Audience of One

Spencer Kier
Audience of One

Exploring my curiosity through conversations with leading thinkers and builders. We talk about philosophy, learning, tech, parenting, entrepreneurship, health, and more. Follow Spencer on Twitter (twitter.com/SP1NS1R) and Substack (spencerkier.substack.com)

  1. 06/13/2024

    #057 - John Koenig on Sorrow, Identity, Contradiction, & The Human Experience

    John Koenig is the author of The New York Times' Best Seller Dictionary of Obscure Sorrows, a dictionary of made-up words for emotions that we all feel but don't have the words to express. We talk about his book, identity and individuality, contradiction, writing, the human experience, fatherhood, and more. — (00:44) Why use "sorrows"? (02:51) Did he ever expect the dictionary to be what it is now? (05:48) Existential wonderment and loss (08:50) Truth, internal dialogue, and contradiction (14:00) Contradiction of definitions (17:02) Is introspection valuable? Can you know who you are? (20:43) Not focusing on the present (24:18) Self-actualization vs. contentment (30:26) How you perceive people vs. how they really are (35:57) Next book: Sonder (39:03) Does sensitivity make life more difficult? (41:54) Career identity & pigeonholing (44:24) Writing vs. video (47:32) How fatherhood changes work & focus take on his work; finding meaning in community & ritual (51:25) Where does meaning reside? (53:27) Creative process takeaways for kids; self-expression and art (55:15) John's final questions for listeners — John’s Twitter: https://twitter.com/obscuresorrows Dictionary of Obscure Sorrows (Amazon): https://www.amazon.com/Dictionary-Obscure-Sorrows-John-Koenig/dp/1501153641 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/obscuresorrows Spencer’s Twitter: https://twitter.com/SP1NS1R Spencer’s Blog: https://spencerkier.substack.com/

    57 min

  2. 03/21/2024

    #056 - Dylan O’Sullivan on Lying to Yourself, Timelessness, Discipline, & Writing

    Dylan O’Sullivan is a curator, editor, and writer at O'Shaughnessy Ventures and Essayful. Dylan and I talk about writing, taste, discipline vs. inspiration, timelessness vs ephemerality, boredom and solitude vs. the internet, inciting a digital renaissance, not lying to yourself, and more. — (00:45) Curating & editing vs. writing (05:39) Fear of never writing quality work or living up to your idols (08:32) Discipline vs. inspiration (15:49) Balancing technology & ephemerality with the timeless (17:44) Solitude, getting better at the craft, and having a "normal" life (21:09) Boredom (26:32) Short attention & the effect on art & mediums (29:54) Lack of original works & risk taking (36:43) Digital renaissance; timeless stories & works (44:15) What is timeless & what will become timeless (48:17) Creativity & the subconscious (52:08) Long form writing vs memes (55:00) Above all, don't lie to yourself (01:00:29) Books he’d have in his bookstore window (01:03:38) Three favorite directors & their three movies (01:05:34) Final question for listeners — Dylan’s Twitter: https://twitter.com/DylanoA4 Essayful: https://www.essayful.co/ O'Shaughnessy Ventures: https://www.osv.llc/ Spencer’s Twitter: https://twitter.com/SP1NS1R Spencer’s Blog: https://spencerkier.substack.com

    1h 6m

  3. 03/15/2024

    #055 - Steve Schlafman on Lostness, Downshifting, & Becoming

    Steve Schlafman is a venture capitalist turned transition coach. We talk about lostness, transformation, curiosity, mindfulness practices, his new Downshift program, being a husband and father, and more. — (00:59) Lostness, navigating liminal identity space, personal transformations (18:31) Head and heart, mind and body; intellectualizing emotions & feelings (25:52) The role of curiosity; people, world, self (29:52) Using practices as a means to an end (34:21) Is downshifting antithetical to the history of humanity (advancement)? (41:32) When to upshift (46:27) Stillness & silence (52:43) Renewal, rediscovery, experimentation (57:39) Spouse support during transformations (01:02:35) Balancing ambition & being a father (01:06:54) Final question for listeners: what stops you from being at your best — Steve’s Twitter: https://twitter.com/schlaf Personal Site: https://www.schlaf.co/ Downshift: https://www.downshift.me/ Spencer’s Twitter: https://twitter.com/SP1NS1R Spencer’s Blog: https://spencerkier.substack.com

    1h 10m
  4. #054 - Matt Clifford on Talent Investing & AI Uncertainty

    02/29/2024

    #054 - Matt Clifford on Talent Investing & AI Uncertainty

    Matt Clifford is a co-founder of Entrepreneur First and leads their AI efforts, as well as chair of ARIA, the UK’s Advanced Research and Invention Agency. We talk about EF, talent investing, ambition, why we don’t have more Thiel Fellowships, his new focus on AI, and AI safety concerns. — (00:59) Talent matters most (03:17) Scarcity of talent x culture (09:16) Founder qualities: effectiveness, unlocking resources (14:37) Can you teach ambition? (16:44) Failure to learn is an anti-signal (19:13) Alternative funding: income share agreements, adverse selection, longer term bets, & government funding (27:11) Why don't we have more grant programs or patrons, like the Thiel Fellowship? Scaling taste in talent & the macro talent allocation problem (41:32) Focusing on AI & handing off the EF CEO role (47:00) Is AI safety futile? Threat models and radical uncertainty (53:31) Final question for listeners — Matt’s Twitter: https://twitter.com/matthewclifford Entrepreneur First: https://www.joinef.com/ Personal Site: https://www.matthewclifford.com/ Spencer’s Twitter: https://twitter.com/SP1NS1R Spencer’s Blog: https://spencerkier.substack.com

    55 min
  5. #053 - Joscha Bach on Modeling Reality & Self-Organizing Software

    02/07/2024

    #053 - Joscha Bach on Modeling Reality & Self-Organizing Software

    Joscha Bach is a cognitive scientist and AI researcher. We talk about our relationship with & models of reality, creativity and curiosity, animism and self-organizing software, stages of development, and more. — (01:25) The dream world; how we interact with & perceive reality (03:49) Fear (05:16) Self, consciousness, & awareness (08:10) We're a coarse pattern on top of base reality (11:13) Presence & perceptual windows (12:16) Is this model mechanistic & reductionist? (13:50) Life exists to minimize free energy (16:47) What makes us different from other sentient beings & structures (20:35) Creativity: self-transformative exploration (23:40) Curiosity as uncertainty reduction (29:20) Exploration vs. exploitation (32:45) Combating social norms & conditioning; being a nerd (35:18) Knowing which models to update (37:56) Being a creator; being able to build & maintain (43:21) Everything can be understood (44:13) Animism; everything is self-organizing “software” (48:48) Natural vs. human-created “software” (50:57) AGI vs. natural intelligence (55:15) Limited by the locality of our sensory inputs (56:33) Stages of lucidity & development (01:03:35) Convergence of global traditions (01:09:40) Issue with Buddhism (01:14:16) Where does the animism and software arise from? (01:17:58) Building a coherent world, together — Joscha’s Twitter: https://twitter.com/Plinz Joscha's Substack: https://joscha.substack.com/ Personal Site: http://bach.ai/ Spencer’s Twitter: https://twitter.com/SP1NS1R Spencer’s Blog: https://spencerkier.substack.com

    1h 19m

  6. 01/31/2024

    #052 - Gabe (@VividVoid_) on Identity, Art, Authenticity, & Courage

    Gabe (@VividVoid_ on Twitter) is a writer and coach, and former Marine. We talk about inferiority, art, nothingness, spirituality, courage, fear, alignment with The Void, representations of reality, exposure therapy, Quality, and more. — (00:52) You’re not inferior to anyone else (06:14) Art is the byproduct of a spiritual practice (09:28) Authentic expression; anger & competition (16:55) Do nothing, seek wisdom: space for contemplation & rest (20:31) What is The Void? (25:57) Microdosing honesty & better representations (33:27) Courage & fear (37:48) Exposure therapy & yin-yang (41:35) Going from conditioning back to freedom; critical thinking & being a “combat medic” (48:30) Direct experience; understand your behavioral loop & where you can intervene (51:53) Taking practices & ideas from ideologies; being identity-less (59:51) Poetic writing (01:02:48) What is Quality? (01:04:50) Gabe’s final question for listeners — Gabe’s Twitter: https://twitter.com/VividVoid_ Gabe’s (Old) Blog: https://vividvoid.substack.com/ Spencer’s Twitter: https://twitter.com/SP1NS1R Spencer’s Blog: https://spencerkier.substack.com

    1h 6m
  7. #051 - Nathan Baugh on Storytelling, World Building, Fiction, & The Internet

    01/24/2024

    #051 - Nathan Baugh on Storytelling, World Building, Fiction, & The Internet

    Nathan Baugh writes fiction and the World Builders newsletter. We talk about writing, non-fiction vs. fiction, storytelling and world building devices, Kurt Vonnegut and other authors, getting the most out of technology and the internet, and more. — (00:47) Why writing (02:46) Loops & closing the curiosity gap (04:05) The combination of short form non-fiction & long form fiction (09:54) Storytelling & world building; Virgil Abloh’s 3% Rule (14:30) Tradeoffs of traditional publishing vs. self-publishing; going direct-to-audience (21:54) Tech and magic; AI (28:26) His most influential authors (31:08) Favorite opening sentences (34:25) Vonnuget’s shape of stories & promise, progress, payoff (49:11) Why not go all in on fiction? (44:41) Writer’s self limiting beliefs (52:54) Biggest fear as a writer: not living up to expectations (55:33) Balancing technology and the internet with deep work (59:58) What's one work of fiction that has stuck out? — Nathan’s Twitter: https://twitter.com/nathanbaugh27 Nathan’s Newsletter: https://www.worldbuilders.ai/ Vonnegut’s Shape of Stories: youtu.be/oP3c1h8v2ZQ Spencer’s Twitter: https://twitter.com/SP1NS1R Spencer’s Blog: https://spencerkier.substack.com

    1h 7m
  8. #050 - Billy Oppenheimer on Writing, Research, Boredom, & Putting in The Work

    01/18/2024

    #050 - Billy Oppenheimer on Writing, Research, Boredom, & Putting in The Work

    Billy Oppenheimer writes the Six at 6 newsletter, and has been a writing and research assistant for Ryan Holiday, Robert Greene, and Rick Rubin. We talk about research, naive optimism, working for legendary writers and creatives, boredom, his newsletter, curation and creation, how “the work is the win”, and his first book. — (00:52) Naive optimism & turning what you're already doing into a job (03:31) Researching is where he gets his dopamine (05:30) Combine timeless works with popular ones; triangulate stories (10:48) His note taking system (adapted from Ryan Holiday & Robert Greene) (15:19) The evolution of Six at 6; finding your niche & learning the wrong lessons from role models (23:10) Reading to find excerpts (26:01) Curation & creation (31:03) Seeing a mirror in others’ ideas (34:10) Living in the present (37:26) Combining a known and unknown (39:34) Six at 6 themes: deconstructing creativity & putting in the work (43:06) Balancing the art & audience feedback (45:15) Don't “step into the character” (50:02) Taking the next step & writing his first book (55:45) The work is the win (58:13) Fear of not finding the right stories & concepts (01:00:02) Working with Rick Rubin (01:07:34) Orson Welles & ignorance; Paul Graham & not putting up with BS; authenticity (01:13:24) Qualities of a good research & writing assistant; get excited by what others find boring (01:20:50) Doing it because it’s a compulsion (01:24:10) Find your boredom dopamine — Billy’s Twitter: https://twitter.com/bpoppenheimer Six at 6: https://billyoppenheimer.com/newsletter/ Spencer’s Twitter: https://twitter.com/SP1NS1R Spencer’s Blog: https://spencerkier.substack.com

    1h 25m
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    Exploring my curiosity through conversations with leading thinkers and builders. We talk about philosophy, learning, tech, parenting, entrepreneurship, health, and more. Follow Spencer on Twitter (twitter.com/SP1NS1R) and Substack (spencerkier.substack.com)

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    • Creator
      Spencer Kier
    • Years Active
      2023 - 2024
    • Episodes
      57
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