Confident Christian Influence | Leadership, Intentional, Clarity, God’s Plan, Time Management

Pam Pegram - Leadership and Personal Growth Coach for Christian Women
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Do you feel called to more but have no idea what that “more” is? Do you want to impact lives at work, in your community, and at home — but aren’t sure how? Are you doubting your ability to lead and wondering if it’s too late? Are you overwhelmed and thinking, “I can’t possibly add one more thing to my plate”? I’m so glad you’re here. This podcast will help you finally live out the purpose God has for you, grow a deeper connection with your Savior, and make a meaningful impact in the lives of those around you. Hi, I’m Pam Pegram — a wife, mom, MeMe, Entrepreneur and Jesus lover. Like you, I felt called to more but spent a lot of time arguing with God, trying to convince Him I didn’t have the capacity. Eventually, I realized He wasn’t asking me to do more — He was inviting me into more with Him. That changed everything. Once I gave in and surrendered it all to Him - I began to grow into the woman He created me to be, started seeing lives change around me, and finally discovered I had time for everything He actually called me to — without stress. Now, I help women grow in confidence, gain clarity in their purpose as they follow God's plan, and find the time to do it all. It's not as hard as you think. You just need a little guidance and encouragement.  If you're ready to shift your focus from your position to the purpose behind it… to trade confusion for clarity on your next steps… and to expand your influence in a way that makes an eternal difference — all while learning to rest in Him — you’re in the right place. So grab your coffee, your journal, and that half-finished to-do list... and let’s get going. Learn more about Pam and the resources she offers you at pampegram.com

  1. 3D AGO

    208. When Leadership Feels Heavy: Returning to Clarity in God’s Plan

    Hey Sis! If leadership feels heavy right now, I want you to know something first—you’re not failing, and you’re not alone. There are seasons when the weight of responsibility, decision-making, time pressure, and expectations begin to cloud our clarity. You’re still called. You still care. But somewhere along the way, the joy and confidence you once had feels harder to access. In this episode, we’re having an honest, heart-to-heart conversation about what to do when leadership feels overwhelming and how to return to clarity in God’s plan—without striving, hustling, or trying to prove yourself. This isn’t about pushing harder. It’s about pausing long enough to realign with biblical truth, reconnect with God’s priorities, and lead with intentionality again. In this episode, we talk about: Why leadership can feel heavy even when you’re walking in your calling How lack of clarity impacts your confidence, time management, and influence The subtle signs you’re leading from pressure instead of purpose How to quiet the noise and refocus on God’s plan for your life and leadership What it looks like to lead like Jesus—grounded, present, and intentional If you’ve been asking yourself: Why does leadership feel so hard right now? Am I still on the right path? How do I regain clarity and confidence without burning out? Sis, this episode is for you. You were never meant to carry leadership alone. You were called to lead with clarity, peace, and confident Christian influence—rooted in God’s truth, not the world’s expectations. ✨ Your Next Step If this episode resonates and you’re craving deeper clarity, confidence, and intentional growth, I would love to walk alongside you. 👉 Learn more about coaching and next steps at: https://www.pampegram.com/ Let’s help you lead from a place of alignment, not exhaustion—so you can live a rich, satisfying life and make the impact God designed you for. Lead on, Sis. 💛 Resources & Links: Want to take the Leadership Quiz? Click here. Join the Private Group for more Encouragement: [link] L.E.A.D. booklet [link] Truth Journal [link] 1:1 Coaching Session ($97) [link] Learn more about Pam at pampegram.com

    21 min

  2. 12/18/2025

    207. Before You Set New Goals: Why Character Matters More Than Success

    As the year comes to an end, it’s natural to start thinking about goals — getting fit, saving money, improving relationships, or managing time better. But before you rush into setting goals for 2026, this episode invites you to pause and consider something far more important: your character. In this episode, we talk about why character matters more than success, achievement, or influence. When we grow spiritually and become more like Christ, every other area of life is impacted naturally. We reflect on the life of Jesus — His obedience to the Father, His love for people, and His humility in leadership. We also revisit the powerful moment between Jesus and Peter after Peter’s denial, where Jesus restores him and calls him not just to say he loves Him, but to serve Him. Using 2 Corinthians 3:18 and John 21:15–17, this conversation challenges Christian leaders to reflect honestly: Does my life reflect Christ? And have I truly committed my life to Him? If you’re ending the year in reflection and preparing for what’s next, this episode will help you realign your heart, your leadership, and your priorities with what matters most.   Pam is currently working on a program that will help you become the Leader we all know you can become. Be sure to visit pampegram.com/access and sign up. Watch for the email to confirm your subscription. You will receive access to some free resources and stay connected for future updates. Resources & Links: Want to take the Leadership Quiz? Click here. Join the Private Group for more Encouragement: [link] L.E.A.D. booklet [link] Truth Journal [link] 1:1 Coaching Session ($97) [link] Learn more about Pam at pampegram.com

    19 min

  3. 12/15/2025

    206. Leaders Reflect, Release, and Reset: Gain Clarity From 2025 That Shapes What’s Next

    As leaders, it’s tempting to rush into what’s next without pausing to reflect on what God has already done. But strong leadership requires wisdom — and wisdom grows through intentional reflection. In this episode, we look back on 2025 through the lens of leadership, personal growth, and spiritual discernment. You’ll learn how to evaluate your year without guilt, pressure, or comparison — and how to step forward with clarity and confidence. We walk through five questions every strong leader should ask: What were my biggest wins? What drained my energy? What do I want to repeat? What should I let go of? What are my priorities? This episode will help you slow down, gain wisdom, and align your next steps with God’s plan — before you set goals or make new commitments. If you’re ready to lead with intention, clarity, and peace as you move forward, this episode is for you. Pam is currently working on a program that will help you become the Leader we all know you can become. Be sure to visit pampegram.com/access and sign up. Watch for the email to confirm your subscription. You will receive access to some free resources and stay connected for future updates. Resources & Links: Want to take the Leadership Quiz? Click here. Join the Private Group for more Encouragement: [link] L.E.A.D. booklet [link] Truth Journal [link] 1:1 Coaching Session ($97) [link] Learn more about Pam at pampegram.com

    19 min

  4. 12/11/2025

    205. How Personal Growth Unlocks Clarity, Confidence, and Your God-Given Leadership Capacity

    In today’s episode, we’re talking about how personal growth transforms your clarity, confidence, and leadership capacity. If you feel called to more — to rise up, lead like Jesus, and make an intentional impact — this conversation will show you why your growth matters and how to take your next step. You’ll learn: Why strong leaders commit to personal growth How personal growth renews your mind (Romans 12:2) How clarity leads to better time management and stronger influence How confidence grows as you practice new thought patterns How your leadership capacity expands as you grow Four practical ways to start growing today How to lead more intentionally and step boldly into God’s plan for your life If you’re ready for clarity, confidence, and spiritual growth that strengthens your leadership, this episode is for you.     Pam is currently working on a program that will help you become the Leader we all know you can become. Be sure to visit pampegram.com/access and sign up. Watch for the email to confirm your subscription. You will receive access to some free resources and stay connected for future updates. Resources & Links: Want to take the Leadership Quiz? Click here. Join the Private Group for more Encouragement: [link] L.E.A.D. booklet [link] Truth Journal [link] 1:1 Coaching Session ($97) [link] Learn more about Pam at pampegram.com

    22 min

  5. 12/08/2025

    204. Strong Leaders Don’t Listen to Lies That Derail You From God’s Plan

    Far too many Christian women were spoken to in ways that planted lies about who they are and what they’re capable of. Maybe someone told you, “You’re too difficult,” “You’re the problem,” or “You made me act that way.” These words derail clarity, weaken confidence, and distract you from God’s plan for your life and leadership. In this episode, Pam helps you break free from the lies you believed and step into intentional, God-centered leadership so you can rise up, live called to more, and lead like Jesus with strength, focus, and courage.   In This Episode, You Will Learn: 1. You Are Not What Was Spoken Over You — You Are Who God Says You Are. Unhealthy people project their brokenness, but strong leaders learn to filter lies through truth. Discover how to gain clarity, protect your focus, and build a leadership foundation rooted in God’s Word. 2. Someone Else’s Broken Behavior Does NOT Determine Your Worth. You were created with purpose and intention. When you understand your God-given value, you lead with confidence, manage your time with intention, and stop shrinking back from the impact God is calling you to make. 3. Your Past Does Not Limit Your Leadership Future. God has called you to more. Learn how to rise up, renew your mindset, reject limiting beliefs, and walk boldly into God’s plan with intentionality and spiritual clarity. Why This Matters for Leadership & Time Management: Lies create confusion… but truth creates clarity. Lies drain energy… but truth fuels intentional action. Lies keep you stuck… but truth empowers you to lead like Jesus and step into the life you were created for. If you want to grow as a leader, strengthen your influence, and pursue God’s plan with confidence, this episode will equip you with biblical truth to silence the lies and lead with purpose.   Pam is currently working on a program that will help you become the Leader we all know you can become. Be sure to visit pampegram.com/access and sign up. Watch for the email to confirm your subscription. You will receive access to some free resources and stay connected for future updates. Resources & Links: Want to take the Leadership Quiz? Click here. Join the Private Group for more Encouragement: [link] L.E.A.D. booklet [link] Truth Journal [link] 1:1 Coaching Session ($97) [link] Learn more about Pam at pampegram.com

    26 min

  6. 12/04/2025

    203. 5 Tips to Decrease Awkwardness, Grow Connection, and Fulfill God's Plan

    Does connecting with others come easy, or is it hard for you?  Did you know that if you grow your ability to connect, you will grow your leadership capacity? Leaders must be able to connect or they will stunt the growth of their leadership potential. If connecting is hard for you - it can get easier. Over time, it came even become natural for you to boost your ability to form a connection. Pam will share 5 tips to help you decrease the awkwardness, form a connection quickly, and fulfill God's plan for you. None of us are called to isolate, we are called to do life in community and that requires connection. As we learn to connect, we will grow relationships. As we grow relationships, we will have the opportunity to make an impact in the lives of others. Connection is required to establish trust and respect. This opens up the door for us to have influence in the lives of those around us.  Be sure to join the private FB page and connect with Pam. Pam is currently working on a program that will help you become the Leader we all know you can become. Be sure to visit pampegram.com/access and sign up. Watch for the email to confirm your subscription. You will receive access to some free resources and stay connected for future updates. Resources & Links: Want to take the Leadership Quiz? Click here. Join the Private Group for more Encouragement: [link] L.E.A.D. booklet [link] Truth Journal [link] 1:1 Coaching Session ($97) [link] Learn more about Pam at pampegram.com

    24 min

  7. 12/01/2025

    202. How to Gain Confidence and Grow Intentional in Impacting Others

    Confidence is not out of reach. You can be confident as you lead others. Matter of fact, you can walk in Confident Christian Influence everyday and choose to be intentional about making an impact in the lives of others. In this episode Pam talks about 3 decisions you can make to boost your confidence quickly. These decisions are not difficult, but it is very important that you decide to do these 3 things. You will be so glad you did. Pam has also added a new resource - the Identity Sheet - you will want to grab. Hop over to her Resource Library - click here - type in your email and then have instant access to some very helpful resources. Visit the Marketplace on Pam's website to order her book and her Truth Journal. Pam's clients say the Truth Journal is a game changer. And it makes a great gift and stocking stuffer. Grab yours here. Oh, and here is the link to Pam's favorite Bible.  Okay friend - remember you have worth and value, God has a plan and a purpose for you, and you have gifts God wants to use. Today is a good day to decide you will no longer compare yourself to others, be intimidated, and no longer be confined by your comfort zone. Be a confident leader who leads others well and makes a difference in their life.   Pam is currently working on a program that will help you become the Leader we all know you can become. Be sure to visit pampegram.com/access and sign up. Watch for the email to confirm your subscription. You will receive access to some free resources and stay connected for future updates. Resources & Links: Want to take the Leadership Quiz? Click here. Join the Private Group for more Encouragement: [link] L.E.A.D. booklet [link] Truth Journal [link] 1:1 Coaching Session ($97) [link] Learn more about Pam at pampegram.com

    27 min

  8. 11/24/2025

    201. How to Deal with Difficult People - Lead Strong with Intentional Impact

    In this episode of Confident Christian Influence, Pam shares a practical, faith-forward guide to dealing with difficult people using the L.E.A.D. framework and the example of Jesus’ authority under control. You’ll learn how to lead like Jesus when tensions rise, protect your peace with healthy boundaries, and respond with clarity and self-control instead of reacting from frustration. We walk through L.E.A.D. — Lean In, Elevate Perspective, Accept Responsibility, Do the Right Things for the Right Reasons—to help you lean into God's word and instruction, consider the opportunity you have to impact the difficult persons and others, to respond appropriately, and do what God would have you to do. You’ll practice calm authority as your leadership strengthens relationships, reduces conflict, and builds trust at work, in ministry, and at home. Pam covers the worth and value we all have, Biblical principles that must be upheld, and how to set healthy boundaries and detach from the drama while staying kind. If you’re ready to transform difficult interactions into opportunities for clarity, confidence, and influence, this episode gives you the tools to lead strong with grace and truth. Pam is currently working on a program that will help you become the Leader we all know you can become. Be sure to visit pampegram.com/access and sign up. Watch for the email to confirm your subscription. You will receive access to some free resources and stay connected for future updates. Resources & Links: Want to take the Leadership Quiz? Click here. Join the Private Group for more Encouragement: [link] L.E.A.D. booklet [link] Truth Journal [link] 1:1 Coaching Session ($97) [link] Learn more about Pam at pampegram.com

    20 min
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Do you feel called to more but have no idea what that “more” is? Do you want to impact lives at work, in your community, and at home — but aren’t sure how? Are you doubting your ability to lead and wondering if it’s too late? Are you overwhelmed and thinking, “I can’t possibly add one more thing to my plate”? I’m so glad you’re here. This podcast will help you finally live out the purpose God has for you, grow a deeper connection with your Savior, and make a meaningful impact in the lives of those around you. Hi, I’m Pam Pegram — a wife, mom, MeMe, Entrepreneur and Jesus lover. Like you, I felt called to more but spent a lot of time arguing with God, trying to convince Him I didn’t have the capacity. Eventually, I realized He wasn’t asking me to do more — He was inviting me into more with Him. That changed everything. Once I gave in and surrendered it all to Him - I began to grow into the woman He created me to be, started seeing lives change around me, and finally discovered I had time for everything He actually called me to — without stress. Now, I help women grow in confidence, gain clarity in their purpose as they follow God's plan, and find the time to do it all. It's not as hard as you think. You just need a little guidance and encouragement.  If you're ready to shift your focus from your position to the purpose behind it… to trade confusion for clarity on your next steps… and to expand your influence in a way that makes an eternal difference — all while learning to rest in Him — you’re in the right place. So grab your coffee, your journal, and that half-finished to-do list... and let’s get going. Learn more about Pam and the resources she offers you at pampegram.com

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