Dr. Todd Talks

Todd Corelli
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Are your kids struggling? are YOU tired of dealing with behavioral issues every single day? If you are a parent that wants to help your kids thrive, then listen in....as I share my 30 years of practical tips to help even the most difficult kids.

  1. 3D AGO

    Ep. 73: 3 Shifts That Calm an Anxious Child Fast

    Before you say another word to your anxious child, take two slow breaths and drop your shoulders. Your child’s nervous system is reading yours. And your calm is often the intervention that matters most. In this episode, I walk through the three shifts that change everything when you’re raising an anxious child. Most parents try reassurance, logic, rewards, or protection. And when anxiety keeps escalating, they feel confused and exhausted. What looks like support can quietly turn into reinforcement of the fear itself. Here’s what we cover: First, how to regulate yourself before you try to regulate your child. Kids borrow stability from the adults around them. If your body is tense, they feel it. If you are steady, they have something solid to build on. Second, why rescuing feels loving but actually strengthens anxiety over time. Avoidance creates short-term relief but long-term fragility. I explain the “relief trap” and why holding firm boundaries with warmth is essential. Third, how to build an exposure ladder. This is how you retrain the alarm system in the brain. Not through pep talks. Not through promises. Through small, repeated wins that teach your child, “I felt scared, and I did it anyway.” We also talk about the language that accidentally increases dependence, how to validate fear without trying to erase it, why escalation often gets worse before it gets better, and how to stay warm and steady through the protests. Anxiety is not a life sentence. It is a nervous system that needs teaching. And you are the teacher. If you want to raise a child who can feel fear and still move forward, this episode will give you a practical, step-by-step place to begin. 📺 Subscribe to my YouTube channel: www.youtube.com/@drtoddtalks 📸 Follow on Instagram: @drtoddtalks 🎙 Podcast: Dr. Todd Talks — available wherever you listen 🌐 Explore my parenting course Connection & Credibility and free resources: www.DrToddTalks.com #parenting #anxiety #anxiouskids #emotionregulation #exposuretherapy #ConnectionAndCredibility #DrToddTalks Want more than just tips? My parenting course, Connection & Credibility, helps you build a strong bond with your kids while setting healthy boundaries that actually work. Explore the course: https://correctandconnect.com/courses/connection-credibility/ For more parenting insights, visit my website: https://www.drtoddtalks.com Find me on YouTube at: https://youtube.com/@drtoddtalks Follow on Instagram: https://instagram.com/drtoddtalks

    12 min

  2. FEB 15

    Ep. 72: The Single Parenting Mistake That Creates Entitled Kids

    Jack walked into my office wearing an orange jumpsuit with two county deputies beside him. Just a week earlier, he had been a regular client sitting in my waiting room. Now he was facing a year of incarceration for theft. His parents loved him deeply. They had spent years trying to protect his future, stepping in to fix problems, soften consequences, and rescue him whenever things went wrong. What looked like support slowly taught Jack something dangerous: that consequences didn’t really apply to him. This episode explores the single parenting pattern that quietly creates entitlement without parents realizing it. Many families fall into it because it feels compassionate, protective, and loving. But over time, constant rescuing prevents children from developing responsibility, resilience, and an internal sense of accountability. In this episode, I explain how small daily rescues accumulate into long-term problems, why children often escalate when parents finally stop fixing things, and how to hold firm boundaries while keeping emotional connection intact. The goal isn’t harshness or withdrawal. It’s learning how to stay warm and connected without stepping in to remove every discomfort your child faces. Listen to learn how to stop rescuing without becoming cold or distant, how to handle the inevitable escalation when patterns change, and how to build connection and credibility so your influence grows instead of fading. 📺 Subscribe to my YouTube channel: www.youtube.com/@drtoddtalks 📸 Follow on Instagram: @drtoddtalks 🎙 Podcast: Dr. Todd Talks — available wherever you listen 🌐 Explore my parenting course Connection & Credibility and free resources: https://correctandconnect.com/courses/connection-credibility/ #parenting #boundaries #entitlement #discipline #emotionalconnection #ConnectionAndCredibility #DrToddTalks Want more than just tips? My parenting course, Connection & Credibility, helps you build a strong bond with your kids while setting healthy boundaries that actually work. Explore the course: https://correctandconnect.com/courses/connection-credibility/ For more parenting insights, visit my website: https://www.drtoddtalks.com Find me on YouTube at: https://youtube.com/@drtoddtalks Follow on Instagram: https://instagram.com/drtoddtalks

    5 min

  3. JAN 17

    Ep. 71: Strict Parenting Creates the Best Liars

    Tommy was 12 years old, drowning in the grief of his father abandoning the family, and instead of reaching out, he started lying about everything. His mother was devastated. She told me, “I raised him to tell the truth, and now he’s a liar.” But Tommy wasn’t a bad kid. He was a kid who learned that the truth felt dangerous. We think we’re raising honest children by being strict, but often we’re just training them to hide better. When every mistake is met with a lecture, losing their phone, or a parent’s anger, honesty becomes too expensive for a child to afford. They stop asking, “Is this right?” and start asking, “Will I get caught?” In this episode, I explain how fear replaces a child’s internal conscience, why punishment often makes lying worse, and what to do instead when you catch your child in a lie. The goal isn’t less accountability. It’s building connection and credibility so your child learns to listen to themselves, not just manage you. Listen here to learn how to stop becoming an enemy to your child’s conscience and start becoming the safe place they turn to when they mess up. The shift isn’t more control. It’s reclaiming the influence you already have. 📺 Subscribe to the channel: youtube.com/@drtoddtalks 📸 Follow on Instagram: @drtoddtalks 🎙 Podcast: Dr. Todd Talks — available wherever you listen 🌐 Explore my parenting course Connection & Credibility and free resources: www.DrToddTalks.com #parenting #honesty #lying #discipline #emotionalconnection #ConnectionAndCredibility #DrToddTalks Want more than just tips? My parenting course, Connection & Credibility, helps you build a strong bond with your kids while setting healthy boundaries that actually work. Explore the course: https://correctandconnect.com/courses/connection-credibility/ For more parenting insights, visit my website: https://www.drtoddtalks.com Find me on YouTube at: https://youtube.com/@drtoddtalks Follow on Instagram: https://instagram.com/drtoddtalks

    8 min

  4. 12/07/2025

    Ep. 70: Why Your Adult Child Cut You Off (The 3 Things They Need Before They Come Back)

    Are you experiencing estrangement from your adult child? If you’re the parent who wants them back, this episode walks you through the only path that makes reconciliation possible. You’ll learn why adult children step away to stop the pain, and the three things a parent must do to rebuild trust and create safety. This is a clear guide to understanding why they walked away and what real repair looks like. In this episode: • The core question adult children are asking: “Will they ever change?” • Why defending your actions keeps the relationship stuck. • The three pillars of reconciliation that open the door to connection. • Why boundaries are necessary for healing. • A story of a father who went first, changed, and reconnected with his son. If you want to strengthen the relationships that matter most, my course Connection and Credibility is available at www.DrToddTalks.com. 📺 YouTube: youtube.com/@drtoddtalks 📸 Instagram: @drtoddtalks 🎙 More episodes: Dr. Todd Talks — available wherever you listen #estrangement #reconciliation #adultchildren #parenting Want more than just tips? My parenting course, Connection & Credibility, helps you build a strong bond with your kids while setting healthy boundaries that actually work. Explore the course: https://correctandconnect.com/courses/connection-credibility/ For more parenting insights, visit my website: https://www.drtoddtalks.com Find me on YouTube at: https://youtube.com/@drtoddtalks Follow on Instagram: https://instagram.com/drtoddtalks

    15 min

  5. 11/24/2025

    Ep. 69: Why Adult Children Are Cutting Off Their Parents (And How to Stop It)

    When an adult child cuts off a parent, it rarely comes out of nowhere. It’s usually the final stage of a long, painful pattern that could have been repaired years earlier. In this episode, I walk through why so many estrangements happen, what keeps them going, and what actually helps parents rebuild a relationship that feels lost. As a psychologist who has spent more than 30 years working with families, I’ve watched this pattern unfold for decades. And I’ve seen what leads to reconnection too. This is not about blame. It’s about understanding the emotional gap that forms between parents and their adult children, and what it really takes to close it. In this episode, you’ll learn: • Why defensiveness is the biggest predictor of long-term estrangement • What adult children actually want from their parents • How acknowledgment and repair create the best chance for reconciliation • Why so many young parents today are afraid of losing their own kids • How connection and credibility work together to keep relationships strong • What real repair sounds like • What parents can do right now to create safety, honesty, and closeness If you’re an older parent hoping to rebuild connection, or a younger parent trying to prevent this from happening in your own family, there are clear, simple steps that make a difference. You don’t need perfection. You just need humility, consistency, and a willingness to show up with openness instead of fear. If you’ve experienced estrangement in your own family, or if you’re worried about it, I hope this brings clarity and direction. Find more at www.DrToddTalks.com. I have an online course called Connection and Credibility that walks you through how to build strong, lasting relationships with your kids. If you’re not ready for the full course, I have articles, podcasts, and free resources you can use right away. I’d love to hear your thoughts. Leave a comment, send a message, or share your experience with this topic. 📺 Subscribe to the channel: youtube.com/@drtoddtalks 📸 Follow on Instagram: @drtoddtalks 🎙 Podcast: Dr. Todd Talks — available wherever you listen 🌐 Explore my parenting course Connection and Credibility and free resources: www.DrToddTalks.com 🧠 Sign up for the Connection and Credibility parenting course: https://correctandconnect.com/courses/connection-credibility/ #parenting #familyrelationships #estrangement #reconnection #healing #parentchildrelationship #DrToddTalks Want more than just tips? My parenting course, Connection & Credibility, helps you build a strong bond with your kids while setting healthy boundaries that actually work. Explore the course: https://correctandconnect.com/courses/connection-credibility/ For more parenting insights, visit my website: https://www.drtoddtalks.com Find me on YouTube at: https://youtube.com/@drtoddtalks Follow on Instagram: https://instagram.com/drtoddtalks

    12 min

  6. 10/20/2025

    Ep. 68: Why Your Kids Fight Constantly (And How to Help Them Actually Like Each Other)

    Why Your Kids Fight Constantly (And How to Help Them Actually Like Each Other) When your kids are always fighting, it can start to wear you down. The yelling, teasing, and constant competition make home feel tense — and you might start to wonder if they’ll ever get along. But what most parents don’t realize is that sibling conflict can go too far, leaving lasting emotional scars if it’s not handled the right way. In this episode, I share the story of two brothers who grew up hating each other and how their unresolved conflict followed them into adulthood. Then, I’ll show you how to recognize when rivalry has turned into something deeper, and how to rebuild connection before it’s too late. This isn’t about stopping all conflict. It’s about teaching your kids how to disagree, repair, and stay connected — skills that will shape their relationships for life. In this episode, you will learn: • The difference between healthy sibling rivalry and sibling trauma • How to set a zero-tolerance rule for cruelty in your home • Why comparisons between siblings destroy connection • How to use shared experiences to rebuild closeness • Simple ways to teach conflict resolution and emotional repair From Dr. Todd Corelli, clinical psychologist, parenting expert, and dad 🎙 Podcast: Dr. Todd Talks, available wherever you listen 📺 Subscribe to the YouTube channel: youtube.com/@drtoddtalks 📸 Follow on Instagram: @drtoddtalks 🌐 Explore my parenting course Connection and Credibility and free resources: www.DrToddTalks.com #siblingrivalry #parentingtips #familyrelationships #siblingfighting #drtoddtalks #parentingstrategies Want more than just tips? My parenting course, Connection & Credibility, helps you build a strong bond with your kids while setting healthy boundaries that actually work. Explore the course: https://correctandconnect.com/courses/connection-credibility/ For more parenting insights, visit my website: https://www.drtoddtalks.com Find me on YouTube at: https://youtube.com/@drtoddtalks Follow on Instagram: https://instagram.com/drtoddtalks

    13 min

  7. 09/14/2025

    Ep. 67: Is My Teen Depressed or Just Pulling Away? 6 Warning Signs Every Parent Should Know

    How to Tell if Your Teen is Depressed or Just Pulling Away (6 Warning Signs) When your teen stops talking to you, pulls away, and seems like a stranger, how do you know if they are struggling with depression or just pushing you away? Parents often ask: Is my teen depressed, or is this just normal teen behavior? This episode breaks down the crucial difference that could save your relationship and possibly your teen’s life. You’ll meet Sarah and Emma, two 16-year-olds whose parents were equally worried but needed completely different approaches. I will walk you through the six warning signs that reveal whether your teen needs connection or professional help, including the one most parents miss. This is not about being their therapist. It is about knowing when to lean in and when to bring in support. In this episode, you will learn: The 6 key differences between depression and disconnectionWhy social connections are the biggest clue (and what to watch for)How to tell if your teen needs therapy or just needs you to show up differentlyThe one sign that reveals everything about their future outlookWhat to do right now if you are not sure which one you are dealing with From Dr. Todd Corelli, clinical psychologist, parenting expert, and dad 🎙 Podcast: Dr. Todd Talks, available wherever you listen 📺 Subscribe to the channel: youtube.com/@drtoddtalks 📸 Follow on Instagram: @drtoddtalks 🌐 Explore my parenting course Connection and Credibility and free resources: www.DrToddTalks.com #teendepression #parentingteens #teenmentalhealth #parentingtips #teenparenting Want more than just tips? My parenting course, Connection & Credibility, helps you build a strong bond with your kids while setting healthy boundaries that actually work. Explore the course: https://correctandconnect.com/courses/connection-credibility/ For more parenting insights, visit my website: https://www.drtoddtalks.com Find me on YouTube at: https://youtube.com/@drtoddtalks Follow on Instagram: https://instagram.com/drtoddtalks

    9 min

  8. 08/04/2025

    Ep. 66: When Consequences Stop Working: What Most Parents Miss

    When Consequences Don’t Work Anymore—What Then? You’ve grounded them, taken the phone, even tried tough love—but nothing works. If your teenager seems completely unfazed by consequences, this video is for you. This isn’t about finding a better punishment. It’s about something deeper: the relationship you’ve lost and how to get it back. In this episode, Dr. Todd shares: Why your teen might truly not care about consequencesHow disconnection—not defiance—is the real issueFive specific strategies to rebuild the relationshipWhat to stop doing immediatelyHow to reconnect without rescuing, nagging, or losing your authority This isn’t about being soft. It’s about being smart—and getting your teen to care again by showing up differently. 🧠 Sign up for the Connection and Credibility parenting course: https://correctandconnect.com/courses/connection-credibility/ 📺 Subscribe on YouTube: youtube.com/@drtoddtalks 🎙 Podcast: Dr. Todd Talks — available wherever you listen 📸 Follow on Instagram: @drtoddtalks 🌐 Explore my parenting course and free resources: www.DrToddTalks.com Instead of asking yourself how to make them behave, start asking how you can reconnect with them. #parentingteens #consequences #parentingadvice #connectionnotcontrol #DrToddTalks #emotionalconnection #parentingteensupport Want more than just tips? My parenting course, Connection & Credibility, helps you build a strong bond with your kids while setting healthy boundaries that actually work. Explore the course: https://correctandconnect.com/courses/connection-credibility/ For more parenting insights, visit my website: https://www.drtoddtalks.com Find me on YouTube at: https://youtube.com/@drtoddtalks Follow on Instagram: https://instagram.com/drtoddtalks

    13 min
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Are your kids struggling? are YOU tired of dealing with behavioral issues every single day? If you are a parent that wants to help your kids thrive, then listen in....as I share my 30 years of practical tips to help even the most difficult kids.

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  • Creator
    Todd Corelli
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2026
  • Episodes
    73
  • Rating
    Clean
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