Easy To Say

Oon Shu An & Rosie McGowan
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Hi! Actor & Host Oon Shu An here, with my bestie, Rosie. My guilty pleasure: Giving Advice. So we’ve teamed up to give it to you! In case you were wondering: Are we experts? No.Do we always do what we know we should do? Absolutely not!If you ASK us for advice, though, will we go against all good judgment and tell you what to do? Hell, yes! After all, as with all advice, it is Easy To Say, because we don't need to do it ourselves! Sending so much love!

  1. 12/08/2024

    20. I Got Turned On Sniffing My Friend's Shoe and Now He Doesn’t Want to be Friends with Me

    The shoe is on the other foot in this episode's conundrum: "My friend caught me sniffing their shoe and getting a hard on again, and now he's pissed off and won't reply to my messages. I can't stop the hard on or the temptation to have a quick whiff at shoes. How can I get my friend to accept me for who I am?" Send us your questions via our Google Doc  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    10 min

  2. 12/01/2024

    19. Do I Have Low Standards for My Husband?

    In this episode, we debate if our writer has an issue with standards: "I had a friends gathering recently at a friend's house, which was a 10-minute walk away from my place. It ended quite late, & my husband said he would walk over to pick me up. My friends invited him in for a drink, but he refused & he waited at the main road. My friends were all extremely shocked at his behaviour! Do I just have low standards? I'm fine with this, but my friend's reaction is making me worry. Do I have low standards? Am I not seeing something? Is there a problem I'm missing?" Send us your questions via our Google Doc  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    16 min

  3. 11/24/2024

    18. I May Have Dementia, Will It Take Our Love Away?

    In this episode, we talk about facing the most dreaded thing any couple can face: "I have been with my partner for a good number of years. We have built a home. We are blissfully in love, even after 15 years. And I love that we are in this relationship because we want to and not that we needed to. Recently, I received news on a diagnosis while we had bravely faced it together and had good conversations on it, a part of me worries and feels guilty that she would end up taking care of me for the rest of my life when I no longer am able. I fear that what I give her will no longer be love, but the dread of responsibility and accountability on her part. How do we truly embrace for better and for worse? How do I convince myself to believe that there is still love, even if one day she might not be able to see it from my eyes anymore?" Send us your questions via our Google Doc  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    14 min

  4. 11/17/2024

    17. My Best Friend Didn't Invite Me for her Bridal Party

    This week, we give advice on a sensitive topic: "My best friend from school is getting married later this year. Recently, I found out through social media that she has a bridal party and I'm not in it. This was surprising and hurtful to me, as she mentioned a while ago that she wasn't planning on having a bridal party or bridesmaids. I'm still planning on attending the wedding, as I've already booked my flights and scheduled a trip back to Singapore around it. I live in the UK and have lived here for most of my adult life, but I feel very sad and rejected. It's also making me question our friendship. Have I misunderstood our closeness? Did the fact that I don't live in Singapore play a role in this? I want to tell her how I feel, but I'm not sure. How am I even allowed to tell her how I feel? Or is that too presumptuous?"  Send us your questions via our Google Doc  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    13 min

  5. 11/10/2024

    16. I Want to Lick my Partner's Bum

    We try to get to the bottom line in today's show "I love to rim my partner's ass. However, my current girlfriend doesn't like it. I tried it once with her and she wasn't a fan. What can I do to get her to let me rim her on a regular basis?" Send us your questions via our Google Doc  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    10 min

  6. 11/03/2024

    15. I'm Trying Not to Upset Anyone

    Not all places hold good memories, as today's question proves:  "Hi. I'm queer, and my partner (they/them) gets very triggered that I often avoid places that my exes and I have been to. I think it's normal that Singapore is tiny, and maybe I'd never get past it. I get that it's tiring, and I'm also anxious about passing this painful fear onto them. I don't know what to do to cope better and not affect my partner with the ways my insecurities and pains are. Is there something I can do?" Send us your questions via our Google Doc  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    14 min

  7. 10/27/2024

    14. Can I Ask My Girlfriend to Tie Me Up?

    We help a couple with their bondage question  "My girlfriend, 32F and I, 35M, have been together a year now, and things are so good! Everything clicks :) On her birthday, she wanted to try something different sexually, and when we entered the bedroom, she had laid out all this BDSM gear. Afterwards, she complimented my dirty talk and said she felt safe with me when restrained, which is great, but how do I tell her I really, really, really want to try things the other way around?" Send us your questions via our Google Doc  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    13 min

  8. 10/20/2024

    13. My Boyfriend Loves My Rabbit More Than Me

    On the show today, a rabbit is getting better treatment that the partner!"I am annoyed with my boyfriend for showering his attention on my pet rabbit. It sounds ridiculous even as I type this. I've spoken to him about this before, and he's just brushed me off. One example is he just buy lunch for himself and my rabbit when he visits, and none for me. Okay, like this. And when I asked him why, he said he forgot to ask me if I wanted any. And this has happened quite a few times. Am I being the sensitive one here?" Send us your questions via our Google Doc  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    15 min
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Hi! Actor & Host Oon Shu An here, with my bestie, Rosie. My guilty pleasure: Giving Advice. So we’ve teamed up to give it to you! In case you were wondering: Are we experts? No.Do we always do what we know we should do? Absolutely not!If you ASK us for advice, though, will we go against all good judgment and tell you what to do? Hell, yes! After all, as with all advice, it is Easy To Say, because we don't need to do it ourselves! Sending so much love!

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  • Creator
    Oon Shu An & Rosie McGowan
  • Years Active
    2K
  • Episodes
    21
  • Rating
    Explicit
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