Cappuccinos & Confidence with Nefe

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Pull up a cozy chair and pour yourself a frothy cup—because every week on Cappuccinos & Confidence life‑coach‑turned‑“self‑love barista” Nefe Oguntoye serves quick, coffee‑house conversations that boost your worthiness, boldness, and joy. From five‑minute espresso shots of mindset magic to deeper chats with inspiring guests, each episode leaves you stirred, not shaken, and ready to design the latte‑layered life you crave. Want extra resources, rituals, and retreats? Sip over to NefeWellness.com for the full menu. ☕

  1. 12/30/2025

    Podcast Pause: Back in April — An Honest Update

    Thank you for listening and supporting the podcast. I originally planned to return in January, but I need more time to finish a new website and prepare for a major surgery in February 2026 with an estimated eight-week recovery. I'm now aiming to resume episodes in April. This is a pause, not a goodbye. I appreciate your patience and understanding and look forward to coming back with renewed energy, new ideas, and fresh episodes. Take care until then.

    2 min

  2. 11/24/2025

    Nefe’s Holiday Hiatus: Taking November & December Off

    Lovelies, it’s Nefe: I’ve been ill and will take November and December off to rest and recover, returning in the new year around January 5th. Take care of yourselves this holiday season—listen to your body, set boundaries, avoid unnecessary arguments, and re-listen to past episodes if you need a reminder. Check the website: nefe wellness.com

    2 min

  3. 11/10/2025

    #38: Start Over, Softly - Confidence in New Beginnings

    Ep 38 — The Confidence in Starting Over Fresh starts can feel loud, tender, and a little surreal. In this episode, Nefe shares a real-time story—moving into a first London flat—as a practical, heart-led framework for any new beginning: a job, a degree, a health reset, sobriety, parenting, moving countries, or rebuilding after grief. We start with friction-free first steps (Ian pre-loads the car, collects the keys, and they drop a few boxes in the second bedroom on a Tuesday night), then choose pace as self-hospitality (owning it for two weeks: one Saturday to paint, the next to move). Along the way, kindness shows up in small ways (printed boiler and wardrobe instructions from previous residents—angels). From there, we retire the myth that starting over means you failed, and replace it with a gentle mantra: “I don’t need certainty; I need the next honest step.” You’ll leave with 5 anchors that travel anywhere: Body: the Arrive Breath (inhale 4, hold 2, exhale 6) at thresholds. Space: finish one tiny “first corner” (hello, tea station) before doing everything. Money: one early bill + autopay as proof of stewardship. People: one intentional check-in + accepting neighbourly help. Words: rename the hard thing (“I’m practising energy,” “I’m early at this”). We close with Three Bricks—a 60-second nightly practice to notice quiet wins and grow self-trust, brick by brick. If you want a compassionate nudge to begin—without perfection, with more presence—pour something warm and press play. Takeaways: lower friction, move at a humane pace, update your story, set two anchors, count quiet wins. Link to show notes: https://nefewellness.com/confidence-in-starting-over-cc-38/

    17 min

  4. 11/03/2025

    Big Brew #3 Is Live on YouTube — Watch Now!

    Hey my loves, quick update: Big Brew 2 is now available on YouTube. You can download the workbook from my website or just watch the video. I will put a link to my website in the description. Alright loves, have a great day, bye! Link: https://nefewellness.com/big-brew-3-manifesting-made-practical/

    6 sec

  5. 10/27/2025

    #37: Gentle Rewiring -Rereading The Power of the Subconscious Mind

    The host rereads Dr. Joseph Murphy’s The Power of the Subconscious Mind and reframes it as a guide to trusting yourself. The episode shows that the subconscious responds to repetition, not pressure, and shares five gentle practices—morning mind reset, the word “yet,” a nightly proof list, whispered affirmations, and swapping self-deprecating jokes for kinder truths—to help reprogram negative self-talk into kinder, consistent habits.

    9 min

  6. 10/20/2025

    #36: The Myth of Having It All: Embracing Messy Confidence

    Ever feel like everyone else has it all figured out while you’re just trying to make it through the day? You’re not alone — and spoiler alert: nobody really has it together. In this episode of Confidence & Cappuccino, Nefe shows up — cold, blanket, tea and all — to talk about why perfection is overrated and how real confidence is built in the messy middle of life. From funny “not-so-together” moments to heartfelt truths about self-trust, Nefe reminds us that showing up imperfectly is still showing up — and that’s what confidence truly looks like.   ✨ You’ll hear about: Why “having it all together” is a confidence trap How to find peace in chaos and show up anyway The link between humour, imperfection, and resilience Three gentle ways to let go of perfectionism for good Grab your cup, exhale, and remember — confidence isn’t built in perfection; it’s built in persistence. ☕   👉 Read the full show notes, transcript, and resources: nefewellness.com/the-myth-of-having-it-all-together-cc36

    10 min

  7. 10/13/2025

    #35: Grief Beyond Goodbyes: When Dreams Change Shape

    Sometimes, the hardest kind of grief isn’t about losing someone — it’s about losing the version of your life you thought you’d have. In this deeply personal episode, Nefe opens up about navigating health challenges, the pain of letting go of long-held dreams, and learning how to find peace in the middle of change. Through gentle reflection and relatable honesty, she explores what it means to heal without rushing, to honour grief as love, and to rediscover confidence when life takes an unexpected turn. Whether you’re dealing with loss, change, or simply feeling off-track, this episode is a reminder that your story still matters — even when it looks nothing like you imagined. ☕ Listen now to find compassion, comfort, and quiet courage — one sip at a time.   ✨ You’ll Learn: Why grief isn’t a straight line — and why that’s okay. How to hold space for both pain and progress. The quiet power of rewriting your story with self-compassion. Why confidence often begins in our most vulnerable moments.   💖 Resources and transcript: 👉 nefewellness.com/grieving-the-life-you-imagined-cc35

    7 min

  8. 10/06/2025

    Big Brew #2 Is Live on YouTube — Watch Now!

    Hey my loves, quick update: Big Brew 2 is now available on YouTube. You can download the workbook from my website or just watch the video. I will put a link to my website in the description. Alright loves, have a great day, bye! Link: https://nefewellness.com/big-brew-2-wellness-reset/

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Pull up a cozy chair and pour yourself a frothy cup—because every week on Cappuccinos & Confidence life‑coach‑turned‑“self‑love barista” Nefe Oguntoye serves quick, coffee‑house conversations that boost your worthiness, boldness, and joy. From five‑minute espresso shots of mindset magic to deeper chats with inspiring guests, each episode leaves you stirred, not shaken, and ready to design the latte‑layered life you crave. Want extra resources, rituals, and retreats? Sip over to NefeWellness.com for the full menu. ☕

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