For Better or Hustle

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For Better or Hustle isn't about the highlight reel. It's about the in- between- the blurry middle of transition where nothing feels certain but everything is changing. This podcast is a real- time exploration of what it means to grow, grieve, shift identities, speak hard truths, and start over (again and again). No fake optimism, no five- step formulas- just honest conversations, solo episodes and vulnerable guest interviews that meet you exactly where you are.  We're not preaching from the mountaintop- we're walking through the fire with you. Some days it's clear. Some days it's chaos. But either way, we're showing up, together.  Because beoming who you're meant to be isn't always graceful- but it is always worth it.

  1. 08/03/2025

    EP020: Get To Know Me Better (ft. xoxo sets)

    In this special solo episode, I flipped the script and turned the mic on me. Using the thoughtful and reflective question cards from xoxo.sets, I asked myself the kinds of questions I usually ask my guests — and it got real. From vulnerability and growth to old habits, big dreams, and the quiet parts I usually keep to myself, this episode is a window into who I am when the mics are on and off. Expect honesty. Expect softness. Expect maybe a few unexpected confessions. Whether you're new here or you’ve been riding with me since episode one, I hope this gives you a deeper look into the voice behind the mic — and maybe encourages you to ask yourself some of the same questions. ✨ Mentioned in this episode: 💌 xoxo.sets on Instagram – The card deck I used to spark reflection and storytelling Like what you heard? Rate, review, and share the episode — and tag me if you’re listening or journaling your own answers. I’d love to hear what resonated.

    21 min

  2. 07/27/2025

    EP019: Podcast Ready? With Candace Dudley

    In this episode, we’re joined by Candace Dudley — educator-turned-entrepreneur, podcast host, and mom of three — who shares the pivotal moments that led her from the classroom to building her own business and launching her hit show, Podcasting Mentor: Better Brave. Candace opens up about: Navigating identity shifts after motherhood Taking the leap into entrepreneurship The moment she knew it was time to start her own podcast But this isn’t just about her story. We dive deep into your next move: Should you start a podcast? What if you're more curious about guesting on other shows? Where do you even begin? Whether you've said, "I think I want to start a podcast," or "I have no idea where to begin," this episode is packed with encouragement, practical tips, and real talk to help you take that next step with clarity and confidence. Connect with Candace Dudley: Instagram LinkedIn Website  Podcast: Better Brave FREE Guesting Starter Guide If you enjoyed this conversation, please consider leaving a rating or review — it helps more people find us and join the conversation!

    51 min

  3. 06/30/2025

    EP018 – Triggers: What Are They, What They Mean, and What You Should Do

    In this episode of For Better or Hustle, host Alyxandra Wilkins delves into the concept of triggers—those emotional responses that can arise from past experiences. She emphasizes that triggers are universal and not a sign of weakness. The conversation explores how understanding triggers can empower individuals to navigate their emotional landscapes more effectively. Alyxandra also distinguishes between triggers and intuition, providing insights into how to recognize and manage these feelings. The episode concludes with a practical four-step approach to dealing with triggers, encouraging listeners to embrace their emotional responses as part of their healing journey.

    17 min

  4. 06/29/2025

    Ep017: The Healing Journey: Understanding Trauma

    In this episode of the For Better or Hustle podcast, host Alyxandra Wilkins interviews Thalea, a trauma-informed coach from Cape Town, South Africa. Thalea shares her personal journey from feeling out of place in the corporate world to discovering her purpose through travel and self-exploration. She discusses the importance of understanding trauma, both big and small, and how it impacts our lives. The conversation emphasizes the need for safe spaces to address these issues and the holistic approach required for healing. Click here to follow to Thalea on Instagram Looking to Connect with Thalea in other ways? Click here

    1h 3m

  5. 06/22/2025

    EP016: Toxic Positivity and How It Actually Affects You

    In this episode of the For Better or Hustle podcast, Alyxandra Wilkins delves into the concept of toxic positivity, exploring its impact on emotional health and the importance of allowing oneself to feel and process emotions. She emphasizes that true healing comes from acknowledging pain rather than suppressing it, and discusses the need for emotional accountability while navigating personal struggles. The conversation encourages listeners to redefine their understanding of positivity, recognizing that it can coexist with pain and vulnerability.

    9 min

  6. 06/16/2025

    EP015: Women Build Up Women

    We were taught to compete — now we’re choosing to connect. In this episode, I’m getting real about how internalized competition between women starts, how I had to unlearn it, and what it truly means to support other women without shrinking yourself. From calling out jealousy without shame to celebrating someone else’s glow without dimming your own, this one is a reminder that healed women hype women. Whether you’re struggling to build up the women around you or just need a reminder that there’s room for all of us to win — this episode is your wake-up call.

    14 min

  7. 06/08/2025

    EP014: Internalized Misogyny

    In this raw and reflective episode of For Better or Hustle, we unpack the quiet, harmful conditioning so many of us carry—internalized misogyny. From side-eyeing confident women to shrinking ourselves in rooms we were born to shine in, we explore how these patterns begin, especially in childhood homes marked by narcissism, emotional hierarchy, and conditional love. We get personal, sharing what it looks like to grow up distrusting femininity and believing softness is a liability. Together, we walk through what it means to unlearn these beliefs, reconnect with our true selves, and learn to celebrate the women around us without comparison or competition. This isn’t about shame—it’s about awareness, healing, and finally giving that younger version of ourselves the love and understanding she never received. If this episode hits close to home, good. That’s where the real work begins.

    23 min

  8. 06/01/2025

    EP013: STOP WAITING FOR PERFECT RESULTS, PERFECT CLIENTS, PERFECT TIME

    In this episode, I’m diving deep into a topic that has affected me personally and that I see hold back so many others — perfectionism. Whether it’s waiting for the perfect client, the perfect moment, or the perfect version of your offer, perfectionism can quietly kill your momentum, your confidence, and your business. This conversation is also a special tribute to my dear friend Ily, who has been a constant reminder for me that showing up imperfectly is still powerful. I’m sharing some of the hard lessons I’ve learned about how perfectionism masks itself as preparation — and how I’ve learned to move forward anyway. In this episode, I talk about: Why perfectionism isn’t a high standard — it’s fear in disguise The difference between excellence and perfection What perfectionism has cost me in my own journey How to start taking action even when things aren’t “ready” The freedom that comes from choosing progress over perfection If you’ve been waiting for a sign to stop overthinking and just start — this is it. Looking for a health and wellness coach? You can connect with Ily here: @coach_Ilianis

    21 min
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For Better or Hustle isn't about the highlight reel. It's about the in- between- the blurry middle of transition where nothing feels certain but everything is changing. This podcast is a real- time exploration of what it means to grow, grieve, shift identities, speak hard truths, and start over (again and again). No fake optimism, no five- step formulas- just honest conversations, solo episodes and vulnerable guest interviews that meet you exactly where you are.  We're not preaching from the mountaintop- we're walking through the fire with you. Some days it's clear. Some days it's chaos. But either way, we're showing up, together.  Because beoming who you're meant to be isn't always graceful- but it is always worth it.

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