Female Genius

Jesi Akinsuyi
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Dive into “Female Genius,” where Jesi takes you on an exhilarating journey through the thoughts and emotions that shape our lives. With a perfect blend of humor, insight, and science, Jesi explores the topics that occupy our minds and souls. As she navigates her own life’s challenges and triumphs, Jesi invites you along on her quest for understanding and self-discovery. Expect plenty of laughs, thought-provoking discussions, and cutting-edge scientific insights, all delivered with Jesi’s infectious energy and nerdy charm.

  1. Jun 5

    Plato, Olivia Rodrigo and the existential crisis of modern love

    I need to vent about a major pet peeve of mine: the English language is doing us dirty when it comes to love. The fact that we use the exact same word to describe our relationship with our best friend, our partner, and a literal slice of pizza is wild. No wonder we’re all having an existential crisis. In this episode, we’re unpacking how this linguistic trap messes with how we view connection, and we’re going on a bit of a global deep dive into how other languages actually get it right. Then, we’re bringing in the ultimate chaotic guest list of ancient Greek philosophers, modern thinkers, and Olivia Rodrigo to figure out what the actual purpose of love is anyway. By looking at Olivia's song "The Cure" through an amantoromantic lens, we’re putting friendship love up against romantic love to see which one really holds us together. In the end, we’re stringing all of this together to settle on a modern philosophy of love that finally explains everything. Trust me, it’s pure genius. In this episode, we discuss: The linguistic etymology of the word "love" around the world Ancient Greek philosophy on love (Eros vs. Philia) Amantoromanticism and challenging the romance hierarchy Olivia Rodrigo's track "The Cure" and relationship dynamics Friendship love vs. romantic love in modern society Follow me on socials Podcast: insta - @femalegenius pod | tiktok - @femalegenius Personal: insta - @jesiakinsuyi | tiktok - @jesiloves | youtube- @jesiloves

    33 min

  2. May 14

    The Diary of a Future Rock Star: Iona Luke’s Creative Genius

    In this episode of Female Genius, I spend some time absolutely fangirling over one of my favorite up-and-coming artists, Iona Luke. This is a deeply intimate look into the mind of a "future rock star" who is doing things differently. We bond over the shared trauma of attending the University of Cambridge and why Iona chose to pursue an English Literature degree while building her music career on the side. We dive deep into her attempt to protect her creative integrity and vulnerability in a world that demands the absolute excavation of an artist’s soul. In this episode: The Literature of Song: How an English degree informs the lyrics of a rock star. The Academic Pivot: Choosing the library over the conservatoire. The Patti Smith Influence: From a Cambridge dissertation to the recording studio. Collaboration & Connection: How Iona’s work links to her peers and the legends who came before her. Thought-provoking, raw, and intellectually electric—this is Iona Luke. LISTEN TO IONA LUKE: Follow Iona: @iona.luke FOLLOW FEMALE GENIUS: Instagram: @femalegenius It’s pure genius.

    39 min

  3. Apr 30

    Amusing Ourselves to Death (Part 1): A Eulogy for My Attention

    "The medium is the message", Neil Postman warned us back in 1985, likely never imagining we'd eventually carry his "device of doom" in our pockets. He thought television was the peak of our descent into distraction - lol he was so wrong. In the first instalment of a two-part series, I'm taking a deep dive into the prophetic arguments of Amusing Ourselves to Death to see how Postman's fears have evolved into our modern reality. We'll explore the cold neuroscience of why our brains have been rewired in the midst of short-form content, but more importantly, I'm getting vulnerable about the cost of that shift. This episode is a personal autopsy, a eulogy for the deep thought, the long-form presence, and the quiet part of my "prime" years that I've personally sacrificed at the altar of the algorithm. It's funny, deeply reflective and most importantly pure genius! If you've made it to the end of this paragraph without checking your notifications: congratulations, you're already part of the resistance.

    34 min

  4. Apr 10

    Digital Oversharing as a Symptom of Loneliness

    Why are we currently narrating our most harrowing breakups or the intimate details of a bad meal to 100,000 strangers before we have even called a real life friend? In this episode I am probing the digital overshare not as a simple personality trait but as a glaring hallmark of a generation navigating a profound lack of true connection. We dive deep into the biological drivers that make us crave being witnessed and how that survival instinct translates into the bizarre behavioral phenomena we see on our feeds every day. I also get brutally honest about the current state of friendship and how it has somehow become more complicated and strict and frankly tiring than ever before. We even ponder whether we are heading toward a future where AI is the only thing left to mediate our connections and whether an AI boyfriend is actually a viable solution or just a sign of the end times. From the psychology of the GRWM breakdown to the ethics of digital intimacy this episode is a jam packed and deeply intimate look at why we share so much yet feel so alone. It is quite literally pure genius. Follow me on socials: insta: @jesiakinsuyi | @femalegeniuspod tiktok: @jesiloves08 youtube: @jesiloves Dive deeper into the concepts from this episode: Disclosing information about the self is instrinsically rewarding: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/22566617/ Online disinhibition effect: https://www.researchgate.net/publication/8451443_The_Online_Disinhibition_Effect & https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Online_disinhibition_effect

    42 min

  5. Mar 20

    The cost of feeling nothing & the space pain creates

    If you’ve spent your life trying to numb out, this episode might be the reality check you didn't know you needed. Let’s talk about the cost of feeling nothing and why pain, as much as we hate it, is actually the architect of our growth. This episode was sparked by two things: a deep-dive into the neurobiology of people who literally cannot feel physical pain (and the terrifying reality of that "superpower"), and a late-night session with the Sinners soundtrack. We’re diving into the sodium channels of your neurons and the "negative space" that emotional agony creates. Why is it that the moments that hurt the most are often the only ones that give us enough room to actually reflect, recalibrate, and decide who we’re becoming? Using some wacky neurobiology, a bit of Peter Parker's trauma, and some atmospheric music theory, I explore why "feeling nothing" is a biological and existential nightmare and how the sting of life is actually what keeps us grounded. Because here’s the thing:Pain isn’t just a signal; it’s the space where the work gets done. Expect deep science, Marvel-coded therapy, "Pure Genius" chaos, and a very reflective vibe. Follow Me on Socials!! (I don't post every day, but when I do, it’s gold) instagram: jesiakinsuyi | femalegeniuspod tiktok: @ jesiloves youtube: @jesiLoves & @femalegeniuspod

    36 min

  6. Mar 6

    What Happens When You’re Not Special Anymore?

    If you were the “gifted kid,” this episode might hurt a little. Let’s talk about post-graduation burnout, achievement-based identity, and what happens when you don’t feel special anymore. This episode started with two things: my deep love for Challengers (and my obsession with Tashi Duncan) and the very real conversations I’ve been having with friends as we finish our degrees and step into the… slightly terrifying blank canvas of the real world. For so many of us who were labelled “gifted,” “bright,” or “full of potential” growing up, achievement becomes part of our identity. School gives you structure, validation, gold stars, and a clear sense of where you stand. But what happens when that system disappears? In this episode I explore post-graduation burnout, why high-achieving people often struggle with identity once traditional success markers disappear, and what neuroscience, psychology, and philosophy have to say about it. Using some conceptual analogies, TV and film references (yes, Challengers), and a few chaotic pop-culture side quests, I try to understand why this stage of life can feel so destabilising and how we might approach it with more joy, curiosity, wonder, and a little bit of whimsy. Because here’s something I really believe: you don’t stop being special just because you don’t feel special anymore. Expect side notes, Marvel references, neuroscience, existential tangents, and a little bit of classic Female Genius chaos. Follow Me on Socials!! (I don't post everyday, but when I do its gold) instagram: @jesiakinsuyi tiktok: @jesiloves08 Youtube (nerdy analysis x vlogs) : Jesiloves Check out the papers I read this episode: https://www.jstor.org/stable/48553120?read-now=1&seq=4

    42 min

  7. 12/30/2025

    Defining Genius for the Year Ahead

    Another year, another round of goals — but this time, I’m doing it differently. In this episode, I break down a goal-setting framework I’ve been using and refining, something I’ve ended up calling the Genius Method. It’s a way of thinking about goals that feels more realistic, more intentional, and far less performative than the usual “new year, new me” approach. I also take a moment to reflect on the two biggest lessons this year taught me — not in a dramatic way, but in the quiet, perspective-shifting way that actually changes how you move through life. The kind of lessons that make you reassess what you’re working towards and why. This episode is about clarity over pressure, direction over noise, and setting goals that are genuinely aligned with who you are right now — not who you think you should be by January. 2026 is coming, and I want it to be thoughtful, sustainable, and yes… still a little bit genius. Gamification episode to help with habit theory: https://open.spotify.com/episode/2Kbm4KDiCekVaI3V9AdqDX?si=a2453024ca8541f5 Follow me on socials: insta: jesiakinsuyi | femalegeniuspod tiktok: jesiloves08

    20 min

  8. 11/28/2025

    Art Isn’t Fast Food: How to Meaningfully Consume Art Again

    "Art Needs to Be Chewed" - (Jesi,2025) In this episode of the Female Genius Podcast, we slow down and take a hard look at how we consume art in a world obsessed with speed. From music and movies to books and the tiny masterpieces scattered across social media, our relationship with art has changed—warped by consumerism, the paradox of choice, and the hyperreality we now live inside. I dive into why we’re losing the ability to sit with art long enough to feel it, how endless options make us more restless than fulfilled, and why scrolling has trained our brains to demand instant clarity instead of curiosity. Drawing on philosophy, media theory, and advice my music teacher gave me years ago, I explore how we can consciously rebuild a life where art isn’t just something we consume, but something we experience. If you’ve ever wondered why you don’t enjoy music like you used to, why finishing a book feels impossible, or why movies don’t move you the same way anymore—this episode is for you. We’ll unpack what it truly means to “chew” art, why it matters for your creativity and mental health, and how to reclaim depth in a shallow-feeling world. Let's connect on socials! Instagram: @jesiakinsuyi | @femalegeniuspod Tiktok: @jesiloves08

    35 min
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Dive into “Female Genius,” where Jesi takes you on an exhilarating journey through the thoughts and emotions that shape our lives. With a perfect blend of humor, insight, and science, Jesi explores the topics that occupy our minds and souls. As she navigates her own life’s challenges and triumphs, Jesi invites you along on her quest for understanding and self-discovery. Expect plenty of laughs, thought-provoking discussions, and cutting-edge scientific insights, all delivered with Jesi’s infectious energy and nerdy charm.

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  • Creator
    Jesi Akinsuyi
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2026
  • Episodes
    47
  • Rating
    Explicit