Ep. 183 - Shift Your State of Being: From Wanting to Having

What if the things you desire most are within reach—but only if you're willing to change your state of being?

In this thought-provoking episode, Ashton explores the power of shifting one’s state of mind to attain life’s deepest desires. He dives into the concept of becoming the person who is worthy of love, success, and fulfillment by embodying the values and mindset required to achieve them. Through insightful “what if” scenarios, Ashton examines how the world challenges us to grow by withholding what we want until we are ready to handle it. He emphasizes the importance of authenticity, the impact of self-belief, and the practical steps to transition from a state of wanting to one of having.

[00:01 - 03:32] What Are You Being Right Now?

• True change starts with how you perceive yourself and your identity
• Being in a “state of wanting” keeps you from achieving your desires
• Shift from wanting to getting by embodying the mindset of who you wish to become

[03:33 - 06:16] Strength Through Weakness

• Life presents us with weakness to build resilience and inner strength
• Requests for patience or love often lead us through challenging circumstances to find it within
• Personal growth often requires discomfort, pushing us toward self-fulfillment

[06:17 - 09:10] Building Self-Worth and Achieving Success

• Elevate your self-worth to match the goals you want to achieve
• Overcoming limiting beliefs is essential for personal and professional growth
• Life often mirrors our self-image; improving it attracts greater opportunities

[09:11 - 13:49] The Power of Authenticity

• Authenticity generates the strongest energy and attracts meaningful relationships
• Faking it until you make it is about visualizing and stepping into your ideal self
• Authentic actions grounded in intention lead to lasting transformation

[13:50 - 16:18] Visualize, Plan, and Act for Change

• Clarity about goals makes taking action easier and more purposeful
• Backward planning from a clear goal turns aspirations into achievable steps
• Embracing challenges as opportunities prepares us to handle success sustainably

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Key Quotes:

"Anytime you want something, shift from the wanting to the having." - Ashton Levarek

“If you want to become an elite athlete, you act as one; you embody the role before it’s real.” - Ashton Levarek