Episode 137: Protecting Your Heart from Users: Recognizing Red Flags & Setting Boundaries

I’m recording this one from real life. A few years ago I realized someone in my life only called when they needed a favor—and vanished when I needed support. I felt used, drained, and angry. That was my turning point. In this episode we tackle the quiet epidemic of “users”—people who take without giving—and learn how to protect your heart without becoming hard.

You’ll hear:

A personal story that shows how subtle “taking” shows up in close relationships.

The clear signs of a user: one-way favors, emotional manipulation, and a lack of empathy.

Simple, practical boundary scripts you can use the next time someone asks too much.

How to reinvest your time and energy into people who actually uplift you.

Navigation points:

Spot the red flags — journal recent interactions and notice which ones left you depleted.

Use boundary scripts — practice: “I’m sorry, I can’t help with that right now,” or “I value our friendship, but I need space.”

Reinvest in healthy connections — schedule time with three people who actually lift you up.

Quote to close:

“You teach people how to treat you by what you allow, what you stop, and what you reinforce.” — Tony Gaskins

Challenge: Use one of the boundary scripts this week and notice how much freedom it creates. Share your experience with #NavigateWell and let’s normalize protecting our hearts.

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Be sure to check out Brooke’s other projects too:

Empire Kids • www.empirekidsar.com

Connect Academy for Children • www.connectafc.com

The Empact One Foundation • www.empactone.org

The Space • www.coworkthespace.com

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