Forging Resilience

Aaron Hill
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There are people in this world with extraordinary stories, people who've been forged by challenge, transition, and adversity, and most of us will never get the chance to hear them speak honestly about it. Forging Resilience closes that gap.Host Aaron Hill draws on a deep network of military leaders, elite athletes, entrepreneurs, and coaches to have the conversations that don't happen in boardrooms or on stages. Driven by curiosity and presence, Aaron doesn't follow a script or stick to a format, he follows the story. What comes out is something rare: real, unfiltered insight from people who've been through the fire and come out the other side.Built for high performers, leaders, founders, and anyone facing a moment that demands more of them,  this is the show for people who don't fit the mould, hosted by someone who doesn't either. www.linkedin.com/in/aaron-hill-synergy-coachinghttps://www.instagram.com/aaronhill_79/

  1. S3 Ep103 Dr. Alice Loving: Connection Changes Everything

    3D AGO

    S3 Ep103 Dr. Alice Loving: Connection Changes Everything

    This is a conversation about what’s really going on beneath behaviour. We get into the gap between reacting and responding, and why most of us—especially under pressure—default to the behaviour we see rather than the feeling driving it. Alice breaks down mentalisation in a way that’s simple and practical. Not theory. Real-life application. We talk about what happens when we’re dysregulated as parents, how that shapes the moment, and why connection has to come before correction if we want to be heard. There’s a strong thread around repair—how families that are “working” aren’t perfect, but they come back together well after things go wrong. We also widen the lens. The cost of getting this wrong isn’t just in the home. It shows up in mental health, in systems, in society. And equally, the opportunity is upstream—small, consistent moments of presence, attention, and understanding. There’s a lot in here for parents. But also for anyone leading, influencing, or in relationship with others. Get in touch with Alice via LinkedIn or her website.  Help us improve! I'd love to get your feedback... Support the show Follow my social media accounts | LinkedIn | Instagram |

    45 min
  2. S3 Ep102 Helen Lunnon-Wood: Transition Series #1

    APR 6

    S3 Ep102 Helen Lunnon-Wood: Transition Series #1

    You can plan the exit date, but you cannot schedule who you become afterwards. Aaron Hill sits down with Helen London Wood, former RAF fast jet pilot and founder of High Flight Coaching, to talk honestly about transition as a living process that keeps evolving long after the uniform is handed back. We get into what it feels like when structure vanishes, when identity suddenly becomes a question again, and when you realise you have been “fitting in” rather than truly belonging.  Helen shares the jolt of the first month without a military pay cheque and the deeper identity story underneath it: independence, self-worth, and the weight of feeling “dependent”.  Aaron brings a different perspective from leaving earlier in a career and living far from people who share the same background, including the loneliness that can sit beneath achievement. Together, we explore why operational cultures are brilliant at performance feedback yet can leave little room for deeper reflection, and why that gap often shows up during military to civilian transition, career change, or any major life pivot.  We unpack the triathlon model of transition: pause, remove what no longer serves, take what you truly need, then move into the next leg with intention. We talk about micro-decompression rituals between meetings, the power of commute time as a psychological reset, and how to find community when you feel isolated. If you are navigating leadership under pressure, veteran reintegration, or a big role change, this conversation offers language, reassurance, and tools you can use immediately.  Subscribe for the next part of the series, share this with someone mid-transition, and leave a review so more people can find it. What part of transition are you in right now? Find Helen on LinkedIn or via her website. Help us improve! I'd love to get your feedback... Support the show Follow my social media accounts | LinkedIn | Instagram |

    47 min
  3. S3 Ep101 Sam Smith: The Door Was Never Locked

    MAR 30

    S3 Ep101 Sam Smith: The Door Was Never Locked

    You can spend years trying to fix a problem that was never locked in the first place. That’s the provocative premise behind our chat with Sam Smith, coach and author of The Door Is Never Locked, and it immediately changes how we think about resilience, mindset, and high performance under pressure.  We talk about what it looks like when a single insight shifts your trajectory faster than another plan, another programme, or another round of self-improvement noise. Sam shares a turning point from a dark season in his life, why “deserving” can be the hidden barrier to getting support, and how the simplest prompts can help you trust what you already know. If you’re navigating a career transition, leadership stress, or that vague sense that something needs to change, you’ll hear practical ways to create space and move without forcing.  We also dig into why language matters more than we realise, how reframing a story can open real options, and what flow and acceptance look like beyond the motivational posters. Sam introduces two sticky concepts for personal development and coaching: competing commitments that quietly override your goals, and the “kitchen sink test” that often hits right before a breakthrough.  What’s one “door” you’re ready to stop treating as locked? To get in touch with Sam, find him on LinkedIn and here you can find his book. Help us improve! I'd love to get your feedback... Support the show Follow my social media accounts | LinkedIn | Instagram |

    33 min
  4. S3 Ep100 Susan Charlesworth: Preparation Beats Panic

    MAR 23

    S3 Ep100 Susan Charlesworth: Preparation Beats Panic

    Astronaut training sounds like a world away from everyday leadership, until you hear what Susan Charlesworth learned at the European Space Agency: the best crews succeed because they master the human skills, not because they are fearless. Susan is a psychologist and human performance specialist who has trained astronauts, mission control teams, and Antarctic expedition crews in leadership, communication, decision making under pressure, and the human factors that keep complex systems safe. We dig into what “soft skills” really look like in extreme environments, including how training uses case studies from aviation and space incidents to create urgency, then turns that insight into practice through simulations, clear roles, and disciplined communication loops. Susan also explains how astronauts are supported with tightly planned schedules, nutrition, sleep routines, debriefs, and psychological care, and why that structure can actually reduce stress compared with many workplaces on Earth. One of the most gripping moments is the story of Luca Parmitano’s spacewalk near miss, when water began filling his helmet and communication became harder. It’s a powerful reminder that resilience is not a slogan: it’s preparation, procedures you can execute when your brain is flooded with adrenaline, and simple tools like box breathing to steady yourself in the moment. We also explore problem solving and creativity, why “shower moments” happen, how play can unlock better ideas for technical teams, and what humans may still do best in an age of AI. If you lead people, work in high-stakes roles, or simply want to stay calm when pressure spikes, you’ll take away practical, grounded techniques you can use immediately. Subscribe for more conversations like this, share the episode with someone who thrives under pressure, and leave a review to help others find the show. Get in touch with Susan on LinkedIn or via her website.  Help us improve! I'd love to get your feedback... Support the show Follow my social media accounts | LinkedIn | Instagram |

    49 min
  5. S3 Ep99 Paul Blair: When Structure Disappears

    MAR 16

    S3 Ep99 Paul Blair: When Structure Disappears

    What happens when the rank slides off and the real test begins? We sit down with Paul Blair, a former Parachute Regiment officer turned founder, to unpack the gritty reality of moving from elite military units to building and scaling products like SafeSticks and ArcX. This isn’t about war stories or pitch decks; it’s the unvarnished blueprint for leading without a uniform, navigating bad deals, and finding focus when the world won’t slow down. Paul takes us inside the SafeSticks journey, from a visceral moment in the park to a vet’s dressing-down, through painful supply chain lessons and public ridicule, to a gutsy trip to a Florida trade show where a chance encounter with Kong’s president led to a global licensing deal. He explains why credibility in startups is earned by competence, not titles, and how the military’s after action reviews, calm under fire, and obsession with clarity translate into a robust operating system for founders. Along the way, we dig into leadership shifts from command to coaching setting clear goals, giving ownership, and building high trust with younger teams. If you care about founder focus, startup strategy, and leadership without theatrics, you’ll find rich, hard-won takeaways here: how to spot bad partners, how to blag opportunity with integrity, how to licence and let go, and when to push or pull the plug. We close on meaning financial security, legacy, and finding reward today rather than betting everything on a distant exit. If this conversation resonates, follow the show, share it with a teammate who needs a “Condor moment,” and leave us a review with one insight you’re taking into your week. Your notes help others discover the pod and keep these candid conversations flowing. To get in touch with Paul find him on LinkedIn or via his website. Help us improve! I'd love to get your feedback... Support the show Follow my social media accounts | LinkedIn | Instagram |

    40 min
  6. S3 Ep98 Joel Spooner: Trust Under No Control

    MAR 9

    S3 Ep98 Joel Spooner: Trust Under No Control

    The room went silent when Joel’s son didn’t take his first breath. From that instant, everything accelerated: 45 minutes of resuscitation on the kitchen floor, an ambulance ride that felt like forever, and the surreal calm of a NICU buzzing with experts. Joel takes us inside the father’s experience what it’s like to do infant CPR with shaking hands, to watch a newborn turn from blue to pink and back again, and to face a conversation about end-of-life decisions within 24 hours of becoming a parent. Joel and his partner had prepared with intention midwives, a seasoned doula, infant first aid and that groundwork mattered. Inside the NICU, they learned to advocate with clarity: tracking plans across rotating shifts, asking precise questions, and challenging changes with respect. He shares how listening deeply, naming emotions without blame, and aligning with caregivers turned overwhelm into a shared mission to protect their son. The emotional terrain is raw and human: flashes of rage, memory gaps, the disorienting relief of a “miracle” MRI, and the complex grace of accepting help. Joel talks candidly about pride, money, and what receiving really means when community shows up with meals, rent, and late-night messages. He also offers simple anchors that carried him through breathwork, “I am” statements, and the mantra “I am here now” and how those practices still guide bedtime meltdowns and ordinary days. If you’ve ever wondered how resilience looks when control disappears, this story is a compass. If this conversation resonates, follow the show, share it with someone who needs hope, and leave a review to help others find it.  Joel is also very open for people to get in touch with him, should they wish to do so.  Connect with him via his website or Instagram.  Help us improve! I'd love to get your feedback... Support the show Follow my social media accounts | LinkedIn | Instagram |

    1h 2m
  7. S3 Ep97 Aaron Hill: Sands of Time

    MAR 2

    S3 Ep97 Aaron Hill: Sands of Time

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    6 min
  8. S3 Ep96 Becks Cant: Renegotiating Identity

    FEB 23

    S3 Ep96 Becks Cant: Renegotiating Identity

    Bex shares her story from early life in London, shaped by a loving family and growing up fast while her mum lived with MS and her dad worked decades in policing. She reflects on a career filled with both extraordinary moments and real trauma, and the pull she’s always felt to “give back” by passing on what works beyond policing into everyday leadership, work, and relationships. A core theme is self-awareness. Bex talks through the “iceberg” exercise she uses with negotiators: what people see on the surface versus what sits underneath values, beliefs, emotional drivers, past experiences. Her point is simple: you can’t lead well, help well, or negotiate well if you don’t understand what’s driving you first. From there, she makes negotiation practical and human. Active listening is the foundation. Seek to understand someone’s perspective before trying to move them. Earn trust through tone, pace, and presence not just words. She also warns against “preset scripts,” and offers softer, more opening language like “Tell, Explain, Describe,” instead of sharper “what/why” questions that can land as accusatory. The conversation closes on transition and resilience. Leaving the police wasn’t clean or easy especially alongside losing her mum because it brought grief, identity loss, and the sudden absence of structure and support. Resilience, for her now, is broader than “cracking on”: it’s building a healthy network, setting personal challenges, choosing work that fits, keeping things fun, and learning to say no without guilt as part of protecting what matters. Reach out to Beks via LinkedIn or her website.  Help us improve! I'd love to get your feedback... Support the show Follow my social media accounts | LinkedIn | Instagram |

    46 min
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There are people in this world with extraordinary stories, people who've been forged by challenge, transition, and adversity, and most of us will never get the chance to hear them speak honestly about it. Forging Resilience closes that gap.Host Aaron Hill draws on a deep network of military leaders, elite athletes, entrepreneurs, and coaches to have the conversations that don't happen in boardrooms or on stages. Driven by curiosity and presence, Aaron doesn't follow a script or stick to a format, he follows the story. What comes out is something rare: real, unfiltered insight from people who've been through the fire and come out the other side.Built for high performers, leaders, founders, and anyone facing a moment that demands more of them,  this is the show for people who don't fit the mould, hosted by someone who doesn't either. www.linkedin.com/in/aaron-hill-synergy-coachinghttps://www.instagram.com/aaronhill_79/

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  • Creator
    Aaron Hill
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2026
  • Episodes
    101
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Forging Resilience
  • Show Website
    Forging Resilience

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