The Crown And Canvas Podcast

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Welcome to "Crown And Canvas Podcast" (FKA The Fupas and Flapjacks Podcast) with Jay Derosier (@TheJayDerosier) and Tre Hale (@tresummusic)! This Anti-Red Pill Podcast takes a look into the Black Diaspora from personal stories to Reddit gems, we cover it all with honesty and humor. We're dishing out unfiltered conversations about love, sex, and life in bodies that don't fit the mold. Join The Fups Community (Flaunting Uniqueness, Promoting Self-love) and embrace body positivity. New episodes drop regularly. Subscribe now and let's get back to uplifting our Community!

  1. Feb 12

    The Black Debt: Being " One Who Made It" | The Fupas And Flapjacks Podcast

    What happens when success stops feeling like freedom… and starts feeling like obligation? In this episode of Fupas & Flapjacks, we unpack “The Black Debt” the unspoken emotional and financial pressure placed on successful Black children who grow up to become the primary provider for their families. From first generation college graduates to athletes, entrepreneurs, and creators, we’re talking about what it really feels like to be “the one who made it.” The guilt. The expectations. The silent burnout. The fear of disappointing the people you love. Is it generational trauma? Cultural responsibility? Financial pressure? Or a mix of all three? We break down: • Family expectations and financial obligation • Black mental health and emotional burnout • Generational wealth vs generational dependency • Setting boundaries without feeling selfish • How success can turn into emotional bankruptcy This conversation is honest, funny, uncomfortable, and necessary. Because helping your family should not cost you your peace. If you’ve ever felt like your success came with invoices, this episode is for you. Support the podcast and unlock exclusive bonus content on Patreon. Grab official merch and stay connected at JayDerosier.com  Subscribe, rate, and share to help us keep having real conversations that matter.

    36 min

  2. Feb 5

    The Caregiver’s Debt

    Subscribe to our Patreon for early access and exclusive content:  patreon.com/JayDerosierMediaNetwork What happens when love turns into labor and sacrifice turns into expectation? In this episode of Fupas & Flapjacks we unpack The Caregiver’s Debt and the complicated reality of balancing sacrifice romance and identity when one partner becomes a full time caregiver. We explore what it means to stay through illness surgeries and survival and how that kind of devotion quietly reshapes a relationship. We talk about the emotional burnout of men who spend years holding everything together and what happens when the caregiver no longer has the capacity to also be the provider the romantic partner and the version of himself he used to be. We ask the uncomfortable question. Does caregiving earn grace when life falls apart or is romance still expected on schedule? Using the symbolism of date night we dive into the tension between emotional needs and financial reality. Wanting to feel desired versus feeling inadequate when you cannot provide in the traditional sense. Especially as Black men navigating provider expectations in a moment where care replaces cash. We also examine how resentment builds when sacrifices turn into scorekeeping and how social media comparisons make private struggles feel like personal failures. From shifting gender roles to emotional exhaustion we break down why love cannot survive on unspoken debts. This episode closes with a conversation about reconnection honesty and redefining partnership. Real love is not transactional. It is about recognizing when your partner is operating at a deficit and choosing to fill the gap without demanding immediate return. This episode is heavy honest and necessary. Like comment subscribe and share. #FupasAndFlapjacks #TheCaregiversDebt #ModernRelationships #EmotionalLabor #BlackPodcasts #RelationshipTalk #ProviderPressure

    45 min

  3. Jan 29

    The Resentment Exit Strategy / Fupas & Flapjacks Podcast

    Subscribe to our Patreon for early access and exclusive content:  patreon.com/JayDerosierMediaNetwork In this episode we unpack the growing trend of dating someone until you hate them and why resentment has become a socially acceptable exit strategy in modern relationships. We talk about the pressure to stay and work on it the need for a justified breakup and how boredom emotional neglect and quiet dissatisfaction often get ignored until resentment takes over. We also explore how social media and storytime culture reward relatable misery and keep people stuck in failing relationships longer than they should be. Through real listener scenarios we break down why mercy dating is more harmful than honesty and why you do not need a villain to choose yourself. Like comment subscribe and share. #FupasAndFlapjacks #TheResentmentExitStrategy #DatingTrends #ModernRelationships #PodcastEpisode #EmotionalBurnout

    42 min

  4. Jan 22

    "The Blueprint Is A Lie" - Breaking Down Desmond & Kristy Reactions | The Fupas & Flapjacks Podcast

    Subscribe to our Patreon for early access and exclusive content Patreon link patreon.com/JayDerosierMediaNetwork Everyone suddenly became an expert on Desmond and Kristy’s marriage. In this episode we break down the fallout and use it as a case study to examine the internet’s obsession with blueprint relationships and think piece culture. We talk about why this breakup hit so hard why people feel betrayed by strangers they have never met and how social media turns real relationships into content instead of human beings. From armchair body language experts to long viral yap sessions we unpack how projection insecurity and clout chasing drive online reactions. We also connect this moment to other public breakups and question why the internet ranks heartbreak based on how much tea is involved. This episode challenges the power couple illusion and asks a bigger question If we know perfection online is fake why are we still performing it? Like comment subscribe and share. #FupasAndFlapjacks #TheBlueprintIsALie #ThinkPieceCulture #ParasocialRelationships #PodcastEpisode #InternetCulture #ModernRelationships

    46 min

  5. Jan 15

    Advice For Kai Cenat | The Fupas & Flapjacks Podcast

    In this episode of The Fupas And Flapjacks Podcast, Tré and Jay break down Kai Cenat’s recent breakup and offer real advice from men who’ve been through it. We dive into the details of his relationship fallout and share what we wish we’d known in our early 20s when navigating our own worst heartbreaks. As guys in our 30s, we give Kai (and anyone going through it) practical guidance on how to lock in after a breakup: hitting the gym, getting into the Bible, picking up books, and knowing when to step back from streaming for your mental health. Sometimes the best thing you can do is take a break and work on yourself. If you’ve ever had your heart broken or you’re trying to bounce back from a tough breakup, this episode is for you. Topics Discussed: ∙ Kai Cenat’s breakup breakdown ∙ Relationship advice for young men ∙ Our worst heartbreaks in our early 20s ∙ Fitness, faith, and reading as healing tools ∙ Why taking a break from work/streaming matters for mental health Support the show and join the Fupas & Flapjacks family! Subscribe to our Patreon for exclusive content and behind-the-scenes access, and don’t forget to subscribe to our YouTube channel for video episodes and clips. Want to rep the brand? Log on to JayDerosier.com to grab your exclusive Fupas And Flapjacks merch!

    40 min
  6. "Male Baddies?" Ft. Nat (@Nat_Torious) | Fupas And Flapjacks Podcast

    Jan 8

    "Male Baddies?" Ft. Nat (@Nat_Torious) | Fupas And Flapjacks Podcast

    In this episode we are joined by Nat (@Nat_Torious) as we revisit our viral spouse versus child debate and get Nat’s honest reaction before diving into the main conversation. We break down the nonsense around the women can’t handle male baddies narrative and talk about why men keep trying to imitate women instead of embracing who they truly are. Confidence authenticity and self awareness matter more than aesthetics and online personas. This episode is funny insightful and full of real conversation. Subscribe to our Patreon page for 2 day early access to all new episodes before ALL OTHER PLATFORMS. Like comment subscribe and share and tell us what you think about male baddies in the comments. #FupasAndFlapjacks #NatTorious #MaleBaddies #ModernMasculinity #PodcastEpisode #BlackPodcasts

    52 min

  7. Jan 1

    Happy New Year 2026: Our Biggest Year of Growth & Transformation | The Fupas And Flapjacks Podcast

    Subscribe to our Patreon page: patreon.com/JayDerosierMediaNetwork🎉 HAPPY NEW YEAR FROM FUPAS AND FLAPJACKS! 🎉Start 2026 right with the most inspiring episode yet! Jay and Tre reflect on their incredible journey of personal growth, financial success, and mindset transformation over the past 12 months. This isn’t just another New Year’s resolution episode - this is REAL TALK about the changes that actually stuck and the lessons learned along the way.What We’re Covering:Jay and Tre get vulnerable about the mindset shifts that transformed how they approach life in 2025, including mental health breakthroughs and emotional growth moments that changed everything. They discuss developing a growth mindset that led to unexpected opportunities, the self-improvement strategies that actually worked (and which ones didn’t), and building confidence and self-worth in a world that constantly challenges Black men.The guys celebrate major career milestones they achieved in the past year and share how they leveled up professionally while staying authentic. From navigating career transitions and taking calculated risks to building the Derosier Media Network and expanding their platform, they break down the lessons learned from professional setbacks and how they bounced back stronger.In one of their most transparent conversations yet, Jay and Tre get real about their financial improvements over the past 12 months. They discuss how changing their relationship with money led to actual results, investing in themselves and their business, breaking generational money trauma, and building wealth. Plus, they share practical financial tips that worked for them and can work for you too.Looking ahead to 2026, both hosts reveal what they’re committing to in the new year and how they’re setting achievable goals without the usual New Year’s pressure. They share their vision for taking the podcast and their community to the next level, and why they’re focusing on consistency over perfection in 2026. Subscribe to our Patreon for exclusive content, behind-the-scenes access, and early episode releases: patreon.com/JayDerosierMediaNetworkVisit JayDerosier.com - the official website for the Derosier Media Network. Subscribe to our newsletter and visit our merch shop for the only place to buy official Derosier Media Merch Powered by Fourth Wall.❤️ CONNECT WITH YOUR HOSTS:Follow Jay:Instagram: @thejayderosierTikTok: @thejayderosierFollow Tre:Instagram: @tresummusicTikTok: @tresummusic🎧 NEW EPISODES EVERY WEEK! Subscribe and hit the notification bell so you never miss out!#HappyNewYear #NewYearsResolutions #PersonalGrowth #FinancialGrowth #MindsetShift #CareerDevelopment #SelfImprovement #BlackSuccess #GoalSetting2025 #PersonalDevelopment #WealthBuilding #MentalHealthJourney #GrowthMindset #SuccessStories #LifeTransformation #BlackExcellence #MotivationalPodcast #NewYearNewYou #FinancialFreedom #CareerSuccess

    37 min

  8. 12/25/2025

    Christmas Episode: False Allegations, Chaos, and a Walk Off? | The Fupas And Flapjacks Podcast

    First of all Merry Christmas. We hope you are enjoying your holiday and thank you for starting it with us. Sit back relax and enjoy this episode. In this episode of Fupas & Flapjacks we dive into a serious and necessary conversation about false allegations against men following the discussion surrounding Tylil. We talk about why false accusations are damaging harmful and evil and how they hurt real victims while permanently damaging lives. We also keep the same energy by calling out the other side of the coin. Men lying about women their sexual encounters or even lying about women existing is just as harmful and just as wrong. Accountability does not go one way and we make that very clear. Then as only Fupas & Flapjacks can do the episode goes completely off the rails. Jay and Tre get into a heated and unexpected conversation about a former associate and break down how manipulation gossip jealousy and envy can destroy friendships and relationships. We talk about how certain people thrive on misinformation and why friends like that need to stay far away from your life. Things get so wild that Tre literally walks off set. This episode is funny uncomfortable honest and real. It will make you laugh think and maybe even side eye a few people in your own circle. If you love unfiltered conversations real accountability and chaos mixed with truth this episode is for you. Like comment subscribe and share and once again Merry Christmas from Fupas & Flapjacks. #FupasAndFlapjacks #PodcastEpisode #FalseAllegations #Accountability #HolidayEpisode #BlackPodcasts #RealConversations #FriendshipDynamics #ComedyPodcast

    39 min
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About

Welcome to "Crown And Canvas Podcast" (FKA The Fupas and Flapjacks Podcast) with Jay Derosier (@TheJayDerosier) and Tre Hale (@tresummusic)! This Anti-Red Pill Podcast takes a look into the Black Diaspora from personal stories to Reddit gems, we cover it all with honesty and humor. We're dishing out unfiltered conversations about love, sex, and life in bodies that don't fit the mold. Join The Fups Community (Flaunting Uniqueness, Promoting Self-love) and embrace body positivity. New episodes drop regularly. Subscribe now and let's get back to uplifting our Community!

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  • Channel
    Derosier Media Network
  • Creator
    Derosier Media Network
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2026
  • Episodes
    38
  • Rating
    Explicit
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    © Derosier Media Network

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