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In a time where we're all threatened by a rhetoric of hate from the people in power; A Gay And A NonGay challenges our differences. No matter who you are, or what you're into, gay's and nongay's can & should be friends.

'Highly Recommended' Guardian

'One of the most fundamentally kind and funny podcasts in Britain' RadioTimes

'A hilarious take on love, friendship and sex' TimeOut

An independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@DanHudson). Find us on Insta, TikTok, Twitter and Facebook @gaynongay
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A Gay and A NonGay James Barr and Dan Hudson

    • Health & Fitness
    • 4.5 • 240 Ratings

In a time where we're all threatened by a rhetoric of hate from the people in power; A Gay And A NonGay challenges our differences. No matter who you are, or what you're into, gay's and nongay's can & should be friends.

'Highly Recommended' Guardian

'One of the most fundamentally kind and funny podcasts in Britain' RadioTimes

'A hilarious take on love, friendship and sex' TimeOut

An independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@DanHudson). Find us on Insta, TikTok, Twitter and Facebook @gaynongay
Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed

    Some Men In London: A Conversation with Peter Parker About Gay History

    Some Men In London: A Conversation with Peter Parker About Gay History

    Happy Pride Month! In this episode, James and Dan are in conversation with writer and historian Peter Parker to discuss his new anthology series Some Men In London. The books explore discovered memoirs, letters and documents which depict what life was truly like for gay men in London between the 40s and late 50s.
    Both volumes are available to purchase now.
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    • 26 min
    How To Find Gay Friends In Your 30s

    How To Find Gay Friends In Your 30s

    How do you go about making male gay friends as a man in your 30s? Are heterosexual people allowed to use terms like 'top/bottom' and 'pillow princess'? And how does a closeted Hip-Hop MC go about embracing who he really is without risking his career? James and Dan explore it all in this episode.
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    • 20 min
    A Conversation with Eurovision's 2024 Winner Nemo

    A Conversation with Eurovision's 2024 Winner Nemo

    James and Dan caught up with the winner of 2024 Eurovision, Nemo. They chat about how the winning single was created, what's the tea on the dropped trophy and advice for anyone who is non-binary and struggling with their coming out.

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    • 24 min
    Can identity exist without labels?

    Can identity exist without labels?

    James and Dan use a previous listener dilemma as a starting point for a wider discussion around labels and identity. They also answer the question of why gays and lesbians don't get along.
    Listen back to the chat with Helen Scott here.
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    • 23 min
    Is it toxic for gays to be anti-pride?

    Is it toxic for gays to be anti-pride?

    Why are so many gays anti-pride? Is it internalised homophobia? Plus - are bisexuals just greedy?

    Dan ran the London Marathon in 3h 27! You can help him help Marie Curie here.
    Get tickets to see James’ new show at www.jamesbarrcomedy.com

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    • 18 min
    Is monogamy a hoax?

    Is monogamy a hoax?

    James and Dan react to RuPaul saying that monogamy is a hoax. Is there such thing as monogamy with men, and is it a different script for gays and nongays?
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    • 22 min

Customer Reviews

4.5 out of 5
240 Ratings

240 Ratings

joseluisjoae ,

Amazing podcast

Y’all are the first podcast I ever listened to! Thank you James for representing the LGBTQIA community and Dan thank you for being such a good friend to James and being an allied.

This is an awesome podcast ,

Great podcast

This is a great podcast and I have laughed so much, and learned so much, from it. I love the hosts. Keep being great!

maximus264 ,

Thanks for the spoilers!

Was enjoying this show but the bonus episode titles spoil Drag Race UK so I’m unsubscribing. It’s a pity because this is a lovely show and I’ve giggled listen. Just FYI, no other RPDR recap show features information in the title or description because they know fans will listen whatever.

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