UNITED State of Women

Kalena James & Julie Deem
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UNITED State of Women is a personal leadership development podcast focused on educating and elevating women's ability to have it all and teach them how to get it! Our USW Podcast transforms personal and professional leadership frustrations for progress into visions for a better one. Women are uniting, starting businesses, and growing companies at a pace faster than ever before. They are at the table in more executive boardrooms, speaking out on more important personal and business issues and becoming key contenders and players in our state and local gov.

  1. 4D AGO

    327 - How to Grow Through the Waiting

    What do you do when life looks completely different than the picture you had in your head? In this episode Julie Deem opens up about the grief of unmet timelines and navigating seasons where progress feels invisible. If you’ve been struggling with disappointment, comparison, burnout, or feeling disconnected from your purpose, this episode will help you feel seen and hopeful again. What You Will Learn: How to navigate the emotional weight of unmet timelines and changing expectations. Why feeling stuck and actually being stuck are two very different things. The hidden ways growth happens during slower or uncertain seasons of life. How social media comparison can distort personal progress and self-worth. Practical ways to measure internal growth instead of only external success. Why root-building seasons are necessary before major breakthroughs happen. How to take small, faithful steps forward when clarity feels far away. The importance of support systems, community, and emotional safety during difficult seasons. FAQ: Why do I feel behind in life even when I’m working hard? Many people compare their behind-the-scenes struggles to other people’s highlight reels. Growth often happens internally before external results become visible. What does it mean to be in a “root-building” season? A root-building season is a period of internal growth, healing, and preparation that may not yet show visible results externally. How can I keep moving forward when I feel discouraged? Start with one small step at a time. Momentum is built through consistent action, not giant leaps. Learn more about the latest tool for dynamic professionals in the self-improvement industry, LyfQuest. A mobile CRM platform that's uniquely made for you! Learn more at: https://lyfquest.io/ Instagram: USW Podcast ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@uswkokomo⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Kalena James ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@yesitskalenajames⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Julie Deem ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@indymompreneur⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ -------------------------------------------------- USW Kokomo ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Production by ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Business Podcast Editor⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    17 min

  2. APR 29

    327 - Business Principles for Female Leaders *Best of Episode*

    Kalena James and Julie Deem are in studio sharing 4 business principles for female leaders. Learn why the ladies are are so passionate about this subject as they announce a big project that has been developing behind the scenes!!! 1. Understand the values and beliefs of those you serve. 2. Connect with empathy and generosity. 3. Automate more tasks to free up time. 4. Don’t take it personal. “It can have everything to do with you but it has nothing to do with you” - Kalena James Learn more about the latest tool for dynamic professionals in the self-improvement industry, LyfQuest. A mobile CRM platform that's uniquely made for you! Learn more at: https://lyfquest.io/ Instagram: USW Podcast ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@uswkokomo⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Kalena James ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@yesitskalenajames⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Julie Deem ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@indymompreneur⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ -------------------------------------------------- USW Kokomo ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Production by ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Business Podcast Editor⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    21 min

  3. APR 22

    326 - You're NOT Stuck, Take the First Step

    You don’t need more time, you need a different way of thinking. In this episode Julie Deem breaks down what limiting beliefs actually look like in real life and why they keep you in a cycle of overthinking instead of taking action. This is a real, honest conversation about fear, your brain’s need for safety, and how to move forward even when you don’t feel ready. If you’ve been sitting on a goal, waiting for the “right time,” this episode will help you take your next step today. What You Will Learn: How limiting beliefs show up in everyday thinking and decision-making. What is actually happening in the brain when fear keeps you from taking action. Why overthinking and planning can create the illusion of progress while keeping you stuck. How confidence is built through action rather than waiting to feel ready. What simple steps can help create momentum toward a goal. FAQ: What is a limiting belief?A limiting belief is a thought that feels true but is actually a learned pattern based on past experiences, fear, or the brain’s desire to stay safe. Why do I feel stuck even when I have goals?Feeling stuck often comes from overthinking and believing thoughts that create hesitation, rather than taking small, consistent actions forward. What is the first step to overcoming limiting beliefs?Start by identifying what you’re actually afraid of, then take one small step forward instead of waiting for the fear to go away. Learn more about the latest tool for dynamic professionals in the self-improvement industry, LyfQuest. A mobile CRM platform that's uniquely made for you! Learn more at: https://lyfquest.io/ Instagram: USW Podcast ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@uswkokomo⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Kalena James ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@yesitskalenajames⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Julie Deem ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@indymompreneur⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ -------------------------------------------------- USW Kokomo ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Production by ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Business Podcast Editor⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    12 min

  4. APR 15

    325 - You’re Allowed to Change the Dream

    You think you know exactly what you want… until life shows you something better. In this episode, Julie Deem invites you to shift your focus from chasing the end goal to embracing the journey that gets you there. This is your reminder that clarity doesn’t come from waiting. It comes from moving. If you’ve been feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure of your next step, this episode will help you release the pressure of having it all figured out and start taking aligned action today. What You Will Learn: Why focusing only on the end goal can keep you stuck instead of moving forward. How taking action creates clarity you cannot access by overthinking. Why your vision is allowed to evolve as you grow. How to build trust with yourself through small, consistent steps. What it really means to honor the season you are in right now. FAQ: Why do I feel stuck even though I have goals? You may be too focused on the outcome and not taking consistent action, which is where clarity actually comes from. What if I don’t know what my goal should be? Start with what interests you right now and take action. Your direction will become clearer as you gain experience. What is one practical way to start today? Choose one small action that moves you forward and commit to completing it before the day ends. Learn more about the latest tool for dynamic professionals in the self-improvement industry, LyfQuest. A mobile CRM platform that's uniquely made for you! Learn more at: https://lyfquest.io/ Instagram: USW Podcast ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@uswkokomo⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Kalena James ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@yesitskalenajames⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Julie Deem ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@indymompreneur⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ -------------------------------------------------- USW Kokomo ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Production by ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Business Podcast Editor⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    9 min

  5. APR 8

    324 - The Cost of Carrying It All *Best of Episode*

    Julie Deem shares strategies to reduce your stress and show up as your best self. Key Takeaways: We weren’t designed to live in constant “fight or flight” mode.Schedule joy like a meeting.Say no without explaining. Learn more about the latest tool for dynamic professionals in the self-improvement industry, LyfQuest. A mobile CRM platform that's uniquely made for you! Learn more at: https://lyfquest.io/ Instagram: USW Podcast ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@uswkokomo⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Kalena James ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@yesitskalenajames⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Julie Deem ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@indymompreneur⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ -------------------------------------------------- USW Kokomo ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Production by ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Business Podcast Editor⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    13 min

  6. APR 1

    323 - Let Go of the Life You Planned and Start Living Today

    What if the life you’re holding onto is the very thing keeping you stuck? In this powerful and deeply personal episode, Julie Deem opens up about releasing the picture she once had for her life and learning to embrace what is unfolding instead. If you’ve been feeling stuck, questioning your path, or holding onto something that no longer fits, this conversation will help you shift your perspective and take your next step forward with clarity and confidence. What You Will Learn: How holding onto a past vision of life can prevent forward progress. Why unexpected life changes often require grieving the version of life you thought you would have. How to shift from focusing on long-term pressure to present-day intentional action. What it looks like to build a future through small, consistent choices. How to release timelines, expectations, and relationships that no longer serve you. Why your future self is shaped by what you choose to do today. FAQ: How do I let go of the life I thought I would have? Letting go starts with acknowledging the loss of that vision and allowing yourself to grieve it, while choosing to focus on what is still possible today. What should I focus on if I don’t know what my future looks like?Focus on small, intentional actions you can take today that support your growth and well-being. How do I know if something no longer fits my life?If it consistently brings stress, misalignment, or requires forcing outcomes, it may no longer be meant for your current season. Learn more about the latest tool for dynamic professionals in the self-improvement industry, LyfQuest. A mobile CRM platform that's uniquely made for you! Learn more at: https://lyfquest.io/ Instagram: USW Podcast ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@uswkokomo⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Kalena James ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@yesitskalenajames⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Julie Deem ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@indymompreneur⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ -------------------------------------------------- USW Kokomo ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Production by ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Business Podcast Editor⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    14 min

  7. MAR 25

    322 - 7 Years, 300 Episodes: The Real Power of Staying Consistent

    What happens when you stay committed to something long after the excitement fades? In this milestone episode, Kalena James and Julie Deem pause to celebrate a powerful moment, being ranked #1 in Kokomo, #1 in Indiana for women, and Top 10 in both personal development and women’s leadership podcasts. But this episode isn’t just about rankings, it’s about what it actually takes to build something that lasts. Kalena and Julie pull back the curtain on seven years of consistency, growth, and resilience. If you’ve ever started something and wondered if it’s worth continuing, this episode will meet you right where you are. What You Will Learn: Why consistency over time is the real driver behind long-term success and recognition.How commitment, growth, and relationships act as the foundation for sustainable impact.What it looks like to evolve your identity and career through seasons of uncertainty.How narrowing your focus and “making your world small” can create massive momentum.Why building something meaningful requires letting go of the perfect picture.How podcasting can become a vehicle for personal growth, leadership, and opportunity. FAQ: What made UNITED State of Women successful over seven years?The combination of consistency, shared values, and a commitment to growth and relationships allowed the podcast to build long-term trust and impact. How can podcasting lead to business or career opportunities?Podcasting builds visibility, authority, and skill sets that can open doors like speaking engagements, business opportunities, and leadership roles. Is it too late to start a podcast now?No, while the space has grown, there is still opportunity for those who are committed to consistency and creating meaningful content. Learn more about the latest tool for dynamic professionals in the self-improvement industry, LyfQuest. A mobile CRM platform that's uniquely made for you! Learn more at: https://lyfquest.io/ Instagram: USW Podcast ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@uswkokomo⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Kalena James ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@yesitskalenajames⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Julie Deem ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@indymompreneur⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ -------------------------------------------------- USW Kokomo ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Production by ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Business Podcast Editor⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    29 min

  8. MAR 18

    321 - Search to Strategy: How to Turn Your Voice Into Influence and Visibility

    What if the strategy you’ve been searching for is already how you naturally show up? In this final episode of the series, Kalena James brings everything full circle, revealing how YouTube, Amazon, and Facebook reflect three key stages of human behavior: learning, deciding, and belonging. This episode will help you turn your natural strengths into a clear, aligned strategy so you can show up with confidence, build trust faster, and create real impact without burnout. What You Will Learn: How search behavior reveals what people actually need at each stage of decision making.Why YouTube, Amazon, and Facebook represent learning, deciding, and belonging.How to identify where your natural strengths already align with search intent.Why being findable is more powerful than trying to be everywhere online.How to build a strategy rooted in alignment instead of comparison or hustle.Why clarity, honesty, and presence matter more than perfection in leadership. FAQ: What does “search to strategy” mean in business? Search to strategy means building your content and visibility around what people are already searching for, instead of guessing or chasing trends. It aligns your messaging with real human behavior. How do YouTube, Amazon, and Facebook relate to customer behavior? YouTube is where people go to learn, Amazon is where they go to decide, and Facebook is where they go to feel connection and belonging. How can I turn my natural strengths into a business strategy? Start by identifying where you naturally teach, guide decisions, or create connection, then intentionally create content that supports those behaviors. Learn more about the latest tool for dynamic professionals in the self-improvement industry, LyfQuest. A mobile CRM platform that's uniquely made for you! Learn more at: https://lyfquest.io/ Instagram: USW Podcast ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@uswkokomo⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Kalena James ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@yesitskalenajames⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Julie Deem ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@indymompreneur⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ -------------------------------------------------- USW Kokomo ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Production by ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Business Podcast Editor⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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UNITED State of Women is a personal leadership development podcast focused on educating and elevating women's ability to have it all and teach them how to get it! Our USW Podcast transforms personal and professional leadership frustrations for progress into visions for a better one. Women are uniting, starting businesses, and growing companies at a pace faster than ever before. They are at the table in more executive boardrooms, speaking out on more important personal and business issues and becoming key contenders and players in our state and local gov.

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  • Creator
    Kalena James & Julie Deem
  • Years Active
    2019 - 2026
  • Episodes
    330
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Kalena James & Julie Deem
  • Show Website
    UNITED State of Women