Welcome back to Finding Your Summit! Host Mark Pattison sits down with Shep Rose, the beloved reality TV star who has captivated audiences for 11 consecutive seasons on Bravo's Southern Charm. In this refreshingly honest conversation, Shep opens up about the darker side of fame, his transformative journey with plant medicine, and how he's redefining success beyond the camera's glare. This episode offers a rare glimpse behind the curtain of reality television stardom, exploring the paradox of living a seemingly charmed life while battling the very real challenges of maintaining authenticity, purpose, and balance when the world expects you to be the life of every party. Key Topics Discussed: The Reality Behind Reality TV: When the Party Becomes Your Prison Shep candidly reveals how he found himself trapped in a persona—the fun-loving, always-available guy who never says no. Learn how idolizing renegades like Joe Namath and living up to the hype of being everyone's favorite party companion led him to a crossroads at 33, where he realized he was losing control. Discover the moment he knew something had to change and why idle hands truly can be the devil's workshop when you have free time and a pocket full of cash. The Ayahuasca Journey: A Psychedelic Reckoning with Excess In a serendipitous meeting at Rhythmia in Costa Rica, Shep and Mark connected during Shep's transformative plant medicine experience—a journey he's now chronicling in his upcoming book Nothing in Moderation: A Psychedelic Reckoning with Excess. Shep shares powerful insights from his three-night ayahuasca ceremony, including the profound moment when the shaman told him "you are okay, brother"—a message he interpreted as confirmation that everything he needs is already within him. Learn about his revelations on following your heart, the empty pursuit of want versus need, and why surrendering to the experience unlocked possibilities he never imagined. The Paradox of Celebrity: Platform as Blessing and Burden Discover how Shep has evolved his relationship with fame, transforming from someone who took criticism personally to understanding that his platform offers tremendous opportunity to serve others. From charity work supporting epilepsy research to the simple act of making someone's weekend with a photo, Shep reveals how he's learned to appreciate the responsibility that comes with public recognition. Hear about his relationship with Bravo executive Andy Cohen and the hard conversation that changed his perspective on accountability. Charleston's Magic: Why This Southern City Captivates Millions Shep unpacks what makes Charleston the perfect backdrop for Southern Charm's success, drawing parallels to General Grant's decision to spare the city during the Civil War because of its undeniable beauty. Learn why the show works as a window into "erudite South"—well-educated, well-spoken, aesthetically beautiful—and how it satisfies curiosity about Southern culture in the tradition of Mark Twain, Flannery O'Connor, and Faulkner. Discover why Charleston itself is a character in the show and how the cobblestone streets, historic architecture, and coastal setting create television magic. The Art of Saying Yes: Adventure, Passion, and Purpose Shep reveals his life philosophy: say yes to 90% of opportunities that come your way. But he's also learned the hard way that this approach can be both his secret to an extraordinary life and his kryptonite. Explore how he's finding balance between being everything to everyone and maintaining boundaries, and why chasing passions like fly fishing, surfing, hunting, and golf has led him to Christmas Island and connections with fascinating people around the world. Online Hate vs. Real-World Love: The Keyboard Warrior Phenomenon In a powerful reflection on modern culture, Shep discusses the stark contrast between online trolls and in-person interactions. He shares why he now has empathy for people who spend time writing nasty comments online, recognizing a deep sadness that drives such behavior. Learn why he's become a fan of his own show, how he's stopped taking editing choices personally, and why the only people who matter are those actually living life rather than constantly commenting on others. The Future Beyond Southern Charm: Writing, Travel, and What's Next As the show evolves with younger cast members and Shep approaches his mid-40s, he opens up about his vision for the future. Learn about his developing travel projects with Southern Charm creator Whitney, his commitment to writing, his thoughts on family and finding the right partner, and why his primary allegiance remains with Bravo despite imperfections. Shep explains why he's not rushing into anything—especially the biggest decision of his life: choosing a life partner. Perspective from the Road: Lessons from