Engaged By Design

Dr. Michael Cottam and Dr. Vernon Smith

Exploring innovation trends in learning, design, leadership, and change management in higher education. Experienced, successful leaders who have been there, done that, and own the t-shirt share perspectives and lessons learned from more than two decades of online learning and student success. Other Podcast Providers: Amazon: https://www.audible.com/podcast/Engaged-By-Design/B0DB9GZV7F?source_code=ASSGB149080119000H&share_location=pdp iHeartRadio: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/269-engaged-by-design-283650488/ Podchaser: https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/engaged-by-design-6102170

  1. 2D AGO

    Dr. Kate Smith: Culture, Leadership & Innovation at Rio Salado College

    Episode Description In Part 1 of our conversation, we sit down with Dr. Kate Smith, President of Rio Salado College, to explore how culture, empathy, and innovation shape sustainable leadership in higher education. Kate shares her personal leadership journey—from completing an Ironman to stepping into the presidency at a pivotal moment—and reflects on what it takes to intentionally steward culture over time. We discuss Rio Salado’s long-standing commitment to innovation, the Four Practices of Engagement (mindfulness, empathy, happiness, and resilience), and how those practices helped guide the institution through periods of rapid change. This episode offers a masterclass in values-driven leadership, showing how culture doesn’t happen by accident—it happens through daily, intentional choices. Key Topics / Show Notes Kate Smith’s leadership journey and Ironman story Stepping into the presidency during a moment of change Why culture must be intentionally shaped by leaders Rio Salado’s history of innovation and continuous improvement The Four Practices of Engagement: Mindfulness Empathy Happiness Resilience Building connection and belonging in a distributed, online institution All-employee engagement during COVID Launching Rio Salado’s first Alumni Hall of Fame Empowering students as partners in innovation Learning from other industries to fuel higher-ed innovation Creating space for experimentation and “productive messiness” Reflection Question Where in your leadership are you letting culture happen instead of intentionally shaping it?

    29 min
  2. Happy Now? Becoming Happy Now with Dr. Sylvia Nemmers (Part 3)

    12/30/2025

    Happy Now? Becoming Happy Now with Dr. Sylvia Nemmers (Part 3)

    Podcast: Engaged By Design Episode: Part 3 — Becoming Happy Now Guest: Dr. Sylvia Nemmers — scientist, educator, department chair, survivor, and author of Happy Now. Episode Summary In this powerful final chapter of her story, Dr. Sylvia Nemmers discusses what it means to truly know yourself, especially after life has shaken the identity you’ve relied on. She describes the quiet courage of rebuilding life after an abusive marriage, the freedom and grounding she found living alone by the ocean, and the transformative experience of training with a guide dog—a moment that marked her return to visibility, agency, and authenticity. Sylvia shares what “Happy Now” really means: not perfection, not the absence of struggle, but a steady alignment between truth and peace. She reflects on fearlessness—its strengths and its risks—and how she learned the difference between courage and recklessness. Her story reminds listeners that healing isn’t a single breakthrough. It’s a lifelong practice of listening inward, choosing authenticity, and allowing yourself to be seen. Key Topics Reclaiming Identity After Trauma – Leaving an abusive marriage – Discovering safety, solitude, and inner listening – Unlearning fear-based habits Training with a Guide Dog – Choosing visibility after years of “not acting blind” – The emotional work of becoming independent again – Learning to trust herself as much as the dog Fearlessness vs Recklessness – Being named one of Iowa’s “Fearless Women” – The shadow side of fearlessness: pushing too hard, too far – Learning discernment and emotional boundaries Defining “Happy Now” – Happiness as alignment, not accomplishment – Peace as a practice – Choosing joy without ignoring pain Identity, Truth, and Leadership – What authenticity looks like in adulthood – Saying “no” to roles that shrink your voice – Using your story to empower others Quotes “Spending time with myself, I realized: that doesn’t define who I am.” “If I'm everybody’s favorite flavor, am I my own favorite flavor anymore?” “I can’t do it the way everyone else does it — but I can figure out my own way, and that’s okay.” “Everything is possible — if you have the desire, the time, and the commitment.” Reflection Question Where in your life are you being invited to choose authenticity over expectation? Resources Book: Happy Now — Shattering the Myth of Happily Ever After (Amazon - https://amzn.to/49PHHYZ). Sylvia’s speaking & consulting: BeyondLimits.cc. Engaged By Design: MACRO Leadership resources.

    46 min
  3. Happy Now? Faith, Culture, and Courage with Dr. Sylvia Nemmers (Part 2)

    12/23/2025

    Happy Now? Faith, Culture, and Courage with Dr. Sylvia Nemmers (Part 2)

    Podcast: Engaged By Design Episode: Part 2 — Faith, Culture & Courage Abroad Guest: Dr. Sylvia Nemmers — scientist, educator, world traveler, multilingual mother, and author of Happy Now. Episode Summary In this second installment of our three-part conversation, Dr. Sylvia Nemmers takes us around the globe—Pakistan, Jordan, Greece, and beyond—to explore what happens when identity, faith, disability, and culture intersect. She shares how falling in love with a Pakistani student reshaped her worldview, how a spiritual moment in St. Peter’s Basilica led to an unexpected conversion to Islam, and how living across cultures forced her to confront assumptions she didn’t know she held. Sylvia speaks openly about learning Arabic through immersion with children, navigating strict gender norms, raising her own children across borders, and discovering humility as a transformative leadership tool. This episode illuminates what it means to be a cultural learner, not just a cultural observer. It shows that empathy can only flourish when we stop assuming our own lens is universal. Key Topics Falling in love across cultures – Meeting international students – Recognizing shared identity as “outsiders” in academic settings – Navigating family expectations and early marriage – Beginning life in Pakistan Conversion to Islam – The pivotal moment in St. Peter’s Basilica – Faith as recognition rather than instruction – Joy, continuity, and spiritual belonging Life in Pakistan – NGO work in the Northwest Territory – Navigating conservative norms (“Don’t act blind; no one will respect you”) – Learning agency and self-advocacy in unfamiliar systems Jordan: Lessons in Humility – Raising children in multilingual, multigenerational households – Misunderstandings with in-laws and the power of listening – Learning Arabic through play and daily life – Major cultural adjustment: food, family, and rhythm of life Greece: A different kind of freedom – Experiences outside extended family structure – Observing different models of happiness and social life – Gaining a more global understanding of “normal” Universal Lesson: Unlearning Assumptions – Recognizing that each culture has internal logic and dignity – Learning to ask questions instead of drawing conclusions – Seeing disability differently in each country – Realizing humility is the beginning of wisdom Quotes “When you live in another culture, you stop assuming the way you see the world is the only way.” “People have grabbed me on the street, and I’ve said, ‘I’ve been blind a long time. I’m very good at it.’” “As educators, we have expertise and resources—but the person we’re working with is the expert on themselves.” “Humility is what keeps curiosity alive.” Reflection Question What assumptions about people or cultures might you need to unlearn in order to see more clearly? Resources Book: Happy Now — Shattering the Myth of Happily Ever After (Amazon - https://amzn.to/49PHHYZ). Sylvia’s speaking & consulting: BeyondLimits.cc. Engaged By Design: MACRO Leadership resources.

    27 min
  4. Happy Now? Authenticity & Resilience with Dr. Sylvia Nemmers (Part 1)

    12/16/2025

    Happy Now? Authenticity & Resilience with Dr. Sylvia Nemmers (Part 1)

    Podcast: Engaged By Design Episode: Part 1 — Authenticity & Resilience Guest: Dr. Sylvia Nemmers — scientist, educator, and author of Happy Now: Shattering the Myth of Happily Ever After Episode Summary From childhood blindness to becoming a scientist and department chair, Sylvia traces how authenticity, curiosity, and courageous mentors shaped her leadership. She shares her early life in an institution for the blind, the hard pivot to a mainstream Catholic school, and the creative lab workaround a professor designed that unlocked independence and confidence. Key Moments Opening, Sylvia’s reveal (born blind; limited sight after age-4 surgery); framing authenticity and strength.  “Happily ever after” myth vs reality; first vision (sunlight hurts; learning to adapt). Institution years: separation, “authentic me,” and the fire-escape slide (bare feet in the Iowa snow!). Transition to Catholic school: social codes, learning hurdles, stubborn hope. Father’s influence: math on car rides, love of chemistry, finding equal footing in science. Barriers & resolve: counselor skepticism; “evaluate my ability, the job is mine to find.” Mentor moment: Dr. Larry Davis’ notched-syringe hack enabling precise dilutions; lab independence. Universal design & the social model of disability; partnering with learners to remove barriers. Quotes “At that school, I was authentically me… No one expected you to be normal, and that was a blessing.” “There are some things you can’t change… and then figure out ways to make it work.” “Words are powerful. What you say to your students can change their whole future.” Reflection Question How have you overcome your own limitations—or the labels that others have given you? Resources & Links Book: Happy Now — Shattering the Myth of Happily Ever After (Amazon - https://amzn.to/49PHHYZ). Sylvia’s speaking & consulting: BeyondLimits.cc. Engaged By Design: MACRO Leadership resources.

    48 min

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Exploring innovation trends in learning, design, leadership, and change management in higher education. Experienced, successful leaders who have been there, done that, and own the t-shirt share perspectives and lessons learned from more than two decades of online learning and student success. Other Podcast Providers: Amazon: https://www.audible.com/podcast/Engaged-By-Design/B0DB9GZV7F?source_code=ASSGB149080119000H&share_location=pdp iHeartRadio: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/269-engaged-by-design-283650488/ Podchaser: https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/engaged-by-design-6102170