UNITED State of Women

Kalena James & Julie Deem

UNITED State of Women is a personal leadership development podcast focused on educating and elevating women's ability to have it all and teach them how to get it! Our USW Podcast transforms personal and professional leadership frustrations for progress into visions for a better one. Women are uniting, starting businesses, and growing companies at a pace faster than ever before. They are at the table in more executive boardrooms, speaking out on more important personal and business issues and becoming key contenders and players in our state and local gov.

  1. Jun 10

    333 - Purpose, People, and the Power to Change Lives with Jessica Evans

    What happens when a teacher follows a calling that feels bigger than herself? In this episode Julie Deem sits down with Jessica Evans, founder and Executive Director of Allies, Inc., to discuss the unexpected journey that led her from the classroom to leading a nonprofit dedicated to empowering survivors of human trafficking through mentorship. Jessica shares how a single awareness concert sparked a 15-year mission, the leadership lessons she learned along the way, and how Allies continues to evolve through innovation, community, and a commitment to meeting survivors where they are. What You Will Learn: How leadership often develops before we recognize it in ourselves. Why purpose sometimes begins with a single step of obedience. The story behind the founding of Allies, Inc. How mentorship creates healing through consistent relationships. Why community support is essential for long-term transformation. How Allies identified gaps and evolved its programs over time. The role data plays in shaping nonprofit growth and impact. What the Thrive program provides for parents and caregivers. How the new Rise program supports independent living skills. Practical ways anyone can help support survivors of trafficking. FAQ: What is Allies, Inc.? Allies, Inc. is a nonprofit organization that empowers survivors of human trafficking through mentorship, supportive relationships, caregiver education, and independent living resources. How can I help survivors of human trafficking? You can support survivors by volunteering, becoming a mentor, donating, attending fundraising events, providing in-kind donations, or helping organizations like Allies, Inc. expand their impact. What is Illuminate? Illuminate is Allies, Inc.'s annual fundraising event that raises awareness and financial support for programs serving survivors of trafficking while giving attendees an opportunity to learn more about the organization's mission and impact. More information about Allies: Website: https://www.allies-inc.org/ Tickets to Illuminate June 24: https://www.allies-inc.org/illuminate/ Volunteer: https://www.allies-inc.org/volunteer/ Learn more about the latest tool for dynamic professionals in the self-improvement industry, LyfQuest. A mobile CRM platform that's uniquely made for you! Learn more at: https://lyfquest.io/ Instagram: USW Podcast ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@uswkokomo⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Kalena James ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@yesitskalenajames⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Julie Deem ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@indymompreneur⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ -------------------------------------------------- USW Kokomo ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Production by ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Business Podcast Editor⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    31 min
  2. Jun 3

    332 - Finding Strength in a Waiting Season

    As high-achieving women, we're wired to take action. We set goals, solve problems, and make things happen. But what happens when you've done everything you can do and the next step isn't clear? In this episode of Julie Deem explores the power of the pause and why waiting isn't wasted time. If you've ever felt frustrated by a lack of momentum, questioned your timing, or wondered why things aren't happening as quickly as you'd hoped, this episode will remind you that preparation is progress and that becoming the woman you're meant to be is always worth the wait. What You Will Learn: Why waiting seasons are often where the deepest growth happens. How high-achieving women can mistake movement for progress. The leadership lesson Julie learned from Chanel's executive onboarding process. Why comparison becomes especially dangerous during seasons of waiting. How to identify the difference between fear and intuition. Why creating intentional quiet can lead to greater clarity. Practical ways to redefine success when results aren't immediately visible. How patience becomes an act of self-leadership. Why preparation is progress, even when it doesn't feel like it. The mindset shift that can help you trust your own timeline. FAQ: What is a waiting season? A waiting season is a period in life when you've done the work, taken the necessary steps, and are waiting for the next opportunity, answer, or outcome to unfold. While it may feel like nothing is happening, waiting seasons are often times of personal growth, preparation, and transformation happening behind the scenes. Why is waiting so difficult for high-achieving women? High-achieving women are often wired for action, problem-solving, and measurable progress. When results aren't immediate, it can feel uncomfortable or even frustrating. Many women mistakenly equate movement with progress, making it difficult to embrace seasons that require patience and trust. Is waiting the same as doing nothing? No. Waiting is not passive. A healthy waiting season includes reflection, personal development, healing, learning, and preparation. Some of the most significant growth happens during seasons when outward progress is not immediately visible. Learn more about the latest tool for dynamic professionals in the self-improvement industry, LyfQuest. A mobile CRM platform that's uniquely made for you! Learn more at: https://lyfquest.io/ Instagram: USW Podcast ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@uswkokomo⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Kalena James ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@yesitskalenajames⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Julie Deem ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@indymompreneur⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ -------------------------------------------------- USW Kokomo ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Production by ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Business Podcast Editor⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    14 min
  3. May 20

    330 - Questions Women Avoid Asking Themselves

    What do you actually want? Not what feels practical. Not what keeps everyone else comfortable. In this episode, Julie Deem opens up about the power of journaling as a tool for clarity, self-worth, and reconnecting with your own voice. If you’ve been feeling disconnected, overwhelmed, or unsure of what’s next, this episode will help you process what you truly want and give you practical journaling prompts to move forward with more honesty and confidence. What You Will Learn: How journaling can help women reconnect with their own voice and desires. What happens when women spend too much time adapting to everyone else’s expectations. Why clarity often comes through reflection instead of constant overthinking. How guilt and fear keep women from honestly expressing what they want. Why transition seasons require different versions of ourselves. Simple journaling prompts that can help uncover patterns, dreams, and emotional blocks. How slowing down and processing emotions can lead to deeper self-awareness. Why it’s important to stop minimizing your own needs and desires. How journaling helped Julie gain clarity around the next season of her business and speaking opportunities. Why growth requires allowing yourself to evolve and change over time. Journal Prompts Mentioned: What do I actually want right now? Where in my life have I been settling? What would I pursue if I stopped worrying about what other people thought? Why do I feel guilty wanting more? What version of me am I outgrowing? What do I want this next season of my life to feel like? What would I regret not trying? FAQ: How can journaling help with self-discovery? Journaling helps slow down racing thoughts and creates space to process emotions, identify patterns, and reconnect with what you truly want. What should I write about when journaling? Start with honest questions about your current season of life, your desires, your fears, and the areas where you may be settling or avoiding honesty with yourself. Why do women struggle to ask for what they want? Many women are conditioned to prioritize others, avoid conflict, and minimize their own needs, which can create guilt around wanting more for themselves. Learn more about the latest tool for dynamic professionals in the self-improvement industry, LyfQuest. A mobile CRM platform that's uniquely made for you! Learn more at: https://lyfquest.io/ Instagram: USW Podcast ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@uswkokomo⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Kalena James ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@yesitskalenajames⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Julie Deem ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@indymompreneur⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ -------------------------------------------------- USW Kokomo ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Production by ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Business Podcast Editor⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    19 min
  4. May 6

    328 - How to Grow Through the Waiting

    What do you do when life looks completely different than the picture you had in your head? In this episode Julie Deem opens up about the grief of unmet timelines and navigating seasons where progress feels invisible. If you’ve been struggling with disappointment, comparison, burnout, or feeling disconnected from your purpose, this episode will help you feel seen and hopeful again. What You Will Learn: How to navigate the emotional weight of unmet timelines and changing expectations. Why feeling stuck and actually being stuck are two very different things. The hidden ways growth happens during slower or uncertain seasons of life. How social media comparison can distort personal progress and self-worth. Practical ways to measure internal growth instead of only external success. Why root-building seasons are necessary before major breakthroughs happen. How to take small, faithful steps forward when clarity feels far away. The importance of support systems, community, and emotional safety during difficult seasons. FAQ: Why do I feel behind in life even when I’m working hard? Many people compare their behind-the-scenes struggles to other people’s highlight reels. Growth often happens internally before external results become visible. What does it mean to be in a “root-building” season? A root-building season is a period of internal growth, healing, and preparation that may not yet show visible results externally. How can I keep moving forward when I feel discouraged? Start with one small step at a time. Momentum is built through consistent action, not giant leaps. Learn more about the latest tool for dynamic professionals in the self-improvement industry, LyfQuest. A mobile CRM platform that's uniquely made for you! Learn more at: https://lyfquest.io/ Instagram: USW Podcast ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@uswkokomo⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Kalena James ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@yesitskalenajames⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Julie Deem ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@indymompreneur⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ -------------------------------------------------- USW Kokomo ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Production by ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Business Podcast Editor⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    17 min
  5. Apr 29

    327 - Business Principles for Female Leaders *Best of Episode*

    Kalena James and Julie Deem are in studio sharing 4 business principles for female leaders. Learn why the ladies are are so passionate about this subject as they announce a big project that has been developing behind the scenes!!! 1. Understand the values and beliefs of those you serve. 2. Connect with empathy and generosity. 3. Automate more tasks to free up time. 4. Don’t take it personal. “It can have everything to do with you but it has nothing to do with you” - Kalena James Learn more about the latest tool for dynamic professionals in the self-improvement industry, LyfQuest. A mobile CRM platform that's uniquely made for you! Learn more at: https://lyfquest.io/ Instagram: USW Podcast ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@uswkokomo⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Kalena James ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@yesitskalenajames⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Julie Deem ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@indymompreneur⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ -------------------------------------------------- USW Kokomo ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Production by ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Business Podcast Editor⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    21 min
4.8
out of 5
26 Ratings

About

UNITED State of Women is a personal leadership development podcast focused on educating and elevating women's ability to have it all and teach them how to get it! Our USW Podcast transforms personal and professional leadership frustrations for progress into visions for a better one. Women are uniting, starting businesses, and growing companies at a pace faster than ever before. They are at the table in more executive boardrooms, speaking out on more important personal and business issues and becoming key contenders and players in our state and local gov.