Uproot Abuse

Donna Bartos
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'Uproot Abuse' is a groundbreaking podcast dedicated to confronting the pervasive epidemic of interpersonal violence in America. Host Donna Bartos, author of 'Are You Blooming or Wilting?' and founder of Bloom 365, draws from her own experiences with abuse to spark meaningful conversations and inspire change. Each episode dives deep into the root causes of violence, examining red flags, risk factors, and the path toward healthier relationships. With insights from trusted peer influencers, subject matter experts, and special guests, the show empowers communities to educate, intervene, and disrupt the cycle of abuse before it begins. Join us on a mission to challenge the status quo and help create safer, more compassionate communities for future generations.

  1. 17 SEPT.

    Ep 28- The Right to Love: Dating and Disabilities

    For many, dating is a rite of passage. But what about young adults with intellectual and developmental disabilities (IDD)? In this vital episode, we confront the "elephant in the room" with Katherine Gyolai, founder of findlovesafely.com. We explore the alarming gap in education for this community regarding healthy relationships, consent, and abuse prevention. Learn how her unique matchmaking service is not just about finding a match, but about providing education, building confidence, and empowering a generation to have the safe, healthy relationships they deserve.

    40 min

  2. 10 SEPT.

    Ep 27- Confronting the Elephant: A Retired Detective's Blueprint for Preventing Domestic Violence

    What is the "persistent elephant in the room" when it comes to domestic violence? We explore this with Mark Wynn, a retired detective sergeant, survivor of childhood abuse, and subject matter expert who offers a rare dual perspective on the issue. We unpack the complex reasons why 80% of victims fear reporting, the historical evolution of the justice system since the Violence Against Women Act, and the critical concept of coercive control. Mark shares a powerful blueprint for change, emphasizing offender accountability, community response models, and why the most crucial step in prevention is actively engaging men and boys to build a culture of empathy.

    44 min

  3. 3 SEPT.

    Ep 26- The Economic Ripple: Investing in Prevention, Not Just Repair

    Join economist Danny Court as he breaks down the numbers behind some of society’s biggest challenges. We often hear about the costs of a problem, but what's the true economic value of preventing it in the first place? In this podcast, we explore the tangible cost of domestic violence, school shootings, and other societal harms, and reveal how shifting resources from treating the symptoms to addressing the root cause can save communities millions. From police response to lost productivity, discover how we can build a compelling case for prevention and change the conversation, one dollar at a time.

    58 min

  4. 27 AOÛT

    Ep 25- Who's Really to Blame?: A Debate on Masculinity and the Roots of Domestic Violence

    In a raw and unfiltered debate, Donna and former raper and security professional Clarence confront the uncomfortable truths behind violence. They clash over who is truly at fault in situations of harm, from road rage to domestic violence. Clarence shares his personal journey of unlearning toxic masculinity—shaped by a career of NDAs and emotional suppression—and reveals how rigid gender roles can fuel a dangerous cycle of power and control. This episode challenges our core beliefs about victim-blaming, strength, and the mindset that perpetuates violence.

    47 min

  5. 20 AOÛT

    Ep 24- From the '80s to Diddy: A Reckoning on Power, Consent, and the Normalization of Sexual Violence in Music

    In this episode, former rapper Clarence Ferguson joins us to discuss the social acceptance and normalization of violence in the music industry. We talk about the evolution of rap lyrics from the 80's to today's hyper-graphic content that blurs the lines between a performer's persona and their reality. We dissect Diddy's abuse of power and control, and the stark reality that victims are often disbelieved and silenced by money, coercion, and non-disclosure agreements.

    51 min

  6. 13 AOÛT

    Ep. 23- Beyond the Stage: An Exotic Dancer’s Perspective on Consent and Boundaries

    What happens when a woman is expected to be modest in public but available for anything behind closed doors? In this eye-opening conversation, Donna sits down with an exotic dancer and model to challenge the double standards placed on women in society and discuss the often-misunderstood world of the adult entertainment industry. Our anonymous guest shares a day in the life of a dancer, what it's like to navigate men's expectations, and how the industry has changed since COVID-19. They dive into powerful topics like setting boundaries, the prevalence of victim-blaming, and why consent should never be a negotiation—on or off the stage.

    45 min

  7. 6 AOÛT

    Ep. 22-A Father's Vow: From Predictable Tragedy to Preventable Change in Officer-Involved Domestic Violence

    Join us for a deeply personal and urgent conversation with Bruce Bieber, an anti-OIDV advocate who lost his daughter, Abigail, to domestic violence. Abby = was murdered by a fellow Hillsborough County (FL) Sheriff's Office (HCSO) Deputy. This episode goes beyond the tragic headlines to expose the "dirty little secret" of Officer-Involved Domestic Violence (OIDV). We'll unpack the unique dangers posed by law enforcement, the pervasive "Blue Code" of silence, and the societal hypocrisies that allow abusers to thrive. Drawing on his daughter's story, Bruce illuminates how violence is often predictable and, therefore, preventable. He discusses the systemic failures, the legal double standards women face, and the "super aggressor" dynamic of police power. But this is not a story of despair. It's a powerful call to action, highlighting Bruce's inspiring mission to promote policy change, enlighten communities, and empower a new generation of "enlightened" officers. As Steve Jobs once said, you can only connect the dots looking backwards. Bruce’s new purpose is to connect the dots of the past to ensure no other family endures a similar tragedy.

    50 min

  8. 31 JUIL.

    Ep. 21- Young Voices, Big Impact: Meet the Teen Advocates Revolutionizing Abuse Prevention

    Get ready to be inspired! In this powerful episode, Donna sits down with new teen peer advocates who just completed the intensive BLOOM365 Peer Advocate Academy, part of the NOVA (National Organization for Victim Advocacy) Conference Teen Track. These remarkable young people are on a mission to uproot abuse in their schools and communities. They’re bringing a vital, peer-to-peer perspective to violence prevention, focusing specifically on the "elephant in the room:” the unique barriers to help-seeking faced by their peers. They'll discuss the specialized curriculum that equipped them to recognize unhealthy relationships, practice crucial advocacy skills, and foster a culture of empathy and consent, specifically considering the added complexities LGBTQ+ youth often navigate. Discover what ignited their passion for this urgent, often overlooked issue, the challenges they anticipate, and their exciting plans to amplify their voices. They aim to create a future where all youth, especially their LGBTQ+ peers, feel safe and supported in seeking help. This episode is a must-listen for anyone interested in youth empowerment, LGBTQ+ advocacy, and the incredible impact of young leaders.

    44 min
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'Uproot Abuse' is a groundbreaking podcast dedicated to confronting the pervasive epidemic of interpersonal violence in America. Host Donna Bartos, author of 'Are You Blooming or Wilting?' and founder of Bloom 365, draws from her own experiences with abuse to spark meaningful conversations and inspire change. Each episode dives deep into the root causes of violence, examining red flags, risk factors, and the path toward healthier relationships. With insights from trusted peer influencers, subject matter experts, and special guests, the show empowers communities to educate, intervene, and disrupt the cycle of abuse before it begins. Join us on a mission to challenge the status quo and help create safer, more compassionate communities for future generations.

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  • Création
    Donna Bartos
  • Années d’activité
    2 k
  • Épisodes
    29
  • Classification
    Contenu explicite
  • Copyright
    © 2025
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