Grounded Wildness

Heather Whelpley

Let's face it. You've been surrounded by messages your entire life telling you to prove your worth through achievement, success, likability, and a million other forms of being "good." Over time, those messages become rules you follow, often without even knowing it. Those rules make you believe everything will fall apart if you slow down. They tell you it’s your job to be responsible for everything and take care of everyone. They make you feel guilty for saying no. They tell you to prove, please, and perfect your way through life. It's time to stop. It's time to break those rules – and start living in grounded wildness. Join speaker, award-winning author of 'An Overachiever's Guide to Breaking the Rules' and 'Grounded Wildness', and recovering perfectionist Heather Whelpley as she shares honest conversations that will empower you to stop performing your life and start LIVING it. If you're tired of burnout, hustle culture, and the weight of “should” and “supposed-to” and want more joy, impact, and freedom in your life, this podcast is for you. Learn more at www.heatherwhelpley.com

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    EP. 46 - The Key to Getting Through Fear, Discomfort, and Worry

    What do you do when fear, worry, and discomfort get in the way of you doing the thing you really want to do? That could be something big, like a career change, or something little, like going to an event where you don't know anyone. How do you take action even when fear is there? It's not about getting rid of the fear. It's also not about trying to force yourself to be 100% confident. Instead, there is a question to ask that will give you an answer that's unique to you and your specific situation. I've used this key for MANY years and it always gives me the motivation I need to move forward even when it's scary.  In the episode, you'll get this key and how to apply it to different situations in your life, like: Setting boundaries and saying no (which can be so uncomfortable!)Imposter syndrome and questioning if you really know enough and have enough experienceProjects, decisions, and career choices that people may not get - or may actively upset themLinks: Learn more about hiring Heather as a speaker and her sessions on imposter syndrome, discovering your authentic voice, and setting boundaries: https://www.heatherwhelpley.com/speakingGet signed, hardcover copies of Heather's books on her website and the audiobook, ebook, and hardcover of Grounded Wildness on AmazonJoin Heather's email list and also get The Ultimate Guide To Saying No and Setting Boundaries At Work!

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    EP. 44 - Becoming a Changemaker with Carliss Miller

    Today's episode is an inspirational lesson in how to be a positive force for change in your workplace – and in our world as a whole. Carliss Miller, our guest today, is an organizational transformation architect, changemaker, and dedicated Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion (DEI) leader on a mission to drive positive change in organizations powered by employee engagement. She wants to bring people along with a shared vision of hope. This work is not without its challenges, though! In our conversation, Carliss shares the barriers and doubt she's experienced – and how she has found continued motivation and courage to advocate for change. We also dive into: What to do when you doubt yourself or your voiceHow to take care of yourself when things are hardLeading change when things are complex and nuancedWhat's challenging in DEI right now and what's giving Carliss hopeGiving yourself permission to reschedule important conversations when you know you don't have the energy needed for themLinks: Connect with Carliss on LinkedInConnect with Heather on LinkedIn and join the conversation about this episode!Learn more about Heather's keynote on Discovering Your Authentic Voice - And How To Use It To Lead Change (and her other speaking topics, too!)Get signed, hardcover copies of Heather's books on her website and the audiobook, ebook, and hardcover of Grounded Wildness on AmazonJoin Heather's email list and also get The Ultimate Guide To Saying No and Setting Boundaries At Work!

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    EP. 42 - How to Get Heard in Meetings

    How do you get heard in meetings? And how do you do that in a way that is both authentic AND effective? Because, let's be honest, a lot of advice given to women about how to get heard is based in bias and discrimination. It emphasizes all the ways you are "supposed to" show up vs. what is authentic to you. The same holds true for meetings and I know you are most likely in A LOT of meetings. They are a place to be heard and a place where it's easy to be overlooked, interrupted, and generally NOT heard. In the podcast, we'll cover four super practical tips that you can apply in your upcoming meeting to ensure your voice is heard: Taking up space and how to do that in virtual, hybrid, and in-person meetingsReclaiming an interruption and steering the conversation back in your directionSetting team norms that minimize interruptions and maximize people getting heardGetting an ally to support you in getting heard (and how you can support them, too!)Links: Learn more about Heather's keynote on Discover Your Authentic Voice - And How To Use It To Lead Change (and her other speaking topics, too!)Email Heather directly about speaking or with feedback on this episode: heather@whelpleyconsulting.comGet signed, hardcover copies of Grounded Wildness on Heather's website and the audiobook, ebook, and hardcover on AmazonJoin Heather's email list and also get The Ultimate Guide To Saying No and Setting Boundaries At Work!

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    EP. 40 - Unhiding Yourself with Ruth Rathblott

    This is a POWERFUL conversation about unhiding. If you've ever felt the need to hide parts of yourself or your story, whether it's related to your family background, education, finances, relationship status, or anything else, then this episode is  specifically for you. Ruth Rathblott, an esteemed TEDx speaker, author, and former leader in the non-profit sector, bravely recounts her twenty-five-year journey of concealing her limb difference. Discover how she courageously embraced authenticity, fostering deeper personal empowerment and meaningful interpersonal bonds. Ruth's story is entirely unique and her message applies to every single one of us. Hiding often brings feelings of shame and isolation, yet it doesn't have to be this way. That's why this conversation is incredibly important. In the episode we dive into: Why we hide parts of ourselves and our story (shame and fear of judgment play a big role)The value of unhiding in small, safe spaces (you don't have to get on stage and tell your story to audience to unhide!)The four steps to unhiding, even if you've been hiding something for a long time and aren't sure how to stopConnect with Ruth: WebsiteTEDx talk, When I Stopped Hiding, I Found FreedomLinkedInRuth's book, SinglehandedlyAdditional links: Learn more about hiring Heather as a speakerHeather's book, Grounded Wildness, on Amazon and her websiteJoin Heather's email list and also get The Ultimate Guide To Saying No and Setting Boundaries At Work!

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Let's face it. You've been surrounded by messages your entire life telling you to prove your worth through achievement, success, likability, and a million other forms of being "good." Over time, those messages become rules you follow, often without even knowing it. Those rules make you believe everything will fall apart if you slow down. They tell you it’s your job to be responsible for everything and take care of everyone. They make you feel guilty for saying no. They tell you to prove, please, and perfect your way through life. It's time to stop. It's time to break those rules – and start living in grounded wildness. Join speaker, award-winning author of 'An Overachiever's Guide to Breaking the Rules' and 'Grounded Wildness', and recovering perfectionist Heather Whelpley as she shares honest conversations that will empower you to stop performing your life and start LIVING it. If you're tired of burnout, hustle culture, and the weight of “should” and “supposed-to” and want more joy, impact, and freedom in your life, this podcast is for you. Learn more at www.heatherwhelpley.com