I think you do have an option to be left alone while in a relationship. I’m an Ambivert a blend of intro and extrovert. I love my alone time, especially since I’ve been divorced. OMG I like my time, my space, me. The 2 months to let the other women down that you’ve dated is fair. I’m so not like that. Once I’m done, I just let the guy know, hey this isn’t working, I’m not lingering, I’m not wasting time. That’s just me. Once I’m serious about someone for real, I’m not keeping any other connections to guys that I’ve dated.
And the older woman thing, you sound like you’re talking about a grand mother. Lol
As long as you don’t act like a teenager, the granny chic shouldn’t be tempted to treat you like their child. 🤣
And dating other races, I love the swagger of a black man. Not really interested in a black man who’s in love with white women. I had that, and you see I’m divorced, so yeah that’s that 🤣 great podcast!