Fathernetics

Jameel Mayers
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Fathernetics – A podcast for fathers, by fathers. Exploring fatherhood from all angles, specifically the LGBTQ+ perspective, we dive into parenting, relationships, and victories—all with real, unfiltered conversations. We challenge the roles of Fathers whether you’re a biological gay dad, stepdad, ally, adoptive parent, or Mom just stepping into a fatherly role, this space is for you, because fatherhood isn’t one-size-fits-all. 🎙️ Hosted by Jameel Mayers 📲 Follow us on Youtube & Instagram: @fathernetics 📢 New episodes on Thursdays!

  1. S2:E11 - Jason & James | Reveals the Adoption Rules Nobody Talks About

    2D AGO

    S2:E11 - Jason & James | Reveals the Adoption Rules Nobody Talks About

    This episode of Fathernetics explores the real journey of parenting and adoption through the eyes of two LGBTQ dads. Jameel, Jason and James talk about raising kids with intention, navigating the adoption process, and building a strong foundation of planning and support. They share the realities of balancing travel, self-care, and community while creating a home where representation matters. The conversation highlights the unique challenges and everyday joy of LGBTQ families, the importance of supportive networks, and what it truly takes to build a family through adoption today. #Fathernetics #LGBTQFamilies #AdoptionJourney #GayDads #ModernParenting #TwoDadHouseholds #IntentionalParenting #FamilyBuilding #ParenthoodStories

    1h 4m
  2. S2:E10 - Graham Martin | Building a Brand While Raising Humans

    FEB 5

    S2:E10 - Graham Martin | Building a Brand While Raising Humans

    Graham Martin joins Fathernetics host Jameel Mayers for a real, funny, and thoughtful talk about modern fatherhood. From parenting through extreme weather and raising kids with completely different personalities to youth sports, homeschooling, and mental health—nothing’s off the table. Graham opens up about creating Hayday Company and why building a community for dads matters more than ever. This episode dives deep into self-care, intentional parenting, and the honest chaos that comes with being a dad today. Takeaways The weather in Phoenix can be extreme, affecting daily life.Family dynamics change with the addition of children, impacting parenting styles.Fatherhood often brings a softening effect, especially with daughters.Children's personalities can differ greatly, influencing parenting approaches.Youth sports play a significant role in child development and resilience.Homeschooling decisions are often based on family values and circumstances.Starting a business can be a way to create a legacy for children.The bourbon community can be competitive and sometimes toxic.Intentional parenting is crucial for building strong family connections.Mental health and self-care are important for parents to model for their children. Watch the full conversation on YouTube and subscribe to Fathernetics for more authentic stories about fatherhood, surrogacy, adoption, and LGBTQ+ family journeys. Chapters 00:00 - Weather and Driving in Phoenix 02:56 - Introduction to Graham Martin 04:16 - Parenting Dynamics: Boys vs. Girls 10:04 - Understanding Child Personalities 15:28 - Youth Sports and Commitment 19:09 - Homeschooling Decisions and Family Dynamics 22:08 - Skiing in Colorado: Costs and Experiences 25:14 - The Journey of Fatherhood: From Corporate Life to Entrepreneurship 30:19 - Creating a Marketplace for Dads: The Vision Behind Dad's Life 34:43 - Building Connections: The Importance of Community for Dads 37:08 - Influences of Fatherhood: Learning from Generations 40:21 - The Evolution of Parenting: Embracing Change and Growth 43:07 - Reflections on Life Before Kids: What’s Missed? 46:05 - Exploring Bourbon Preferences 46:59 - Spontaneous Adventures and Family Time 48:54 - Cinematic Interests and Recommendations 51:27 - Mental Health and Self-Care Practices 55:53 - Intentional Parenting and Family Connections 01:01:57 - Capturing Memories and Future Generations

    1h 7m
  3. S2:E9 - Ricky Conway | Adoption, Acceptance, and a Dash of Halloween Magic

    JAN 29

    S2:E9 - Ricky Conway | Adoption, Acceptance, and a Dash of Halloween Magic

    In this engaging conversation, Ricky shares his experiences as a single dad navigating the complexities of parenting, creativity in Halloween celebrations, and the journey to fatherhood through adoption. He discusses the importance of communication with his children, the fears and concerns that come with parenting, and the significance of fostering a loving environment. Ricky emphasizes the need for open dialogue about family dynamics and societal perceptions, particularly as an LGBTQ parent. He offers heartfelt advice for aspiring parents, highlighting the joys and challenges of raising children.

    1h 1m
  4. S2:E8 - Shaun Thomas | Community Support and the Surrogacy Experience

    JAN 22

    S2:E8 - Shaun Thomas | Community Support and the Surrogacy Experience

    In this conversation, Shaun Thomas shares his experiences as a father of three children through surrogacy, discussing the challenges and joys of parenting, the importance of community support, and the process of selecting a surrogacy agency. He emphasizes the need for impartial advice for intended parents and the significance of normalizing diverse family structures. The discussion also touches on the cultural aspects of surrogacy in Colombia and the ongoing journey of parenthood. Chapters 00:00 Navigating Family Routines with Young Children 05:55 Shaun's Journey into Surrogacy 14:54 Experiences in Colombia and Surrogacy Challenges 22:01 Empowering Intended Parents in Surrogacy 30:21 Exploring Surrogacy Options 37:20 Influences from Family and Upbringing 43:19 Building an Inclusive Community for Children 50:48 Future Plans and Community Engagement #Parenting #Surrogacy #LGBTQFamilies #CommunitySupport #FamilyRoutines #ColombiaCulture #IntendedParents #AgencySelection #ParentEmpowerment #FamilyDynamics

    56 min
  5. S2:E7 - Brian Douglas James | Navigating Parenthood and Career in the Arts

    JAN 15

    S2:E7 - Brian Douglas James | Navigating Parenthood and Career in the Arts

    Did you meet Meryl Streep? Brian James shares his journey from a small-town upbringing in West Virginia to a career in musical theater and film in New York City. He talks about becoming a dad, moving to the suburbs, and why representation in media matters for kids. He and his husband’s adoption journey highlights the challenges and joy of building a family. Brian reflects on raising a Black child as a white parent, navigating racial dynamics, and the role of community in supporting LGBTQ families. This conversation explores adoption, parenting, family life, and the changing landscape of LGBTQ representation. Like, share, and subscribe for more fatherhood and family stories from Fathernetics. #BrianJames #MusicalTheater #Film #Parenting #LGBTQ #AdoptionJourney #NewYorkCity #LifeCoaching #Representation #LGBTQFamilies #Surrogacy #FamilyDynamics #CulturalDiversity #ParentingStories #RacialDynamics #FamilyExpansion #ChosenFamily Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Brian's Artistic Journey 02:09 The Impact of Parenthood on Career Choices 05:13 Exploring Musical Theater and Recommendations 08:01 Transitioning from Theater to Film and Television 11:12 Behind the Scenes: The Film and TV Experience 14:06 Balancing Fatherhood and Career 16:51 Moving from City Life to Suburbia 20:01 The Charm of Provincetown and LGBTQ Acceptance 24:56 The Power of Representation in Media 26:47 Growing Up Queer: A New Perspective 28:45 Cultural Shifts in LGBTQ+ Visibility 30:28 Love and Relationships: A Musical Connection 32:51 Navigating Life Together: The Importance of Communication 35:51 The Adoption Journey: Challenges and Triumphs 38:47 Preparing for Parenthood: The Adoption Process 43:42 Coping with Loss: Finding Humor in Dark Times 48:47 Navigating Grief and Adoption Journeys 49:55 The Unexpected Call: Welcoming a Newborn 50:48 Open Adoption: Building Relationships with Birth Parents 52:44 Addressing Race in Multicultural Families 55:18 Confronting Public Perception and Cultural Identity 58:33 Educating Others: The Importance of Curiosity 01:01:05 Embracing Diversity in Family Dynamics 01:09:45 The Future of Parenting in a Changing World

    1h 12m
  6. S2:E6 - Mauricio Chamberlin | Family, Food, and Fatherhood

    JAN 8

    S2:E6 - Mauricio Chamberlin | Family, Food, and Fatherhood

    Jameel Mayers sits down with Mauricio Chamberlin for a candid conversation about the journey of fatherhood, adoption challenges, and the joy of building family traditions. They discuss how social media shapes modern shopping habits, why nutrition matters in parenting, and how cultural roots influence both cooking and raising kids. Mauricio reflects on his adoption story, while the conversation expands to explore journalism’s role in shaping family narratives and the meaning of the American dream for LGBTQ families. This heartfelt exchange offers a powerful glimpse into the beauty, complexity, and resilience of modern parenting. Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Personal Style 02:11 The Impact of Social Media on Consumer Behavior 04:40 Creative Outlets and Cooking Passion 07:06 Nutritional Awareness and Meal Preparation 09:20 Family Background and Culinary Influences 11:57 Parenthood and Cultural Perspectives 14:34 Naturalization and the American Dream 21:06 The Journey to Parenthood Begins 24:44 Navigating the Adoption Process 30:03 The Day They Became Parents 34:06 Transitioning from Concept to Reality 39:46 Cultural Influences on Parenting 43:48 The Role of Journalism in Parenting 47:21 A Call to Action for Future Parents

    57 min
  7. S2:05 - David, Founder of Gaddies, brand building with Boy Band Confidence

    JAN 1

    S2:05 - David, Founder of Gaddies, brand building with Boy Band Confidence

    This conversation brings together Jameel Mayers and David Morgenstern for a lively look at how music, parenting, and entrepreneurship shape the lives of LGBTQ dads. They talk boy bands, intentional parenting, generational connections, and the power of community. David opens up about building Gatties, his lifestyle brand focused on representation and support for gay dads, and explains the mentorship and resilience behind his journey. The discussion highlights how fatherhood, creativity, and identity come together in today’s world while offering relatable insights for parents navigating their own paths. www.gaddies.com #Fathernetics #LGBTQParents #GayDads #DadPodcast #LGBTQEntrepreneur #IntentionalParenting #ParentingCommunity #BoyBandFans #RepresentationMatters #YouTubePodcasts

    1h 4m
  8. S2:E4 - Matt Tolbert | Social media juggernaut showcases Parenthood

    12/25/2025

    S2:E4 - Matt Tolbert | Social media juggernaut showcases Parenthood

    The conversation with Matt Tolbert breaks down why surrogacy in the United States has become so expensive and what those rising costs really mean for families hoping to grow through assisted reproduction. It explores how prices have climbed over the years, the real numbers families are navigating today, and the level of financial planning required for anyone starting a surrogacy journey. The discussion offers clarity for parents and future parents who want transparent information about modern family building, LGBTQ plus parenting options, and the realities behind today’s surrogacy landscape. It also reinforces the mission of Fathernetics to make conversations around fatherhood and family creation more accessible and honest for everyone.

    1h 2m
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Fathernetics – A podcast for fathers, by fathers. Exploring fatherhood from all angles, specifically the LGBTQ+ perspective, we dive into parenting, relationships, and victories—all with real, unfiltered conversations. We challenge the roles of Fathers whether you’re a biological gay dad, stepdad, ally, adoptive parent, or Mom just stepping into a fatherly role, this space is for you, because fatherhood isn’t one-size-fits-all. 🎙️ Hosted by Jameel Mayers 📲 Follow us on Youtube & Instagram: @fathernetics 📢 New episodes on Thursdays!

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  • Creator
    Jameel Mayers
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    39
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Copyright 2026 Jameel Mayers
  • Show Website
    Fathernetics