Drinks and Kinks!

Drinks and Kinks Podcast

A podcast about diving into and exploring the world of BDSM, kink, and dating. We have a drink, and have an unfiltered chat about what we've been learning and experiencing lately. We cover topics like non-monogamy, dating, sex, and our personal exploration into the world of kink and BDSM! Kink Responsibly! Visit our website at https://drinksandkinks.squarespace.com

  1. S3 E024 Listener Submissions

    08/01/2024

    S3 E024 Listener Submissions

    Thanks for being patient with us! This episode is a long awaited listener submission episode. What you can expect to hear: 
 ​Updates: Senior shares that he did his first ropes bondage suspension session with Bird! ​Bird shares a dating app story (and it involves Snapchat).​Chaos talks about the varied differences between dating as a 21 year vs. dating as a 40 year old.​Britt shares her vanilla-ish aftercare homework.​Solo self care for aftercare.​Bird's new aftercare (blanket forts!)​Play tested a classic for the first time, a Hitachi Wand.Our main feature this episode was going to be shame play and blood play, but we decided to go with listener submissions instead! Some highlights:​Daddy Dom for those who needed a Daddy figure for playtime. ​Normalizing not using the word "clean" when talking about STI testing.​Disabled virgin shares their kink journey!​How to come out as kinky (and into getting cucked). Hint: get comfortable being uncomfortable.​How to get into the kink community if you don't have a point of contact already in, no references, and are interested in learning how to be a Dom!Book mentioned in the listener emails is The Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability by Miriam Kaufman, Cory Silverberg, & Fran Odette.
 Website mentioned is ABFheaven.com 
 (as for the delay, Bird has a jaw injury and it's taken a toll on her mentally. We will be recording again soon) 
 Stay Curious! Stay Sexy! Kink Responsibly! The drink this week is Dr. Pepper & Coconut RumMusic: Forever Dreamer - MagiksoloMixed and edited by: Bird HerselfHosted by: Bird, Senior, Britt, & ChaosArtwork: Senior Contact us: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠drinksandkinkspod@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://drinksandkinks.space⁠⁠⁠⁠FetLife: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠DrinksKinksPod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@drinksANDkinks_pod⁠

    1h 31m
  2. S2 E019 Vetting and the Art and Theatrics of Playtime

    08/23/2023

    S2 E019 Vetting and the Art and Theatrics of Playtime

    This episode covers the broad topic of vetting and how to do. Bird and Senior cover some great questions you can ask while vetting someone. They may have taken a little "mental health summer vacation" for the last few weeks, but are back at it with some bratty shenanigans. In this episode you'll hear: Dating update for Bird Why Senior doesn't do a whole lot of dating A recent party with friends Vex, Goddess, and Chaos Chaos did their first scene and what we learned from watching it What is "vetting" and why is it important? What questions are good for vetting? Mistakes Bird made when vetting previously (that you can learn from) Why it's not culturally appropriate to call women "females" Barbie movie and Euphoria references Senior and Bird's "dream scenes" they've always wanted to do Senior bratting at his absolutely finest Listener submissions! Thanks Rob and Bruce! Some resources referenced in this episode and links we promised: Kynk101.com, michellefegatofi.org, kinkycuriosity.com, theduchy.com, submissiveguide.com, kinkweekly.com, beautifullybound.com Stay Curious! Stay Sexy! Kink Responsibly! The drink this week is Little Beast Brewing Czech Style Dark Lager! Music: Forever Dreamer - Magiksolo Mixed and edited by: Bird Herself Hosted by: Bird & Senior Contact us: ⁠⁠drinksandkinkspod@gmail.com⁠⁠ Website: ⁠⁠https://drinksandkinks.space FetLife: ⁠DrinksKinksPod⁠ Instagram: ⁠@drinksANDkinks_pod⁠

    1h 53m
  3. S2 E017 Rope Bondage with Mx. Knotty and Kingsly Killer

    07/06/2023

    S2 E017 Rope Bondage with Mx. Knotty and Kingsly Killer

    Special guests this week are a pair of badasses who specialize in rope bondage and educating the kink community, Mx. Knotty and Kingsly Killer! In this episode you'll hear: How they both got involved with rope. Safety for getting started, because rope play is one of the most dangerous forms of kink. Why you should avoid cotton rope for suspensions (but it's great for decorative ties). Nylon is much different than cotton (and nylon is great for water scenes along with polyester). 6mm and wider is a better choice to mitigate damage. No rope is "safe". Mx. Knotty loves Jute! Rigger vs. Top, bunny vs. bottom. Mx. Knotty and Kingsley origin story What is Knotty Productions? Risk aware does not equal "safe". Implicit Consent vs. Explicit Consent. Rope Safety for new riggers and rope tops! START SLOW. Start with basics. Leave dynamics at the door for a minute to prioritize safety. Or find a way to keep very honest, open communication during the dynamic. No means no, especially in beginner ropes. It's ok to speak up if the ropes feel uncomfortable. Be specific. Err on the side of caution: untie, reconsider, re-tie. Informed consent is extremely important. Rope is extremely dangerous, so it's important to educate yourself on the risks, especially if you're a bottom/bunny. Communication is the most important part of tying with someone! Continuous check-in's and nerve checks. Prepare and care for your body before and after tying. Stretch, warm up, eat food, hydrate, etc. Aftercare. Safety Shears! Get comfortable talking about uncomfortable things! Speak your needs, especially when it comes to ropes. What's in Mx Knotty's rope kits that she brings to her scenes. Safety sheers. How to negotiate a scene, and negotiating a scene that's already in progress. Know your body (both as a rigger and a bunny). Rope space. As a rigger, know your bunny's body language. Setting the scene. Energy transfers through the rope. It's ok to tap out if it isn't working, as a top or bottom! If someone has something they need to tell you about their body, say "thank you for telling me". Arousal/Eroticism in ropes Riggers Chess Debriefing after scenes are over. Tie yourself before tying others so you know how it feels. You can learn more about Knotty Productions at www.knottyproductions.com Damn Good Rope Company can be found here: www.damngoodropecompany.com (we highly recommend the beginner kits! Knotty Productions website has a discount code, too!) Shibari Study: shibaristudy.com The Duchy ("dutch-ee"): www.theduchy.com Rope Study: ropestudy.com Stay Curious! Stay Sexy! Kink Responsibly! The drink this week is a Lavender Lemon Drop! Music: Forever Dreamer - Magiksolo Mixed and edited by: Bird Herself Hosted by: Bird & Senior Contact us: ⁠drinksandkinkspod@gmail.com⁠ Website: ⁠https://drinksandkinks.squarespace.com/⁠ FetLife: DrinksKinksPod Instagram: @drinksANDkinks_pod

    1h 49m

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A podcast about diving into and exploring the world of BDSM, kink, and dating. We have a drink, and have an unfiltered chat about what we've been learning and experiencing lately. We cover topics like non-monogamy, dating, sex, and our personal exploration into the world of kink and BDSM! Kink Responsibly! Visit our website at https://drinksandkinks.squarespace.com