Emancipate Your Mind

Teri Hales

With Teri Hales

  1. 08/06/2023

    Emancipate Your Mind: 120: Helping Your Teen Discover Their Personal Identity

    The primary developmental task your teen will go through, whether they grew up in high demand religion or not, is differentiation. Differentiation is a process all humans go through to establish an individual identity separate from their parents and authority figures. It is a process whereby we discover our values, our beliefs, our desires, and our boundaries. The process our teens are going through is very similar to the one we experienced after leaving high demand religion. Now we get to apply the skills we learned from our own experience to support our teens in self discovery. _________________________________________________________________________________ JOIN THE LIVE WEEKLY DISCUSSION CALL Monthly donors to the podcast receive weekly supplemental emails with additional exercises as well as access to a live weekly discussion call every Wednesday at 6:30pm MT. If you want the additional support from both Teri and our growing community of subscribers, go to www.emancipateyourmind.org and choose any monthly donation amount under “support the podcast and give a gift”. New donors will be automatically added to the email list every month on the 5th with links to the discussions, exclusive exercises and tools to help you recover faster, and invitations to attend any additional workshops this year for free. To be added to the email list more quickly, please email us at teri@emancipatedcoaching.com right after making your donation and you’ll be added to the list within 24-48 hours.

    1h 4m
  2. 07/30/2023

    Emancipate Your Mind: 119: Healing Emotional Safety For Teens After High-Demand Religion

    Creating a sense of emotional safety in your home after high demand religion with teens is a little different than starting with young children. You’ve likely already established relationship patterns. And if it feels like your teen is closed off or won’t share their feelings and thoughts freely with you, there’s likely some work needed to heal those old patterns. In this episode, we talk about some steps you can take now to create that safety for your teens and young adults if it’s already been damaged a bit in the past. _________________________________________________________________________________ JOIN THE LIVE WEEKLY DISCUSSION CALL Monthly donors to the podcast receive weekly supplemental emails with additional exercises as well as access to a live weekly discussion call every Wednesday at 6:30pm MT. If you want the additional support from both Teri and our growing community of subscribers, go to www.emancipateyourmind.org and choose any monthly donation amount under “support the podcast and give a gift”. New donors will be automatically added to the email list every month on the 5th with links to the discussions, exclusive exercises and tools to help you recover faster, and invitations to attend any additional workshops this year for free. To be added to the email list more quickly, please email us at teri@emancipatedcoaching.com right after making your donation and you’ll be added to the list within 24-48 hours.

    50 min
  3. 07/23/2023

    Emancipate Your Mind: 118: Creating Emotional Safety for Young Children

    Parenting after deconstructing high demand religion can feel daunting. Going from a system where you’re given a road map for how to raise your children to having to rely on both your inner guidance and the guidance your kids share with you can feel scary and confusing. Creating a parenting environment where you’re able to work alongside your kids to make sure their unique needs are met requires that kids feel emotionally safe with you. When children feel safe being vulnerable, they can share what’s working and what isn’t working for them in your parent/child relationship and in their life in general. Today, we discuss how you can begin to create emotional safety for the very young children in your life. _________________________________________________________________________________ JOIN THE LIVE WEEKLY DISCUSSION CALL Monthly donors to the podcast receive weekly supplemental emails with additional exercises as well as access to a live weekly discussion call every Wednesday at 6:30pm MT. If you want the additional support from both Teri and our growing community of subscribers, go to www.emancipateyourmind.org and choose any monthly donation amount under “support the podcast and give a gift”. New donors will be automatically added to the email list every month on the 5th with links to the discussions, exclusive exercises and tools to help you recover faster, and invitations to attend any additional workshops this year for free. To be added to the email list more quickly, please email us at teri@emancipatedcoaching.com right after making your donation and you’ll be added to the list within 24-48 hours.

    43 min
  4. 07/16/2023

    Emancipate Your Mind: 117: What We’ve Learned About Parenting Since Leaving High-Demand Religion with Kevin Hales

    When we left Mormonism, we were terrified of what that would mean for our kids. It’s been 6 years of trusting ourselves as parents, trusting our kids input about what they want for their lives, and creating a dynamic parenting strategy together. While it has been far from perfect, we’re pleased with how things are going. This podcast is a conversation about what we’ve learned along the way. ________________________________________________________ Kevin Hales is a Licensed Professional Counselor in Colorado and Religious Trauma Coach with services available around the world. He specializes in marriage and family issues including religious deconstruction, healing from religious trauma, and parenting teens. If you’d like to talk with him about a specific issue you’re experiencing, go to his website at: https://www.coloradocounselingcenter.com/ kevin-hales ________________________________________________________ JOIN THE LIVE WEEKLY DISCUSSION CALL Monthly donors to the podcast receive weekly supplemental emails with additional exercises as well as access to a live weekly discussion call every Wednesday at 6:30pm MT. If you want the additional support from both Teri and our growing community of subscribers, go to www.emancipateyourmind.org and choose any monthly donation amount under “support the podcast and give a gift”. New donors will be automatically added to the email list every month on the 5th with links to the discussions, exclusive exercises and tools to help you recover faster, and invitations to attend any additional workshops this year for free. To be added to the email list more quickly, please email us at teri@emancipatedcoaching.com right after making your donation and you’ll be added to the list within 24-48 hours.

    1h 6m
  5. 06/25/2023

    Emancipate Your Mind: 116: Intentional Community Creation After High-Demand Religion with Chris Peck

    How do you even begin to create community for yourself after leaving high demand religion? In this episode, Communication Coach, Chris Peck and I explore how we can be intentional with the process, take cues from our relationship with ourselves, and lean into the sometimes awkward rehearsal process of practicing new ways of relating in community. ________________________________________________________ WHERE TO ENGAGE MORE WITH CHRIS Website: https://www.speakintoactioncom.com Instagram @chrisspeaksup ________________________________________________________ JOIN THE LIVE WEEKLY DISCUSSION CALL Monthly donors to the podcast receive weekly supplemental emails with additional exercises as well as access to a live weekly discussion call every Wednesday at 6:30pm MT. If you want the additional support from both Teri and our growing community of subscribers, go to www.emancipateyourmind.org and choose any monthly donation amount under “support the podcast and give a gift”. New donors will be automatically added to the email list every month on the 5th with links to the discussions, exclusive exercises and tools to help you recover faster, and invitations to attend any additional workshops this year for free. To be added to the email list more quickly, please email us at teri@emancipatedcoaching.com right after making your donation and you’ll be added to the list within 24-48 hours.

    55 min
  6. 06/18/2023

    Emancipate Your Mind: 115: Practicing Intentional Scripts to Build Stronger Relationships with Chris Peck

    I’m so excited to have Chris Peck from Speak Into Action Communications back on the podcast to talk about the subconscious scripts we intentionally or reactively use in our relationships with others. In Part 1 of this episode we explore the difference between showing up intentionally versus showing up in a reactionary way. We also explore how the scripts we used in high demand religion may be showing up today in our post-transition relationships and how we can both identify and rewrite those scripts to serve us better. ________________________________________________________ WHERE TO ENGAGE MORE WITH CHRIS Website: https://www.speakintoactioncom.com Instagram @chrisspeaksup ________________________________________________________ JOIN THE LIVE WEEKLY DISCUSSION CALL Monthly donors to the podcast receive weekly supplemental emails with additional exercises as well as access to a live weekly discussion call every Wednesday at 6:30pm MT. If you want the additional support from both Teri and our growing community of subscribers, go to www.emancipateyourmind.org and choose any monthly donation amount under “support the podcast and give a gift”. New donors will be automatically added to the email list every month on the 5th with links to the discussions, exclusive exercises and tools to help you recover faster, and invitations to attend any additional workshops this year for free. To be added to the email list more quickly, please email us at teri@emancipatedcoaching.com right after making your donation and you’ll be added to the list within 24-48 hours.

    52 min
  7. 06/11/2023

    Emancipate Your Mind: 114: How to Deal with Relationship Incompatibility Without Driving Yourself Crazy

    I know you’ve heard it before and you’re going to hear it again at least one more time today. You’re not meant to be everyone’s cup of tea. Today we discuss the reality that you may fully accept who someone is and STILL not be compatible with their reality. It doesn’t mean something is wrong with you. It doesn’t mean something is wrong with them. It just means that for at least some areas of your life, their way of being and yours just don’t line up well. AND THAT’S OK! In today’s episode, we discuss how to recognize when you’re compatible with someone and what to do when you’re not so that you can build a network of people around you who not only fully see you, but really like what they see. ________________________________________________________ RESOURCES: Avellino, Lia. “I’m a Relationship Therapist, and This Is the Biggest Thing People Get Wrong About Compatibility”. April 28, 2022. WellandGood.com Spirit. “The Psychology of Compatibility”. April 28, 2020. The Mel Robbins Show. YouTube. Swan, Teal. “Incompatibility (A Harsh Reality in Relationships). April 7, 2018. YouTube. ________________________________________________________ JOIN THE LIVE WEEKLY DISCUSSION CALL Monthly donors to the podcast receive weekly supplemental emails with additional exercises as well as access to a live weekly discussion call every Wednesday at 6:30pm MT. If you want the additional support from both Teri and our growing community of subscribers, go to www.emancipateyourmind.org and choose any monthly donation amount under “support the podcast and give a gift”. New donors will be automatically added to the email list every month on the 5th with links to the discussions, exclusive exercises and tools to help you recover faster, and invitations to attend any additional workshops this year for free. To be added to the email list more quickly, please email us at teri@emancipatedcoaching.com right after making your donation and you’ll be added to the list within 24-48 hours.

    51 min
4.9
out of 5
55 Ratings

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