UNITED State of Women

Kalena James & Julie Deem

UNITED State of Women is a personal leadership development podcast focused on educating and elevating women's ability to have it all and teach them how to get it! Our USW Podcast transforms personal and professional leadership frustrations for progress into visions for a better one. Women are uniting, starting businesses, and growing companies at a pace faster than ever before. They are at the table in more executive boardrooms, speaking out on more important personal and business issues and becoming key contenders and players in our state and local gov.

  1. May 20

    330 - Questions Women Avoid Asking Themselves

    What do you actually want? Not what feels practical. Not what keeps everyone else comfortable. In this episode, Julie Deem opens up about the power of journaling as a tool for clarity, self-worth, and reconnecting with your own voice. If you’ve been feeling disconnected, overwhelmed, or unsure of what’s next, this episode will help you process what you truly want and give you practical journaling prompts to move forward with more honesty and confidence. What You Will Learn: How journaling can help women reconnect with their own voice and desires. What happens when women spend too much time adapting to everyone else’s expectations. Why clarity often comes through reflection instead of constant overthinking. How guilt and fear keep women from honestly expressing what they want. Why transition seasons require different versions of ourselves. Simple journaling prompts that can help uncover patterns, dreams, and emotional blocks. How slowing down and processing emotions can lead to deeper self-awareness. Why it’s important to stop minimizing your own needs and desires. How journaling helped Julie gain clarity around the next season of her business and speaking opportunities. Why growth requires allowing yourself to evolve and change over time. Journal Prompts Mentioned: What do I actually want right now? Where in my life have I been settling? What would I pursue if I stopped worrying about what other people thought? Why do I feel guilty wanting more? What version of me am I outgrowing? What do I want this next season of my life to feel like? What would I regret not trying? FAQ: How can journaling help with self-discovery? Journaling helps slow down racing thoughts and creates space to process emotions, identify patterns, and reconnect with what you truly want. What should I write about when journaling? Start with honest questions about your current season of life, your desires, your fears, and the areas where you may be settling or avoiding honesty with yourself. Why do women struggle to ask for what they want? Many women are conditioned to prioritize others, avoid conflict, and minimize their own needs, which can create guilt around wanting more for themselves. Learn more about the latest tool for dynamic professionals in the self-improvement industry, LyfQuest. A mobile CRM platform that's uniquely made for you! Learn more at: https://lyfquest.io/ Instagram: USW Podcast ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@uswkokomo⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Kalena James ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@yesitskalenajames⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Julie Deem ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@indymompreneur⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ -------------------------------------------------- USW Kokomo ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Production by ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Business Podcast Editor⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    19 min
  2. May 6

    328 - How to Grow Through the Waiting

    What do you do when life looks completely different than the picture you had in your head? In this episode Julie Deem opens up about the grief of unmet timelines and navigating seasons where progress feels invisible. If you’ve been struggling with disappointment, comparison, burnout, or feeling disconnected from your purpose, this episode will help you feel seen and hopeful again. What You Will Learn: How to navigate the emotional weight of unmet timelines and changing expectations. Why feeling stuck and actually being stuck are two very different things. The hidden ways growth happens during slower or uncertain seasons of life. How social media comparison can distort personal progress and self-worth. Practical ways to measure internal growth instead of only external success. Why root-building seasons are necessary before major breakthroughs happen. How to take small, faithful steps forward when clarity feels far away. The importance of support systems, community, and emotional safety during difficult seasons. FAQ: Why do I feel behind in life even when I’m working hard? Many people compare their behind-the-scenes struggles to other people’s highlight reels. Growth often happens internally before external results become visible. What does it mean to be in a “root-building” season? A root-building season is a period of internal growth, healing, and preparation that may not yet show visible results externally. How can I keep moving forward when I feel discouraged? Start with one small step at a time. Momentum is built through consistent action, not giant leaps. Learn more about the latest tool for dynamic professionals in the self-improvement industry, LyfQuest. A mobile CRM platform that's uniquely made for you! Learn more at: https://lyfquest.io/ Instagram: USW Podcast ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@uswkokomo⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Kalena James ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@yesitskalenajames⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Julie Deem ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@indymompreneur⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ -------------------------------------------------- USW Kokomo ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Production by ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Business Podcast Editor⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    17 min
  3. Apr 29

    327 - Business Principles for Female Leaders *Best of Episode*

    Kalena James and Julie Deem are in studio sharing 4 business principles for female leaders. Learn why the ladies are are so passionate about this subject as they announce a big project that has been developing behind the scenes!!! 1. Understand the values and beliefs of those you serve. 2. Connect with empathy and generosity. 3. Automate more tasks to free up time. 4. Don’t take it personal. “It can have everything to do with you but it has nothing to do with you” - Kalena James Learn more about the latest tool for dynamic professionals in the self-improvement industry, LyfQuest. A mobile CRM platform that's uniquely made for you! Learn more at: https://lyfquest.io/ Instagram: USW Podcast ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@uswkokomo⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Kalena James ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@yesitskalenajames⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Julie Deem ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@indymompreneur⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ -------------------------------------------------- USW Kokomo ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Production by ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Business Podcast Editor⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    21 min
  4. Apr 22

    326 - You're NOT Stuck, Take the First Step

    You don’t need more time, you need a different way of thinking. In this episode Julie Deem breaks down what limiting beliefs actually look like in real life and why they keep you in a cycle of overthinking instead of taking action. This is a real, honest conversation about fear, your brain’s need for safety, and how to move forward even when you don’t feel ready. If you’ve been sitting on a goal, waiting for the “right time,” this episode will help you take your next step today. What You Will Learn: How limiting beliefs show up in everyday thinking and decision-making. What is actually happening in the brain when fear keeps you from taking action. Why overthinking and planning can create the illusion of progress while keeping you stuck. How confidence is built through action rather than waiting to feel ready. What simple steps can help create momentum toward a goal. FAQ: What is a limiting belief?A limiting belief is a thought that feels true but is actually a learned pattern based on past experiences, fear, or the brain’s desire to stay safe. Why do I feel stuck even when I have goals?Feeling stuck often comes from overthinking and believing thoughts that create hesitation, rather than taking small, consistent actions forward. What is the first step to overcoming limiting beliefs?Start by identifying what you’re actually afraid of, then take one small step forward instead of waiting for the fear to go away. Learn more about the latest tool for dynamic professionals in the self-improvement industry, LyfQuest. A mobile CRM platform that's uniquely made for you! Learn more at: https://lyfquest.io/ Instagram: USW Podcast ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@uswkokomo⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Kalena James ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@yesitskalenajames⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Julie Deem ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@indymompreneur⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ -------------------------------------------------- USW Kokomo ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Production by ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Business Podcast Editor⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    12 min
  5. Apr 15

    325 - You’re Allowed to Change the Dream

    You think you know exactly what you want… until life shows you something better. In this episode, Julie Deem invites you to shift your focus from chasing the end goal to embracing the journey that gets you there. This is your reminder that clarity doesn’t come from waiting. It comes from moving. If you’ve been feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure of your next step, this episode will help you release the pressure of having it all figured out and start taking aligned action today. What You Will Learn: Why focusing only on the end goal can keep you stuck instead of moving forward. How taking action creates clarity you cannot access by overthinking. Why your vision is allowed to evolve as you grow. How to build trust with yourself through small, consistent steps. What it really means to honor the season you are in right now. FAQ: Why do I feel stuck even though I have goals? You may be too focused on the outcome and not taking consistent action, which is where clarity actually comes from. What if I don’t know what my goal should be? Start with what interests you right now and take action. Your direction will become clearer as you gain experience. What is one practical way to start today? Choose one small action that moves you forward and commit to completing it before the day ends. Learn more about the latest tool for dynamic professionals in the self-improvement industry, LyfQuest. A mobile CRM platform that's uniquely made for you! Learn more at: https://lyfquest.io/ Instagram: USW Podcast ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@uswkokomo⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Kalena James ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@yesitskalenajames⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Julie Deem ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@indymompreneur⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ -------------------------------------------------- USW Kokomo ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Production by ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Business Podcast Editor⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    9 min
4.8
out of 5
26 Ratings

About

UNITED State of Women is a personal leadership development podcast focused on educating and elevating women's ability to have it all and teach them how to get it! Our USW Podcast transforms personal and professional leadership frustrations for progress into visions for a better one. Women are uniting, starting businesses, and growing companies at a pace faster than ever before. They are at the table in more executive boardrooms, speaking out on more important personal and business issues and becoming key contenders and players in our state and local gov.

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