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Every week, NYC LGBTQIA+ creatives and odd couple Jack Tracy (old, jaded, chooses violence) and JJ Bozeman (young, love and light, chooses crystals) discuss love, sex, relationships, dating and even swipe the apps together, joined by special guests for games, laughs and thoughtful conversations.

Want featured? Hit us up on Instagram at www.instagram.com/dyingalonepodcast or email us at necessaryoulet@gmail.com. Get early access to episodes by supporting us on Patreon (www.patreon.com/necessaryoutlet).

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    • Society & Culture
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Every week, NYC LGBTQIA+ creatives and odd couple Jack Tracy (old, jaded, chooses violence) and JJ Bozeman (young, love and light, chooses crystals) discuss love, sex, relationships, dating and even swipe the apps together, joined by special guests for games, laughs and thoughtful conversations.

Want featured? Hit us up on Instagram at www.instagram.com/dyingalonepodcast or email us at necessaryoulet@gmail.com. Get early access to episodes by supporting us on Patreon (www.patreon.com/necessaryoutlet).

    "Just mangled guts pretending" with Brandon Salerno

    "Just mangled guts pretending" with Brandon Salerno

    Jack and JJ start off this week’s episode by shitting where they eat—discussing workplace romances. JJ has a story about young love at a part time job and Jack talks about the difficulty of employees slipping into his DMs.

    In segment two, the boys check Jack’s Grindr Home Screen to find someone too young, someone who is likely stepping out on a girlfriend and someone who lives in Jack’s building.

    Later, they are joined by Brandon Salerno to play Flag4Flag—a game about red flags in others and about ourselves. Brandon’s red flag is actors, which he also considers to be his own flag. JJ doesn’t like people who are uncomfortable with silence and his flag is his need for control and closure. Jack stays away from people with complicated relationships with sex and discloses that he’s the guy who’s had nothing but terrible breakups (buckle up, we get into them). Finally, Jack and JJ both pick fights—with lube and Bowen Yang.

    Follow Brandon: www.instagram.com/brandonsactor

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    www.instagram.com/dyingalonepodcast www.instagram.com/jacktracyofficial www.instagram.com/jjbozeman

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    • 1 hr 24 min
    "Where are the hole pics?" with Corry J. Ethridge

    "Where are the hole pics?" with Corry J. Ethridge

    It's an all out assault on astrology at the top of the show this week, with Jack being the most Capricorn he's ever been. JJ partially defends the zodiac and Jack explains why he couldn't date a sexy otter obsessed with tarot (spoiler: Jack does NOT "believe in energy").

    In segment two, the boys swipe Hinge and take a detour to evaluate Jack's own picture selection. Jack also has a hot take on French people ("they're all assholes") which is immediately validated by a Hinge swipe, and oh boy is everyone wearing a hat today in their photos!

    Today’s guest is dancer, actor, singer and all around instagram pretty boy Corry J. Ethridge, who has agreed to get PIMPED OUT by the co-hosts. YOU SHOULD DATE CORRY OR AT LEAST SEND HIM NUDES. Jack and JJ review his dating app presence and give a few pointers. Finally, JJ leaves love and light to YouTube skincare tutorials and Jack picks a fight with gay Republicans/conservatives.

    **REMINDER - There is a lot of discussion of the pandemic and reopening as this episode was recorded in April 2021.**

    Date Corry: www.instagram.com/corryjethridge

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    • 1 hr 17 min
    "Color grade your nudes" with Dixie Krystals

    "Color grade your nudes" with Dixie Krystals

    This week, Jack and JJ discuss video sex and associated production values. Jack also tells JJ the two times he was blackmailed with his own nudes and the time he was videoed without his consent! Yay! They also have a thoughtful discussion about the societal shift over who gets the stigma when a sex video gets leaked.

    After the break, JJ discloses why he isn’t on the apps before swiping through Jack’s Scruff account to find someone Jack’s already talked to on another app. They also find one half of an open couple Jack is interested in and discuss the politics of how they navigate being only interested in half of a couple that only plays together.

    Today’s guest is Denver’s own tall glass of sweet tea (with added sweetener)—Dixie Krystals—who plays the dangerous game of Self Cancellation. Dixie, Jack and JJ all offer themselves up for cancellation based on a past bad behavior. Finally, JJ leaves love and light to NYC strangers and Jack picks a fight with astrology.

    **REMINDER - There is a lot of discussion of the pandemic and reopening as this episode was recorded in April 2021.**

    More on Dixie: www.dixiekrystals.com [and listen to Dixie's own podcast - Spillin' The Tea with Dixie!]

    Talk to us: www.instagram.com/dyingalonepodcast / www.instagram.com/jacktracyofficial / www.instagram.com/jjbozeman
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    • 1 hr 11 min
    "What if...he had a jackhammer?" with Mano Agapion

    "What if...he had a jackhammer?" with Mano Agapion

    Buckle up because JJ’s got a story about an anonymous hookup in a mini van with a presumedly closeted Orthodox Jewish man that is a MUST LISTEN. After, the boys swipe the apps to find a metallic spiked speedo and Jack pleads with bald men to embrace it because he LOVES it. In segment 3, the boys are joined by LA-based comedian and podcaster Mano Agapion to find out how “Good, Giving and Game” he is to hook up with some celebrity crushes with fascinating fetishes. Finally, Jack picks a fight with people who cancel plans and don’t take it upon themselves to reschedule, and JJ has more to say on mini van adventures.

    More on Mano: www.instagram.com/manoagapion

    Talk to us: www.instagram.com/dyingalonepodcast / www.instagram.com/jacktracyofficial / www.instagram.com/jjbozeman

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    More on Sherry: www.sherryvine.com
    More on Ben: www.ben-tracy.com & @racytracycomedy

    Talk to us: @dyingalonepodcast / @jacktracyofficial / @jjbozeman [instagram]
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    • 1 hr 24 min
    "A Carefully Curated Experience" with Sherry Vine and Ben Tracy

    "A Carefully Curated Experience" with Sherry Vine and Ben Tracy

    It's our first episode! Jack and JJ introduce you to the podcast by setting some ground rules and then write dating app bios for each other. In segment 2, the boys take their first swing swiping on the dating apps. Up at bat are (1) a ghost from Jack's past, (2) a classic hot person with a bland profile and (3) a seemingly sweet man with possible hangups about his racial identity. In segment 3, the boys are joined by legendary drag icon Sherry Vine who steps in to judge a dating fail from friend of the pod Ben Tracy (no relation...unless you're paying) and talks about her BRAND NEW VARIETY SHOW now streaming on OutTv. Jack also gives a deep cut Toni Braxton reference which does not land. It's a hoot. Finally, JJ leaves love and light to his friend Gabby and Jack picks a fight with sex toys that look like Barbie's Dream Dick.

    More on Sherry: www.sherryvine.com
    More on Ben: www.ben-tracy.com & @racytracycomedy

    Talk to us: @dyingalonepodcast / @jacktracyofficial / @jjbozeman [instagram]
    Give us money: www.paypal.me/necessaryoutlet
    Join our Patreon: www.patreon.com/necessaryoutlet
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    • 1 hr 21 min
    Dying Alone, Together - PREVIEW

    Dying Alone, Together - PREVIEW

    In this short preview, co-hosts Jack Tracy & JJ Bozeman announce what is to come from their new weekly podcast. Deep conversations on love, sex and dating in the LGBTQIA+ world, laughs and games with special guests (first up, the LEGENDARY Sherry Vine) and swiping the apps together. Will JJ be able to virtually hug EVERY listener? Will Jack burn this place to the ground? Find out each week by subscribing right now!

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Customer Reviews

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A-1!!

Knew it was going to be fun but daaamn! I cried laughing

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