Emotions With Ease

Jami Glenn

Tools That Help Parents And Kids Move Through Big Behaviors And Emotions With Ease So They Can Feel Calm, Confident And Connected.

  1. FEB 3

    Episode 29: After-School Meltdowns - How to Help Kids Regulate From Pickup to Dinner time

    If weeknights feel like one long meltdown—from the car ride home to bedtime—you're not alone. In this episode of Emotions with Ease, emotional wellness coach Jami Glenn sits down with Kristin Harrington, occupational therapist and mom of two, to talk through practical, body-based tools to help kids regulate after school—without shame, power struggles, or unrealistic expectations. 👉 New here? Grab my free 5-video Emotional Tools 101 series  ⏱ Timestamps 0:00 – Welcome + why after-school regulation matters 3:00 – Why kids fall apart after school 6:30 – What to do right at pickup (car tools that help) 10:45 – Sensory buckets explained (overflowing vs. empty) 14:30 – Movement ideas to release after-school energy 18:30 – Indoor movement when you can't get outside 22:30 – Dinner time strategies (choices + connection) 26:30 – Nighttime tools to calm the nervous system 29:30 – Kristin's personal regulation tool + wrap-up 🧠 What You'll Learn Why kids often unravel after school (even on "good" days) How to support regulation in the car, at home, and at bedtime What a "sensory bucket" is and why it matters Why movement before calm activities is key How connection helps the nervous system settle 🚗 Right-After-School Tools (Car + Pickup) Have something ready before pickup (snack, fidget) Music (sing or sit quietly—both count) High / Low / Buffalo game (parent joins in) Respect personality: some kids need to talk, others need silence 🧺 At-Home Regulation: What to Ask Yourself Is my child's sensory bucket overflowing or empty? Do they need movement or quiet connection? Have they eaten yet? (Chewy snacks help many kids regulate.) 🏃‍♂️ Movement Ideas That Actually Help Outside (when possible): Playground time Ball play (catch, soccer, basketball) Bikes, scooters, chalk, barefoot time Inside: Jumping, crawling, rolling in a blanket Nugget couch play Obstacle courses Heavy work (pushing, pulling, carrying) ✨ Tip: Add structure ("10 jumps" vs. "go play") to avoid overstimulation. 🍽 Dinner Time Support Offer choices ("With me or alone?") Let kids help when possible Create a calm space if they need distance Sit together when you can—connection regulates 🌙 Nighttime Tools to Calm the Body Deep pressure (hugs, squeezes, pillow sandwich) Rocking or gentle movement Sensory bins, Play-Doh, coloring Stretching, yoga, calming music Consistent routine (same order every night) 💛 A Gentle Reminder After-school meltdowns aren't bad behavior. They're a nervous system asking for support. Small, proactive tools—used consistently—can change the entire rhythm of your evenings. 🎧 Want Support? If you're listening and thinking, "I want help applying this in my home," you can book a low-pressure discovery call using the link in the show notes. We'll talk it through and see what feels supportive for your family. I'm rooting for you.

    42 min
  2. JAN 27

    Episode 28: Why Logic Doesn't Work During Meltdowns (and what to do instead)

    If you've ever tried to explain your way out of a meltdown and watched it get worse… this episode is for you. In this episode of Emotions with Ease, emotional wellness coach Jami Glenn explains why logic doesn't land during meltdowns, what's actually happening in your child's brain and body, and how to bring calm back online using one simple tool, one tip, and one script you can use right away. 👉 New here? Grab my free 5-video Emotional Tools 101 series. ⏱ Timestamps 0:00 – Welcome + what this episode covers 2:30 – Why explaining makes meltdowns worse 5:45 – What's happening in the brain during a meltdown 9:20 – Why logic can't land when Wise Owl is offline 12:30 – The "Soothe First, Talk Later" tool 16:30 – Fewer words, more calm (the biggest shift for parents) 20:45 – Scripts to use during meltdowns 25:10 – Common mistakes (no shame) 27:30 – Encouragement + next steps 🧠 What You'll Learn Why meltdowns are body-first, not behavior-first What happens when the Watchdog brain takes over Why logic and lectures don't work during dysregulation How calm opens the door for learning What to say instead of explaining or arguing 🧰 One Tool: Soothe First, Talk Later When emotions are high: Soothe the body (breathe, soften, lower your voice) Connect ("I'm right here.") Talk later — once calm returns You can't teach a skill to a brain in survival mode. 💡 One Tip to Remember Shorten your words. Lengthen your presence. If your child is losing it: Talk less Stay close Let your calm do the work Your regulated body becomes the calm their brain borrows. 🗣 One Script to Try "We'll talk when your Wise Owl is back. I'm here." Other options: "Let's help your body first." "Your brain needs a break to get calm." 💛 Encouragement Your child isn't giving you a hard time — their brain is having a hard time. Regulation isn't permissive. It's what makes learning possible. Calm first. Teaching later. 🎧 Want Support? If you want help applying this in your home, you can book a low-pressure discovery call using the link in the show notes. We'll talk it through and see what feels supportive for your family. I'm rooting for you. 💛

    22 min
  3. Episode 27: The Wise Owl Brain and Your Child: Tools for Calmer Days and Fewer Power Struggles

    JAN 20

    Episode 27: The Wise Owl Brain and Your Child: Tools for Calmer Days and Fewer Power Struggles

    If your child seems more regulated everywhere except at home, this episode is for you. In this episode of Emotions with Ease, emotional wellness coach Jami Glenn explains what the Wise Owl Brain is, why it goes offline so easily, and how to support it in everyday parenting moments—without lectures or power struggles. 👉 New here? Grab my free 5-video Emotional Tools 101 series. ⏱ Timestamps 0:00 – Welcome + why this topic matters 2:15 – Why kids fall apart at home 5:40 – What the Wise Owl Brain is 9:30 – Why logic doesn't work during meltdowns 12:10 – The Wise Owl Check (parent tool) 16:45 – Building Wise Owl skills before hard moments 20:30 – Scripts to use at home 25:10 – Common mistakes (no shame) 27:40 – This week's practice + encouragement 🧠 What You'll Learn What the Wise Owl Brain (prefrontal cortex) actually does Why kids "lose it" where they feel safest One simple check to prevent escalation What to say when emotions are high Why regulation comes before teaching 🎯 One Thing to Try This Week Choose one hard moment (mornings, bedtime, homework). Practice the Wise Owl Check for yourself before responding. Small pauses lead to big shifts. 💛 Want Support? If you'd like help applying this at home, you can book a low-pressure discovery call using the link in the show notes. We'll talk it through and see what feels supportive. I'm rooting for you.

    23 min
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Tools That Help Parents And Kids Move Through Big Behaviors And Emotions With Ease So They Can Feel Calm, Confident And Connected.