Fathernetics

Jameel Mayers
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  • Parenting
  • Updated Weekly

Fathernetics | Dad Hero Stories Real stories from the men who chose fatherhood and everything it took to get there. From adoption and fostering to IVF and surrogacy, Fathernetics explores the journeys behind modern dads, who they were before, what they faced, and who they became along the way. Centered on LGBTQ+ men, with occasional perspectives from women reflecting on their own fathers, these are honest, unfiltered conversations about identity, resilience, relationships, and the realities of building a family. Because becoming a dad isn’t simple and it’s never one-size-fits-all. 🎙️ Hosted by Jameel Mayers 📲 YouTube & Instagram: @fathernetics 📢 New episodes every Thursday

  1. 5d ago

    S3:E04 - Adrian & Shane Potter | How Gay Dads Raise Strong, Independent Kids Today.

    This episode of Fathernetics explores LGBTQ parenting through adoption, fostering, and raising teens in today’s world. Adrian and Shane Potter share their journey into fatherhood, including the emotional realities of fostering and how it shaped their parenting approach. They discuss traveling with kids, emphasizing the need for slower pacing and meaningful moments, along with how trying new experiences builds stronger family bonds. The conversation highlights intentional parenting, open communication, and helping kids think critically—especially as social media begins to influence identity and behavior. As their children grow more independent, they reflect on balancing guidance with freedom while staying connected through everyday “awe moments.” This episode offers a real, grounded look at modern fatherhood from an LGBTQ perspective. #fathernetics #lgbtqdads #adoptionjourney #intentionalparenting #modernfatherhood

    S3:E04 - Adrian & Shane Potter | How Gay Dads Raise Strong, Independent Kids Today.

  2. Jul 16 ·  Video

    S3:E03 - Rita Soronen (CEO) - Dave Thomas Foundation For Adoption.

    What happens to kids who never get adopted? In this episode of Fathernetics, Rita Soronen, president and CEO of the Dave Thomas Foundation for Adoption, breaks down the real state of foster care in the U.S. This conversation goes beyond headlines—into what aging out actually means, why older children are often overlooked, and how programs like Wendy’s Wonderful Kids are changing outcomes. We talk about the legacy of Dave Thomas, the responsibility communities carry, and what prospective parents—especially LGBTQ+ dads—should know before stepping into foster care or adoption. This is not about politics. It’s about people, kids, and what it takes to show up for them in a complicated world. If you’ve ever thought about fostering, adopting, or just want to understand the system better, this one matters. Follow and subscribe to hear more real stories from modern dads navigating adoption, surrogacy, and fatherhood. #fathernetics #fostercare #adoptionjourney #lgbtqdads #adoptionawareness

    S3:E03 - Rita Soronen (CEO) - Dave Thomas Foundation For Adoption.

  3. Jul 9 ·  Video

    S3:E02 - Eric Calvario - Drag Race SuperStar and Father Extraordinaire

    RuPaul’s Drag Race, Gay Fatherhood, Surrogacy, and LGBTQ+ Representation with Eric Calvario. Eric shares his RuPaul’s Drag Race journey, gay fatherhood, surrogacy, LGBTQ+ representation, and how drag strengthened his family and confidence. Episode SummaryWhat happens when a shy dad says yes to a casting call that changes everything? Eric joins Fathernetics to share the incredible story of appearing on RuPaul’s Drag Race and how the experience reshaped his confidence, his identity, and his role as a father. From marathon makeup sessions and national television to raising children with his husband Cliff, Eric opens up about balancing performance with parenthood and why authentic LGBTQ+ representation matters now more than ever. The conversation also explores the realities of building a family through surrogacy, the financial and emotional challenges many queer parents face, and the importance of organizations that help make parenthood possible. Along the way, Eric reflects on finding community with other gay dads, challenging stereotypes, and creating a world where children grow up seeing diverse families celebrated. Whether you’re exploring surrogacy, already raising a family, or simply looking for an inspiring story about courage, authenticity, and queer parenthood, this episode offers an honest look at what it means to show up fully as yourself. In This EpisodeEric shares how a spontaneous casting opportunity led to RuPaul’s Drag Race.Behind the scenes of the 14-hour drag transformation process.Overcoming imposter syndrome while performing on a global stage.How drag became another way to connect with his children.Building a family through surrogacy with his husband Cliff.The financial realities of LGBTQ+ family building.The role of organizations like Gays with Kids and Men Having Babies.Why visibility and representation matter for LGBTQ+ families.Finding community among queer dads from every path to parenthood.Raising children with confidence, compassion, and authenticity. ResourcesGays with KidsMen Having BabiesEric Chronicles (Instagram ↓) Connect with Eric Instagram: @ericchronicles Chapters00:00 – Meet Eric, the gay dad who landed on RuPaul’s Drag Race 00:39 – From Instagram to reality TV 01:57 – Why Pride Month and Father’s Day intersect for Eric 02:32 – Life as a shy, proud gay dad 04:25 – The casting process behind the show 06:17 – 14 hours of makeup and transformation 07:16 – Facing imposter syndrome on set 09:02 – An emotional moment with RuPaul 11:18 – Why representation changes lives 12:15 – Parenting in a diverse community 16:27 – The work behind professional drag 17:47 – Learning the art of drag makeup 21:01 – Stepping onto a global stage 23:07 – Meeting the queens 24:56 – Introversion in an extroverted world 27:35 – Performing with Salina EsTitties 30:26 – How the experience changed Eric as a dad 32:15 – Building a family through surrogacy 35:28 – The real cost of becoming parents 37:48 – Adoption, fostering, and surrogacy compared 42:24 – Protecting kids while embracing visibility 43:18 – Parenting through today’s challenges 44:10 – Intentional parenting and community 45:40 – Finding connection with fellow gay dads 47:45 – Why sharing our stories matters 51:17 – Where to follow Eric

    S3:E02 - Eric Calvario - Drag Race SuperStar and Father Extraordinaire

  4. Jul 2 ·  Video

    S3:E01 - Ronaldo Dwight | Black Fatherhood Evolved...

    Season 3 of the Fathernetics podcast opens with an honest, layered conversation on what it really means to be an LGBTQ dad today. Ronaldo Dwight joins the show to talk about identity before and after fatherhood, intentional friendships, therapy, marriage, and the quiet shift that happens when you realize your life is no longer just yours. From protecting your children’s energy to protecting your own, this episode is about growth, boundaries, and choosing community on purpose. Ronaldo shares the full surrogacy journey, including the financial strain, the emotional weight, and the heartbreak of losing a child before welcoming their second daughter. The conversation moves through Men Having Babies conferences, parenting agreements, and the truth that once the child is here, no one questions how they arrived. It is real, vulnerable, and grounded in the kind of perspective only lived experience brings. This episode centers LGBTQ parenting, representation, emotional health, and raising daughters in a world that still misunderstands gay fathers. It is about listening more than lecturing, apologizing when needed, and asking for help when pride says not to. Season 3 starts with depth, humor, and clarity. @rondwight & @2dads2ladies

    S3:E01 - Ronaldo Dwight | Black Fatherhood Evolved...

  5. Jun 25 ·  Video

    S3:E00 - Gay Dads Do It Better | Jameel Mayers - Intro Episode

    Season 3 of Fathernetics kicks off a little differently. This time, it’s just me, interview style. Answering the questions people actually ask and what it’s like building a space for LGBTQ+ dads. No big debate. Just an honest check-in about how far this thing has come. The growth has been real. More listeners. More messages. More dads saying, “I needed this," and that only happens because of the incredible Friends of the Show who’ve trusted this mic with their stories and because you keep showing up. Season 3 is grounded. If you’ve been here from the beginning, I appreciate you. If you’re just finding us, welcome in. You’re right on time. YouTube: youtube.com/@fatherneticsInstagram: @Fathernetics Substack: www.substack.com/fathernetics #fathernetics #lgbtqdads #fatherhoodpodcast #modernfamily #gaydadlife

    S3:E00 - Gay Dads Do It Better | Jameel Mayers - Intro Episode

  6. Jun 18 ·  Video

    S2:E29 - Esteban Mayers - Panama War Zone and the Father Who Raised Me

    This Father’s Day special episode of the Fathernetics podcast brings together Jameel Mayers and his father, Esteban, for an honest conversation about fatherhood across cultures and generations. They reflect on parenting values shaped in Panama and the United States, the challenges of immigration, and how education, discipline, and community play a role in raising grounded kids. The discussion weaves in historical context, including the long-term impact of Operation Just Cause, and how major events influence family dynamics and parenting choices. At its core, this episode centers on presence, responsibility, and the legacy fathers pass down, offering a thoughtful look at what it means to show up as a parent, then and now.

    S2:E29 - Esteban Mayers - Panama War Zone and the Father Who Raised Me

  7. Jun 11 ·  Video

    S2:E28 - Gaytriarch | Serious Comedy with Gavin and David

    In this episode of the Gaytriarchs Podcast, hosts David and Gavin explore what it means to raise children in a politically charged climate as gay fathers. Blending humor with honest reflection, they unpack how modern parents can address politics, global instability, and social tension while protecting their children’s emotional well-being. The episode opens with relatable banter about New England winter weather, using snow and icy sidewalks as a metaphor for how quickly something beautiful can turn complicated. A story about a slippery sidewalk accident becomes a reminder that everyday parenting moments often hold unexpected lessons. This conversational start sets the tone for deeper discussions about resilience, adaptability, and perspective in family life. This episode speaks directly to parents searching for guidance on raising children in uncertain political times. Key themes include: • How to talk to kids about politics • Parenting during political division • Raising emotionally secure children • Gay dads and family communication • Teaching kindness and civic awareness At its core, this conversation reminds listeners that while the political climate may shift, strong family values, open dialogue, and humor remain steady anchors. Parenting today requires intention, empathy, and courage—but it also leaves room for laughter along the way.

    S2:E28 - Gaytriarch | Serious Comedy with Gavin and David

  8. Jun 4 ·  Video

    S2:E27 - Cody Dolly | We Swiped Right on a Surrogate and Built a Family

    Friend of the Show Cody Dolly sits down to talk about surrogacy, LGBTQ family planning, and what it really takes to build a family with intention. From triathlons and travel to budgeting for surrogacy and finding the right match, this conversation breaks down the real life process behind becoming gay dads. If you are exploring surrogacy, parenting as an LGBTQ couple, or just want honest talk about modern fatherhood, this one is for you. Watch on YouTube at youtube.com/@fathernetics IG: @codykdolly Listen wherever you stream podcasts #fathernetics #lgbtqdads #gayparenting #surrogacyjourney #modernfatherhood

    S2:E27 - Cody Dolly | We Swiped Right on a Surrogate and Built a Family
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Fathernetics | Dad Hero Stories Real stories from the men who chose fatherhood and everything it took to get there. From adoption and fostering to IVF and surrogacy, Fathernetics explores the journeys behind modern dads, who they were before, what they faced, and who they became along the way. Centered on LGBTQ+ men, with occasional perspectives from women reflecting on their own fathers, these are honest, unfiltered conversations about identity, resilience, relationships, and the realities of building a family. Because becoming a dad isn’t simple and it’s never one-size-fits-all. 🎙️ Hosted by Jameel Mayers 📲 YouTube & Instagram: @fathernetics 📢 New episodes every Thursday

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  • Creator
    Jameel Mayers
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    61
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Copyright 2026 Jameel Mayers
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    Fathernetics

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