Ex-it Strategy

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Your no bullsh$t guide to divorce with experienced attorneys from New Direction Family Law and guests and professionals who have been there. Unfiltered discussions to help you move from victim to victorious and from bitter to better.

21 АПР.

The Complexities of Co-Parenting: A Legal Perspective

Attorneys Sarah Hink and Elizabeth Stevenson return from a hiatus on the Exit Strategy podcast to discuss why custody is often the hardest part of divorce and separation, including the emotional challenge of sharing time with children. They explain that in the North Carolina counties where they practice, courts often start from a 50/50 assumption tied to the child’s best interests and a relationship with both parents, then look for reasons to deviate such as domestic violence, substance abuse, mental health concerns, lack of involvement, or inconsistency. They cover tools like temporary arrangements, tiered custody schedules with treatment requirements, reunification therapy, custody/parent fitness evaluations, guardians ad litem, parent coordinators, and parallel parenting. They warn against false abuse claims, alienation, and putting children in the middle, noting records can follow families and even be found online later. 00:00 Welcome Back Intro 00:20 Why Custody Gets Heated 00:43 Facing 50 50 Reality 01:57 Courts Start at 50 50 02:40 Give Them a Chance 03:32 Custody Can Change 04:00 Tiered Plans and Reunification 05:35 Evaluations and Expert Help 06:55 Parallel Parenting Tools 07:31 Kids Feel the Conflict 08:57 Legal Custody Decision Making 09:42 Third Parties Can Sue 10:11 Domestic Violence Impact 11:10 False Claims Backfire 11:56 Online Records and Kids Testifying 13:23 Parental Alienation Consequences 14:08 Honesty and Realistic Outcomes 16:08 Wrap Up and Final Thoughts

18 мин.
14 АПР.

Divorce Decisions: Understanding North Carolina's Property Division

Family law attorneys Sarah Hink and Elizabeth Stevenson of New Direction Family Law discuss North Carolina equitable distribution in divorce, emphasizing that most marital property and debt acquired from the date of marriage to the date of separation is typically divided 50/50, regardless of whose name it’s in, with values generally set as of separation. They explain separate property carve-outs (inheritances kept separate, premarital retirement/house interests) and when debts may be treated as separate (not benefiting the marriage). They warn against trying to manipulate accounts or incurring debt right before separation, and note most cases settle in required mediation if parties avoid “nickel-and-diming” personal property. They also highlight practical issues with houses, refinancing, credit risk, and the need to address property claims before an absolute divorce, which can waive equitable distribution rights. 00:00 Mediation Pitfalls 00:35 Meet the Attorneys 00:57 Equitable Distribution Basics 02:01 Marital Property Freeze Frame 02:33 Unequal Splits and Misconduct 03:44 Separate Property Exceptions 05:02 Messy Assets and Businesses 05:44 DIY Agreements and Prenups 06:41 Pets and Personal Property 07:17 Mediation and Nickel Dime Fights 09:39 Home Values and Letting Go 11:32 Debt Division and Credit Risks 14:06 Bankruptcy and Final Warnings

16 мин.
7 АПР.

Divorce Survival Guide: Common Mistakes to Avoid

Family law attorneys Elizabeth Stevenson and Sarah Hink of New Direction Family Law discuss common mistakes people make during separation and divorce, emphasizing that emotions can lead to regrettable decisions. They warn that social media posts, texts, DMs, and even posts by friends or family can be used in court, and note North Carolina is a one-party consent state where conversations may be legally recorded if the recorder is a participant. They advise clients to follow attorney guidance, timely provide required financial and other documents, and avoid hiding information. They caution against relying on “Google law degrees” or AI-generated content, which can be inaccurate and costly to review. They also stress avoiding reckless behavior (partying, DUIs), maintaining credibility with the judge, and being honest about finances and other issues. 00:00 One Party Consent Warning 00:35 Meet The Divorce Attorneys 01:12 Social Media Can Sink You 02:10 Texts DMs And Friends 04:02 Recording Rules Explained 04:41 Follow Legal Advice And Disclose 05:39 Bad Advice And AI Pitfalls 07:17 Reckless Behavior And Custody 09:11 Honesty And Credibility In Court 11:24 Money Mistakes And Hidden Assets 12:16 Wrap Up Key Takeaways 13:06 Final Sign Off

15 мин.
07.10.2025

38 Billion and a Monkey

High-Profile Celebrity Breakups & Legal Drama are making headlines. From romantic entanglements like Travis Kelsey and Taylor Swift to legal battles such as the Coldplay Kiss Cam scandal and the divorce of Jeff Bezos, this episode grants an insider look into the legal ramifications of celebrity relationships. Get expert insights on prenups, custody battles, and much more. Also, tune in for a healthy dose of humor involving pet monkeys. Don't miss out on this informative and entertaining episode. 00:00 Introduction and Team Setup00:43 Family Law in the Headlines: The Coldplay Kiss Cam Incident05:14 Celebrity Relationships: Travis Kelsey and Taylor Swift08:54 Courtney Thorne-Smith's Divorce11:50 Ryan Lochte's Custody Battle16:13 Jamie King and Kyle Newman's Unusual Custody Case17:01 Custody and Legal Decisions17:38 Supervised Visits and Drug Problems17:50 Understanding Shared Legal Custody18:50 Nightmares of Custody Orders19:40 Third-Party Decision Makers20:16 Celebrity Relationships and Prenups25:36 Kanye West's Controversial Actions27:41 Real Housewives Drama31:04 Cardi B and Offset's Public Disputes33:28 Jeff Bezos' Massive Alimony35:09 Concluding Thoughts and Monkeys ------ To contact us visit https://newdirectionfamilylaw.com/contact-us-today/

37 мин.
23.09.2025

Understanding Parentage: Establishing & Disestablishing

New Direction Family Law layers and staff discuss the complexities around parentage. They cover the process of establishing and disestablishing parentage, the legal implications, and the need for paternity actions. The team also explores issues related to legitimation actions, the legal challenges of changing a child's surname, and the complications that arise within same-sex parent families. Tune in for an informative discussion about the legal intricacies of parentage and the importance of having an attorney navigate these complicated matters. 00:00 Introduction and Team Introduction00:36 Understanding Parentage: Establishing and Disestablishing01:10 Affidavit of Parentage: Hospital Procedures01:52 Paternity Tests and Legal Actions02:43 Legitimation Actions: Replacing the Wrong Dad03:36 Legal Implications of Birth Certificates05:30 Disestablishment of Paternity: Legal Steps07:41 Changing the Child's Surname10:52 Complexities in Same-Sex Parentage12:26 Conclusion and Final Thoughts ------ To contact us visit https://newdirectionfamilylaw.com/contact-us-today/

14 мин.
09.09.2025

Alienation of Affection and Criminal Conversation in North Carolina

We unpack the complex and often controversial legal topics of Alienation of Affection and Criminal Conversation. They discuss the nuances, historical context, and practical implications of these laws, which are still recognized in a few states, including North Carolina. The conversation includes real-life cases, the pros and cons of pursuing such lawsuits, and the potential impacts on all parties involved. 00:00 Introduction and Team Introduction01:01 Introducing the Topic: Alienation and Criminal Conversation01:33 Matt's Experience with Alienation Cases02:16 Legal Nuances and Publicity of Cases04:43 Breaking Down Alienation and Criminal Conversation05:50 Defenses and Legal Strategies07:20 Damages and Case Examples08:49 Challenges and Considerations in Pursuing Cases12:53 Mother-in-Law Drama13:34 Alienation of Affection Law13:54 Constitutional Concerns15:41 Jurisdiction Issues18:18 Office Affairs21:12 Connivance and Framing ------ To contact us visit https://newdirectionfamilylaw.com/contact-us-today/

23 мин.
19.08.2025

Preparing for Court: The Do's and Don'ts

Join lizabeth A. Stephenson and Sarah J. Hink from New Direction Family Law as they delve into crucial insights for clients preparing to testify in family court. Alongside Cam, their coordinator, they discuss the intricacies of courtroom procedures, the importance of honest and concise testimony, and how to handle cross-examinations and character witnesses. From what to wear to how to manage your emotions, gain valuable advice on presenting yourself effectively in court. Whether it's a custody case, financial disputes, or spousal support, this episode covers everything you need to know to navigate your court appearance with confidence. 00:00 Introduction to New Direction Family Law00:57 Preparing Clients for Testimony01:46 Courtroom Basics and Client Preparation03:36 Direct and Cross-Examination Tips06:46 Character and Expert Witnesses09:54 Handling Emotions and Courtroom Etiquette11:08 The Importance of Genuine Emotions in Court11:23 Challenges Judges Face in Determining Credibility11:51 Handling Lies and Perjury in Court13:56 Using Text Messages and Emails as Evidence15:52 The Dangers of Faking Evidence17:16 Respecting Court Protocol and Behavior17:46 Financial Testimonies and Document Familiarity18:51 The Waiting Game for Court Rulings19:49 Preparing for Cross-Examination21:43 Character Witness Preparation

23 мин.
05.08.2025

Navigating Custody Issues Across State Lines

Our hosts discuss the complexities of handling custody issues when co-parents live in different states. They delve into the legalities, jurisdiction matters, and real-life scenarios including military families and interstate relocations. The conversation highlights the importance of understanding state laws, getting court permissions, and the potential emotional and financial impacts on the children and parents involved. They also provide practical advice on dealing with such situations, emphasizing the significance of consulting with an attorney before making any moves. 00:00 Introduction and Greetings00:41 Custody Issues Across State Lines00:57 Jurisdiction and Legal Complexities01:02 Case Study: California to North Carolina02:01 Challenges of Interstate Custody03:12 Real-Life Examples and Scenarios05:06 Impact on Children and Families06:27 Personal Experiences and Insights09:22 Judicial Decisions and Fairness09:50 Financial Implications of Custody Arrangements10:41 Navigating Child Support and Extraordinary Expenses11:04 Relocation and Its Legal Implications12:50 Getting Permission to Move: Legal Steps13:35 Factors Judges Consider in Relocation Cases15:44 Emergency Custody and Relocation Challenges17:30 Co-Parenting and Relocation: Practical Advice19:57 Consulting Attorneys Before Relocating20:38 Final Thoughts on Relocation and Custody

22 мин.

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Ex-it Strategy - Meet the Hosts

Elizabeth is from Cary, NC and she grew up in a toxic family with an abusive father. Her parents stayed together for the kids. This is something they hear all the time as family law attorneys. Part of that is why she focuses on family law and it's all she has done professionally. Elizabeth has a master's and bachelor's in social work and worked in the nonprofit field before she began her practice. She has been married and divorced when her child was two so has experienced many of the aspects of divorce both personally and professionally. Sarah is a native of Raleigh, went to law school at Cambell. She discovered family law and fell in love with it. She loves dealing with people and getting to know them and why they tick. She is a big fan of true crime and juicy stories about understand why people do the things they do and the psychology behind it. She also loves going to court and litigating, the aspect of law that is arguing the law and what's right, and why things should be the way they are as opposed to what the other side things. So family law allows her to practice all these passions while getting to help people and walk beside them on the road of separation, divorce, and custody battles. Many people may assume the work of family law attorneys would be depressing, but Elizabeth and Sarah feel it's the best job in the world because they get to help make people's lives better every single day. People don't get married thinking this is only going to last a short time. Most go into it thinking it is for life so when it ends it is like a death. It's traumatic. On this show, we are going to share the good, the bad, the ugly, and over 30 years of stories. Laughter can be a potent medicine to deal with trauma and hardship and we're here to help you find some relief and let you know other people are dealing with this too. You're not crazy for feeling your feelings. You will also hear from Jen Bordeaux, who is our director of public relations during the show. She helps keep us on track and reach out to the community. We also plan on having special guests to walk through these important and interesting topics on upcoming episodes. We hope to walk with this through you so when you come out on the other side you go from victim to victor and from bitter to better. Legal disclaimer: The information in this podcast is provided for general information purposes. Only it may not reflect the current law in your jurisdiction. We are North Carolina attorneys. And by listening to this episode or any of the other episodes, you understand that there is no attorney-client relationship between you and New Direction Family Law, or Elizabeth, or Sarah and there's no attorney-client relationship here. No information contained in this episode should be construed as legal advice from us or the individual author host guests or anyone else we have on this podcast. And it's not intended to be substituted for legal counsel or subject matter in anything else. No listener of this episode should act or refrain from acting on the basis of any information provided. Included in or assessable through this episode without seeking appropriate legal advice on your particular facts.

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This is awesome!!

09.02.2023

Crown_podcasts

I love listening to these ladies! They really answer all of the questions I would of never thought to ask. It feels like I’m sitting with friends and not talking about something that is a really serious topic. They take all of the stress out of it. Keep it up girls!
Thanks for the pre-consult gang! 😉

16.07.2022

DaveEvanHughes

Basically, it’s a free pre-consultation the way I see it. After listening to some of the episodes that apply to my situation specifically and everyone’s more generally, I have a completely different set of questions and topics going in and a MUCH more optimistic outlook on my situation
Too much giggling

14.01.2023

AK Ajijic

Giggling over each other and one has a speech impediment. Very hard to listen to.
Incredibly informative & highly entertaining

15.06.2022

Dufkins

Love the down to earth approach. Each episode is very informative and all done with a healthy dose of humor. Highly recommend listening.