Find Your Feminine Fire

Amanda Testa, Sex, Love + Relationship Coach
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Find Your Feminine Fire

Are you a high achieving woman ready to have more energy and sexual desire again, but feel stuck because you are too busy,  feel overwhelmed, and don’t want one more thing on your “to do” list? Congratulations brave one, The Find Your Feminine Fire podcast is for you. In this podcast, renowned Sex and Relationship Expert Amanda Testa shares what it really takes to have incredible sex, enjoy deeply connected relationships, and light yourself up from the inside out.  Over the years, Amanda has guided thousands on transformative journeys to heal their relationship with their sexuality, fully embrace pleasure without shame, own their electrifying confidence, and have epic relationships. Listen in to discover how to fan the flames of your Feminine Fire, fall in love with your sensual self again, and experience intimacy like never before - all in a way that feels really good to your system.  Ready To Get Your Feminine Fire Back? Head to www.amandatesta.com/thegoods for free goodies and your Free Sensuality Activation! Join my FB community here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/FindYourFeminineFire

  1. The Real Truth About Feeling Sexy in Midlife, And How To Do It

    1D AGO

    The Real Truth About Feeling Sexy in Midlife, And How To Do It

    Midlife is a wild ride. One minute I feel grounded and radiant, the next I'm wondering what the hell I’m doing with my life (usually while wiping dog puke off the couch at 5am). Sound familiar? In this solo episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on what it really means to feel sexy in the midst of changing hormones, shifting identities, and those “WTF is happening?” moments. If you’ve been feeling disconnected, tender, or just plain tired, I’ve got you. Inside this episode, I share:  ✨ How I move through the highs and lows of midlife ✨ The body image voice that popped into my head—and how I shut it down ✨ Why pleasure and rest are my non-negotiables right now ✨ What it means to step into your “second spring” with softness and strength ✨ The rituals and reminders that help me feel sexy again (even when I’m a mess) If you’ve been craving honesty, permission, and a gentle nudge back to yourself—this one’s for you. Tune in now and give yourself the gift of remembrance. You are sexy. You are sacred. You are enough — just as you are. 💖 Want personalized, confidential 1-1 support? Book a private coaching session → www.amandatesta.com/apply

    16 min
  2. Your Ego Isn’t the Enemy: How to Dance With Your Inner Parts (and Still Have a Sexy Marriage) with Brittany Hopkins Switlick

    MAR 25

    Your Ego Isn’t the Enemy: How to Dance With Your Inner Parts (and Still Have a Sexy Marriage) with Brittany Hopkins Switlick

    Do you ever feel like you have it all together—until life throws a curveball and suddenly, an unexpected part of you takes over? Maybe it's the part that gets overwhelmed, lashes out, or shrinks down. What if instead of fighting these parts of yourself, you could work with them, integrate them, and reclaim your full power? In this episode, I’m thrilled to welcome Brittany Hopkins Switlick, a seasoned yoga teacher, author, and personal development coach, to talk about her journey of self-reclamation, embodiment, and the transformative power of parts work. Brittany’s new book, Dancing With Our Selves, is a roadmap to self-awareness and intentional living, blending yoga, mindfulness, and more to help you navigate your inner world with more ease and self-compassion. We dive into: ✨Why so many women feel disconnected from their bodies and desires—and how to shift back into alignment ✨The surprising way naming your inner parts (hello, Brandi) can transform your relationships and self-trust ✨How yoga and meditation can help you break free from old patterns and show up fully in your life ✨The role of self-compassion in healing and growth—and how to stop abandoning yourself ✨A simple yet powerful practice to shift from reaction to empowerment in any moment   Listen now and learn how to dance with all parts of yourself—so you can reclaim your fire, your freedom, and your fullest self. Follow Brittany: @brittany.hopkins.switlick Get Your Free Sensuality Activation HERE! 👉 Love this episode? Leave a review & share it with a friend who needs to hear this!

    43 min

  3. MAR 8

    How to 10x Your Magic, Money + Movement with more Pleasure and Less Burnout with Rachael Maddox

    What if you could build a wildly successful business, stay deeply resourced, and fully embrace your magic without sacrificing your values or burning out? If you’ve ever felt like success and sustainability are at odds, this week’s Find Your Feminine Fire podcast episode is for you. I sat down with one of my fave mentors, Rachael Maddox, Oracle Business Witch, bestselling author, and guide for visionary leaders ready to 10x their magic, money, and movement—while staying deeply nourished in the process. Listen into this episode to discover: Freedom to redefine success on your own terms without the guilt of wanting abundance while maintaining your values A powerful 60-second ritual you can use immediately to shift from stress to creative flow Rachael’s unique take on the 10X framework that helps you work less while creating dramatically more impact Courage to trust your intuition even when it means making difficult decisions others might not understand A practical pathway to create wealth without compromising your deepest values Wisdom for building your "coven of courage" to support your boldest visions Validation that your spiritual gifts are valuable and deserving of proper compensation A sustainable approach to taking risks that won't leave you depleted or in debt   This episode is rich with insights on maintaining balance, creating impactful work, and achieving financial success without compromising personal well-being or core values. This conversation offers both practical strategies and soul-nourishing wisdom for creating success without selling out or self-extracting.   Connect with Rachael and learn more about Business Witchery HERE Folllow Rachael on Instagram HERE @RachaelMaddox. Listen to her Business Witchery podcast HERE.

    44 min
  4. How to Talk to Your Partner About Sex (Without It Feeling Awkward or Leading to a Fight)

    MAR 3

    How to Talk to Your Partner About Sex (Without It Feeling Awkward or Leading to a Fight)

    Do you struggle to talk to your partner about sex without feeling awkward or afraid of rejection? You’re not alone. Even the most confident, high-achieving women can freeze up when it comes to expressing their desires. In this episode of Find Your Feminine Fire, I’m sharing practical tools and word-for-word scripts to help you navigate these conversations with confidence, clarity, and ease—without making your partner defensive or shutting down. You’ll discover: 🔥 How to bring up intimacy in a way that feels natural and inviting 🔥 Why nervous system regulation is key to sexual communication 🔥 The biggest mistakes we make when discussing sex—and how to avoid them 🔥 Playful, low-pressure ways to make intimacy talks fun and ongoing Your pleasure matters, and open communication is the key to deeper connection. Tune in and start transforming your relationship today! 💖 Want personalized, confidential 1-1 support? Book a private coaching session → www.amandatesta.com/apply

    23 min
  5. How Sacred Sexuality Revolutionizes Relationships

    FEB 23

    How Sacred Sexuality Revolutionizes Relationships

    In this intimate and powerful episode of the Find Your Feminine Fire podcast, host Amanda Testa brings you inside a special conversation with accomplished VITA Sex, Love and Relationship coaches as they explore how sacred sexuality can transform partnerships and personal growth. 🌟 Episode Highlights: What sacred sexuality really means and how it differs from conventional views of intimacy How sacred practices can heal trauma, rebuild trust, and deepen connection Personal stories of transformation in relationships through sacred sexuality work Ways to move from performative to authentic intimate experiences The connection between sacred sexuality and overall life resilience How these practices support couples facing challenges like perimenopause, health issues, and intimacy blocks Featured Guests Include: Girisha Andrea Steigler Sasha Ostara Charlotte Eastaugh Ksenya Egorova Aurora Sunu Marianne Van Katwijk Kate Carson Harmony Scott Key Takeaways: Sacred sexuality provides an anchor for relationships during times of change and challenge The practices help develop sexual sovereignty and deeper self-connection Partners may be at different places in their journey - and that's okay These tools can revitalize intimacy even after years without physical connection Sacred sexuality connects us to our life force energy and innate wholeness   If you're ready to revolutionize your relationship through sacred practices and tap into deeper realms of pleasure, connection and healing - this episode is for you. Listen now and discover how sacred sexuality could transform your partnerships and awaken your authentic erotic nature.

    54 min
  6. Unlocking Wealth and Deepening Love Through Human Design with Allie Kuhland

    FEB 19

    Unlocking Wealth and Deepening Love Through Human Design with Allie Kuhland

    Are you a high-achieving woman who feels like you're hustling hard but still feeling drained? Maybe you're crushing it in corporate, running your own business, or juggling life as a busy mom - but something still feels off? Today's episode is going to completely transform how you think about success, love, and making decisions. I'm sitting down with the incredible Allie Kuhland, a certified life coach and Human Design expert who went from burning out in tech to tripling her income while actually feeling better. (And yes, she did this while conquering 100-mile races and summiting some of the world's highest peaks!) We're diving deep into: • Why your decision-making style might be sabotaging your success • How to stop keeping score in your relationship and deepen intimacy • How your sacral center holds the key to unlocking pleasure • Why your partner's Human Design could be the secret to better communication • How to create wealth and success without burning out Plus, Allie shares vulnerable stories about how understanding her husband's Human Design transformed their marriage and parenting. If you're ready to stop forcing yourself to fit into someone else's blueprint and start living in alignment with your unique design, this episode is for you. Sign up here: to receive your complimentary Sensual Self Discovery Kit Journal, Self Love Meditation, and Activation Practice

    39 min
  7. The Pleasure Rebellion: Why Reclaiming Your Sexuality is a Radical Act of Power

    FEB 10

    The Pleasure Rebellion: Why Reclaiming Your Sexuality is a Radical Act of Power

    What if reclaiming your pleasure was the key to unlocking your deepest confidence, your most powerful leadership, and your greatest success? In this episode of Find Your Feminine Fire, host Amanda Testa dives into a conversation that is more urgent than ever—why reclaiming your sexuality isn’t just about feeling good, but about reclaiming your power. For centuries, women have been conditioned to shrink, suppress, and silence their desires—in the bedroom, in their careers, and in their lives. But here’s the truth: A woman who fully owns her pleasure is a woman who cannot be controlled. Join us as we explore: 🔥 The shocking reality of the orgasm gap and how it reflects deeper systemic conditioning. 🔥 The link between sexuality and success—why turned-on women attract more money, joy, and opportunity. 🔥 How cultural and religious narratives have taught women to fear their own power—and how to break free. 🔥 Why reclaiming pleasure is not just personal—it’s a radical act of liberation. 🔥 Practical tools to start embodying more pleasure and self-trust in your daily life. Ready to step into your full, turned-on power? Sign up here to receive your free Sensual Self Discovery Journal, Self Love Meditation, And Activation Practice!

    24 min
  8. The Secret to Feeling Cherished & Desired: Grace & Mercy in Relationships

    FEB 5

    The Secret to Feeling Cherished & Desired: Grace & Mercy in Relationships

    Want to know the secret to avoiding petty fights and deepening intimacy in your relationship? In this week's Find Your Feminine Fire Podcast I'm joined by my husband Dr. Mark Testa, and we explore two powerful relationship tools that have been creating more harmony in our relationship: grace and mercy. Learn the true definitions of these transformative concepts (beyond their religious context) and discover a practical 4-step framework to stop relationship triggers before they escalate. We share vulnerable stories from our own marriage, discuss how these practices create the safety needed for deeper sexual intimacy, and offer real examples of applying these principles in everyday situations. Whether you're struggling with resentment, seeking more understanding in your relationship, or ready to create deeper connection with your partner, this episode provides actionable tools to enhance your relationship today. Plus, learn how to maintain boundaries while practicing compassion. This conversation is a must-listen for anyone wanting to create more love and understanding in their relationship.  Enjoy!

    28 min
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    Are you a high achieving woman ready to have more energy and sexual desire again, but feel stuck because you are too busy,  feel overwhelmed, and don’t want one more thing on your “to do” list? Congratulations brave one, The Find Your Feminine Fire podcast is for you. In this podcast, renowned Sex and Relationship Expert Amanda Testa shares what it really takes to have incredible sex, enjoy deeply connected relationships, and light yourself up from the inside out.  Over the years, Amanda has guided thousands on transformative journeys to heal their relationship with their sexuality, fully embrace pleasure without shame, own their electrifying confidence, and have epic relationships. Listen in to discover how to fan the flames of your Feminine Fire, fall in love with your sensual self again, and experience intimacy like never before - all in a way that feels really good to your system.  Ready To Get Your Feminine Fire Back? Head to www.amandatesta.com/thegoods for free goodies and your Free Sensuality Activation! Join my FB community here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/FindYourFeminineFire

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    • Creator
      Amanda Testa, Sex, Love + Relationship Coach
    • Years Active
      2018 - 2025
    • Episodes
      328
    • Rating
      Explicit
    • Copyright
      © Amanda Testa 2018-2025
    • Show Website
      Find Your Feminine Fire

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