tiktok.com/@doc.natalie⁠⁠⁠DISCLAIMER: The content in this podcast and video is not a replacement for therapy and is not clinical, medical, or mental health treatment. Dr. Natalie Marr is a Licensed Psychologist in the state of Minnesota. Her work with ⁠⁠(⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://LearnToLoveYourStory.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠)⁠, ⁠(⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://NatalieMarrCounseling.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠),⁠ and all affiliate social media entities is educational and coaching based ONLY. She IS NOT offering therapeutic services of any kind on these mediums. If you or someone you know is having a mental health crisis or having thoughts of suicide, please use the following crisis resources (this is not an exhaustive list of available resources):National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org⁠/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠CALL 988Crisis Text Line: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.crisistextline.org/⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Text HOME to 741741

    23 min

  4. Apr 9

    How what happened when you were young is making perimenopause worse for you

    Summary: Have you ever found yourself uncontrollably crying? Angry beyond what the situation warrants? Or maybe after years of being an extrovert, you now just want to curl up on the coach and hide from people. Perimenopause is no joke. Dr. Natalie shares her own personal experience of emotional breakdowns during midlife, explores the science behind trauma and hormonal changes, and offers insights into managing these challenges through therapy and self-awareness. Keywords: midlife, trauma, hormones, therapy, emotional health, menopause, childhood experience, stress resilience, self-compassion, mental health Key topics: Trauma and midlife emotional healthThe impact of childhood experiences on menopauseScience of hormones and stress resilienceTherapeutic approaches for trauma in midlifeSelf-compassion and curiosity in emotional regulationTrauma from childhood can resurface in midlife, affecting emotional health.Hormonal changes in menopause can exacerbate past trauma effects.Therapy and self-awareness are crucial for managing midlife emotional challenges.Understanding your ACE score can help predict health risks in midlife.Practicing curiosity instead of self-criticism fosters self-compassion.Uncovering the Science of Trauma and Hormones in MidlifeHow Childhood Trauma Affects Women in Menopause Sound bites: "Some relationships just have a season for themselves." "I burst into positively never happens." "If it's hysterical, it's historical." Chapters: 00:00 Navigating Friendships in Midlife 05:59 Emotional Breakthroughs and Self-Compassion 12:26 Childhood Trauma and Its Impact on Relationships 19:59 The Science of Midlife and Childhood Trauma 30:16 Advocating for Your Health in Midlife Resources: Adverse Childhood Experience (ACE) Questionnaire⁠⁠The Swan Study on Women's Health⁠⁠Self-Compassion Course by Dr. Natalie⁠Resources & Links to Connect with Dr. Natalie:Website:⁠ ⁠⁠https://LearnToLoveYourStory.com⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Facebook: ⁠facebook.com/learntoloveyourstory⁠⁠Instagram:⁠⁠ instagram.com/dr.nataliemarr⁠⁠Linked In: ⁠⁠linkedin.com/in/natalie-m-marr-psy-d-lp-6a9298147⁠⁠Tik Tok: ⁠⁠tiktok.com/@doc.natalie⁠⁠DISCLAIMER: The content in this podcast and video is not a replacement for therapy and is not clinical, medical, or mental health treatment. Dr. Natalie Marr is a Licensed Psychologist in the state of Minnesota. Her work with ⁠⁠(⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://LearnToLoveYourStory.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠)⁠, ⁠(⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://NatalieMarrCounseling.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠),⁠ and all affiliate social media entities is educational and coaching based ONLY. She IS NOT offering therapeutic services of any kind on these mediums. If you or someone you know is having a mental health crisis or having thoughts of suicide, please use the following crisis resources (this is not an exhaustive list of available resources):National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org⁠/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠CALL 988Crisis Text Line: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.crisistextline.org/⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Text HOME to 741741

    36 min

  5. Mar 19

    The Hidden Trauma of Midlife: How Childhood Shapes Your Stress Resilience

    Summary Dr. Natalie explores the intersection of midlife challenges, hormonal changes, and childhood trauma, emphasizing that women's struggles are often systemic and not personal failures. She discusses how hormonal shifts affect stress resilience and the importance of inner work and therapy to achieve a centered midlife. Keywords midlife, hormonal changes, childhood trauma, stress resilience, inner child work, therapy, estrogen, progesterone, systemic issues, personal growth Key topics Hormonal changes in midlife and their impact on stress resilienceThe role of childhood trauma in adult midlife strugglesInner child work and shadow work as tools for healingSystemic societal expectations and their effects on women in midlife Key frameworks Inner Child WorkShadow WorkCore Belief Systems Action items Seek therapy to unpack childhood traumaConsider hormone therapy with medical guidanceSet boundaries to protect your mental healthPrioritize love and acceptance of your current life Sound bites "Childhood trauma can resurface in midlife." "Love your life right now, all of it." "This was never your fault." Chapters 00:00 The Burden of Expectations on Women 13:18 Childhood Trauma and Its Resurgence in Midlife 19:07 Introduction and Disclaimer 20:43 Crisis Resources and Support Midlife/Trauma Resources: Therapy for Trauma and Inner Child Work - https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapistsHormone Replacement Therapy (HRT) - https://www.mayoclinic.org/tests-procedures/hormone-replacement-therapyUnderstanding Perimenopause and Menopause - https://www.womenshealth.gov/menopauseResources & Links to Connect with Dr. Natalie:Website: ⁠⁠https://LearnToLoveYourStory.com⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Facebook: ⁠facebook.com/learntoloveyourstory⁠⁠Instagram:⁠⁠ instagram.com/dr.nataliemarr⁠⁠Linked In: ⁠⁠linkedin.com/in/natalie-m-marr-psy-d-lp-6a9298147⁠⁠Tik Tok: ⁠⁠tiktok.com/@doc.natalie⁠⁠DISCLAIMER: The content in this podcast and video is not a replacement for therapy and is not clinical, medical, or mental health treatment. Dr. Natalie Marr is a Licensed Psychologist in the state of Minnesota. Her work with ⁠⁠(⁠⁠⁠⁠https://LearnToLoveYourStory.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠)⁠, ⁠(⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://NatalieMarrCounseling.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠),⁠ and all affiliate social media entities is educational and coaching based ONLY. She IS NOT offering therapeutic services of any kind on these mediums. If you or someone you know is having a mental health crisis or having thoughts of suicide, please use the following crisis resources (this is not an exhaustive list of available resources):National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org⁠/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ CALL 988Crisis Text Line: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.crisistextline.org/⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Text HOME to 741741

    21 min

  6. Mar 5

    Why Burning Out at 50 Is More About Brain Habits Than Age — And How to Change It

    Summary In this conversation, Dr. Natalie reflects on her journey through midlife, particularly focusing on the challenges of perimenopause and the emotional turmoil that often accompanies it. She discusses the importance of letting go of societal expectations and the pressure to conform, emphasizing the need for self-acceptance and compassion. Dr. Natalie also explores the concept of procedural memory and how our ingrained habits can shape our perceptions and emotional responses. Ultimately, she encourages listeners to redefine their narratives and embrace a centered midlife, free from the burdens of self-judgment and societal standards. Episode 117: Expert Advice on Addressing the #1 Symptom in Perimenopause: https://spotifycreators-web.app.link/e/y7WjcCkjf1b or https://youtu.be/GFTFQGbN1rg Keywords: midlife, perimenopause, self-acceptance, emotional health, procedural memory, self-compassion, personal growth, women empowerment, mental health, life transitions Takeaways Turning 50 can be a liberating experience.It's important to decide what truly matters to us.Perimenopause can bring significant emotional challenges.Irritability is a common symptom of hormonal changes.95% of our thoughts and behaviors are pre-programmed.We can reprogram our thoughts to be more compassionate.Self-acceptance is crucial for mental well-being.We often hold ourselves to unrealistic standards.It's essential to shift our narratives about ourselves.You are not broken; you are a work in progress. Sound bites "I was waking up that way." "Tell yourself a new story." "You are not broken." Chapters 00:00 Embracing Midlife: A New Perspective 06:35 Reprogramming the Mind: Breaking Free from Old Habits 12:20 Redefining Self-Worth: A Journey to Centered MidlifeResources & Links to Connect with Dr. Natalie:Website: ⁠⁠https://LearnToLoveYourStory.com⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Facebook: ⁠facebook.com/learntoloveyourstory⁠⁠Instagram:⁠⁠ instagram.com/dr.nataliemarr⁠⁠Linked In: ⁠⁠linkedin.com/in/natalie-m-marr-psy-d-lp-6a9298147⁠⁠Tik Tok: ⁠⁠tiktok.com/@doc.natalie⁠⁠DISCLAIMER: The content in this podcast and video is not a replacement for therapy and is not clinical, medical, or mental health treatment. Dr. Natalie Marr is a Licensed Psychologist in the state of Minnesota. Her work with ⁠⁠(⁠⁠⁠https://LearnToLoveYourStory.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠)⁠, ⁠(⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://NatalieMarrCounseling.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠),⁠ and all affiliate social media entities is educational and coaching based ONLY. She IS NOT offering therapeutic services of any kind on these mediums. If you or someone you know is having a mental health crisis or having thoughts of suicide, please use the following crisis resources (this is not an exhaustive list of available resources):National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org⁠/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ CALL 988Crisis Text Line: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.crisistextline.org/⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Text HOME to 741741

    25 min

  7. Feb 18

    The Exhaustion of Midlife is Real

    Summary In this conversation, Dr. Natalie discusses the challenges women face during midlife, particularly around wellness shaming, hormonal changes, and the pressure to conform to societal expectations. She emphasizes the importance of introspection and listening to one's body rather than relying solely on external validation and wellness culture. Dr. Natalie encourages women to embrace their individuality and build self-worth from within, acknowledging that it's okay to make mistakes along the way. Takeaways The exhaustion women feel in midlife is real and valid.Hormonal changes can create chaos in our bodies, similar to adolescence.Habit formation is challenging, especially when trying to adapt to new life phases.Introspection is crucial; we should listen to our bodies rather than just external advice.Wellness culture often exploits women's insecurities for profit.It's important to recognize that each woman's experience is unique.Building self-worth from within is essential for navigating midlife.It's okay to not have all the answers about what your body needs.Listening to your body can lead to better health outcomes than following external advice.You are not broken; you are evolving. Keywords midlife, wellness, hormones, introspection, self-worth, health, women, perimenopause, wellness culture, body positivity Sound bites "The exhaustion is real." "It's okay to mess it up." "You are not broken." Chapters 00:00 The Pressure of Midlife Wellness 06:18 The Challenge of Habit Formation 11:38 Critique of Wellness Culture 21:00 Embracing Your Inner Expert Resources & Links: Connect with Dr. Natalie:Website ⁠https://LearnToLoveYourStory.com⁠⁠ ⁠ Facebook ⁠facebook.com/learntoloveyourstory⁠ Instagram⁠ instagram.com/dr.nataliemarr⁠ Linked In ⁠linkedin.com/in/natalie-m-marr-psy-d-lp-6a9298147⁠ Tik Tok ⁠tiktok.com/@doc.natalie⁠ DISCLAIMER: The content in this podcast and video is not a replacement for therapy and is not clinical, medical, or mental health treatment. Dr. Natalie Marr is a Licensed Psychologist in the state of Minnesota. Her work with ⁠⁠(⁠⁠https://LearnToLoveYourStory.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠)⁠, ⁠(⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://NatalieMarrCounseling.com⁠⁠⁠⁠),⁠ and all affiliate social media entities is educational and coaching based ONLY. She IS NOT offering therapeutic services of any kind on these mediums. If you or someone you know is having a mental health crisis or having thoughts of suicide, please use the following crisis resources (this is not an exhaustive list of available resources): National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org⁠/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ CALL 988 Crisis Text Line: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.crisistextline.org/⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Text HOME to 741741

    24 min

  8. Feb 5

    What to Let Go of in Midlife

    In this heartfelt episode, Dr. Natalie addresses midlife women feeling overwhelmed by the pressure to fix and manage everything alone. She offers insight into how hyper-independence and the fear of abandonment can contribute to burnout and midlife struggles—and most importantly, how self-love can help rewrite these patterns. Key Topics: The emotional toll of hyper-independence in midlife womenThe neurochemistry of pursuit and addiction to dopamine hitsChildhood experiences shaping adult patterns of fixing and pleasingRecognizing and interrupting the spiral of justification and validationThe importance of self-love as an antidote to burnout and scarcity mindsetHow fear of abandonment fuels hyper-independencePractical steps to love yourself through mistakes and vulnerabilitiesMoving away from rescuing everyone and focusing on personal peaceTimestamps:00:00 - Addressing hyper-independent women in midlife02:09 - The neurochemical roots of pursuit and addiction to dopamine03:34 - How the chase reinforces the cycle of burnout04:33 - Personal stories of controlling or fixing others05:58 - Childhood patterns influencing adult need for approval06:53 - Recognizing the spiral of justifying and validating08:22 - The pain of not being liked or validated09:04 - The risks of over-investment in work and relationships10:30 - How derailments in pursuit reveal deeper patterns11:56 - The spiral of self-justification in times of stress13:20 - The link between childhood chaos and adult control issues14:19 - Self-love as the key to breaking free from cycles16:41 - The importance of loving yourself despite mistakes19:34 - Understanding the fear of rejection and scarcity mindset20:03 - Letting go of blame and the need for approval21:01 - Managing relationships without spiraling into chaos22:24 - Embracing age and experience for self-compassion23:21 - The power of loving your story, including dysfunction24:19 - Sharing this message with other midlife women25:17 - Letting go of the cycle of justification and abandonment fears26:15 - Finding peace and building inner self-worth Resources & Links: Connect with Dr. Natalie:Website https://LearnToLoveYourStory.com⁠⁠ Facebook facebook.com/learntoloveyourstory Instagram instagram.com/dr.nataliemarr Linked In linkedin.com/in/natalie-m-marr-psy-d-lp-6a9298147 Tik Tok tiktok.com/@doc.natalie DISCLAIMER: The content in this podcast and video is not a replacement for therapy and is not clinical, medical, or mental health treatment. Dr. Natalie Marr is a Licensed Psychologist in the state of Minnesota. Her work with ⁠⁠(⁠https://LearnToLoveYourStory.com⁠⁠⁠⁠)⁠, ⁠(⁠⁠⁠⁠https://NatalieMarrCounseling.com⁠⁠⁠),⁠ and all affiliate social media entities is educational and coaching based ONLY. She IS NOT offering therapeutic services of any kind on these mediums. If you or someone you know is having a mental health crisis or having thoughts of suicide, please use the following crisis resources (this is not an exhaustive list of available resources):National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org⁠/⁠⁠⁠⁠ CALL 988Crisis Text Line: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.crisistextline.org/⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Text HOME to 741741

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For too long, women in midlife have been the shock absorbers for their families and careers, leaving themselves last on the list. But what if the "Crisis" is actually an invitation? Join Clinical Psychologist Dr. Natalie as she helps you navigate the midlife transition with humor, heart, and science to help you shift from external validation to internal peace. The Centered Midlife is your weekly guide to unlearning the "shoulds," healing perfectionism, and reclaiming your worth. You don’t need to fix yourself; you just need to find yourself again.

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