Ern and TaTa

Ernest Holmon
  • 5.0 (2)
  • Relationships

After 15 years of marriage and raising a blended family of 9 kids, Ernest and Tyera bring honest conversations about love, conflict, growth, parenting, and everything in between—without the sugarcoating. From viral relationship debates to everyday situations couples actually face, nothing is off limits. You’ll hear both perspectives—the male and female point of view—sometimes aligned, sometimes completely opposite… but always real. Whether it’s communication issues, trust, finances, modern dating standards, or “who’s really right,” this podcast challenges how people think about relationships today. If you’ve ever said “that’s exactly how it is in my house,” this is the podcast for you.

  1. 3d ago

    When Enough Is Enough

    When Enough Is Enough | Ern & Tata Podcast When do you finally reach the point where you say… enough is enough? In this episode of the Ern & Tata Podcast, Ern and Tata have a real conversation about relationships, change, patience, and knowing when you've given someone enough chances. How long should you wait for someone to change? At what point does patience turn into accepting behavior you know isn't working? And what happens when you realize that sometimes the biggest changes have to happen within yourself and the relationship itself? As the conversation unfolds, Ern and Tata take things deeper by opening up about their own relationship—the different stages they've gone through, the shifts they've had to make, and some of the changes that have challenged the way they see each other and their marriage. This one gets personal. Have they ever reached a point where one of them felt like they'd had enough? What changed? What didn't? And what did they have to learn about themselves along the way? Stay tuned… because the conversation goes somewhere you might not expect. 🎙️ Ern & Tata Podcast Real Love. Real Talk. Real Us. If you enjoy honest conversations about marriage, relationships, family, and everything that comes with building a life together, LIKE, COMMENT, SUBSCRIBE, and SHARE. 👇 QUESTION OF THE EPISODE: How do you know when you've truly given someone enough chances to change? #ErnAndTata #WhenEnoughIsEnough #MarriagePodcast #RelationshipPodcast #MarriageTalk #CouplesPodcast #RelationshipAdvice #LoveAndMarriage #RealRelationships #BlackLove #Podcast #fyp #ernandiso4president

    When Enough Is Enough

  2. 4d ago

    Bloodline Curses: It Stops With Us

    In this episode of the Ern & Tata Podcast, Ern and Tata have a deep conversation about bloodline curses, generational trauma, and the patterns families unknowingly pass from one generation to the next. What did our parents pass down to us? And more importantly, what are we passing down to our children? Ern and Tata look back at their own upbringings and discuss the behaviors that once seemed completely normal but became easier to recognize as they got older. From communication and relationships to parenting, money, emotional expression, survival mentality, and learning how to apologize—sometimes the things we struggle with didn't start with us. But that doesn't mean they have to continue with us. The couple also turns the conversation inward and asks a difficult question: What unhealthy patterns from our childhood have we accidentally brought into our own marriage and parenting? And while we often talk about generational curses, what about generational blessings? Ern and Tata discuss the strength, work ethic, love, values, and lessons their families gave them that they DO want to continue passing down. Ultimately, the question becomes: What ends with us—and what begins with us? This is a conversation about family, marriage, parenting, self-awareness, healing, and trying to leave the next generation with something better than what we received. Welcome to another real conversation with Ern & Tata — Real Love. Real Talk. Real Us. #ErnAndTata #BloodlineCurses #GenerationalCurses #GenerationalTrauma #BreakingGenerationalCurses #FamilyTrauma #MarriagePodcast #RelationshipPodcast #Parenting #BlackLove #Family #Healing #RealRelationships #fyp #ernandiso4president

    Bloodline Curses: It Stops With Us

  3. Aug 6

    We Don't Parent the Same... And That's Okay

    Every parent wants the same outcome—raising respectful, responsible, and confident children—but getting there isn't always the same. In this episode of the Ern and Tata Podcast, Ern and Tata have an honest conversation about the different ways they discipline their children. Should consequences be immediate? Is talking things through more effective than punishment? When should you be strict, and when should you show grace? As parents of a blended family, the couple shares real-life experiences, the disagreements they've had behind closed doors, and how they've learned to meet in the middle while putting their children's well-being first. Whether you're a parent, planning to become one, or simply curious about how different parenting styles shape a family, this episode is full of relatable moments, laughter, and thoughtful discussion. 💬 How do you discipline your kids? Are you the stricter parent, or do you believe in talking things out? Let us know in the comments! 👍 If you enjoyed this episode, don't forget to LIKE, SUBSCRIBE, and SHARE to support the Ern and Tata Podcast. #ErnAndTata #Parenting #Discipline #ParentingStyles #BlendedFamily #Marriage #FamilyPodcast #MomVsDad #GentleParenting #Respect #FamilyLife #CouplesPodcast #Relationships #RealTalk #MarriageAdvice #fyp #ernandiso4president

    We Don't Parent the Same... And That's Okay

  4. Aug 4

    The Moment I Knew She Was The One ❤️

    The Moment I Knew She Was The One ❤️ | Ern & Tata Podcast How do you know you've found the person you're supposed to spend the rest of your life with? In this heartfelt episode of the Ern & Tata Podcast, Ern opens up about the exact moment he realized Tata was the woman he wanted to marry. He shares what separated her from everyone else, the qualities that made him fall in love, and why that decision has never changed. The conversation takes an interesting turn when Tata asks a question many people have wondered: "What keeps you so faithful when so many men struggle with it?" Ern gives an honest and transparent answer about commitment, temptation, love, respect, and the mindset he believes every lasting relationship requires. This episode is filled with real conversations about love, loyalty, choosing your partner every day, and what it truly means to build a lasting marriage in today's world. Whether you're dating, engaged, married, or simply hoping to find your person someday, this is a conversation you won't want to miss. ❤️ In this episode: The moment Ern knew Tata was "the one"The qualities that made him choose herWhat true commitment really looks likeWhy loyalty is a daily decisionWhat keeps Ern faithful after all these yearsReal conversations about marriage, trust, and lasting love If you enjoyed this episode, don't forget to LIKE, COMMENT, and SUBSCRIBE to join the Ern & Tata family. We'd love to hear from you: When did you know your partner was "the one?" Or what qualities would make someone your forever person? #ErnAndTata #Marriage #Relationships #Love #MarriageAdvice #BlackLove #CouplesPodcast #RelationshipGoals #DatingAdvice #Communication #HealthyRelationships #Loyalty #Commitment #MarriageMatters #Podcast #RealTalk #LoveStory #MarriageJourney #fyp #ernandiso4president

    The Moment I Knew She Was The One ❤️

  5. Jul 30

    The Conversations Couples Avoid

    In this episode of the Ern & Tata Podcast, we dive into one of the biggest issues many relationships face—the uncomfortable silence surrounding the conversations that need to happen but often never do. Why do couples avoid difficult discussions? Is it fear of conflict, protecting feelings, or simply not knowing how to communicate? Ern and Tata share their honest thoughts and personal perspectives on how silence can slowly create distance between two people. The conversation takes an unexpected turn when Ern asks Tata a controversial question: Can a "work husband" or "work wife" ever be an acceptable outlet in a relationship? Is it harmless workplace chemistry, emotional support, or does it cross a line? The couple explores both sides of the debate while keeping it real, respectful, and entertaining. From communication and emotional needs to boundaries, trust, and modern relationship dynamics, this episode is filled with honest dialogue that many couples can relate to. 💬 We'd love to hear from you: Is having a work husband or work wife ever okay?What's the hardest conversation you've ever had in a relationship?Can a relationship survive if important conversations are continually avoided? Don't forget to Like, Comment, Subscribe, and turn on notifications so you never miss a new episode of the Ern & Tata Podcast. #RelationshipAdvice #Marriage #Communication #CouplesPodcast #ErnandTata #RealTalk #Love #Dating #WorkHusband #WorkWife #HealthyRelationships #Podcast #Relationships #MarriageTalk #RealLoveRealTalkRealUs #fyp #ernandiso4president

    The Conversations Couples Avoid

  6. Jul 28

    Girl Dad & Boy Mom | Raising Boys & Girls in a Blended Family | Ern & Tata Podcast

    Boy Mom. Girl Dad. One blended family. Countless lessons. ❤️👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 In this episode of the Ern & Tata Podcast, we dive into the unique experience of raising boys and girls in a blended family. As parents, we've learned that every child is different, and raising sons isn't the same as raising daughters. From emotional connections and discipline to communication styles and everyday parenting challenges, we share our honest experiences navigating parenthood together. We discuss: The differences between raising boys and girlsThe joys and challenges of being a Girl Dad and a Boy MomParenting within a blended familyHow our children have changed us as parentsLessons we've learned that every parent can relate toFunny family moments and heartfelt conversations Whether you're raising sons, daughters, or blending two families into one, this episode is full of relatable stories, laughter, and real conversations. 💬 Question of the Day: Do you think raising boys is harder than raising girls, or is it the other way around? Let us know in the comments! 👍 If you enjoyed this episode, don't forget to Like, Comment, Subscribe, and share it with someone who can relate. The Ern & Tata Podcast Real Love. Real Talk. Real Us.

    Girl Dad & Boy Mom | Raising Boys & Girls in a Blended Family | Ern & Tata Podcast

  7. Jul 23

    This or That: Couple's Edition 💍 | Get to Know Ern & Tata Like Never Before!

    How well do you really know us? In this fun and laid-back episode of the Ern & Tata Podcast, we're putting our personalities to the test with a game of This or That! From beach or mountains, Mercedes or BMW, city life or country living, luxury or simplicity, and everything in between, you'll learn more about who we are as a couple and what shapes our opinions. Some choices are easy, others spark some hilarious debates, heartfelt conversations, and maybe even a few surprises! Along the way, we'll share personal stories, relationship insights, and the reasons behind every answer. Now we want to hear from YOU! 👇 Drop your answers in the comments: Beach 🌴 or Mountains 🏔️?SUV 🚙 or Sports Car 🏎️?Money 💰 or Free Time ⏰?Love ❤️ or Respect 🤝? If you enjoy relationship conversations, marriage discussions, fun couple games, and authentic podcast moments, make sure to LIKE, SUBSCRIBE, and turn on notifications so you never miss a new episode from the Ern & Tata Podcast. Real Love. Real Talk. Real Us.

    This or That: Couple's Edition 💍 | Get to Know Ern & Tata Like Never Before!

  8. Jul 22

    The Hidden Struggles of Being a Female Content Creator

    Sometimes the best conversations are the ones you never planned to have. What started as a discussion about whether people are placing unrealistic expectations on relationships quickly evolved into something much deeper. Tata opens up about the unique challenges she's witnessed other female content creators face, the pressures that come with creating online, and her own personal experiences navigating the content creation world. From online criticism and unrealistic expectations to balancing authenticity with public perception, this episode offers an honest look at what it's really like behind the camera. Ern and Tata also discuss how relationships, social media, and content creation often intersect in ways many people never consider. In this episode: Are relationship expectations becoming unrealistic?The unseen pressures on female content creators.Tata shares her personal journey as a creator.How social media shapes public perception.Balancing real life with creating content.Why authenticity is becoming harder to maintain online.And much more. 💬 Join the conversation: Do you think female content creators face different challenges than men? What expectations do you think are unfair in relationships and online? Let us know in the comments! 👍 If you enjoyed this episode, don't forget to Like, Subscribe, and Share to support the Ern & Tata Podcast. Real Love. Real Talk. Real Us. ❤️

    The Hidden Struggles of Being a Female Content Creator
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After 15 years of marriage and raising a blended family of 9 kids, Ernest and Tyera bring honest conversations about love, conflict, growth, parenting, and everything in between—without the sugarcoating. From viral relationship debates to everyday situations couples actually face, nothing is off limits. You’ll hear both perspectives—the male and female point of view—sometimes aligned, sometimes completely opposite… but always real. Whether it’s communication issues, trust, finances, modern dating standards, or “who’s really right,” this podcast challenges how people think about relationships today. If you’ve ever said “that’s exactly how it is in my house,” this is the podcast for you.

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  • Creator
    Ernest Holmon
  • Years Active
    2026
  • Episodes
    32
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Copyright 2026 Ernest Holmon
  • Show Website
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