EP 9: The Unwritten Contract Effect with Shali Andrews - Pt 1 | Love languages, resentment in relationships and better communication

Kelly, Jenna, and guest co-host Shalimar unpack the unspoken agreements that sabotage relationships—romantic and platonic—and share honest, hilarious stories (including a pitchfork incident). They explore how assumptions, different love languages, and procrastination create resentments and offer practical ways to ask for what you need and set clearer expectations.

Listen for real-life examples, friendship/partner dynamics, and tips on communicating boundaries and timelines so you can stop rage-scrubbing and start being heard. 

There was so much to say that there's a part 2 coming next week!! 

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Welcome to The Audacity Effect — the unapologetic podcast for women & people who are done waiting for permission and ready to build audacious careers, businesses, and lives.

We talk female ambition, confidence, reinvention, modern womanhood, leadership, and building something bigger — even if you’re still in your 9-5, still figuring it out, or still convincing your inner critic to calm down.
We’re Jenna & Kelly — corporate escape artists in progress, accidentally-serious life strategists, and founders rewriting the rules one bold decision at a time.

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• How to stop shrinking and start showing up
• Confidence, comparison, jealousy & the real dynamics of female friendship
• Surviving corporate culture without letting it suck out your soul
• Second-act careers & identity pivots
• Overcoming imposter syndrome
• Entrepreneurship while working a full-time job
• Building confidence, resilience & brand direction
• Saying yes before you're "ready"
• Real conversations about ambition, burnout, and balancing it all

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You don’t need more qualifications — you need more audacity.

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