FLOW with Joe

Joey Hamer

Fail often? Panic attacks? ADHD brain? Burnt out? Tried every self-help book? Broke from all the therapy? Score on the wrong hoop in front of MJ as a youth? (Yes, it happened.) "FLOW with Joe" is your lifeline. Host Joey gets brutally honest about hitting rock bottom & the practical toolkit he developed to finally take control of his life. Raw stories and guided meditations for imperfect humans. Learn to navigate lows, build resilience and live easier. Weekly episodes to equip you with everything you need to finally enjoy the life you deserve. Let's find your flow.

Episodes

  1. The Anti-Morning Routine: Why Today Will Be Different (10-Min Reframe)

    05/14/2025

    The Anti-Morning Routine: Why Today Will Be Different (10-Min Reframe)

    Tired of rigid morning routines that feel like another chore? What if the key to a better day isn't what you do, but who you choose to be? In this 10-minute reframe, Joey shares three powerful "Pattern Interrupts" to shift your mindset instantly, even if you wake up feeling like crap. Learn to question your default narratives, find hidden opportunities in dread, reclaim wasted energy, and use the simple "Three-Breath Reset Button" to navigate your day with conscious choice, not autopilot reactivity. This is your guide to starting today differently. Read more at https://www.brutallyhonest.ai/flow-with-joe Key Takeaways: Stories Shape Reality: The heaviness you feel often comes from the narrative you attach to circumstances, and narratives can be rewritten. Shift Your Question, Shift Your World: Ask "Who am I choosing to be today?" instead of "What do I have to do?" to move from reactivity to creation. Your Body is Data: Physical tension signals your thoughts. Use simple exercises (like tensing & releasing) for a nervous system reset. Reframe Dread into Opportunity: Ask "What could I learn here?" or "How can I show up differently?" Curiosity trumps fear. Plug Energy Leaks: Instead of seeking more energy, identify where you're wasting it (worry, perfectionism, doom-scrolling) and reclaim it. Befriend Your Inner Critic: Acknowledge its protective intent, then consciously choose a different path. The 3-Breath Reset Button: A quick tool (Acknowledge, Create Space, Choose Response) to regain control anytime. Intention Over Obligation: Focus on who you want to be and how you want to show up rather than a list of prescribed activities.Mentioned Resources & Concepts: Pattern Interrupts Mindset Reframe Awareness / Noticing Thoughts Conscious Choice vs. Autopilot Energy Management (Leaks & Reclamation) Inner Critic Work Embodiment (Tension/Release Exercise) Curiosity as a Tool Three-Breath Reset Button Joey's Personal Journey (Panic Attacks, Depression, ADHD - context for his tools)This Week's Invitation: The Morning Reframe Challenge For the next 3 days, when you first wake up, consciously try: Asking: "Who am I choosing to be today?" Identifying ONE thing you might be dreading and asking: "What's the hidden opportunity here?" Noticing ONE potential energy leak and deciding to plug it.ACTION: Briefly note any shifts in your feeling or day in your journal or phone.

    13 min
  2. 04/15/2025

    The Toolkit is Your Lifeline (When Sh*t Hits the Fan)

    The Toolkit Is Your Lifeline (When Sh*t Hits the Fan)This is not the episode Joey planned. After hitting an intense wave of stress & impostor syndrome right before launch, he scrapped the plan and recorded the real story. In this raw, vulnerable first episode of FLOW with Joe, Joey shares navigating that crash – feeling like his tools failed, leaning on crucial human support (thanks, Brooke!), and using his personal toolkit (breathwork, awareness, movement, reframing) to find center again. This is the messy, authentic reality of building resilience when life hits hard. Key Takeaways The Crash is Real (You're not alone!)Your Toolkit is Your Lifeline (Not just for good days)Human Connection is Crucial (Sometimes it's the best tool)Tools Don't Always Work Instantly (Persistence is key)Using Tools is the Work (Even imperfectly)Awareness is Step 0 (Disarm negative loops)Acceptance > Resistance ("You're right where you need to be")Build your System (Medicine, Mindset, Movement, Moderation, Modules)AI Pep Talk Prompt (For Your Toolkit) Need a boost? Try this prompt with your fave AI bot: "Okay AI, I'm feeling {Specific Feeling} right now about {Specific Situation}. My negative thoughts are saying {Quote Negative Thought}. Channeling a supportive but direct friend/mentor, give me a quick, actionable reframe and remind me of my core strengths related to {Mention Relevant Strength}. What's ONE small action I can take RIGHT NOW to shift my state?" Mentioned Impostor Syndrome, Acceptance, Awareness, Breathwork, Peace is Every Step (Book), Joey's Chatbot theREALrealtalk, "Potty Talk" Podcast (Age 4 Flashback!) This Week's Invitation Identify ONE tool for your lifeline toolkit! --- Connect with Joeybrutallyhonest.ai Instagram TikTok Bots LinkedIn Brutally Honest AI Newsletter Photography My AI Clone (Thank you for listening. Enjoy the highs, navigate the lows. You got this.)

    10 min

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Fail often? Panic attacks? ADHD brain? Burnt out? Tried every self-help book? Broke from all the therapy? Score on the wrong hoop in front of MJ as a youth? (Yes, it happened.) "FLOW with Joe" is your lifeline. Host Joey gets brutally honest about hitting rock bottom & the practical toolkit he developed to finally take control of his life. Raw stories and guided meditations for imperfect humans. Learn to navigate lows, build resilience and live easier. Weekly episodes to equip you with everything you need to finally enjoy the life you deserve. Let's find your flow.