Confident Christian Influence | Leadership, Intentional, Clarity, God’s Plan, Time Management

Pam Pegram - Leadership and Personal Growth Coach for Christian Women

Do you feel called to more but have no idea what that “more” is? Do you want to impact lives at work, in your community, and at home — but aren’t sure how? Are you doubting your ability to lead and wondering if it’s too late? Are you overwhelmed and thinking, “I can’t possibly add one more thing to my plate”? I’m so glad you’re here. This podcast will help you finally live out the purpose God has for you, grow a deeper connection with your Savior, and make a meaningful impact in the lives of those around you. Hi, I’m Pam Pegram — a wife, mom, MeMe, Entrepreneur and Jesus lover. Like you, I felt called to more but spent a lot of time arguing with God, trying to convince Him I didn’t have the capacity. Eventually, I realized He wasn’t asking me to do more — He was inviting me into more with Him. That changed everything. Once I gave in and surrendered it all to Him - I began to grow into the woman He created me to be, started seeing lives change around me, and finally discovered I had time for everything He actually called me to — without stress. Now, I help women grow in confidence, gain clarity in their purpose as they follow God's plan, and find the time to do it all. It's not as hard as you think. You just need a little guidance and encouragement.  If you're ready to shift your focus from your position to the purpose behind it… to trade confusion for clarity on your next steps… and to expand your influence in a way that makes an eternal difference — all while learning to rest in Him — you’re in the right place. So grab your coffee, your journal, and that half-finished to-do list... and let’s get going. Learn more about Pam and the resources she offers you at pampegram.com

  1. 19H AGO

    219. Playing Small Is Costing You Influence: Step Into God’s Plan with Clarity and Confidence

    Many Christian women feel called to leadership—but quietly shrink back when it’s time to step forward. Playing small doesn’t always look like rebellion. Often, it looks responsible. Careful. Humble. Busy. Overextended. Waiting for more clarity. But here’s the truth: playing small is costing you influence. In this episode, we explore how shrinking back from your calling impacts your leadership, limits your Kingdom influence, and delays the impact God intends for your life. If you’ve been struggling with confidence, clarity, or intentional leadership, this conversation will challenge and encourage you. You’ll discover why playing small: Weakens leadership confidence Reduces intentional influence Delays personal growth Clouds clarity about God’s plan Limits Kingdom impact We also talk about how Biblical truth reframes leadership—not as platform-building, but as faithful stewardship of influence. Christian leadership requires intentional obedience, time management aligned with calling, and confidence rooted in who you are in Christ. God’s plan for your life is not passive. It requires courage. It requires clarity. It requires growth. If you’ve felt stuck between calling and action, this episode will help you recognize where fear may be limiting your influence and how to begin stepping forward with confident, intentional leadership. Reflection Questions: Where have I been shrinking back instead of stepping forward? Am I managing my time around comfort or calling? What influence might I be limiting by playing small? This episode is part of a larger conversation about overcoming the internal barriers that hinder Christian women from stepping fully into God’s plan. Over the next few weeks, we’ll continue building toward greater clarity, confidence, and intentional leadership. Invitation:  If you are a Christian woman who wants to lead with clarity, confidence, and biblical alignment, I invite you to sign up for the Confident Leader Workshop, a 3 session experience designed to help women lead intentionally and stay rooted in God’s plan. Click here to sign up.   Your Next Step If this episode resonates and you’re craving deeper clarity, confidence, and intentional growth, I would love to walk alongside you. 👉 Learn more about coaching and next steps at: https://www.pampegram.com/ Let’s help you lead from a place of alignment, not exhaustion—so you can live a rich, satisfying life and make the impact God designed you for. Lead on, Sis. 💛 Resources & Links: Want to take the Leadership Quiz? Click here. Join the Private Group for more Encouragement: [link] L.E.A.D. booklet [link] Truth Journal [link] Learn more about working with Pam [link] Learn more about Pam at pampegram.com Interested in Pam's Study Bible? It is linked here.   Keywords: Christian leadership, intentional leadership, clarity and confidence, God’s plan, influence and impact, personal growth, Biblical truth, time management for leaders, Christian women leaders, leadership development, Kingdom influence

    20 min
  2. 2D AGO

    218. Called to Lead, Not to Worry - Why Anxiety Derails Christian Leadership and God's Plan

    Worry is a common struggle for Christian women in leadership—but Scripture makes it clear that anxiety is not a neutral habit. In this episode, we explore why worry is a deterrent to becoming the leader God is calling you to be. Using Matthew 6:25–34, we examine Jesus’ teaching on worry, trust, and kingdom focus, and how anxiety quietly undermines clarity, confidence, and intentional leadership. Worry shifts leaders from faith-based decision-making to fear-driven control, draining peace and limiting influence. This episode reframes worry as a spiritual and leadership issue and offers biblical insight into how trust in God’s plan restores peace, focus, and leadership effectiveness. In this episode, we discuss: Why worry is more than an emotion—it’s a leadership issue How anxiety competes with trust in God’s provision and sovereignty Why worry clouds clarity and weakens confidence How Jesus calls leaders to seek God’s Kingdom first What it looks like to lead intentionally without fear or control This conversation will encourage Christian women leaders to release anxiety, trust God with outcomes, and step fully into faith-based leadership aligned with God’s plan. Invitation:  If you are a Christian woman who wants to lead with clarity, confidence, and biblical alignment, I invite you to sign up for the Confident Leader Workshop, a 3 session experience designed to help women lead intentionally and stay rooted in God’s plan. Click here to sign up.   Your Next Step If this episode resonates and you’re craving deeper clarity, confidence, and intentional growth, I would love to walk alongside you. 👉 Learn more about coaching and next steps at: https://www.pampegram.com/ Let’s help you lead from a place of alignment, not exhaustion—so you can live a rich, satisfying life and make the impact God designed you for. Lead on, Sis. 💛 Resources & Links: Want to take the Leadership Quiz? Click here. Join the Private Group for more Encouragement: [link] L.E.A.D. booklet [link] Truth Journal [link] Learn more about working with Pam [link] Learn more about Pam at pampegram.com Interested in Pam's Study Bible? It is linked here.     Keywords: Christian leadership, worry and anxiety, trusting God’s plan, clarity and confidence, intentional leadership, faith-based leadership, called to more, leading like Jesus, Christian women leaders, kingdom leadership, peace over worry

    24 min
  3. FEB 5

    217. Stop Overthinking Start Leading Intentionally

    Overthinking is a quiet struggle many Christian leaders face. It often shows up as excessive analysis, fear of failure, and a deep desire to control outcomes—all of which slowly drain peace and undermine trust in God’s sovereignty. In this episode, we examine what the Bible actually says about overthinking and why Scripture consistently calls leaders to trust God rather than rely on their own understanding. Overthinking is not simply “thinking too much”—it is often a form of under-trusting God, where anxiety replaces confidence in His guidance and timing. Rooted in biblical truth, this episode reframes overthinking as a spiritual issue of trust, peace, and surrender, and offers practical, scriptural steps for leading intentionally without mental exhaustion or fear-driven striving. Key Biblical Perspectives on the Overthinking Leader: Overthinking vs. Trust: Overthinking often reflects a desire to control outcomes rather than rely on God’s direction and sovereignty. A Threat to Peace: Excessive thinking fueled by fear and anxiety robs leaders of peace and mirrors biblical definitions of worry rather than wise planning. Spiritual Warfare: Scripture reveals the mind as a battlefield, where anxious and fearful thoughts can distract, discourage, and exhaust leaders. The Command to Trust: God calls leaders to trust Him fully rather than lean on personal understanding, promising guidance and direction. Stillness Before God: Biblical stillness is an act of surrender—releasing control and trusting God’s timing and power rather than forcing outcomes. What the Bible Says About Overthinking: 1 Peter 5:7 – Casting all anxiety on God because He cares deeply for His people Proverbs 3:5–6 – Trusting the Lord instead of relying on personal understanding Philippians 4:6–7 – Replacing worry with prayer to experience the peace of God Matthew 6:25–34 – Jesus’ warning against worrying about the future and His call to trust God’s provision 1 Corinthians 14:20 – Encouragement toward mature, purposeful thinking rather than anxious or obsessive thought patterns Practical Biblical Steps for Leaders: Shift Focus: Replace anxious thoughts by meditating on what is true, honorable, right, and pure (Philippians 4:8) Delegate Control to God: Intentionally surrender outcomes, timelines, and results to God Turn Overthinking into Prayer: Transform mental “what ifs” into active prayer and trust This episode is an invitation for Christian women leaders to stop striving for control and start leading with clarity, peace, and intentional trust in God’s plan. Leadership rooted in faith does not require mental exhaustion—it requires surrender.   Invitation:  If you are a Christian woman who wants to lead with clarity, confidence, and biblical alignment, I invite you to sign up for the Confident Leader Workshop, a 3 session experience designed to help women lead intentionally and stay rooted in God’s plan. Click here to sign up.   Your Next Step If this episode resonates and you’re craving deeper clarity, confidence, and intentional growth, I would love to walk alongside you. 👉 Learn more about coaching and next steps at: https://www.pampegram.com/ Let’s help you lead from a place of alignment, not exhaustion—so you can live a rich, satisfying life and make the impact God designed you for. Lead on, Sis. 💛 Resources & Links: Want to take the Leadership Quiz? Click here. Join the Private Group for more Encouragement: [link] L.E.A.D. booklet [link] Truth Journal [link] Learn more about working with Pam [link] Learn more about Pam at pampegram.com Interested in Pam's Study Bible? It is linked here.     Keywords: Christian leadership, overthinking leader, faith-based leadership, intentional leadership, trust in God, clarity and confidence, God’s sovereignty, peace over anxiety, leading like Jesus, Christian women leaders, spiritual warfare of the mind, biblical leadership, trusting God’s plan 🎧 Subscribe to continue this series on clarity, confidence, and intentional leadership rooted in biblical truth.

    15 min
  4. FEB 2

    216. Overcome Imposter Syndrome and Lead with Confidence

    Have you ever stepped into a leadership role and immediately wondered if you were really qualified to be there? If you’ve ever felt like a fraud, struggled with insecurity, or questioned whether God truly chose you, this episode is for you. In this conversation, we’re talking about what it means to lead with confidence even when you don’t feel qualified. As Christian women, we often believe the lie that leadership requires perfection, experience, or complete clarity—but God’s Word tells a very different story. In this episode, you’ll be reminded that your leadership calling is rooted in God’s purpose, not your performance. We’ll walk through powerful biblical truths that help you overcome feelings of inadequacy, silence imposter syndrome, and step into intentional, faith-filled leadership. In this episode, we cover: Why you are God’s handiwork, created for good works He prepared in advance (Ephesians 2:10) How God’s grace is sufficient and His power is made perfect in weakness (2 Corinthians 12:9) What it means to be called and chosen by God, not because of your merits but His purpose (2 Timothy 1:9, 1 Peter 2:9) Why true competence and ability come from God, not self-confidence alone (2 Corinthians 3:5–6) How shifting your focus from yourself to Christ brings peace and clarity (Isaiah 26:3) Why God values growth over perfection in your leadership journey (Philippians 1:6) How to take your thoughts captive and replace lies with biblical truth when imposter syndrome shows up If you feel called to more but keep second-guessing yourself, this episode will help you stop shrinking back and start leading with confidence—rooted in truth, anchored in Scripture, and aligned with God’s plan. I have a Handout for you to Print. Enter your email info, find the email and click confirm and there you go. This resource and more for you! Click HERE   🎧 Be sure to subscribe and join me in the next episode as we talk about how to stop overthinking and start leading intentionally.   Invitation:  If you are a Christian woman who wants to lead with clarity, confidence, and biblical alignment, I invite you to sign up for the Confident Leader Workshop, a 3 session experience designed to help women lead intentionally and stay rooted in God’s plan. Click here to sign up.   Your Next Step If this episode resonates and you’re craving deeper clarity, confidence, and intentional growth, I would love to walk alongside you. 👉 Learn more about coaching and next steps at: https://www.pampegram.com/ Let’s help you lead from a place of alignment, not exhaustion—so you can live a rich, satisfying life and make the impact God designed you for. Lead on, Sis. 💛 Resources & Links: Want to take the Leadership Quiz? Click here. Join the Private Group for more Encouragement: [link] L.E.A.D. booklet [link] Truth Journal [link] Learn more about working with Pam [link] Learn more about Pam at pampegram.com Interested in Pam's Study Bible? It is linked here.     👉 Key Themes: Christian leadership, confidence in calling, intentional leadership, clarity and confidence, faith-based leadership, leading like Jesus, imposter syndrome, Christian women leaders, God’s plan for your life, purpose and calling

    28 min
  5. JAN 29

    215. Feel Called but Unsure? Here are Your Next Steps to Intentional Leadership

    Hey sis 💛 Have you ever felt called to more—but still unsure of what God is asking you to do next? You love Jesus. You want to live intentionally. You feel a nudge toward leadership and influence… yet clarity and confidence feel just out of reach. In this episode, we talk honestly about the tension so many Christian women carry—feeling called by God while still wrestling with doubt, hesitation, and second-guessing. If you’ve ever wondered whether your uncertainty means you’ve missed your moment or misunderstood God’s plan, this conversation is for you. Together, we’ll explore why God often calls us before we feel confident, how clarity is revealed through obedience, and what it truly looks like to lead like Jesus in everyday life—not just on a stage or platform. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why feeling unsure does not disqualify you from leadership The difference between waiting on God and hesitating in fear How clarity often follows obedience, not the other way around Why confidence grows as you take intentional steps of faith What leading like Jesus looks like in real, ordinary moments If you feel called to more but aren’t sure how to move forward, this episode will help you release the pressure to have it all figured out and begin trusting God with your next step. 👉 Reflection Question: Where might God be asking you to move forward—before you feel fully confident or clear? 🎧 Be sure to subscribe and come back for the next episode, where we’ll talk about leading when you don’t feel qualified—a conversation every Christian woman in leadership needs. Invitation:  If you are a Christian woman who wants to lead with clarity, confidence, and biblical alignment, I invite you to sign up for the Confident Leader Workshop, a 3 session experience designed to help women lead intentionally and stay rooted in God’s plan. Click here to sign up.   Your Next Step If this episode resonates and you’re craving deeper clarity, confidence, and intentional growth, I would love to walk alongside you. 👉 Learn more about coaching and next steps at: https://www.pampegram.com/ Let’s help you lead from a place of alignment, not exhaustion—so you can live a rich, satisfying life and make the impact God designed you for. Lead on, Sis. 💛 Resources & Links: Want to take the Leadership Quiz? Click here. Join the Private Group for more Encouragement: [link] L.E.A.D. booklet [link] Truth Journal [link] Learn more about working with Pam [link] Learn more about Pam at pampegram.com Interested in Pam's Study Bible? It is linked here.

    15 min
  6. JAN 26

    214. Fair Weather Leader? 3 Steps to Lead Strong in the Storm

    Do you struggle when the challenging winds of leadership blow? Do you hide when the forecast calls for struggle? Do you doubt your ability when you know God is calling you? No more. It's time to take these 3 steps and learn to lead strong in the storm.  Listen as Pam gives you 3 Steps to Take to Lead Strong and fulfill God's plan even in the middle of a raging storm. Satan wants to steal, kill, and destroy our commitment to lead well. But Jesus came so that you not only can lead, but lead well out of His abundant equipping, preparation, and His presence. It takes being intentional to prepare, a commitment to stand firm, and choosing His peace even in the chaos of the storms. Let God grow you into the leader He is calling you to become. Are you ready? Invitation:  If you are a Christian woman who wants to lead with clarity, confidence, and biblical alignment, I invite you to sign up for the Confident Leader Workshop, a 3 session experience designed to help women lead intentionally and stay rooted in God’s plan. Click here to sign up.   Your Next Step If this episode resonates and you’re craving deeper clarity, confidence, and intentional growth, I would love to walk alongside you. 👉 Learn more about coaching and next steps at: https://www.pampegram.com/ Let’s help you lead from a place of alignment, not exhaustion—so you can live a rich, satisfying life and make the impact God designed you for. Lead on, Sis. 💛 Resources & Links: Want to take the Leadership Quiz? Click here. Join the Private Group for more Encouragement: [link] L.E.A.D. booklet [link] Truth Journal [link] Learn more about working with Pam [link] Learn more about Pam at pampegram.com Interested in Pam's Study Bible? It is linked here.           Keywords for SEO & Discovery: Christian leadership Biblical leadership Intentional leadership Leadership support Christian women leaders Leadership clarity Leadership confidence God’s plan Faith-based leadership coaching Leading in community

    22 min
  7. JAN 19

    213. Leaders Need Support Not Isolation to Lead Like Jesus

    Leadership often requires carrying responsibility, making decisions that affect others, and showing up consistently for people who depend on you. For many Christian women in leadership, that responsibility is carried quietly and alone. In this episode, we explore why strong leaders still need support and how biblical leadership was never meant to be lived in isolation. Drawing from Scripture, this conversation looks at God’s design for leadership, the dangers of leading alone, and why receiving support is not weakness but wisdom. We discuss how clarity, confidence, and obedience are strengthened through godly counsel, shared burdens, and intentional community. If you are a Christian woman who influences others, feels the weight of leadership, or struggles with second-guessing and decision fatigue, this episode will help you reframe support as part of God’s plan—not a sign of failure. You’ll be encouraged to lead intentionally, stay aligned with God’s priorities, and walk in obedience with clarity and confidence. In This Episode, You’ll Learn: Why God never intended leaders to carry responsibility alone What Scripture teaches about support, counsel, and shared leadership How isolation contributes to heaviness, second-guessing, and fatigue Why biblical leadership includes receiving help and guidance How community protects clarity, confidence, and obedience What it means to lead intentionally according to God’s design Invitation:  If you are a Christian woman who wants to lead with clarity, confidence, and biblical alignment, I invite you to sign up for the Confident Leader Workshop, a 3 session experience designed to help women lead intentionally and stay rooted in God’s plan. Click here to sign up.   Your Next Step If this episode resonates and you’re craving deeper clarity, confidence, and intentional growth, I would love to walk alongside you. 👉 Learn more about coaching and next steps at: https://www.pampegram.com/ Let’s help you lead from a place of alignment, not exhaustion—so you can live a rich, satisfying life and make the impact God designed you for. Lead on, Sis. 💛 Resources & Links: Want to take the Leadership Quiz? Click here. Join the Private Group for more Encouragement: [link] L.E.A.D. booklet [link] Truth Journal [link] Learn more about working with Pam [link] Learn more about Pam at pampegram.com           Keywords for SEO & Discovery: Christian leadership Biblical leadership Intentional leadership Leadership support Christian women leaders Leadership clarity Leadership confidence God’s plan Faith-based leadership coaching Leading in community

    25 min
  8. JAN 15

    212. Time Management and Proper Priorities Require Intention

    Time management struggles are often about priorities. In this episode, we explore why intention is essential for managing time well and how Christian women can align their schedules with God’s priorities instead of pressure, expectations, or endless to-do lists. This conversation breaks down key principles of effective time management, the difference between activity and intention, and how clarity and confidence grow when priorities are ordered biblically. We also look at what Scripture teaches about stewarding time wisely and why obedience to God’s instruction brings freedom, not restriction. If you are a Christian woman who carries responsibility, influences others, and wants to lead with clarity, confidence, and purpose, this episode will help you rethink how you manage your time and refocus on what truly matters. In This Episode, We Cover: Why time management problems are often priority problems The importance of intentional leadership in daily decision-making Key principles of productivity and focus for leaders How proper priorities bring clarity and reduce overwhelm Biblical instruction on stewarding time wisely Why obedience to God’s Word simplifies leadership and life How aligning with God’s priorities brings peace and confidence Key Takeaway: Effective time management begins with intentional leadership. When priorities are aligned with God’s Word, clarity increases, confidence grows, and leadership becomes lighter — not because life is easier, but because it is ordered wisely.   Your Next Step If this episode resonates and you’re craving deeper clarity, confidence, and intentional growth, I would love to walk alongside you. 👉 Learn more about coaching and next steps at: https://www.pampegram.com/ Let’s help you lead from a place of alignment, not exhaustion—so you can live a rich, satisfying life and make the impact God designed you for. Lead on, Sis. 💛 Resources & Links: Want to take the Leadership Quiz? Click here. Join the Private Group for more Encouragement: [link] L.E.A.D. booklet [link] Truth Journal [link] Learn more about working with Pam [link] Learn more about Pam at pampegram.com

    21 min
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Do you feel called to more but have no idea what that “more” is? Do you want to impact lives at work, in your community, and at home — but aren’t sure how? Are you doubting your ability to lead and wondering if it’s too late? Are you overwhelmed and thinking, “I can’t possibly add one more thing to my plate”? I’m so glad you’re here. This podcast will help you finally live out the purpose God has for you, grow a deeper connection with your Savior, and make a meaningful impact in the lives of those around you. Hi, I’m Pam Pegram — a wife, mom, MeMe, Entrepreneur and Jesus lover. Like you, I felt called to more but spent a lot of time arguing with God, trying to convince Him I didn’t have the capacity. Eventually, I realized He wasn’t asking me to do more — He was inviting me into more with Him. That changed everything. Once I gave in and surrendered it all to Him - I began to grow into the woman He created me to be, started seeing lives change around me, and finally discovered I had time for everything He actually called me to — without stress. Now, I help women grow in confidence, gain clarity in their purpose as they follow God's plan, and find the time to do it all. It's not as hard as you think. You just need a little guidance and encouragement.  If you're ready to shift your focus from your position to the purpose behind it… to trade confusion for clarity on your next steps… and to expand your influence in a way that makes an eternal difference — all while learning to rest in Him — you’re in the right place. So grab your coffee, your journal, and that half-finished to-do list... and let’s get going. Learn more about Pam and the resources she offers you at pampegram.com