DrKatinaTalks

Dr. Katina Clarke
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Dr. Katina Talks is the podcast that empowers you to live a more fulfilling, balanced, and authentic life. Hosted by Dr. Katina, a licensed mental health counselor, life coach, and social psychologist, this show dives into real-life stories, personal growth strategies, and psychology-backed insights that help you navigate the challenges of everyday life. Whether you're seeking inspiration to overcome fear, heal from past trauma, or discover your true purpose, Dr. Katina's thoughtful guidance and powerful anecdotes will encourage you to embrace the journey of living your best life. Tune in every Tuesday for a new episode filled with practical wisdom to inspire positive change.

  1. Now That You See It… What Will You Do? | Relationship Patterns, Self-Awareness, and Change

    1D AGO

    Now That You See It… What Will You Do? | Relationship Patterns, Self-Awareness, and Change

    Why do we keep repeating the same relationship patterns… even when we see them clearly? In this closing episode of Season 3 of Dr. Katina Talks, Dr. Katina Clarke offers a grounded reflection on self-awareness, emotional patterns, and personal responsibility in love and relationships. This episode explores a hard truth: Awareness alone does not change behavior. Choice does. From everyday habits to relationship dynamics, patterns are not random. They are repeated, familiar choices that often feel normal, even when they no longer serve us. In this episode, you will reflect on: • Why you may continue choosing the same relationship patterns • How emotional habits shape your experiences in love • The difference between awareness and real change • What it means to take ownership of your choices • Why growth requires willingness, not just insight At some point, the question shifts from: "Why does this keep happening to me?" to: "Why do I keep choosing this?" This episode is not about judgment. It is about honesty, self-reflection, and the willingness to choose differently. ⏱️ A short, powerful episode under 10 minutes. 🎧 Listen now and take a moment to reflect. 📖 If you are ready to go deeper, the guided journal Love by Dr. Katina is available here: https://a.co/d/05kYm5mI 00:00 Welcome and Season Close 00:29 Why Patterns Persist 01:08 Everyday Habit Loops 01:49 Relationship Patterns Repeat 02:17 Awareness vs Choice 03:03 Ownership and Growth 03:39 Season Sendoff Honesty 04:06 Break and Ghana Videos 04:36 Choose What Changes Continue the Reflection If this conversation resonates with you, the reflection continues in Dr. Katina's guided journal: Love by Dr. Katina A 30 Day Guided Journal designed to help you explore the thoughts, emotions, and patterns that shape how you show up in relationships and in life. Available on Amazon. Because meaningful change rarely happens in one moment. It happens through small moments of awareness. Important Disclaimer This podcast is hosted by a licensed counselor and life consultant. All content is for informational and educational purposes only and does not replace professional counseling, therapy, coaching, or medical advice. Listening to this podcast or completing exercises in the journal does not establish a counselor–client or coach–client relationship. If you would like to schedule counseling (Delaware residents) or life consulting services, please visit: Yellow Door Consulting This podcast is not monitored for crisis or emergency situations. If you or someone you know is experiencing severe distress or a life-threatening emergency, please call 911 or go to the nearest emergency department. Learn More Podcast resources and free journal prompts: DrKatinaTalks.com

    5 min
  2. The Table: A 10-Minute Reflection on Love, Relationships, and Self-Awareness

    MAR 24

    The Table: A 10-Minute Reflection on Love, Relationships, and Self-Awareness

    What if the person sitting across the table… was you? In this short, powerful episode of Dr. Katina Talks, Dr. Katina Clarke shares "The Table," a reflective story that invites you to examine your patterns in love, relationships, and emotional behavior. This episode is not about dating. It is about how you show up in relationships. Whether you are single, in a relationship, married, or working through past experiences, this episode will help you better understand your expectations, emotional habits, and the patterns that shape your connections with others. ⏱️ Under 10 minutes. Thoughtful, direct, and grounded in real-life relational insight. If you are ready to go deeper, explore the guided journal Love by Dr. Katina, designed to help you understand yourself before choosing someone else. 🎧 Listen now and take a moment to reflect. 📖 Journal available on Amazon. 00:00 Podcast Welcome 00:17 Why Relationships Trigger Us 01:05 A Story From My Journal 02:03 First Date With Yourself 03:41 The Hard Self Check 04:30 What You Bring To Love 05:31 Do The Inner Work 06:05 Clarity Before Choosing 06:57 Book And Farewell Continue the Reflection If this conversation resonates with you, the reflection continues in Dr. Katina's guided journal: Love by Dr. Katina A 30 Day Guided Journal designed to help you explore the thoughts, emotions, and patterns that shape how you show up in relationships and in life. Available on Amazon. Because meaningful change rarely happens in one moment. It happens through small moments of awareness. Important Disclaimer This podcast is hosted by a licensed counselor and life consultant. All content is for informational and educational purposes only and does not replace professional counseling, therapy, coaching, or medical advice. Listening to this podcast or completing exercises in the journal does not establish a counselor–client or coach–client relationship. If you would like to schedule counseling (Delaware residents) or life consulting services, please visit: Yellow Door Consulting This podcast is not monitored for crisis or emergency situations. If you or someone you know is experiencing severe distress or a life-threatening emergency, please call 911 or go to the nearest emergency department. Learn More Podcast resources and free journal prompts: DrKatinaTalks.com

    7 min
  3. I've Never Been Loved| A Therapist and Social Psychologist Explains Why

    MAR 17

    I've Never Been Loved| A Therapist and Social Psychologist Explains Why

    Many people quietly carry the belief: "I have never been loved." In this episode of Dr. Katina Talks, therapist and social psychologist Dr. Katina Clarke explores why some individuals feel unloved even after long relationships or marriage. After watching an interview where a well-known actress said she had "never been loved," Dr. Katina noticed something striking in the comments section. Many people shared the same experience. Drawing from her work in relational consulting, counseling, and social psychology, Dr. Katina explains why this statement often reflects deeper emotional needs rather than a simple absence of love. In this episode she introduces five reflective questions that can reveal the deeper story behind that belief. Topics discussed include: • how people define love and why emotional safety matters • what individuals prioritize when choosing partners • relationship patterns and the role of familiarity • emotional intensity versus emotional connection • emotional capacity within relationships • beliefs about worth, acceptance, and what we deserve Dr. Katina also explains why relationship pain is often connected to the lens through which we choose partners, rather than simply whether love existed. This conversation invites listeners to pause before concluding "I have never been loved" and instead examine the experiences, patterns, and expectations that shape their relationships. Episode Timestamps 00:00 Welcome and Setup 00:15 The "Never Loved" Moment 01:43 Question 1 Define Love 02:46 Question 2 Partner Priorities 05:05 Question 3 Patterns and Familiarity 07:05 Question 4 Emotional Capacity 09:23 Question 5 What You Deserve 10:02 Clarity Changes Choices 11:05 Journal Invitation and Closing Continue the Reflection If this conversation resonates with you, the reflection continues in Dr. Katina's guided journal: Love by Dr. Katina A 30 Day Guided Journal designed to help you explore the thoughts, emotions, and patterns that shape how you show up in relationships and in life. Available on Amazon. Because meaningful change rarely happens in one moment. It happens through small moments of awareness. Important Disclaimer This podcast is hosted by a licensed counselor and life consultant. All content is for informational and educational purposes only and does not replace professional counseling, therapy, coaching, or medical advice. Listening to this podcast or completing exercises in the journal does not establish a counselor–client or coach–client relationship. If you would like to schedule counseling (Delaware residents) or life consulting services, please visit: Yellow Door Consulting This podcast is not monitored for crisis or emergency situations. If you or someone you know is experiencing severe distress or a life threatening emergency, please call 911 or go to the nearest emergency department. Learn More Podcast resources and free journal prompts: DrKatinaTalks.com

    11 min
  4. Why We Push People Away When We Want to Be Chosen | Emotional Attraction in Relationships

    MAR 10

    Why We Push People Away When We Want to Be Chosen | Emotional Attraction in Relationships

    Why do people push the ones they love away while secretly hoping they will stay? In this episode of Dr. Katina Talks, Dr. Katina Clarke explores the deeper emotional dynamics behind insecurity in relationships, fear of being replaced, and the human desire to be chosen. Using the powerful story of Effie White from the film Dreamgirls, Dr. Katina reflects on how pushing people away can sometimes be a hidden test of love. Beneath anger, criticism, or emotional distance is often a deeper question many people are afraid to ask: "Am I still emotionally attractive to you?" Drawing from her work as a therapist working with individuals and couples, Dr. Katina shares five reflections about emotional attraction in relationships, including: • Why insecurity often shows up as anger • Why testing love can damage emotional safety • The difference between love and emotional attraction • How comparison quietly erodes connection • Why self-awareness is the first step toward real change Dr. Katina also shares a personal moment of finishing this reflection while watching Dreamgirls on a transatlantic flight to Ghana. If this conversation resonates with you, the reflection continues in her journal: Love by Dr. Katina: A 30 Day Guided Journal Designed to help you explore the thoughts, emotions, and patterns that shape how you show up in relationships and in life. Because meaningful change rarely happens in one moment. It happens through small moments of awareness. Available on Amazon. 00:00 Welcome From Ghana 00:40 Dreamgirls Effie Moment 02:27 Fear Of Being Replaced 03:19 The Loyalty Test Dynamic 03:34 The Real Question Emotional Attraction 04:28 Five Reflections Framework 05:11 Love Is Built On Safety 05:30 Emotional Experience Matters 05:52 Comparison Erodes Connection 06:13 Self Awareness And Change 07:26 Personal Note And Core Desire 08:12 Guided Journal Invitation 08:46 Closing And Farewell Social Media Disclaimer: This podcast is hosted by a licensed counselor and life coach. All content is for informational and educational purposes only and does not replace professional counseling, therapy, coaching, or medical advice. Listening to this podcast or completing exercises in the journal does not establish a counselor–client or coach–client relationship. If you need personalized guidance or want to schedule a counseling (Delaware Location Only) or Life Consulting session, please visit YellowDoorConsulting.com. This podcast is not monitored for crisis or emergency situations. If you or someone you know is in immediate danger, experiencing severe distress, or in a life-threatening situation, please call 911 or go to your nearest emergency department. By listening or subscribing, you acknowledge and accept these terms. For more Podcast info and free Journal Prompts, visit DrKatinaTalks.com.

    8 min
  5. When the Past Becomes a Filter: How Past Experiences Shape Your Relationships and Growth

    MAR 3

    When the Past Becomes a Filter: How Past Experiences Shape Your Relationships and Growth

    When the Past Becomes a Filter: How Past Experiences Shape Your Relationships and Growth In this episode of Dr. Katina Talks, Dr. Katina explores how past experiences quietly shape the way we interpret the present. From relationship dynamics to career opportunities to self-beliefs, we often respond to today through the lens of yesterday. Through personal stories from Italy and Portugal, she reflects on how expectation, memory, and environment influence perception. An unfamiliar lasagna in Italy revealed how quickly we judge based on what we already know. Years later, discovering a love for olives in Portugal after decades of saying "I don't like olives" highlighted how context shapes interpretation. Dr. Katina shares five grounded lessons: • You may not be reacting to this moment — you may be reacting to memory. • Old conclusions about yourself may no longer be true. • Context influences interpretation more than we realize. • Familiarity can quietly limit growth (the "pepper sauce" effect). • What you rejected may not have been the full story. This episode invites reflection on emotional triggers, relationship patterns, and the assumptions we carry into new experiences. It is a conversation about self-awareness, midlife growth, and breaking old patterns. If this resonates, share the episode and subscribe so you do not miss what comes next. Dr. Katina also quietly introduces her latest guided journal, Love by Dr. Katina, available now on Amazon for those ready to go deeper into their relationship patterns and emotional filters. Timestamps 00:00 Welcome and Theme 00:19 When the Past Becomes a Filter 01:25 Italy Lasagna Story 02:54 How We Project Past Experiences 03:36 Portugal Olives and Context Shift 04:35 Lesson 1: Memory vs. Moment 05:26 Lesson 2: Updating Old Self-Beliefs 06:21 Lesson 3: Context Shapes Interpretation 07:09 Lesson 4: The Familiarity Pattern 08:24 Lesson 5: Revisiting Old Conclusions 09:08 Closing and Journal Mention Social Media Disclaimer: This podcast is hosted by a licensed counselor and life coach. All content is for informational and educational purposes only and does not replace professional counseling, therapy, coaching, or medical advice. Listening to this podcast or completing exercises in the journal does not establish a counselor–client or coach–client relationship. If you need personalized guidance or want to schedule a counseling (Delaware Location Only) or Life Consulting session, please visit YellowDoorConsulting.com. This podcast is not monitored for crisis or emergency situations. If you or someone you know is in immediate danger, experiencing severe distress, or in a life-threatening situation, please call 911 or go to your nearest emergency department. By listening or subscribing, you acknowledge and accept these terms. For more Podcast info and free Journal Prompts, visit DrKatinaTalks.com.

    10 min
  6. Old Keys Won't Open New Doors | Letting Go of Old Patterns

    FEB 24

    Old Keys Won't Open New Doors | Letting Go of Old Patterns

    In this episode of Dr. Katina Talks, Dr. Katina shares a personal story from the eight and a half years she lived in England after arriving there as an active-duty U.S. Air Force newlywed. During that season of life, she and her husband chose to live off base and fully immerse themselves in the local community. She reflects on the homes they lived in, including a brick rental where a window had to be removed to fit an American sofa, a house with fireplaces and a conservatory, a converted flour mill by the river, and the first home they built on The Row near open marshland and a thatched-roof farmhouse. Through these experiences, and lessons she learned about seasons and growth while gardening with her neighbor Dan, Dr. Katina connects the metaphor of old skeleton keys and modern electronic locks to personal growth, identity shifts, and navigating life transitions. She explores how patterns that once protected you may not serve you in a new season, why forcing what no longer fits creates friction, and how growth sometimes means recognizing when old "keys" belong to another address. This episode is for anyone navigating change, outgrowing old habits, or stepping into a new phase of life. Dr. Katina also previews her guided journal, Love by Dr. Katina, available on Amazon, designed to help readers examine how they give and receive love and what they may still be carrying that no longer fits. New episodes of Dr. Katina Talks release every Tuesday morning.   00:00 Welcome to the Podcast 00:19 Moving to England 00:51 Choosing Life Off Base 01:21 The Houses We Lived In 03:24 The Home That Shaped Me 04:27 Old Keys New Doors 05:15 How These Stories Start 05:49 Lesson One Another Way In 08:21 Lesson Two Seasons Change 11:10 When Keys Stop Fitting 12:37 Lesson Five Access Evolves 14:41 Final Reflection and New Journal     Social Media Disclaimer: This podcast is hosted by a licensed counselor and life coach. All content is for informational and educational purposes only and does not replace professional counseling, therapy, coaching, or medical advice. Listening to this podcast or completing exercises in the journal does not establish a counselor–client or coach–client relationship. If you need personalized guidance or want to schedule a counseling (Delaware Location Only) or Life Consulting session, please visit YellowDoorConsulting.com. This podcast is not monitored for crisis or emergency situations. If you or someone you know is in immediate danger, experiencing severe distress, or in a life-threatening situation, please call 911 or go to your nearest emergency department. By listening or subscribing, you acknowledge and accept these terms. For more Podcast info and free Journal Prompts, visit DrKatinaTalks.com.

    16 min
  7. Who Am I? | Losing Yourself in Marriage, Motherhood, and Career

    FEB 17

    Who Am I? | Losing Yourself in Marriage, Motherhood, and Career

    Dr. Katina interrupts her regular podcast schedule to address a recurring question she has heard from women in multiple settings: "Who am I now?" She explains that many capable, responsible women feel disconnected from themselves not because of failure, but because sustained responsibility and emotional labor in roles like wife, mother, professional, and caregiver can crowd out personal identity. She shares a personal story about repeatedly saying she would return to school during fall Sunday drives, postponing it for years due to family needs, and learning that there is no perfect season when others will not need you. She offers five lessons: losing yourself is often a byproduct of loving; desire without decision becomes habit; there is no ideal season for growth; self-neglect leads to gradual emotional consequences like exhaustion, irritability, and resentment; and care and identity can coexist through intentional permission, reduced guilt, and clear communication. She encourages women in demanding seasons to start with small, restorative actions—time exclusively for themselves, revisiting interests, taking a class, walking alone, reading, creating, and building friendships where they are not always the helper—while letting go of perfectionism at home. She closes by describing the "light on the other side" of constant caretaking, emphasizing that reclaiming oneself can begin even while others still need you, and invites listeners to like, subscribe, and share the episode.   00:00 Welcome + The Question Women Keep Asking: "Who Am I Now?" 01:04 Why Identity Gets Lost in Roles (and Why It's Not Your Fault) 02:53 A Personal Story: The Sunday Drive & the Dream I Kept Postponing 04:55 Finally Going Back: When Everyone Still Needs You 05:52 Five Life Lessons on Reclaiming Yourself 08:33 Practical Ways to Start Choosing You (Even in the Thick of It) 09:58 The Light on the Other Side: A New Season Without Guilt 11:17 Closing: Share, Subscribe, and Goodbye   Social Media Disclaimer: This podcast is hosted by a licensed counselor and life coach. All content is for informational and educational purposes only and does not replace professional counseling, therapy, coaching, or medical advice. Listening to this podcast or completing exercises in the journal does not establish a counselor–client or coach–client relationship. If you need personalized guidance or want to schedule a counseling (Delaware Location Only) or Life Consulting session, please visit YellowDoorConsulting.com. This podcast is not monitored for crisis or emergency situations. If you or someone you know is in immediate danger, experiencing severe distress, or in a life-threatening situation, please call 911 or go to your nearest emergency department. By listening or subscribing, you acknowledge and accept these terms. For more Podcast info and free Journal Prompts, visit DrKatinaTalks.com.

    12 min
  8. Conserving Your Energy: Knowing When to Step Back, Stay in Your Lane, and Protect Your Peace

    FEB 10

    Conserving Your Energy: Knowing When to Step Back, Stay in Your Lane, and Protect Your Peace

    Conserving Your Energy: Knowing When to Step Back, Stay in Your Lane, and Protect Your Peace In this episode of Dr. Katina Talks, Dr. Katina explores the importance of conserving your energy and knowing when to step back. Through a personal story from a Christmas cruise, she reflects on observing a mother and her adult son and how that moment became a reminder about emotional boundaries, return on investment, and protecting your peace. Dr. Katina shares five grounded takeaways about managing emotional, mental, and relational energy, including recognizing uneven investment in relationships, understanding the impact of protection without consequences, knowing when silence is the wisest response, and learning where your energy is best spent. This episode speaks to anyone navigating relationships with adult children, partners, family members, or work environments where effort feels one sided. It offers insight for those who find themselves caring deeply, overgiving, or wanting growth more than the other person involved. If you are feeling emotionally drained, stretched thin, or unsure when to engage and when to step back, this episode offers practical reflection on conserving energy without guilt and investing in what is truly ready to grow.   00:00 Introduction to Dr. Katina Talks 00:37 A Christmas Cruise Story 02:14 Observations on Parenting 05:33 Reflections on Energy Conservation 06:45 Five Life Lessons 10:23 Final Thoughts on Energy Investment 11:48 Conclusion and Farewell   Social Media Disclaimer: This podcast is hosted by a licensed counselor and life coach. All content is for informational and educational purposes only and does not replace professional counseling, therapy, coaching, or medical advice. Listening to this podcast or completing exercises in the journal does not establish a counselor–client or coach–client relationship. If you need personalized guidance or want to schedule a counseling (Delaware Location Only) or Life Consulting session, please visit YellowDoorConsulting.com. This podcast is not monitored for crisis or emergency situations. If you or someone you know is in immediate danger, experiencing severe distress, or in a life-threatening situation, please call 911 or go to your nearest emergency department. By listening or subscribing, you acknowledge and accept these terms. For more Podcast info and free Journal Prompts, visit DrKatinaTalks.com.

    12 min
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Dr. Katina Talks is the podcast that empowers you to live a more fulfilling, balanced, and authentic life. Hosted by Dr. Katina, a licensed mental health counselor, life coach, and social psychologist, this show dives into real-life stories, personal growth strategies, and psychology-backed insights that help you navigate the challenges of everyday life. Whether you're seeking inspiration to overcome fear, heal from past trauma, or discover your true purpose, Dr. Katina's thoughtful guidance and powerful anecdotes will encourage you to embrace the journey of living your best life. Tune in every Tuesday for a new episode filled with practical wisdom to inspire positive change.

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  • Creator
    Dr. Katina Clarke
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    30
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © 2025
  • Show Website
    DrKatinaTalks