Finding Gold

Phoenesse
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Prospecting for gold combines the lure of potential, the excitement of seeing a sparkling possibility, and the patience of a saint. Finding the self, the whole amazing nugget of our true selves, at the core of our being is not so different. We must delve into areas of ourselves that have long been hidden from view, looking with self-compassion whenever a new awareness surfaces. We need to search for understanding and then follow it all the way through, mining it for every precious ounce of healing possible. Every glimpse of our true self will inspire us to go on. To do this work, it helps to have a map of our inner landscape and a headlamp for seeing into dark corners. That’s what Jill Loree has created in this collection of spiritual teachings. Finding Gold podcasts taps into a rich vein of wisdom about the work of finding the self, illuminating the journey from various important perspectives. To gain a deeper sense of our own true value is to find gold. And wow, what a worthwhile prospect that is.

  1. EPISODE 1

    1 Occupation with self

    The right and wrong way to be selfish The Pathwork Guide explores the often-misunderstood idea of focusing on oneself, challenging the belief that self-attention is inherently selfish. The real issue is not whether we think about ourselves or others, but how we do so. When self-focus takes the form of self-pity, complaint, or avoidance, it becomes unproductive. But when approached with honesty and intention, turning inward becomes essential for growth. True self-awareness lays the foundation for genuine compassion. Helping others and helping ourselves are deeply interconnected—not opposing paths. Going deeper, the chapter emphasizes that authentic self-love is rooted in self-respect, not indulgence or escape. By doing our inner work—facing our faults without harsh judgment—we develop both humility and clarity. This inner alignment allows us to see others more truthfully and respond with real tolerance, rather than criticism or denial. Ultimately, the chapter points to a powerful truth: the more we understand and accept ourselves, the more naturally we can love and support others. In this way, meaningful self-occupation becomes a path to greater connection, integrity, and positive impact in the world. Finding Gold, Chapter 1: Occupation with Self Read Original Pathwork® Lecture: #33 Occupation with Self – Right and Wrong Faith

    8 min

  2. EPISODE 2

    2 Right and wrong faith

    There is no perfect faith The Pathwork Guide explores the nature of faith, revealing that doubt is not a failure of the spiritual path but an essential part of it. Rather than suppressing uncertainty, we are invited to acknowledge all parts of ourselves—including the ones that question and resist. True growth comes from embracing these inner contradictions with honesty and humility. Its important to recognize that even a small seed of faith can coexist with doubt. By allowing every part of ourselves to “have a seat at the table,” we create the conditions for genuine, lived faith to emerge—one grounded not in denial, but in self-awareness and experience. At the same time, the chapter warns against the subtle trap of spiritual pride, where having more faith can lead to feeling special or favored. This illusion separates us from others and distorts true spirituality. Instead, we are called to cultivate humility and accept our imperfections. We must also continue doing the inner work of clarifying our motives and facing our challenges. Through life’s tests, we learn to turn inward and seek truth beyond our temporary confusion. In this way, faith becomes less about certainty and more about perseverance, self-honesty, and a growing connection to something deeper than ourselves. Finding Gold, Chapter 2: Right and Wrong Faith Read Original Pathwork® Lecture: #33 Occupation with Self – Right and Wrong Faith

    9 min

  3. EPISODE 3

    3 The importance of forming independent opinions

    Holding wrong opinions The Pathwork Guide explores how our struggles with others often stem from a deeper blindness within ourselves. While we may believe our pain is caused by others, true growth begins when we turn inward and examine our own role in conflict. A key obstacle to love and clarity is the tendency to adopt opinions that are not truly our own—beliefs shaped by conformity, fear, rebellion, or simple mental laziness. Even when such opinions are “correct,” they weaken us if they are not formed through honest reflection, leaving us disconnected from our own truth and quietly diminishing our self-respect. The path forward requires courage: the willingness to think independently, question our motives, and stand by our own conclusions—even when they differ from others. By doing so, we develop genuine self-respect and inner freedom. This process calls for deep self-honesty, including the ability to examine opposing viewpoints and uncover the hidden forces shaping our beliefs. Ultimately, forming independent opinions is not about being right—it’s about being real. And it is this authenticity that strengthens our capacity to love, grow, and live with integrity. Finding Gold, Chapter 3: The Importance of Forming Independent Opinions Read Original Pathwork® Lecture: #51 Importance of Forming Independent Opinions

    8 min

  4. EPISODE 4

    4 Self-love

    Healthy vs. unhealthy self-love The Pathwork Guide explores the complex nature of self-love, revealing how easily a true principle can become distorted. Healthy self-love—rooted in self-respect and inner honesty—is essential for growth and connection. But when it becomes twisted by insecurity, fear, or hidden feelings of rejection, it can turn into selfishness, self-admiration, or subtle forms of self-deception. At the core of these distortions is a deeper issue: a lack of genuine self-worth, often fueled by the desire to “cheat life” by avoiding effort, risk, or vulnerability. True healing begins when we recognize and release this impulse, allowing authentic self-respect to take root. The chapter also highlights how unresolved pain and rejection can lead to compensatory behaviors, including the urge to punish ourselves or others in hidden ways. Rather than denying or judging these tendencies, we are encouraged to face them with awareness and compassion. By sorting through these inner contradictions and making honest, balanced decisions, we begin to align with a deeper truth: loving ourselves is not selfish—it is necessary. As we develop healthy self-love, we reconnect with our inherent worth and open the door to greater joy, clarity, and the ability to truly love others. Finding Gold, Chapter 4: Self-Love Read Original Pathwork® Lecture: #53 Self-Love

    12 min

  5. EPISODE 5

    5 Self-alienation and the way back to the Real Self

    What makes us suffer The Pathwork Guide explores the human condition as a state of “in-between”—no longer in unconscious harmony, yet not fully awakened into conscious truth. Our struggle, though painful, is purposeful. Suffering arises from untruth and unawareness within us. The path forward requires turning inward to uncover our own distortions, defenses, and false beliefs. Only by facing these inner errors can we reconnect with our Real Self—the undivided core of our being—from which authentic living, connection, and clarity naturally emerge. Self-alienation occurs when we live from these distortions rather than from our inner truth. It often shows up as feelings of helplessness, dependency, or the need to control outcomes and others. Whether through submission, aggression, or withdrawal, we mistakenly place our power outside ourselves. This leads to inner conflict and a distorted sense of identity, where our worth becomes tied to success, approval, or fulfillment. In reality, our inherent value is never determined by external circumstances—yet we continue to suffer as long as we believe it is. Bringing everything into the open A key step in healing this split is recognizing how deeply our reactions are shaped by hidden beliefs about inadequacy and inferiority. When frustration or rejection feels unbearable, it is often because we unconsciously interpret it as proof that we are “less than.” By bringing these false conclusions into awareness, we begin to loosen their grip. This shift allows us to reclaim our inner strength, respond to life more truthfully, and gradually move from living on the surface of ourselves to inhabiting our inner center. The path back to the Real Self is gradual and requires both insight and intentional change. As we become aware of our true needs—to both receive and give—we gain clarity and relief, even before those needs are fully met. Learning to tolerate temporary unfulfillment without losing ourselves builds resilience and deepens self-trust. Over time, this honest engagement with reality dissolves old patterns and sets new ones in motion. What emerges is a more grounded, integrated way of being—one that is rooted in truth, open to growth, and aligned with the deeper flow of life. Finding Gold, Chapter 5: Self-Alienation and the Way Back to the Real Self Read Original Pathwork® Lecture: #95 Self-Alienation and the Way Back to the Real Self

    31 min

  6. EPISODE 6

    6 Laziness as a symptom of self-alienation

    Why do we feel so lazy? Laziness is not simply a personal flaw, but a symptom of a deeper disconnection from our true selves. When we are self-alienated—living from a false identity, relying on others’ opinions, and operating from long-held defenses—we lose touch with our natural vitality and sense of purpose. This inner split leaves us feeling tired, apathetic, and stuck, often accompanied by guilt and frustration about our perceived lack of motivation. Yet neither forcing productivity nor condemning ourselves resolves the issue, as both laziness and compulsive overactivity stem from the same root: a disconnection from our inner core. When we reconnect with our Real Self, energy flows naturally, and engagement with life becomes effortless and meaningful. True vitality is not about constant activity, but about alignment—doing what feels inherently purposeful and alive. From this place, rest becomes nourishing rather than avoidant, and action arises organically rather than through pressure or resistance. By recognizing and addressing the underlying self-alienation, we unlock the ability to live with renewed energy, authenticity, and a genuine desire to participate fully in life. Finding Gold, Chapter 6: Laziness as a Symptom of Self-Alienation Read Original Pathwork® Lecture: #96 Questions and Answers and Additional Comments on Laziness as Symptom of Self-Alienation

    4 min

  7. EPISODE 7

    7 Identification with the self

    The future seems better—until we get there The Pathwork Guide explores what it means to truly identify with oneself, revealing how often we live disconnected from the present moment and from our own inner reality. Instead of being grounded in the “Now,” we tend to escape into the past or future, avoiding the untruths and conflicts we carry within. This avoidance keeps us from experiencing life as it is and from accessing the deeper peace and stability that come from living in alignment with our Real Self. True presence requires self-awareness—seeing our inner contradictions and distortions without turning away from them. A major source of self-alienation is our tendency to base our identity on others—whether parents, relationships, groups, or causes—rather than developing our own inner foundation. While dependence is natural in childhood, maturity calls for gradually “cutting the cord” and learning to stand on our own emotionally, intellectually, and spiritually. When we fail to do this, we remain dependent, seeking validation, love, or direction from outside ourselves. This leads to anxiety, control issues, and strained relationships. Even noble causes or strong beliefs can become substitutes for true self-identification if they are used to fill an inner void. The path to reclaiming the self begins with recognizing where we are still attached, dependent, or trying to control others. These patterns point directly to where we have not yet claimed our own inner ground. By facing these tendencies with honesty and courage, we begin to access the inner resources that have always been within us. As we root ourselves in our own being, we naturally release unhealthy dependencies and move toward a more authentic, balanced, and empowered way of living—one grounded in reality, presence, and inner strength. Finding Gold, Chapter 7: Identification with Self Read Original Pathwork® Lecture: #113 Identification with the Self

    19 min

  8. EPISODE 8

    8 Winner vs loser: Interplay between the self and creative forces

    Opposite approaches, same poor result The Pathwork Guide challenges the common belief that life is a battle between winning and losing, exposing it as a false and limiting duality. In this distorted view, being a “winner” means being selfish and ruthless, while being a “loser” means being self-sacrificing and good. Both paths are rooted in fear and lead to the same outcome: frustration, inner conflict, and disconnection. The truth is that we do not need to choose between self-assertion and kindness. Real fulfillment comes from recognizing that we can pursue our own happiness without harming others, dissolving the illusion that life must be a zero-sum game. Going deeper, the chapter reveals how true creation arises from a balance between our own conscious intentions and the universal creative forces within us. Like a gardener preparing the soil, our role is to clarify our desires, remove inner obstacles, and align with truth—while allowing life’s natural processes to unfold. When we hold contradictory beliefs, fear happiness, or unconsciously resist what we say we want, we block this creative flow. But when we become clear, relaxed, and aligned in our desires, we activate a powerful partnership between self and creation. From this balance emerges a life of greater harmony, purpose, and possibility—where fulfillment is not forced, but allowed to grow. Finding Gold, Chapter 8: Winner vs Loser: Interplay Between the Self and Creative Forces Read Original Pathwork® Lecture: #129 Winner versus Loser: Interplay Between the Self and Creative Forces

    22 min
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Prospecting for gold combines the lure of potential, the excitement of seeing a sparkling possibility, and the patience of a saint. Finding the self, the whole amazing nugget of our true selves, at the core of our being is not so different. We must delve into areas of ourselves that have long been hidden from view, looking with self-compassion whenever a new awareness surfaces. We need to search for understanding and then follow it all the way through, mining it for every precious ounce of healing possible. Every glimpse of our true self will inspire us to go on. To do this work, it helps to have a map of our inner landscape and a headlamp for seeing into dark corners. That’s what Jill Loree has created in this collection of spiritual teachings. Finding Gold podcasts taps into a rich vein of wisdom about the work of finding the self, illuminating the journey from various important perspectives. To gain a deeper sense of our own true value is to find gold. And wow, what a worthwhile prospect that is.

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  • Creator
    Phoenesse
  • Episodes
    14
  • Seasons
    1
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    ©2015 Jill Loree
  • Show Website
    Finding Gold